We are Mikey and Randie Chapman, and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast. This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could have representation, meet other couples, and provide a space to talk about our 10+ years of relationship experience, including our years of marriage, and all we’re learning, unlearning, and loving about marriage.

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Hey y’all!  Was a pastor featured on the BMM podcast on your Bingo card for 2023? It certainly wasn’t on Mikey and Randie’s, but seeing as this season’s theme is “Lemonade” the Chapmans are committed to acknowledging the nourishment all around them. Enter Kristian A. Smith, a man who wears many hats, and is also the host of the Holy Smokes Spirituality and Cigars podcast.  In this episode, the couple interview Kristian and discuss the first time they all broke an unspoken spoken rule, his ministry, how he and his wife, Pamela, are deconstructing marriage, how his relationship changed his faith and more. Kristian even shares a hack to how you can ensure the church you’re visiting (if you still visit churches) believes in inclusive and humane theology. Later, Randie and Mikey chat with Kristian about how cigars bring people closer and after the interview the Chapmans shower each other in some PDA. This episode will surprise you in the best way, and your hosts hope you enjoy.  Items Mentioned: <ul><li>Kristian’s IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thekristianasmith/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/thekristianasmith/</a></li><li>The Holy Smokes Spirituality &amp; Cigars Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/holy-smokes-cigars-and-spirituality/id1504148872" rel="nofollow">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/holy-smokes-cigars-and-spirituality/id1504148872</a></li><li>Holy Smokes Spirituality and Cigars IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/holysmokesmovement/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/holysmokesmovement/</a></li><li>Pamela Merritt, TherapyNTheology: <a href="https://www.therapyntheology.com/bio" rel="nofollow">https://www.therapyntheology.com/bio</a></li><li>The Faith Community: <a href="https://thefaithcommunity.org/home1" rel="nofollow">https://thefaithcommunity.org/home1</a></li><li>Breaking All the Rules: An Ancient Framework for Modern Faith, Kristian A. Smith <a href="https://amzn.to/3PHe2qi" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3PHe2qi</a> </li><li>BMM Indie 157 I Can Fix That: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-157-i-can-fix-that/id1363790050?i=1000626113405" rel="nofollow">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-157-i-can-fix-that/id1363790050?i=1000626113405</a></li></ul> Follow us on Social Media FB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter Contact Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Pitch to be a Guest on our show: <a href="https://hello.dubsado.com/public/form/view/64b5d4909f8e769b7bb8a42c" rel="nofollow">https://hello.dubsado.com/public/form/view/64b5d4909f8e769b7bb8a42c</a>  **Most product links are affiliate links. At no additional cost to you, we may receive a small commission if you purchase via our links. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Hey y’all! 

Was a pastor featured on the BMM podcast on your Bingo card for 2023? It certainly wasn’t on Mikey and Randie’s, but seeing as this season’s theme is “Lemonade” the Chapmans are committed to acknowledging the nourishment all around them. Enter Kristian A. Smith, a man who wears many hats, and is also the host of the Holy Smokes Spirituality and Cigars podcast. 

In this episode, the couple interview Kristian and discuss the first time they all broke an unspoken spoken rule, his ministry, how he and his wife, Pamela, are deconstructing marriage, how his relationship changed his faith and more. Kristian even shares a hack to how you can ensure the church you’re visiting (if you still visit churches) believes in inclusive and humane theology.

Later, Randie and Mikey chat with Kristian about how cigars bring people closer and after the interview the Chapmans shower each other in some PDA.

This episode will surprise you in the best way, and your hosts hope you enjoy. 

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* Kristian’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/thekristianasmith/
* The Holy Smokes Spirituality & Cigars Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/holy-smokes-cigars-and-spirituality/id1504148872
* Holy Smokes Spirituality and Cigars IG: https://www.instagram.com/holysmokesmovement/
* Pamela Merritt, TherapyNTheology: https://www.therapyntheology.com/bio
* The Faith Community: https://thefaithcommunity.org/home1
* Breaking All the Rules: An Ancient Framework for Modern Faith, Kristian A. Smith https://amzn.to/3PHe2qi 
* BMM Indie 157 I Can Fix That: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-157-i-can-fix-that/id1363790050?i=1000626113405
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BMM 158: Holy Smokes Ft. Kristian A. Smith

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Hey, (in our best Mikey voice), he’s back. It’s been over a year since Mikey dropped an indie and in this episode he reveals where he’s been and how working on his latest project— his 1978 Monte Carlo Landau—is healing him.  Tune in as Mikey nerds out with some history about the car, details the story of his cousin Quacy a.k.a. Chess gifting him the Monte Carlo, and discusses the three things re-building his dream car has taught him.  Later, Mikey gives a head nod to a cousin who is really like a brother and ends the episode with some words of encouragement for anyone realizing that life will life.  We hope you enjoy. Happy Listening. Items Mentioned:<ul><li>To hang out with us and support our work as independent creators, join us on Patreon at <a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a> there you’ll get access to our Discord channel, unedited, edited and ad-free episodes, zoom meetings with us, and more.</li><li>Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae: https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/</li><li>BMM Indie 139: It’s Hard to Talk About Noble: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-139-its-hard-to-talk-about-noble/id1363790050?i=1000552394875" rel="nofollow">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-139-its-hard-to-talk-about-noble/id1363790050?i=1000552394875</a></li></ul> Follow us on Social Media<ul><li>FB: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonFB" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonFB</a></li><li>IG: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonIG" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonIG</a></li><li>Twitter: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a></li></ul> Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Hey, (in our best Mikey voice), he’s back.



