From her TikTok and Instagram, @findingmrheight, dating coach Ali Jackson is joined by friend &amp; stand up comedian Erica Spera (@spericaa) to bring you their positive and practical dating approach in podcast form. Their straightforward attitudes, often with some humor on the side, will help you tackle modern dating issues while building confidence and staying authentic to your true self. Follow along @findingmrheight for even more content!

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It’s that time of year where we all agonize over what to get the men in our lives, whether they’re partners, brothers, sons, or friends. So Ali &amp; Erica sat down with Sebastian Conelli &amp; Robbie Nunes, co-hosts of the Loud About Nothing podcast, to talk gifts. The four of us reveal the best (and worst) gifts we’ve ever gotten plus brainstorm ideas for you to use yourself! But first, Ali hosts Billy Joel to cook together on their third date. Meanwhile, Erica deletes her apps and promptly has 2 set ups on her hands. Where to find our guests:Sebastian On Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sebastianconelli/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">@sebastianconelli </a>on TikTok <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sebastianconelli?lang=en" rel="nofollow">@sebastianconelli</a>.Robbie On Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/robbienunes/" rel="nofollow">@robbienunes</a> on TikTok <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@robbienunes" rel="nofollow">@robbienunes</a>. Loud About Nothing Podcast On Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/loudaboutnothing/" rel="nofollow">@loudaboutnothing</a> on TikTok <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@loudaboutnothing" rel="nofollow">@loudaboutnothing</a>, at <a href="https://www.loudaboutnothing.com/" rel="nofollow">www.loudaboutnothing.com.</a> Timestamps: Sebastian &amp; Robbie join us at around minute 29. Come with us to Portugal! We’re hosting a mother/daughter trip in October 2024 and want YOU to join us. Head to the link in our bios or <a href="http://findingmrheight.com/travel" rel="nofollow">findingmrheight.com/travel</a> for more details. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Factor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

145. The Gifts For Men One ft. Sebastian Conelli & Robbie Nunes

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Are you too picky? Ali &amp; Erica aim to find out this week as we dive into a book that regularly makes the rounds on social media: &#34;Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough&#34; by Lori Gottlieb. We discuss things that used to be dealbreakers but aren’t any more, whether women need to “settle” more, and how we each navigate our preferences in dating.But first, Erica goes on a decidedly okay coffee date while Ali frolics through a museum with Billy Joel.Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 18.If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a>Thanks to this week’s partners:Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Factor: Head to factormeals.com/fmh50 and use code fmh50 to get 50% off.Drizly: Download the #1 alcohol delivery app today by visiting Drizly.com. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

144. The Marry Him One

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Are you waiting for marriage? Or just curious what dating is like for someone who is? Comedian (and Erica’s former roommate - literally, ROOMmate) Paul Schissler joins us to chat about his journey doing just that. We answer listener questions ranging from when to divulge to people you’re dating to how to ensure you’re on the same page with what post-marriage intimacy might look like. But first, Erica waves goodbye to The Folly and Ali waves hello to Billy Joel on a first date (and updates on Speed Racer). Where to find Paul: On Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/paulschissler/" rel="nofollow">@paulschissler</a>, on TikTok <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@paulyboycomedy?langCountry=en" rel="nofollow">@paulyboycomedy</a>, at <a href="http://www.paulschissler.com." rel="nofollow">www.paulschissler.com.</a> Timestamps: Paul joins us at around minute 39. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Babbel: Get 55% off your Babbel subscription - only for our listeners - at Babbel.com/FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

143. The Waiting for Marriage One ft. Paul Schissler

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Have you ever thought that your city is the worst for dating? Turns out most of our listeners do…so Ali &amp; Erica are putting that to the test this week. We’re “traveling” to different cities in our dating apps and reporting back on our findings - plus sharing feedback from the listeners! Did we skip your city? Let us know at <a href="http://findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">findingmrheight.com/podcast</a>. In Updates, Erica is unsure how to proceed with The Folly and Ali finally has her second date with Speed Racer…which was planned in quite the odd way! Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 27. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Drizly: Download the #1 alcohol delivery app today by visiting Drizly.com. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

