144. The Marry Him One

Episode 144
1h 21m | Nov 20, 2023

Are you too picky? Ali & Erica aim to find out this week as we dive into a book that regularly makes the rounds on social media: "Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough" by Lori Gottlieb. We discuss things that used to be dealbreakers but aren’t any more, whether women need to “settle” more, and how we each navigate our preferences in dating.

But first, Erica goes on a decidedly okay coffee date while Ali frolics through a museum with Billy Joel.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 18.

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