It’s been over a year since Mikey dropped an indie and in this episode he reveals where he’s been and how working on his latest project— his 1978 Monte Carlo Landau—is healing him. 



Tune in as Mikey nerds out with some history about the car, details the story of his cousin Quacy a.k.a. Chess gifting him the Monte Carlo, and discusses the three things re-building his dream car has taught him. 



Later, Mikey gives a head nod to a cousin who is really like a brother and ends the episode with some words of encouragement for anyone realizing that life will life. 



We hope you enjoy. Happy Listening.



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BMM Indie 157: I Can Fix That

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Hey y’all! In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail their most recent relationship breakthrough. It started with an argument and turned into a moment of vulnerability.  And it’s all thanks to that damn word chart. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight questioning Mikey about therapy. But it’s all love, when in the end they show each other some PDA.  As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a> <ul><li>Buy Into-Me-See: <a href="https://rb.gy/rwhox" rel="nofollow">https://rb.gy/rwhox</a></li><li>Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/</li></ul> Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098Pitch to be a Guest on our show: <a href="https://hello.dubsado.com/public/form/view/64b5d4909f8e769b7bb8a42c" rel="nofollow">https://hello.dubsado.com/public/form/view/64b5d4909f8e769b7bb8a42c</a>  Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Hey y’all! 
In this episode, Mikey and Randie detail their most recent relationship breakthrough.  It started with an argument and turned into a moment of vulnerability. 

And it’s all thanks to that damn word chart.

Later, Randie brings a fight or flight questioning Mikey about therapy. But it’s all love, when in the end they show each other some PDA.  

As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful.

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BMM 156: This is Embarrassing...

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Hey y’all! In this episode Randie interviews her sex and intimacy doula, Yanitza. Together they droid out over their pleasure muse THE Janelle Monáe, discuss the shame surrounding sex, pleasure, and intimacy and what this work has taught Yanitza about herself and about people. Later they talk about how grief affects our capacity to receive, and what working with a sex and intimacy doula looks like.It’s a fun episode and Randie’s first in-person interview with a listener, turned Patron, turned friend, turned doula ever in the history of BMM. And it’s only up from here.So tune in and come as you are.Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Listen to Ad-Free Episodes</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a><ul><li>BMM Indie 151: Honey &amp; Self-Sabotage : <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-151-honey-self-sabotage-bonus-ep/id1363790050?i=1000615916050" rel="nofollow">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-151-honey-self-sabotage-bonus-ep/id1363790050?i=1000615916050</a> </li></ul> <ul><li>Connect with Yanitza</li><li>IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/Tmi.counseling/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/yanitzamarcel/</a></li><li>IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drjeannelle/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/thecyanmango/</a></li><li>Contact: <a href="https://calendly.com/cyanm/one-on-one?month=2023-07" rel="nofollow">https://calendly.com/cyanm/one-on-one?month=2023-07</a> </li></ul> <ul><li>Book: Come as You Are The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life, by Emily Nagoski Ph.D : <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090" rel="nofollow">https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090</a> </li></ul> Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenaehttps://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a>ContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Hey y’all!  In this episode Randie interviews her sex and intimacy doula, Yanitza. 

Together they droid out over their pleasure muse THE Janelle Monáe, discuss the shame surrounding sex, pleasure, and intimacy and what this work has taught Yanitza about herself and about people. Later they talk about how grief affects our capacity to receive, and what working with a sex and intimacy doula looks like.

It’s a fun episode and Randie’s first in-person interview with a listener, turned Patron, turned friend, turned doula ever in the history of BMM. 

And it’s only up from here.

So tune in and come as you are.


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* Listen to Ad-Free Episodes
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* BMM Indie 151: Honey & Self-Sabotage : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bmm-indie-151-honey-self-sabotage-bonus-ep/id1363790050?i=1000615916050 

* Connect with Yanitza
    * IG: https://www.instagram.com/yanitzamarcel/
    * IG: https://www.instagram.com/thecyanmango/
    * Contact: https://calendly.com/cyanm/one-on-one?month=2023-07 

* Book: Come as You Are The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life, by Emily Nagoski Ph.D : https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090 


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BMM Indie 155: Come as You Are Ft. Yanitza Cubilette

