160. The Meeting IRL One

Episode 160
1h 14m | Mar 11, 2024

How do people meet IRL these days?! Are there things we can be doing, places we can going, openers we can be using to make it all feel easier? This week, Ali & Erica are breaking down their best tips on meeting people “in the wild” plus sharing some of yours. We cover everything from body language when you’re out alone to opening lines for a cute stranger to going in for the number exchange.

But first, Erica goes on a date that doesn’t even deserve a nickname (Mr. Distracted, perhaps?) and Ali has a few irons in the Bumble fire.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 31.

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