143. The Waiting for Marriage One ft. Paul Schissler

Episode 143
1h 21m | Nov 13, 2023

Are you waiting for marriage? Or just curious what dating is like for someone who is? Comedian (and Erica’s former roommate - literally, ROOMmate) Paul Schissler joins us to chat about his journey doing just that. We answer listener questions ranging from when to divulge to people you’re dating to how to ensure you’re on the same page with what post-marriage intimacy might look like.

But first, Erica waves goodbye to The Folly and Ali waves hello to Billy Joel on a first date (and updates on Speed Racer).

Where to find Paul: On Instagram @paulschissler, on TikTok @paulyboycomedy, at

Timestamps: Paul joins us at around minute 39.

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