172. The Fourteenth Hot Topics One

Episode 172
57m | Jun 3, 2024

It’s a slightly new Hot Topics format, with both listener questions and a couple AITA situations. First, Ali & Erica debate if a man is the a-hole for not helping his wife carry things in from the car and whether a women is the a-hole for not giving up her comfy coffee shop chair. Then, we answer two listener questions: one listener who is concerned about her date’s grooming choices and one who is worried about potential dating prospects in her smaller city.

In Updates, a psychic reading prompts Erica’s family to try to set her up while Ali continues to await Skyline’s return.

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