Have you wondered what the transition is like from single and dating to being in a relationship? Author and lifestyle blogger Mariann Yip is telling Ali & Erica all about how she went from publishing a book about her NYC dating life to starting a family…all within a year! We chat about first dates, feeling lonely in parenthood, and letting go of what you thought your timeline would be.

In Updates, we’ve got two new nicknames in play! Erica gets approached by The Drummer in the wild…but does he ask her on a date? Ali goes out with The Stout and contemplates her next move after the date.

Where to find Mariann: On Instagram @mariann_yip, on TikTok @mariann_yip, at www.un-hinged.com.

Timestamps: Mariann joins us at around minute 39.

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Ali & Erica are taking rapid fire listener questions this week in the latest Grab Bag episode! Topics range from defining “exclusive” vs “official,” determining if someone is ready to date, setting boundaries with advice from friends, to ending a date.

In updates, Ali is crushing her IRL activities challenge (but hasn’t forgotten about the apps!) and Erica dips her toe back into the NYC dating app waters.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 21.

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Jared Freid is fresh off his hilarious Netflix special, 37 & Single, and answering your listener questions! What’s the right way to set two people up? Are there certain dating app answers he hates seeing? And many more, followed by what might be our new favorite game: Pick The Ick.

In Updates, Erica hears back from The Accountant and embarks on an NYC dating challenge. Meanwhile, Ali is feeling optimistic about her IRL dating prospects and has a date on the calendar.

Where to find Jared: On Instagram @jaredfreid, on TikTok @wizardofha, at www.jaredfreid.com.

Timestamps: Jared joins us at around minute 40.

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We’re talking finances this week, with Ashley Feinstein Gertsley, CFP and founder of The Fiscal Femme. Are you wondering where/how to start investing? And if you’re even ready to do that? Or maybe you’re trying to create and stick to a spending plan. Ali & Erica learn some things too as we dive into all things money.

But first, Erica has an update on The Accountant and Ali is back from camp with some new girlfriends and a plan to do more IRL events. Did she complete Erica’s challenge? Find out!

Where to find Ahsley: On Instagram @thefiscalfemme, on TikTok @thefiscalfemme, at www.thefiscalfemme.com.

Timestamps: Ahsley joins us at around minute 31.

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If you knew you’d meet the person you’re going to marry in 5 years, would you still date? Would you rather win the lottery or find your soulmate? Ali & Erica debate some fun dating hypotheticals this week. Tune in for what Erica would say to a room full of people she’s slept with and why Ali would just break into song.

In updates, Erica shoots her shot at the frame store and Ali is back from a whirlwind wedding in Poland.

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Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 47.

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Ali & Erica are back with in-depth listener questions, otherwise known as Hot Topics! This week, we discuss: reaching back out to someone you rejected (or always wondering what if), managing emotions when someone you’re dating updates their app profile, & who should initiate a first date.

In updates, Erica goes on a puzzling first date and successfully executes a DM slide after meeting a man in the wild. Meanwhile, Ali is live from Prague and chronicles her latest attempt to meet people IRL.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 49.

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This bonus episode features an exclusive Patreon preview to stay on track with Ali and Erica’s dating updates. Ali recaps an awkward first date that never seems to end, while Erica finds herself in a scenario where she’s fighting her instincts. 

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TRIGGER WARNING This episode centers around sexual assault.

This week, we welcome on two incredible listeners to tell their stories. They each offer a deep perspective on both their experiences and their lives since - we can’t thank them enough for their vulnerability. If you’re out there resonating with this episode, please know you are not alone. There are no updates from Ali & Erica in this episode - stay tuned for a Patreon teaser later this week.

If you’d like to connect with Caeli, she invites you to message her on Instagram @happierinthekitchen

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Do men really love bitches? What IS a bitch, anyway? And can we take anything away from a book that was written over 20 years ago?? Ali & Erica debate a list of “attraction principles” from the recently-resurged bestseller book, “Why Men Love Bitches” by Sherry Argov to find out.

In Updates, Erica channels vacation energy with some IRL encounters and Ali prepares to channel Erica.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 29.

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She’sssss backkkkkk!!!!! Ali & Erica welcome former FMH cohost Roark back onto the pod as our guest this week. With Ali fresh off a bachelorette party, the three dive into wedding etiquette (especially wedding guest etiquette). Can you ask for a plus one? When is it appropriate to leave a wedding? And for goodness sake, can we please stop trying to wear white??

But first, we’re catching up on Roark’s dating life, featuring a nickname OG listeners miiiiiight recognize.

Where to find Roark: On Instagram @roarks_kitchen

Timestamps: Topic talk starts at around minute 39.

