169. The Deeper Questions One

Episode 169
1h 19m | May 13, 2024

Erica & Ali are getting deep this week, going through all sorts of questions you can use to connect on first dates, in early dating, or even when already in a relationship. We’re answering our favorite ones plus listing a few you probably shouldn’t ask. Let’s start having some more interesting conversations!

In Updates, Erica meets a new man (or is it an automated text system?) and Ali makes a decision about one of her second dates this week.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 39.

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