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Hey y’all!In this episode Mikey and Randie interview Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Muhammad on her latest book Into-Me-See: Mastering Black Intimacy for the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted and there’s so much to say.Before beginning the interview, The Chapmans and Dr. Jeannelle share their first memories of feeling safe. Later, the duo learn that finding out she was married to a narcissist inspired Dr. Jeannelle to write this book and more. Together, they discuss the infamous emotions chart that everybody in the world needs to print and hang up in their house, activities couples can do to draw them closer and ensure their needs are being met, HBNS (Hot Butt-Naked Sex), and how the brain remembers trauma even when you’re no longer in danger.To end, the couple show each other some love in their PDA segment because you know that’s how they do. In all, nothing but playing the episode can do justice to the gems Dr. Jeannelle shared in her book and on the show.So tune in and grab the book. Randie finished it in one day!As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful. Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a><ul><li>Connect with Dr. Jeannelle!</li></ul>IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/Tmi.counseling/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/Tmi.counseling/</a>IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drjeannelle/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/drjeannelle/</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.jeannellelmft" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.jeannellelmft</a> <ul><li>Buy Into-Me-See: https://rb.gy/rwhox</li></ul> <ul><li>Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae</li></ul>https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/ Follow us on Social MediaFB: http://bit.ly/BMMonFBIG: http://bit.ly/BMMonIGTwitter: http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitterContactEmail: blackmilmar@gmail.comLeave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Hey y’all!

In this episode Mikey and Randie interview Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Muhammad on her latest book Into-Me-See: Mastering Black Intimacy for the Relationship You’ve Always Wanted and there’s so much to say.

Before beginning the interview, The Chapmans and Dr. Jeannelle share their first memories of feeling safe. Later, the duo learn that finding out she was married to a narcissist inspired Dr. Jeannelle to write this book and more. 

Together, they discuss the infamous emotions chart that everybody in the world needs to print and hang up in their house, activities couples can do to draw them closer and ensure their needs are being met, HBNS (Hot Butt-Naked Sex), and how the brain remembers trauma even when you’re no longer in danger.

To end, the couple show each other some love in their PDA segment because you know that’s how they do. 

In all, nothing but playing the episode can do justice to the gems Dr. Jeannelle shared in her book and on the show.

So tune in and grab the book. Randie finished it in one day!

As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful.

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IG: https://www.instagram.com/drjeannelle/

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BMM 154: Everywhere You Go, There You Are Ft. Dr. Jeannelle Perkins-Muhammad

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Hey y’all. Mikey and Randie, are back after a hiatus of seven months.And in this episode, they detail what’s changed about them and how having boundaries, self-respect, and faith again has affected them and the podcast for the better. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that turns into a poem, wondering when Randie will remember who she is. But, just like old times, it’s all love when they show each other PDA.As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful.Items Mentioned:Join Our Patreon<a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a>Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae<a href="https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/</a>Follow us on Social MediaFB: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonFB" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonFB</a>IG: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonIG" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonIG</a>Twitter: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a>ContactEmail: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098 Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Hey y’all. Mikey and Randie, are back after a hiatus of seven months. With a renewed energy and passion, the duo aim to deliver thought-provoking topics, engaging interviews, and even more personal moments that resonate with everyone as always.

To start, in this episode Randie and Mikey detail what’s changed about them and how having boundaries, self-respect, and faith again has affected them and the podcast for the better. Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that turns into a poem, wondering when Randie will remember who she is. But, just like old times, it’s all love when they show each other PDA.

As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and rocking with them for all of these years. They wouldn’t be here without your support and they want you to know they’re grateful.

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BMM 153: Alright, Let's Do This One Last Time

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Gettin’ Free! : A Juneteenth Collaboration brought to you by Sistas Who Kill: A True Crime Podcast. We know that history is told from the side of the victors, but that leaves room for misinformation and false narratives. We are on a mission to change that.11 Black podcasts have come together to reclaim our history and tell it our way - flavor and all. Welcome to a chronological journey to get free. Learn where we’ve come, what we’ve overcome, and how much further we need to go.  <a href="https://linktr.ee/Sistas.Who.Kill.Podcast" rel="nofollow">Sistas Who Kill </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sistaswhokillpod/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">IG: @SistasWhoKillPod</a> 22:16 <a href="http://ihartericka.com" rel="nofollow">Hoodrat to Headwrap </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/ihartericka" rel="nofollow">IG: @ihartericka</a> 42:25 <a href="https://linktr.ee/blackmillennialmarriage" rel="nofollow">Black Millennial Marriage</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/blackmillennialmarriage/" rel="nofollow">IG:@blackmillennialmarriage</a> 54:03 <a href="https://journeytolaunch.com" rel="nofollow">Journey to Launch</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/journeytolaunch/" rel="nofollow">IG: @JourneyToLaunch </a> 1:05:36 <a href="https://linktr.ee/sowhatareyoureadingpod" rel="nofollow">So what are you reading</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/sowhatareyoureadingpodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG: @sowhatareyoureadingpodcast </a> 1:22:28 <a href="https://www.honey-chile.com" rel="nofollow">Chile, Please</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshoneychile/" rel="nofollow">IG: @itshoneychile</a> 1:34:36 <a href="https://l.instagram.com/?e=AT2eJC67CEE7ARU_p9aHL5weAxSC7IvvXua1La1F0gjEkCrZsVzdaRmIFESTqYOQgSY8dabB66XI5X5YYHDI_12LVfn97yQwVIyDhQ96GORLsSn8TY0_Vw&u=https%3A%2F%2Fanchor.fm%2Famber-smiles-jones" rel="nofollow">The Professional Silly Podcast</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/itsprosilly/" rel="nofollow">IG: @itsprosilly</a>  1:47:00 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/JokesOnYouPod/" rel="nofollow">Jokes on You</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/JokesOnYouPod/" rel="nofollow">IG: @JokesOnYouPod</a> 2:04:07 <a href="https://www.blackfashionhistory.com" rel="nofollow">Black Fashion History</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/blackfashionhistorypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG: @blackfashionhistorypodcast</a> 2:15:31 <a href="https://l.instagram.com/?e=AT2EWtHQbg09jFgELqDUlK4b2WKk0rAx4tEK3OsZsVRA1-WF_dMsXzxR7xMuxwFyyHt45pW2cuf9Bfx23d5QfBmGJ9NmbLz1DKjLJPSSBIMofH-LEISwxQ&u=http%3A%2F%2Fzorasdaughters.com%2Flinks" rel="nofollow">Zora’s Daughters</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/zorasdaughters/" rel="nofollow">IG: @zorasdaughters</a> 2:26:35 <a href="https://linktr.ee/blacktruecrimepodcast" rel="nofollow">Black True Crime</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/blacktruecrimepodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG: @blacktruecrimepodcast</a> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Gettin’ Free! : A Juneteenth Collaboration brought to you by Sistas Who Kill: A True Crime Podcast. We know that history is told from the side of the victors, but that leaves room for misinformation and false narratives. 