142. The Different Cities One

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We’re back with the second installment of our fertility series, interviewing a very special guest - Erica’s doctor at Spring Fertility, Dr. Peter Klatsky! We start out by busting a few fertility myths and then get into questions from our listeners! Dr. Klatsky advises us on selecting a fertility provider, pulls back the curtain on egg freezing statistics, and so much more. In Updates, Erica has a second date with The Folly…but does she want to go on a third? Ali gets a date with Speed Racer on the books, has a new guy on the scene, and resets her Hinge (featuring a special guest call-in!). We have a unique code “FMH” for our audience to use for $150 off a full consult in any of Spring Fertility clinic locations (CA or NY). This discount runs through December 31, 2023. Cannot be combined with any commercial insurance. Where to find Dr. Klatsky On Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/springfertility/" rel="nofollow">@springfertility</a>, on TikTok <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@springfertility" rel="nofollow">@springfertility</a>, at <a href="https://springfertility.com/team/peter-klatsky/" rel="nofollow">www.springfertility.com</a>. Timestamps: Dr. Klatsky joins us at around minute 37. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Drizly: Download the #1 alcohol delivery app today by visiting Drizly.com.Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order today! Go to prose.com/fmh. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

141. The Second Fertility One ft Dr. Peter Klatsky

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Ali &amp; Erica are taking listener questions (and bring back Weird or Nah!) in this week’s Hot Topics episode. First, we debate a listener’s screenshot dilemma and discuss setting boundaries in early dating. Then, we discuss how (or if) to tell a friend you think she’s settling. And finally, a listener writes in for advice on working with her ex who is dating someone new. In Updates, Ali has a very loud first date and Erica debuts a new nickname with The Folly. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 30. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Drizly: Download the #1 alcohol delivery app today by visiting Drizly.com.Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order today! Go to prose.com/fmh. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

140. The Tenth Hot Topics One

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Are you supervising your brain? Do you even know how? <a href="https://mailtrack.io/trace/link/d8351263ae5b3e62aa2af29a29413da290a69944?signature=9ff5607365097da4&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fkaraloewentheil&userId=9224060" rel="nofollow">Kara Loewentheil</a>, J.D., Master Certified Coach, and host of the <a href="https://mailtrack.io/trace/link/624a3f699af574913a28a422d4d2226fa4d38612?signature=fa1dda526fdee69c&url=https%3A%2F%2Fpodcasts.apple.com%2Fus%2Fpodcast%2Funf-ck-your-brain%2Fid1229434818&userId=9224060" rel="nofollow">UnF*ck Your Brain</a> podcast is here to help. On this week’s episode, we explore topics of anxiety, particularly in the bedroom, and how to navigate through them. Kara explains how she worked to re-train her thoughts and we dive into how socialization impacts how we think. In Updates, Erica tries to plan a first date - but will she get any help?? Meanwhile, Ali closes the door on The Stout, postpones with Speed Racer, and has a new guy on the scene. Where to find Kara: On Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/karaloewentheil/" rel="nofollow">@karaloewentheil</a>, on TikTok <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@karaloewentheil" rel="nofollow">@karaloewentheil,</a> at <a href="http://www.unfuckyourbrain.com." rel="nofollow">www.unfuckyourbrain.com.</a> Timestamps: Kara joins us at around minute 32. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Drizly: Download the #1 alcohol delivery app today by visiting Drizly.com. Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order today! Go to prose.com/fmh. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

139. The UnF*ck Your Brain One ft. Kara Loewentheil

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Are you skeptical about life coaches? Rachelle Indra, who literally is one herself, was too! Ali &amp; Erica are truly enthralled by her insights this week, so much so that we actually had to FORCE ourselves to end the interview. In particular, we dive deep into moving through heartbreak &amp; healing going into a new relationship. We also touch on balancing self compassion with accountability and how to avoid toxic positivity - while remaining positive. In Updates, Ali reports back from her first date with Speed Racer while also questioning her compatibility with The Stout. Erica has a disappointing update on Burger guy but a first date on the horizon! Where to find Rachelle: On Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/coachrachelleindra/" rel="nofollow">@coachrachelleindra</a>, on TikTok <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@coachrachelleindra" rel="nofollow">@coachrachelleindra</a>, at <a href="https://www.rachelleindra.com/" rel="nofollow">www.rachelleindra.com</a>. Timestamps: Rachelle joins us at around minute 21. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order today! Go to prose.com/fmh.Drizly: Download the #1 alcohol delivery app today by visiting Drizly.com. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

