Hi Girls :&#39;) , this is my podcast where I speak on the truths and understandings I&#39;ve come to know regarding Sexuality, Relationships, Femininity, Embodiment, Dating, Healing, and all things Women. Enjoy :)

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hi girlies, this was just a quick episode i took when Jeremie went to the store real quick :) i hope you all enjoy, love you! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Death of the Chill Girl + How to Stop Looking for Male Validation

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today&#39;s episode is all about how I healed my period and my own personal journey with going from extremely painful periods to painless periods. I understand that everyone&#39;s experience is different and unique, but I share the way I healed my period in hopes that it gives direction and guidance to others who resonate and are looking to do the same!I also understand that trans-people have their own unique experience with periods and did not touch on this as much in this episode but it is still valid and important. love you guys :* Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How I Healed My Period: from painful to painless periods

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hi girls, today is the best episode ever on how to heal your inner child. hope you enjoy :&#39;) if you&#39;d like to embark on a 3 month coaching journey with me, go to victoriadevall.com to book your free intro call love you all :* Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How to Heal Your Inner Child

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in today&#39;s episode, i speak on some tips for women looking to receive a truly safe and masculine king: from not pedestaling him to deciding when to sleep with him, i dive into it all! of course, for any of this to work, you must be at a truly embodied and safe space within yourself.to learn how to do this, you can apply for my 3 month coaching program, and schedule your FREE intro call with me on my website: victoriadevall.com Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Talking Stage Tips For The Embodied Woman

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in this episode, i tell you everything you need to know about how to heal your anxious attachment. it all comes down to building trust with yourself by feeling your feelings and holding yourself through the emotions that arise. doing this over and over until you have created a new, healthy baseline. another thing i did not mention is that especially right when you meet a possible romantic love interest, it is sooo important to be securely attached. if you are not, you will bypass your own feelings or emotions all because you don&#39;t want them to abandon you. when you are unafraid of being abandoned, when you are unafraid of feeling your &#34;uncomfortable&#34; emotions, you can show up to them fully embodied, and fully able to sit in a seat of power that asks &#34;do I like them? do they meet my needs? is anything they are doing making me feel uncomfortable?&#34; you will be willing to look at them evenly, because you are okay if they do not like you or want you. from that space, you can ask yourself if you even like them, or if they are meeting all your standards/boundaries. book coaching with me at: victoriadevall.comsubscribe to my YouTube: victoriadevall Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How To Heal Your Anxious Attachment

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in this episode, i deep dive into everything you need to know about how to heal your relationship with your womb: yoni massage, yoni mapping, vaginal dearmoring, radical reclamation, why we are disempowered, healing sexual trauma, coming into union with your womb, ancestral work...EVERYTHING.another big thing is you cannot eat animals or animal products !!! if you&#39;d like to dive deeper into 1:1 coaching and get to the next level of your life and become the embodied woman your heart yearns to be, you can book coaching with me at : victoriadevall.comif you liked this episode, you can also tip me at the link below!book I referenced: Yoni Massage by Michaela Riedllove you guys! :* Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How To Heal Your Womb: yoni massage, healing sexual trauma, ancestral work, embodied sexuality

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hi you guys, this is a comprehensive podcast about veganism: why to go vegan, how to go vegan, the animal environmental and human rights injustices that surround animal agriculture. comment on my last insta any questions you still have about veganism :) Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Everything You Need To Know About Veganism

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in today&#39;s episode, i speak on how to set boundaries, how to not abandon yourself, and how to allow someone else&#39;s reaction to your boundary. hope you guys enjoy :* to book me for coaching: victoriadevall.comto subscribe to my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yu2O-SD9Gqg&amp;t=1s Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How To Set & Hold Boundaries

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hi girlies. hope you enjoy today&#39;s episode!!you can subscribe to my YouTube channel and listen to my video on my 2 years of celibacy here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yu2O-SD9Gqg Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Zero Tolerance For Low Quality Men & Healing Jealousy