We are on a mission to change that.

11 Black podcasts have come together to reclaim our history and tell it our way - flavor and all. Welcome to a chronological journey to get free. Learn where we’ve come, what we’ve overcome, and how much further we need to go. 


Sistas Who Kill 

IG: @SistasWhoKillPod


22:16 Hoodrat to Headwrap 

IG: @ihartericka


42:25 Black Millennial Marriage

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54:03 Journey to Launch 

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1:05:36 So what are you reading

IG: @sowhatareyoureadingpodcast 


1:22:28 Chile, Please

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1:34:36 The Professional Silly Podcast

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 1:47:00 Jokes on You

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2:04:07  Black Fashion History 

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2:15:31 Zora’s Daughters

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2:26:35 Black True Crime 

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BMM 152: Gettin’ Free!: A Juneteenth Collaboration brought to you by Sistas Who Kill: A True Crime Podcast. [BONUS EP]

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Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow">Youtube </a>| <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow">iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow">Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow">Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow">Google Podcasts</a>Didn’t expect a bonus Indie Episode from Randie did you? (Or maybe you did if you caught her latest IG Live)She misses y’all! Mikey and Randie both do. And they want you to consider this episode an apology, an olive branch, and a promise that they will be back sooner than you think with episodes. Get excited.And . . .Tune in as Randie details a homework assignment she received from her sex and intimacy doula. This homework included lots of honey and an epiphany about her attachment to self-sabotage.  Prayerfully, you can feel the love through this episode. Randie loves and misses y’all and as always, hopes you enjoy this episode. Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon Family: <a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a></li><li>Contact Yanitza Cubilette, Sex and Intimacy Doula: <a href="mailto:yanitzacubilette@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">yanitzacubilette@gmail.com</a></li><li>Book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery/dp/1949759229/ref=sr_1_1?hvadid=582307803321&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9010960&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=6430992556579641072&hvtargid=kwd-1453569563901&hydadcr=8124_9912148&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+paperback&qid=1686080017&sr=8-1" rel="nofollow">The Mountain is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery, </a>By: Brianna West</li><li>Article by Lisa A. Romano: <a href="https://www.lisaaromano.com/blog/tina-turner-an-aching-icon" rel="nofollow">Tina Turner an Aching Icon </a> </li><li>Documentary: <a href="https://www.hbo.com/movies/tina" rel="nofollow">Tina</a> </li></ul> Follow us on Social Media:<ul><li>FB: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonFB" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonFB</a></li><li>IG: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonIG" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonIG</a></li><li>Twitter: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a></li></ul>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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Didn’t expect a bonus Indie Episode from Randie did you? (Or maybe you did if you caught her latest IG Live)

She misses y’all! Mikey and Randie both do. And they want you to consider this episode an apology, an olive branch, and a promise that they will be back sooner than you think with episodes. Get excited.

And . . .Tune in as Randie details a homework assignment she received from her sex and intimacy doula. This homework included lots of honey and an epiphany about her attachment to self-sabotage. 



Prayerfully, you can feel the love through this episode. Randie loves and misses y’all and as always, hopes you enjoy this episode.



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Article by Lisa A. Romano: Tina Turner an Aching Icon  
Documentary: Tina 


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BMM Indie 151: Honey & Self-Sabotage [BONUS EP]

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Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow">Youtube </a>| <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow">iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow">Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow">Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow">Google Podcasts</a>.Now whoever thought that making more money and making it out of the valley would scare the hell out of Mikey and Randie?Can you relate? Tune in as the Chapmans detail why abundance has been triggering them and find out how they self-sabotage and re-ground themselves back in the present. Because the truth is, it&#39;s been a hard few years and it&#39;s also true that trouble don&#39;t last always. Right?Later Randie brings a fight or flight confronting Mikey about how he parents when he&#39;s worn out. But it&#39;s all love when in the end the couple shower each other with PDA and thank one another for being the bomb ass spouses they are.As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and being here 5 seasons later. And they hope you continue to enjoy.Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon</li></ul><a href="https://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a><ul><li>Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae</li></ul><a href="https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/</a>Follow us on Social Media<ul><li>FB: <a href="https://bit.ly/BMMonFB" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonFB</a></li><li>IG: <a href="https://bit.ly/BMMonIG" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonIG</a></li><li>Twitter: <a href="https://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a></li></ul>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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Now whoever thought that making more money and making it out of the valley would scare the hell out of Mikey and Randie?