138. The Life Coach One ft. Rachelle Indra

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What do men wish women knew about them?? Well, we asked them for you (and pulled even more insights from around the internet). We hear about things like: avoiding subtlety/hints, how men don’t want to keep chasing you, and gosh darnit it’s nice to be the little spoon sometimes! But first, The Drummer’s performance does not live up to Erica’s expectations but she has another IRL experience to balance things out. Ali awaits her 2nd date with The Stout and has a new Bumble man on the horizon. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 37. Reddit thread referenced: <a href="https://reddit.com/r/AskMen/s/NOSTd7vzPp" rel="nofollow">https://reddit.com/r/AskMen/s/NOSTd7vzPp</a> If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Drizly: Download the #1 alcohol delivery app today by visiting Drizly.com. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

137. The r/AskMen One

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Have you wondered what the transition is like from single and dating to being in a relationship? Author and lifestyle blogger Mariann Yip is telling Ali &amp; Erica all about how she went from publishing a book about her NYC dating life to starting a family…all within a year! We chat about first dates, feeling lonely in parenthood, and letting go of what you thought your timeline would be. In Updates, we’ve got two new nicknames in play! Erica gets approached by The Drummer in the wild…but does he ask her on a date? Ali goes out with The Stout and contemplates her next move after the date. Where to find Mariann: On Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mariann_yip" rel="nofollow">@mariann_yip</a>, on TikTok <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@mariann_yip" rel="nofollow">@mariann_yip</a>, at <a href="https://un-hinged.com/" rel="nofollow">www.un-hinged.com.</a> Timestamps: Mariann joins us at around minute 39. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 15% off your first order today! Go to prose.com/fmh.Quince: Go to Quince.com/fmh for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Beis: Go to <a href="http://beistravel.com/FMH" rel="nofollow">BEISTRAVEL.com/FMH</a> for 15% off your first purchase. Rocket Money: Cancel unwanted subscriptions – and manage your expenses the easy way – by going to RocketMoney.com/FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

136. The City Confessions One ft. Mariann Yip

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Ali &amp; Erica are taking rapid fire listener questions this week in the latest Grab Bag episode! Topics range from defining “exclusive” vs “official,” determining if someone is ready to date, setting boundaries with advice from friends, to ending a date. In updates, Ali is crushing her IRL activities challenge (but hasn’t forgotten about the apps!) and Erica dips her toe back into the NYC dating app waters. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 21. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Quince: Go to Quince.com/fmh for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Mosh: Head to moshlife.com/FMH to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

135. The Tenth Grab Bag One

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Jared Freid is fresh off his hilarious Netflix special, 37 &amp; Single, and answering your listener questions! What’s the right way to set two people up? Are there certain dating app answers he hates seeing? And many more, followed by what might be our new favorite game: Pick The Ick. In Updates, Erica hears back from The Accountant and embarks on an NYC dating challenge. Meanwhile, Ali is feeling optimistic about her IRL dating prospects and has a date on the calendar. Where to find Jared: On Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaredfreid/" rel="nofollow">@jaredfreid</a>, on TikTok <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@wizardofha?app=musically&language=en&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAA7OF4mis1V8xelrURpwun5j-hPBThe-8b0ZZNsgZWYVBwD3tKiobGFx1E5WpzMWwv&tt_from=copy&u_code=d9hc29acgm9d72&user_id=6766403552119489541&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&utm_s=" rel="nofollow">@wizardofha</a>, at<a href="https://jaredfreid.com/" rel="nofollow"> www.jaredfreid.com.</a> Timestamps: Jared joins us at around minute 40. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Quince: Go to Quince.com/fmh for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Athena Club: Get started with Athena Club today by shopping in-store at Target nationwideBeis: Go to <a href="http://beistravel.com/FMH" rel="nofollow">BEISTRAVEL.com/FMH</a> for 15% off your first purchase.  Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

