140. The Tenth Hot Topics One

Episode 140
1h 23m | Oct 23, 2023

Ali & Erica are taking listener questions (and bring back Weird or Nah!) in this week’s Hot Topics episode. First, we debate a listener’s screenshot dilemma and discuss setting boundaries in early dating. Then, we discuss how (or if) to tell a friend you think she’s settling. And finally, a listener writes in for advice on working with her ex who is dating someone new.

In Updates, Ali has a very loud first date and Erica debuts a new nickname with The Folly.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 30.

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