Can you relate? Tune in as the Chapmans detail why abundance has been triggering them and find out how they self-sabotage and re-ground themselves back in the present. Because the truth is, it's been a hard few years and it's also true that trouble don't last always. Right?

Later Randie brings a fight or flight confronting Mikey about how he parents when he's worn out. But it's all love when in the end the couple shower each other with PDA and thank one another for being the bomb ass spouses they are.

As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and being here 5 seasons later. And they hope you continue to enjoy.

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BMM 150: Mo' Money Mo' Fear

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Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow"> Youtube </a> | <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow"> iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow"> Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow"> Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow"> Google Podcasts</a>Was an episode with Randie&#39;s dad on your bingo card for 2022?Tune in as Big Ran gets interviewed by the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast. Together the two detail their happiest childhood memories and later Randie learns what inspired her dad to give up the drugs you snort and heavy alcohol. Big Ran also reveals how he thinks his upbringing affected his previous marriage and parenting, talks about what reconciling with all of his kids would look like in a perfect world, and more. It&#39;s a special episode and a good one. And as always, Randie (the big one too) hopes you enjoy.Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon Family</li><li><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a></li></ul>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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Was an episode with Randie's dad on your bingo card for 2022?

Tune in as Big Ran gets interviewed by the shorter half of the Black Millennial Marriage podcast. Together the two detail their happiest childhood memories and later Randie learns what inspired her dad to give up the drugs you snort and heavy alcohol. Big Ran also reveals how he thinks his upbringing affected his previous marriage and parenting, talks about what reconciling with all of his kids would look like in a perfect world, and more. 

It's a special episode and a good one. And as always, Randie (the big one too) hopes you enjoy.

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BMM Indie 149: Big Ran. Little Ran. (Ft. Randy H.)

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Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow">Youtube </a>| <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow">iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow">Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow">Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow">Google Podcasts</a>.There are plenty of things Mikey and Randie wished they remembered before they argued. And in this episode, they’re gonna discuss. Tune in as the couple talk about being on the same team, being allowed to be angry, and remembering that they don’t have to internalize the others’ triggers and more.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight Randie can’t help but fly away from and it all seems too easy. They wonder:: has being married for 6 years tamed them or is this growth? No one knows. The only thing for certain is, the Mr. misses make-up sex SMH. But it&#39;s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and being here 5 seasons later. And they hope you continue to enjoy.Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a><ul><li>Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae</li></ul><a href="https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/</a>Follow us on Social Media<ul><li>FB: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonFB" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonFB</a></li><li>IG: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonIG" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonIG</a></li><li>Twitter: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a></li></ul>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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There are plenty of things Mikey and Randie wished they remembered before they argued. And in this episode, they’re gonna discuss. Tune in as the couple talk about being on the same team, being allowed to be angry, and remembering that they don’t have to internalize the others’ triggers and more.

Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight Randie can’t help but fly away from and it all seems too easy. They wonder:: has being married for 6 years tamed them or is this growth? No one knows. The only thing for certain is, the Mr. misses make-up sex SMH. But it's all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.

As always, the Chapmans appreciate you for listening and being here 5 seasons later. And they hope you continue to enjoy.

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BMM 148: Before We Argue

https://s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com/pod-public-media-files/2022/10/24/0/f81cd497-51a6-4ed9-b699-acc4dc1bce52_publish_we_want_a_mansion.mp3

Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow">Youtube </a>| <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow">iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow">Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow">Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow">Google Podcasts</a>.Mikey and Randie are finally on the same page. Tune in as the couple detail their current home buying journey, barriers that stopped them in the past, and why, four years since moving into the Bat Cave, they’re finally ready to take action.Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that makes Mikey laughs till he cries and also makes him fly quicker than he ever has in the history of fight or flights. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.As always, they appreciate you for listening and kicking off season 5 with them and they hope you enjoy.Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a><ul><li>BMM 023: It’s a Hard Knock Life: <a href="https://bit.ly/3TwBeHe" rel="nofollow">https://bit.ly/3TwBeHe</a></li><li>BMM 036: The Bat Cave:  <a href="https://bit.ly/3D0YCpn" rel="nofollow">https://bit.ly/3D0YCpn</a></li><li>Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae</li></ul><a href="https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/</a>Follow us on Social Media<ul><li>FB: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonFB" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonFB</a></li><li>IG: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonIG" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonIG</a></li><li>Twitter: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a></li></ul>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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Mikey and Mikey are finally on the same page. Tune in as the couple detail their current home buying journey, barriers that stopped them in the past, and why, four years since moving into the Bat Cave, they’re finally ready to take action.

Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that makes Mikey laughs till he cries and also makes him fly quicker than he ever has in the history of fight or flights. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.

As always, they appreciate you for listening and kicking off season 5 with them and they hope you enjoy.

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BMM 147: We Want a Mansion

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Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow"> Youtube </a> | <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow"> iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow"> Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow"> Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow"> Google Podcasts</a>If you find that you&#39;re always in some type of f*ck sh*t, then you&#39;re the problem. You are the problem. But it&#39;s not just you though. In this Indie episode, Randie details reading Codependent No More by Melody Beattie. She explains why she finally read the book, confesses to being a codependent in recovery, and reads some codependent characteristics she&#39;s certain may resonate with you a little all too well. Later, Randie details the ways she is working to break codependent habits that portray her as a victim and leave her looking for others to rescue her and be the authority in her life.It gets deep, y&#39;all.Tune in as the sultry voice half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast shares what it&#39;s been like taking responsibility over her life. Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon Family</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a><ul><li>Website: Out of the Fog: </li></ul><a href="https://outofthefog.website/" rel="nofollow">https://outofthefog.website/</a><ul><li>Book:Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents</li></ul><a href="https://amzn.to/3VangfJ" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3VangfJ</a><ul><li>Book: Codependent No More</li></ul><a href="https://amzn.to/3SSPCJ8" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3SSPCJ8</a><ul><li>Podcast Starter Kit: </li></ul><a href="https://msha.ke/wordieproductions#about" rel="nofollow">https://msha.ke/wordieproductions#about</a>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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If you find that you're always in some type of f*ck sh*t, then you're the problem. You are the problem. But it's not just you though. In this Indie episode, Randie details reading Codependent No More by Melody Beattie. She explains why she finally read the book, confesses to being a codependent in recovery, and reads some codependent characteristics she's certain may resonate with you a little all too well. 

Later, Randie details the ways she is working to break codependent habits that portray her as a victim and leave her looking for others to rescue her and be the authority in her life.

It gets deep, y'all.

Tune in as the sultry voice half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast shares what it's been like taking responsibility over her life.

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BMM Indie 146: "Codependent No More"

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Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow">Youtube </a>| <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow">iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow">Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow">Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow">Google Podcasts</a>.Mikey and Randie haven’t had a relationship check-in in a long long time, until today that is. For the inaugural episode of Season 5, tune in as the couple rate sex, family, communication, self, and money on a scale of 1-5. The convo is all things juicy, funny, and enlightening, and they hope to inspire you to check in with you and yours as well.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to be more considerate than she is. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.As always, they appreciate you for listening and kicking off season 5 with them and they hope you enjoy.<h4>Ad-Free Highlight Reel (Only on Patreon)</h4><ul><li>03:47 The Chapmans begin the relationship check-in</li><li>46:31 Fight or Flight</li><li>50:13 PDA</li><li> </li></ul>Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a><ul><li>Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae</li></ul><a href="https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/</a>Follow us on Social Media<ul><li>FB: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonFB" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonFB</a></li><li>IG: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonIG" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonIG</a></li><li>Twitter: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a></li></ul>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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Mikey and Randie haven’t had a relationship check-in in a long long time, until today that is. For the inaugural episode of Season 5, tune in as the couple rate sex, family, communication, self, and money on a scale of 1-5. The convo is all things juicy, funny, and enlightening, and they hope to inspire you to check in with you and yours as well.

Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight asking Randie to be more considerate than she is. But it’s all love though, when in the end they shower each other with PDA and thank the other for being the bomb ass spouses they are.

As always, they appreciate you for listening and kicking off season 5 with them and they hope you enjoy.

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03:47 The Chapmans begin the relationship check-in
46:31 Fight or Flight
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BMM 145: Plastic Off the Sofa

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Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow"> Youtube </a> | <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow"> iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow"> Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow"> Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow"> Google Podcasts</a>.Phew it&#39;s been a long long time, and the Chapmans have missed y&#39;all.In this episode, Mikey and Randie explain their impromptu break, read your emails, play your voicemails, and gift Patreon superlatives. Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that questions if Mikey knows the true meaning of words. But in the end, it&#39;s all love when they show each other some PDA. Finally, if you stick around, you&#39;ll hear a message from Drew that the couple is certain will make you smile.As always the Chapmans thank y&#39;all for your grace, love, and listens this special season. May Noble&#39;s name live on forever and ever.Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a><ul><li>Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae</li></ul><a href="https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/</a>Follow us on Social Media<ul><li>FB: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonFB" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonFB</a></li><li>IG: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonIG" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonIG</a></li><li>Twitter: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a></li></ul>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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Phew it's been a long long time, and the Chapmans have missed y'all.

In this episode, Mikey and Randie explain their impromptu break, read your emails, play your voicemails, and gift Patreon superlatives. 

Later, Randie brings a fight or flight that questions if Mikey knows the true meaning of words. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA. Finally, if you stick around, you'll hear a message from Drew that the couple is certain will make you smile.

As always the Chapmans thank y'all for your grace, love, and listens this special season. May Noble's name live on forever and ever.

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BMM 144: You're Stuck With Us (SEASON 4 FINALE!)