134. The 37 & Single One ft. Jared Freid

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We’re talking finances this week, with Ashley Feinstein Gertsley, CFP and founder of The Fiscal Femme. Are you wondering where/how to start investing? And if you’re even ready to do that? Or maybe you’re trying to create and stick to a spending plan. Ali &amp; Erica learn some things too as we dive into all things money. But first, Erica has an update on The Accountant and Ali is back from camp with some new girlfriends and a plan to do more IRL events. Did she complete Erica’s challenge? Find out! Where to find Ahsley: On Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thefiscalfemme/" rel="nofollow">@thefiscalfemme</a>, on TikTok <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thefiscalfemme" rel="nofollow">@thefiscalfemme</a>, at <a href="https://thefiscalfemme.com/" rel="nofollow">www.thefiscalfemme.com</a>. Timestamps: Ahsley joins us at around minute 31. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a>Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Quince: Go to Quince.com/fmh for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Rocket Money: Cancel unwanted subscriptions – and manage your expenses the easy way – by going to RocketMoney.com/FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

133. The Fiscal Femme One ft. Ashley Feinstein Gertsley

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If you knew you’d meet the person you’re going to marry in 5 years, would you still date? Would you rather win the lottery or find your soulmate? Ali &amp; Erica debate some fun dating hypotheticals this week. Tune in for what Erica would say to a room full of people she’s slept with and why Ali would just break into song. In updates, Erica shoots her shot at the frame store and Ali is back from a whirlwind wedding in Poland. Text analyzer mentioned in the episode: <a href="http://www.textsfrommyex.com" rel="nofollow">www.textsfrommyex.com</a> Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 47. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a>Thanks to this week’s partners:Quince: Go to Quince.com/fmh for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Athena Club: Get started with Athena Club today by shopping in-store at Target nationwide.Beis: Go to <a href="http://beistravel.com/FMH" rel="nofollow">BEISTRAVEL.com/FMH</a> for 15% off your first purchase.  Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

132. The Hypothetical One

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Ali &amp; Erica are back with in-depth listener questions, otherwise known as Hot Topics! This week, we discuss: reaching back out to someone you rejected (or always wondering what if), managing emotions when someone you’re dating updates their app profile, &amp; who should initiate a first date. In updates, Erica goes on a puzzling first date and successfully executes a DM slide after meeting a man in the wild. Meanwhile, Ali is live from Prague and chronicles her latest attempt to meet people IRL. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 49. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Hello Fresh: Go to HelloFresh.com/fmh16 and use code fmh16 for 16 free meals plus free shipping.Mosh: Head to moshlife.com/FMH to save 20% off plus FREE shipping on your first 6-count Trial Pack.Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

131. The Ninth Hot Topics One

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This bonus episode features an exclusive Patreon preview to stay on track with Ali and Erica’s dating updates. Ali recaps an awkward first date that never seems to end, while Erica finds herself in a scenario where she’s fighting her instincts.  If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: www.patreon.com/findingmrheight And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at www.findingmrheight.com/podcast Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy &amp; Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

130.5. The Bonus One

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TRIGGER WARNING This episode centers around sexual assault.This week, we welcome on two incredible listeners to tell their stories. They each offer a deep perspective on both their experiences and their lives since - we can’t thank them enough for their vulnerability. If you’re out there resonating with this episode, please know you are not alone. There are no updates from Ali &amp; Erica in this episode - stay tuned for a Patreon teaser later this week. If you’d like to connect with Caeli, she invites you to message her on Instagram @happierinthekitchen RAINN - Sexual Assault Hotline Call 800.656.HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area. When you call 800.656.HOPE (4673), you’ll be routed to a local RAINN affiliate organization based on the first six digits of your phone number. Cell phone callers have the option to enter the ZIP code of their current location to more accurately locate the nearest sexual assault service provider. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Hello Fresh: Go to HelloFresh.com/fmh16 and use code fmh16 for 16 free meals plus free shipping.Rocket Money: Cancel unwanted subscriptions – and manage your expenses the easy way – by going to RocketMoney.com/FMH.PRIME VIDEO IS ENTERTAINMENT FOR YOU. EVERY YOU. RESTRICTIONS APPLY. SEE <a href="http://amazon.com/AMAZONPRIME" rel="nofollow">AMAZON.COM/AMAZONPRIME</a> FOR DETAILS. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