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hi girls. this episode is all about releasing shame from your past sexual experiences; experiences where you may have been disrespected, treated poorly, touched by hands that didn&#39;t cherish you, or sexually violated. i love you all so much and i hope this episode helps you remember that there is nothing you have ever done sexually that could make you less valuable, less worthy, less divine, less holy. enjoy :)if you like this pod episode and want to support me, you can tip me in the link below!you can book 1:1 coaching with me here: victoriadevall.com Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How to Release Shame from Past Sexual Experiences

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hi girls &lt;3 in this episode I speak about why it is absolutely imperative why you and all people stop watching porn. i speak about the innate level of objectification of another human that it takes to watch porn, i speak about how it disconnects you from your femininity and body, i speak about how it is misogyny and not empowering, and so much more. this direct dehumanization of women is extremely disturbing to me, so i was a little upset in this podcast, which is part of natural ~feminine rage~ which is the rage and anger that women feel when they are saying the truth that has been denied. i love you guys so much!I also mentioned an incredible woman and ex sex worker, @profitfromtrauma, in this episode- check her out on IG and Tik Tok! i loveeeee her and resonate with her truth so deeply, she is amazing. and of course, this is a safe space for sex workers. we support sex workers here, we love them, we want the best for them, we want safer working conditions, and we NEVER shame them. thank you all for listening! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Why You Should Stop Watching Porn

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hi guys :) today, we are talking about the whole &#34;liking other girls pictures&#34; phenomenon. what I say in this podcast is also applicable to complimenting other women and watching p*rn. men of value do not do any of these things. their main priority is protecting your heart and making you feel safe. if the container he provides has all these holes with space for his attention on other women, he has not provided anything, and he has no idea what it means to be a man.stop trying to change your low quality man, and love yourself instead. :*love you guys !!!!!! also subscribe to my YouTube Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Valuable Men Don't Like Other Girls Pictures

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Hi girlies. I did a little special on all things healthy relationships for valentines day! I went into detail on the difference between healthy and toxic relationships, how to get into healthy relationships, how to see more healthy men in the world, and what my relationship looks like hehe. love you guys so much!!book me for coaching: https://victoriadevall.com/collections/coaching-sessions Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Healthy Relationships: getting into them & what they entail

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if you&#39;d like to go deeper 1:1 with me on any of these topics, i offer women&#39;s coaching on my website :) love you guys! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Staying in Your Body While Making Friends

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hello girlies, today I talk about why alignment is better than manifestation, and how all things flow from alignment. I love you guys and also I&#39;m holding a zoom session this friday 1/28 where I&#39;m holding a healing girls session !!! you can join through my website under the tab: &#34;healing session 1/28&#34;. I hope to see you all there :)also, if you enjoyed this episode, you can tip me here hehe : https://app.redcircle.com/shows/b619aa43-6dfe-4a93-83ce-7883c9a52506/donations Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Alignment Over Manifestation

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soooo we have the most wise, masculine man on the podcast today- my MANNNNNNNN. we spoke about his experience coming into his masculinity, his connection with his feminine (you can&#39;t be masculine if you don&#39;t have a connection with your feminine), feminine rage and the masculine&#39;s role in this. hope you guys enjoy! his instagram: @byermeas , @jeremielouis and his poetry book is called Memories of a Love Never Born by Ermeas on Amazon. my instagram &amp; tiktok : @victoriadevall , coaching sessions on my website! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Feminine Rage and True Masculinity ft My Man

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hey girlies, I know everyone has been waiting on this episode and it&#39;s finally here- all things femininity; the playful, sensual, feeling side, the chaotic, destructive, ferocious side, the necessity for a healthy relationship with your own masculine if you ever want a full relationship with your feminine, the repression of full femininity in your sexuality...all of that and more is discussed ! i love you guys so much, leave me a review if you liked this episode, become one of my coaching clients through my website, and/or leave me a tip if you liked this episode and want to continue supporting me!tip link :) : https://app.redcircle.com/shows/b619aa43-6dfe-4a93-83ce-7883c9a52506/donations Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