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Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow"> Youtube </a> | <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow"> iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow"> Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow"> Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow"> Google Podcasts</a>.Will you laugh until you cry? Mikey and Randie did. Like, real tears while hearing each other read the funniest stories they could find on the internet.After all, it can&#39;t all be doom and gloom--can it? No one can stay down forever, and the Chapmans believe that. There were many many times they never thought they&#39;d see the sun shine after Noble passed away, but then . . . something would make them laugh.So tune in for this feel good episode, Randie and Mikey are certain you&#39;ll enjoy it.Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that makes no sense to the Mrs. But in the end, it&#39;s all love when they show each other some PDA--some spicy PDA, they might add.As always the Chapmans thank y&#39;all for listening to this very special season.Remember to rate and review them 5 stars if you enjoy this and every other episode. It means more than you know!Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a><ul><li>Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae</li></ul><a href="https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/</a>Follow us on Social Media<ul><li>FB: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonFB" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonFB</a></li><li>IG: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonIG" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonIG</a></li><li>Twitter: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a></li></ul>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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Will you laugh until you cry? Mikey and Randie did. Like, real tears while hearing each other read the funniest stories they could find on the internet.

After all, it can't all be doom and gloom--can it? No one can stay down forever, and the Chapmans believe that. There were many many times they never thought they'd see the sun shine after Noble passed away, but then . . . something would make them laugh.

So tune in for this feel good episode, Randie and Mikey are certain you'll enjoy it.

Later, Mikey brings a fight or flight that makes no sense to the Mrs. But in the end, it's all love when they show each other some PDA--some spicy PDA, they might add.

As always the Chapmans thank y'all for listening to this very special season.

Remember to rate and review them 5 stars if you enjoy this and every other episode. It means more than you know!

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BMM 143: You Make Me Laugh

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Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow">Youtube </a>| <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow">iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow">Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow">Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow">Google Podcasts</a>.April 24th marked six years that Mikey and Randie have been married, and it&#39;s safe to say they didn’t know what they were really getting into when they said “I do.&#34;  So, there lies the question…would they still marry each other if they knew about all the grief they would endure?The answer is &#34;Yes and&#34;…lol. Well, you gotta tune in to hear.Later, Randie brings a fight questioning how Mikey documents his life. But it’s all love when in the end they show each other some PDA.The Chapmans have 5 episodes left for this season, and as always they thank you for tuning in, downloading, and messaging them with your feelings.Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a><ul><li>Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae</li></ul><a href="https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/</a>More Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Wordie Productions:<a href="https://wordieproductions.com/" rel="nofollow">Wordie Productions</a></li><li>BMM Indie 136: <a href="https://www.blackmillennialmarriage.com/podcast/bmm-indie-136-bad-trip/" rel="nofollow">Bad Trip</a></li><li>BMM 090: <a href="https://www.blackmillennialmarriage.com/podcast/bmm-090-the-fck/" rel="nofollow">The F*ck?</a></li><li>BMM 097:<a href="https://www.blackmillennialmarriage.com/podcast/bmm-097-bmm-x-cheat-code/" rel="nofollow"> BMM X Cheat Code</a></li><li>Netflix’s <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YHcKoAMGGvY" rel="nofollow">Russian Doll</a></li></ul>Follow us on Social Media<ul><li>FB: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonFB" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonFB</a></li><li>IG: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonIG" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonIG</a></li><li>Twitter: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a></li></ul>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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April 24th marked six years that Mikey and Randie have been married, and it's safe to say they didn’t know what they were really getting into when they said “I do."  So, there lies the question…would they still marry each other if they knew about all the grief they would endure?

The answer is "Yes and"…lol. Well, you gotta tune in to hear.

Later, Randie brings a fight questioning how Mikey documents his life. But it’s all love when in the end they show each other some PDA.

The Chapmans have 5 episodes left for this season, and as always they thank you for tuning in, downloading, and messaging them with your feelings.

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BMM 142: I'd Still Marry You

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Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow">Youtube </a>| <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow">iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow">Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow">Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow">Google Podcasts</a>Randie’s stuck on a roller coaster that sends her round and round on a ride of hating herself, shaming herself, and blaming herself for Noble’s death. At least that’s what her therapist says.But why? Why can’t Randie just be sad and mourn without beating herself up?A phone call days before Noble’s birth may give a hint to the answer.Tune in as the mother half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details revealing the truth to her therapist and discusses what it means to finally believe she is worthy.It’s a wild thing, but somehow grief and her children are teaching Randie to mother herself. Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon Family</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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Randie’s stuck on a roller coaster that sends her round and round on a ride of hating herself, shaming herself, and blaming herself for Noble’s death. At least that’s what her therapist says.

But why? Why can’t Randie just be sad and mourn without beating herself up?

A phone call days before Noble’s birth may give a hint to the answer.

Tune in as the mother half of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast details revealing the truth to her therapist and discusses what it means to finally believe she is worthy.

It’s a wild thing, but somehow grief and her children are teaching Randie to mother herself.