130. Listener Storytime: Sexual Assault

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Do men really love bitches? What IS a bitch, anyway? And can we take anything away from a book that was written over 20 years ago?? Ali &amp; Erica debate a list of “attraction principles” from the recently-resurged bestseller book, “Why Men Love Bitches” by Sherry Argov to find out. In Updates, Erica channels vacation energy with some IRL encounters and Ali prepares to channel Erica. Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 29. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Beis: Go to <a href="http://beistravel.com/FMH" rel="nofollow">BEISTRAVEL.com/FMH</a> for 15% off your first purchase. Hello Fresh: Go to HelloFresh.com/fmh16 and use code fmh16 for 16 free meals plus free shipping. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

129. The Men Love Bitches One

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She’sssss backkkkkk!!!!! Ali &amp; Erica welcome former FMH cohost Roark back onto the pod as our guest this week. With Ali fresh off a bachelorette party, the three dive into wedding etiquette (especially wedding guest etiquette). Can you ask for a plus one? When is it appropriate to leave a wedding? And for goodness sake, can we please stop trying to wear white?? But first, we’re catching up on Roark’s dating life, featuring a nickname OG listeners miiiiiight recognize. Where to find Roark: On Instagram @roarks_kitchen Timestamps: Topic talk starts at around minute 39. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content, join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Sunset Lake CBD: For 20% off all products, go to sunsetlakecbd.com and use code FMH20.Hello Fresh: Go to HelloFresh.com/fmh16 and use code fmh16 for 16 free meals plus free shipping.Drizly: Download the #1 alcohol delivery app today by visiting Drizly.com. PRIME VIDEO IS ENTERTAINMENT FOR YOU. EVERY YOU. RESTRICTIONS APPLY. SEE <a href="http://amazon.com/AMAZONPRIME" rel="nofollow">AMAZON.COM/AMAZONPRIME</a> FOR DETAILS. Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

128. The Wedding Etiquette One ft. Roark

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Pamela Rae Schuller is more than one thing - she’s more than Tourette Syndrome, she’s more than her stint on Jewish Matchmaking, and she’s encouraging you to embrace your whole self, too. Together, we cover a wide range of topics, including dating with a disability, matchmaking, and achieving self-love. In Updates, Erica receives a voice memo from the Accountant (that she DOES reply to, for the record) and Ali has her first date since The Publicist. Where to find Pam: On Instagram @pamelacomedy and at her website <a href="http://pamelacomedy.com" rel="nofollow">pamelacomedy.com</a>. Watch her TEDx Talk here: <a href="https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_uCubamMyHw" rel="nofollow">https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_uCubamMyHw</a>. Timestamps: Pam joins us at around minute 36. If you&#39;d like to hear our personal updates before everyone else as well as other exclusive content (including full podcast videos!), join The Search Party on Patreon: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/findingmrheight" rel="nofollow">www.patreon.com/findingmrheight</a> . And, if you want to send in a &#34;weird or nah&#34; suggestion, share your own phone throwing moment, ask a question, or have general feedback, you can do it all at <a href="http://www.findingmrheight.com/podcast" rel="nofollow">www.findingmrheight.com/podcast</a> Thanks to this week’s partners:Apostrophe: Save $15 and get your dermatologist-crafted treatment plan for just $5 at apostrophe.com/FMH and use code FMH.Hello Fresh: Go to HelloFresh.com/fmh16 and use code fmh16 for 16 free meals plus free shipping.Drizly: Download the #1 alcohol delivery app today by visiting Drizly.com.  Our Sponsors: * Check out Drizly: https://drizly.com * Check out Factor 75 and use my code fmh50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

127. The Jewish Matchmaking One ft. Pamela Rae Schuller

From her TikTok and Instagram, @findingmrheight, dating coach Ali Jackson is joined by friend & stand up comedian Erica Spera (@spericaa) to bring you their positive and practical dating approach in podcast form. Their straightforward attitudes, often with some humor on the side, will help you tackle modern dating issues while building confidence and staying authentic to your true self. Follow along @findingmrheight for even more content!