The Way to True, Embodied Femininity

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in this episode, i speak on the idea that we want others to wake up from their toxic cycles because we truly care about them - however, this is not true. in truth, we want others to do this because we do not want to sit with the discomfort that comes with the other person being right where they are, and the boundaries we might have to enforce as a result. If we can sit and accept them right where they are without trying to change them, we can be objective, place boundaries, and remove ourselves from the enmeshment that comes with the desire for anyone else to be anywhere other than right where they are.If you want to send me a tip and support my podcast, the link to support me and send me a tip is right here :) : https://app.redcircle.com/shows/b619aa43-6dfe-4a93-83ce-7883c9a52506/donations Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Stop Trying To Save People: Part 2

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in this episode, I speak about the eroticization of our pain, trauma, and wounds, and how it keeps us locked in a cage that we then identify with and believe is our sexual identity. this podcast is an offering so that we may all sit with our pain and release it and discover the fullness of the true embodiment of our sexuality on the other side and not stay trapped in its distortions.if you&#39;d like to talk more about this or receive direct advice or coaching, you can find booking in my website.you can also tip me here :) : https://app.redcircle.com/shows/b619aa43-6dfe-4a93-83ce-7883c9a52506/donationshappy 2022!p.s I actually did get to my podcast rebrand hehe Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Why We Eroticize Our Wounds

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In this episode, I delve into what REAL masculinity looks like in a man. I hope you all enjoy :)if you like this episode and would like to support me and this podcast through a donation/tip, here is the link: https://app.redcircle.com/shows/b619aa43-6dfe-4a93-83ce-7883c9a52506/donationsYou can also now book a coaching session with me through my website if you would like one on one support and would like to commit to yourself in this way! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Masculinity in Men: What it Really Looks Like

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In this episode, I speak about how to leave a toxic man. I hope you guys enjoy :) Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

In this episode, I speak about how to leave a toxic man. I hope you guys enjoy :)

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How to Leave a Toxic Man

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in this episode, I speak on faking orgasms and what that says about our connection to ourselves. in my experience, faking orgasms made it easier for me to stay in unhealthy relationships/situations because I was able to hide. faking orgasms, in my opinion, is another way we enable ourselves out of our true embodiment. I&#39;ll explain more in the episode, hope you enjoy :) Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

in this episode, I speak on faking orgasms and what that says about our connection to ourselves. in my experience, faking orgasms made it easier for me to stay in unhealthy relationships/situations because I was able to hide. faking orgasms,

in this episode, I speak on faking orgasms and what that says about our connection to ourselves. in my experience, faking orgasms made it easier for me to stay in unhealthy relationships/situations because I was able to hide. faking orgasms, in my opinion, is another way we enable ourselves out of our true embodiment. I'll explain more in the episode, hope you enjoy :)

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Faking Orgasms and All the Other Ways We Hide From Ourselves

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in this podcast, I delve into loving yourself fully- which means sitting with all of the parts of yourself that you have shamed, labelled unpresentable, denied, or been embarrassed of. I delve into being ashamed of past sexual experiences, having an anxious attachment style, and how I move through feelings of unworthiness when they arise. owning all of you- the parts you are ashamed of, too- is true embodiment. That being said, loving all parts of ourselves does not necessarily mean indulging in behaviors or past versions of ourselves that we don&#39;t feel are aligned with the lives we are looking to build- however, the key is loving and UNDERSTANDING these parts of you- deeply- and then letting them go, if you are no longer interesting in feeding them. hope you guys enjoy and if you do, leave me a review! :) Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

in this podcast, I delve into loving yourself fully- which means sitting with all of the parts of yourself that you have shamed, labelled unpresentable, denied, or been embarrassed of. I delve into being ashamed of past sexual experiences,