 

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BMM Indie 141: Mothering Myself

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Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow">Youtube </a>| <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow">iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow">Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow">Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow">Google Podcasts</a>.In Lemonade Beyoncè said, “Grief sedated by orgasm. Orgasm heightened by grief,” and the Chapmans believe she was on to something.In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss how grief has affected their sex life. Together they detail sex before and after Noble, how sex has evolved, and then end the main segment with advice for grieving couples.Later, the Mr. brings a fight questioning the ways Randie takes care of herself. But it’s all love when in the end they show each other some PDA.As always, Mikey and Randie thank you for tuning in to this special season and they hope to encourage you to have conversations about pleasure even when you’re in deep grief.Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a><ul><li>Check out singer, songwriter, and actress Ebony Jenae</li></ul><a href="https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/ebonyjenae_/</a>More Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Wordie Productions:<a href="https://wordieproductions.com/" rel="nofollow">Wordie Productions</a></li><li>Grieving is Loving, Dr. Joanne Cacciatore: <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/50891548" rel="nofollow">https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/50891548</a></li><li>Bearing the Unbearable, Dr. Joanne Cacciatore: <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/32926208-bearing-the-unbearable" rel="nofollow">https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/32926208-bearing-the-unbearable </a></li><li>Dipsea Stories: <a href="https://www.dipseastories.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.dipseastories.com/</a></li><li>The Chapman’s do the Lift Challenge: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ca5BZa0gJIC/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ca5BZa0gJIC/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link</a></li></ul>Follow us on Social Media<ul><li>FB: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonFB" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonFB</a></li><li>IG: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonIG" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonIG</a></li><li>Twitter: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a></li></ul>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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In Lemonade Beyoncè said, “Grief sedated by orgasm. Orgasm heightened by grief,” and the Chapmans believe she was on to something.

In this episode Mikey and Randie discuss how grief has affected their sex life. Together they detail sex before and after Noble, how sex has evolved, and then end the main segment with advice for grieving couples.

Later, the Mr. brings a fight questioning the ways Randie takes care of herself. But it’s all love when in the end they show each other some PDA.

As always, Mikey and Randie thank you for tuning in to this special season and they hope to encourage you to have conversations about pleasure even when you’re in deep grief.

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Wordie Productions:Wordie Productions
Grieving is Loving, Dr. Joanne Cacciatore: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/50891548
Bearing the Unbearable, Dr. Joanne Cacciatore: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/32926208-bearing-the-unbearable
Dipsea Stories: https://www.dipseastories.com/
The Chapman’s do the Lift Challenge: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ca5BZa0gJIC/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
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BMM 140: "Grief Sedated by Orgasm"

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Listen to us on: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA8BG-MD-dXz0imH52uVojg" rel="nofollow">Youtube </a>| <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/black-millennial-marriage-podcast/id1363790050" rel="nofollow">iTunes</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZgCRndxa1DQw9tmMXIjUt" rel="nofollow">Spotify</a> | <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=179290&refid=stpr" rel="nofollow">Stitcher</a> | <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.google.android.apps.podcasts" rel="nofollow">Google Podcasts</a>It’s been a long time since Mikey has dropped an Indie and if you think he’s been stalling, he has. Still, while it’s hard, the father half of the BMM Podcast knows not talking about Noble is not an option.Join him as he details why it’s hard to talk about his deceased son, how he fears he’s just too angry, and worries that no one cares. Later, he discusses the ways he’s been taking care of himself in an effort to get himself out of his hole. After all, he did promise Noble that he would try.As always Mikey is grateful for the people tuning in for this special season and he hopes it encourages someone to open up about their grief.Items Mentioned:<ul><li>Join Our Patreon Family</li></ul><a href="http://bit.ly/JOINBMM" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/JOINBMM</a>Follow us on Social Media<ul><li>FB: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonFB" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonFB</a></li><li>IG: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonIG" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonIG</a></li><li>Twitter: <a href="http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter%22" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/BMMonTwitter</a></li></ul>Contact<ul><li>Email: <a href="mailto:blackmilmar@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">blackmilmar@gmail.com</a></li><li>Leave a voicemail: 770-750-4098</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations'>https://redcircle.com/black-millennial-marriage/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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It’s been a long time since Mikey has dropped an Indie and if you think he’s been stalling, he has. Still, while it’s hard, the father half of the BMM Podcast knows not talking about Noble is not an option.

Join him as he details why it’s hard to talk about his deceased son, how he fears he’s just too angry, and worries that no one cares. Later, he discusses the ways he’s been taking care of himself in an effort to get himself out of his hole. After all, he did promise Noble that he would try.

As always Mikey is grateful for the people tuning in for this special season and he hopes it encourages someone to open up about their grief.

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BMM Indie 139: It's Hard to Talk About Noble

We are Mikey and Randie Chapman,  and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast. This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could have representation, meet other couples, and provide a space to talk about our 10+ years of relationship experience, including our years of marriage, and all we’re learning, unlearning, and loving about marriage.

We are Mikey and Randie Chapman,  and your hosts of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast.  This podcast was created as a way to stay connected to one another. It was also formed so that we could have representation, meet other couples, and provide a space to talk about our 10+ years of relationship experience, including our years of marriage, and all we’re learning, unlearning, and loving about marriage.