119. The First Kids One

Episode 119
1h 4m | May 29, 2023

We’re kicking off a multi-episode series on children! We’ll spread these episodes out, and invite guests on, covering how your desire to have kids affects dating, dating with kids, choosing a child-free lifestyle, fertility…and so much more. This week, we start with Erica & Ali’s personal thoughts on having children and how it’s impact their dating lives (plus we take your questions!).

But first, Ali continues her Publicist journey (6 dates already, oh my!) and Erica spends the weekend surrounded by (fittingly) children!

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 26.

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