in this podcast, I delve into loving yourself fully- which means sitting with all of the parts of yourself that you have shamed, labelled unpresentable, denied, or been embarrassed of. I delve into being ashamed of past sexual experiences, having an anxious attachment style, and how I move through feelings of unworthiness when they arise. owning all of you- the parts you are ashamed of, too- is true embodiment. That being said, loving all parts of ourselves does not necessarily mean indulging in behaviors or past versions of ourselves that we don't feel are aligned with the lives we are looking to build- however, the key is loving and UNDERSTANDING these parts of you- deeply- and then letting them go, if you are no longer interesting in feeding them. hope you guys enjoy and if you do, leave me a review! :)

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Accepting & Loving the parts of yourself that you've labelled "unworthy"

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In this podcast, I wanted to speak on the phenomenon of &#34;saving people.&#34; In my life, I&#39;ve experienced this in 2 main forms- 1. where someone WANTS to be &#34;saved&#34; and is encouraging you to act in a codependent manner, and 2. where someone doesn&#39;t want to be &#34;saved&#34; and you are projecting and interjecting into their life. Either way, these ways of acting are not authentic. When my father went to prison last year, I hit rock bottom with this &#34;savior&#34; dynamic. I was miserable, coming from a complete place of illusion, and wasn&#39;t able to clearly validate his situation as it was, because I believed I needed to save him from it. Through hitting rock bottom, I was able to liberate myself from all the ways I had been engaging in this &#34;saving&#34; dynamic- with family, friends, and romantic relationships. This is my experience and my insight into &#34;saving.&#34; Hope you enjoy, and if you do, leave me a review :) Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

In this podcast, I wanted to speak on the phenomenon of "saving people." In my life, I've experienced this in 2 main forms- 1. where someone WANTS to be "saved" and is encouraging you to act in a codependent manner, and 2.

In this podcast, I wanted to speak on the phenomenon of "saving people." In my life, I've experienced this in 2 main forms- 1. where someone WANTS to be "saved" and is encouraging you to act in a codependent manner, and 2. where someone doesn't want to be "saved" and you are projecting and interjecting into their life. Either way, these ways of acting are not authentic. When my father went to prison last year, I hit rock bottom with this "savior" dynamic. I was miserable, coming from a complete place of illusion, and wasn't able to clearly validate his situation as it was, because I believed I needed to save him from it. Through hitting rock bottom, I was able to liberate myself from all the ways I had been engaging in this "saving" dynamic- with family, friends, and romantic relationships. This is my experience and my insight into "saving." Hope you enjoy, and if you do, leave me a review :)

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Stop trying to "save" people- it's not real

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Lately I&#39;ve been thinking a lot about this masculine shield I have that I accepted for a lot of my life as just part of my personality. As I get more honest with myself, I realize that it is a shield I&#39;ve put up for 10+ years because I felt threatened and perpetually unsafe. As an adult, this protective, trauma induced armor that I&#39;ve held for so long is something I no longer want to carry, and something I feel blocks myself and all women from experiencing the safety that we truly crave and deserve.
These are my thoughts, hope you enjoy :) Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations'>https://redcircle.com/victorias-thoughts/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Lately I've been thinking a lot about this masculine shield I have that I accepted for a lot of my life as just part of my personality. As I get more honest with myself, I realize that it is a shield I've put up for 10+ years because I felt threatened ...

Lately I've been thinking a lot about this masculine shield I have that I accepted for a lot of my life as just part of my personality. As I get more honest with myself, I realize that it is a shield I've put up for 10+ years because I felt threatened and perpetually unsafe. As an adult, this protective, trauma induced armor that I've held for so long is something I no longer want to carry, and something I feel blocks myself and all women from experiencing the safety that we truly crave and deserve.
These are my thoughts, hope you enjoy :)

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The Masculine Shield: why we carry it as women, and why we should put it down