120. The Ninth Grab Bag One

Episode 120
1h 7m | Jun 5, 2023

We’re answering listener questions rapid-fire style in another grab bag episode! We cover everything from feeling clingy in a long-distance relationship, to Hinge messaging etiquette, to balancing your needs with your partner’s.

But first, we have an FMH first…Erica meets The Publicist! She debriefs the hang and afterwards Ali laments a first date gone wrong.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 30.

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