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Pamela Rae Schuller is more than one thing - she’s more than Tourette Syndrome, she’s more than her stint on Jewish Matchmaking, and she’s encouraging you to embrace your whole self, too. Together, we cover a wide range of topics, including dating with a disability, matchmaking, and achieving self-love.

In Updates, Erica receives a voice memo from the Accountant (that she DOES reply to, for the record) and Ali has her first date since The Publicist.

Where to find Pam: On Instagram @pamelacomedy and at her website pamelacomedy.com. Watch her TEDx Talk here: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_uCubamMyHw.

Timestamps: Pam joins us at around minute 36.

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For those of you who don’t know us…we’re sharing do’s and don’ts on wedding speeches, from both our own experiences and yours! How long should they be? Are certain topics off limits? And can anything be worse than a 45-minute lecture on the Boy Scout motto??

But first, Ali & Erica both have first dates coming up! Ali’s is her first HingeX match and Erica’s is a blast…from Ali’s past.

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Things take a lighter turn this week, as Ali & Erica pull back the curtain on past embarrassing dating moments…and share yours! We crack up over everything from first date stomach issues to surprise queefs.

In updates, Ali has a Tinder penpal (for now) and Erica enjoys some family time.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 39.

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Do you have updated information on your fertility? This week, we share our journeys discovering our own and Ali details her egg freezing process. We discuss seeking fertility testing, administering egg freezing shots by yourself, and navigating dating while going through any of this.

In updates, Ali bites the bullet on HingeX and has the stats on her experience thus far. Erica completes a key part of her move to L.A. and shares some family news.

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We’re oversharing this week! Ali & Erica welcome Jordana Abraham & Dr. Naomi Bernstein of the Oversharing podcast to the FMH family this week. The four answer several deep-dive listener questions including: how to maintain hope when early-stage dating keeps ending, approaching the engagement conversation with a partner, and deciding whether something is a dealbreaker.

But first, Ali has major, major Publicist news and finally receives her Pear ring. Meanwhile, Erica dabbles in Jersey Shore dating apps.

Where to find Jordana & Dr. Naomi: listen to Oversharing wherever you get your podcasts and follow Jordana on Instagram @jordanaabraham.

Timestamps: Jordana & Dr. Naomi joins us at around minute 45.

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Have you ever thought about marrying for money? Ali & Erica can’t help you with that, but we’re breaking down some financial stats that may surprise you when it comes to getting married vs not. And spoiler alert, there’s way more on the topic where this came from. Let us know what else you want to hear!

In Updates, Ali & Erica are back from Greece! The two talk through Ali’s post-vacation communication with The Publicist and what this might mean for the future.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 27.

Articles mentioned in the episode:

Does Getting Married Really Help You Financially? (Mic)

Yes, Marry For Money (CNBC)

Financial Risks of Divorce (Above The Law)

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Why are STIs so stigmatized despite being so common? Ella Dawson, whose TEDx talk on the subject has been viewed over 800,000 times, is here to talk about about it. We discuss disclosing herpes (or any STI) to your partner, supporting a partner who’s been diagnosed, advocating for yourself at doctor’s appointments, and so much more.

But first, Ali & Erica are together in Greece! Ali works through vacation communication with The Publicist while Erica dips her toe into Greek Bumble.

Where to find Ella: On Instagram @brosandprose, on Patreon at broseandprose, and at elladawson.com.

Timestamps: Ella joins us at around minute 32.

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We’re answering listener questions rapid-fire style in another grab bag episode! We cover everything from feeling clingy in a long-distance relationship, to Hinge messaging etiquette, to balancing your needs with your partner’s.

But first, we have an FMH first…Erica meets The Publicist! She debriefs the hang and afterwards Ali laments a first date gone wrong.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 30.

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We’re kicking off a multi-episode series on children! We’ll spread these episodes out, and invite guests on, covering how your desire to have kids affects dating, dating with kids, choosing a child-free lifestyle, fertility…and so much more. This week, we start with Erica & Ali’s personal thoughts on having children and how it’s impact their dating lives (plus we take your questions!).

But first, Ali continues her Publicist journey (6 dates already, oh my!) and Erica spends the weekend surrounded by (fittingly) children!

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 26.

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This week, we’re talking plus-sized dating with Alex Stewart & Nicci Nunez of the Swipe Fat podcast!! We take listener questions about tips for your dating app profile, achieving self confidence while dating, red flags to look for, and so much more. Note: Erica’s wifi gave her major issues this week and so Ali interviews Alex & Nicci on her own.

In updates, Ali continues her romance with The Publicist and Erica has her first date as an LA resident.

Where to find Alex & Nicci: On Instagram @swipefat, on TikTok @swipefat, at www.swipefatpodcast.com.

Timestamps: Alex & Nicci joins us at around minute 47.

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