Simone went from crickets at the launch of her first three product lines… booked out with a waitlist for custom pieces, sought out to be on the cover of a magazine, and stocked in stores across the US, including Hollywood and New York.

"How?" You might ask...

It had nothing to do with working harder.

And it had nothing to do with a magical marketing strategy or hiring PR.

It had everything to do with where she gave herself permission to go both within herself, and then out into the world.

It’s rarely the outer world holding us back from the incredible things we desire to create and share (even if it feels like it)… it’s much more often the voices in our head that tell us what we can and can’t do that cause the downfall of our dreams.

In this raw, honest interview, Simone Pansino generously shares what it was really like to launch her first product lines, what was really going on in her head when things didn’t go as she expected, and how she turned it all around to find not only her flow, but and abundance of opportunities she never could of dreamed would actually appear once she owned the very thing she most wanted to do but didn’t think would work.

Get your tissue box.

Pull out a pen to take notes when “ah-ha’s” hit.

And get ready to feel like anything is possible again.

The world doesn’t need another brilliant woman holding herself back. It needs you to stop hiding what only YOU are here to offer.

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LINKS TO FIND ALEX

Send a DM on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexh.co/

Apply for a free coaching discovery call: https://forms.gle/SDouCvrJJPXscaG56

Get Alex’ book, Be Unacceptable: https://beunacceptablebook.com/

Visit Alex’ YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@alexhco

Enquiries: hello@themodernwoman.academy

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Custom Jewellery Booking: https://www.wethestarsco.com/pages/custom-jewellery-enquiries

Feel blocked from embodying confidence in the way you market and sell yourself in your business? It has nothing to do with your “ability” to deliver and everything to do with what I’m about to share in this episode.

In this episode:

• The somatic session that exposed the shame I thought I'd already worked through – and the unconscious guilt list I found underneath it
• Why guilt makes you retreat or perform, and why your audience can FEEL the difference between performance and embodiment
• Why owning your "failure" makes you a more effective and more magnetic leader – not less
• The higher-perspective shift that brings back your certainty, conviction and unfuckablewith confidence in your work.

If you're a woman building a business who keeps feeling like you’re failing at truly representing and honouring the full value and magic you have to share in your business – this episode is for you, baby.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

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Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Stop Shoulding Yourself

02:25 Performance vs Connection

03:44 Why Shame Shows Up

06:48 The Guilt Inventory

09:10 Perfectionism Spiral

12:12 Higher Perspective Reset

18:26 Owning Your Process

21:01 Leader Not Perfect

23:19 Reflection and Wrap Up

Feeling behind in life or business? Like everyone else is ahead and you should have done more by now?

In this episode I share what actually happened to the people I used to compare myself to — the ones who "catapulted" past me, hit seven figures, built huge followings while I was still finding my feet. Spoiler: I went looking for them recently. They're gone. Vanished. Accounts closed, businesses dropped, nowhere to be found.

This isn't another "comparison is the thief of joy" pep talk. This is 12 years of watching people rise and disappear in the online business space, and what it taught me about why comparing your journey to anyone else's is built on completely false data — and why, if you truly saw your own path, you wouldn't trade it anyway.

In this episode:

• The client conversation that sparked this — "I met a guy who built seven businesses by 20... what have I done?"
• The woman who claimed herself with zero validation, skyrocketed to seven figures... then vanished for two years
• The "premium positioning" trap: why selling off hot air always comes crashing down
• Why 95% of you would NOT actually want Tony Robbins' life (and what that reveals about your dharma)
• The hero's journey: why your "flaws" are the treasure you're here to bring back
• What an astrologer told me about my own timeline — and why a slower path isn't a wrong one

If you're the woman who feels like she should be further along by now — this episode is going to set you free from that loop.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Why Comparison Hurts

02:07 Client Behind Feeling

04:17 Entrepreneur Journey Lessons

05:59 Chloe Success Then Vanish

14:44 Sarah Premium Mirage

22:27 Why Paths Differ

23:39 Dharma Not Tony

26:59 Timing Astrology Note

30:13 Hero’s Journey Framework

34:24 My Life Couldn't Fit

38:55 Childhood Trapped Roots

42:37 Final Takeaways

You look around, and it feels like everyone is selling the thing you sell. So why should you even bother? How can YOU be noticed? You don’t want to add the noise anyway.

Here's the trap: trying to fit in is the exact thing that drops you into the sea of competition.

This isn't another "find your niche" episode, or your USP, making you even more anxious about “all that competition” - in this episode I’m going to show you how to eliminate any sense of “competition” entirely.

In this episode:

• Why making your offer more "acceptable" guarantees you stay in competition
• The client who took herself out of the race entirely with one shift — not in strategy, in ownership
• The edgy money framework I scrapped overnight out of fear, and what it cost me
• How creating from your turn-on doesn't just differentiate you — it unlocks your genius and makes visibility effortless
• Why the work that feels unviable is usually your most magnetic

If you've been quietly suppressing the most alive part of your work so you’re not “rejected”, this is the episode that gives it back to you.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Standing Out Today

01:26 Jewellery Story Lesson

02:52 Category Of One

07:15 My Unique Method

12:52 Signature Programs

16:41 Purpose Behind Products

22:11 Survival Brain Fear

25:44 Create From Turn On

27:57 Edgy Idea Regret

31:04 Owning Your Message

34:08 Book And Wrap Up

Real self-love isn't affirmations or forcing yourself to feel beautiful — it's learning to embrace the parts of you that you reject.

You catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror and feel disgust. You judge what you create. You quietly reject the parts of you that aren't perfect, in control, or attractive — and then wonder why you can't access your creativity or your flow.

This isn't a "look in the mirror and tell yourself you're beautiful" episode. It's a completely different way of understanding self-love — through wholeness, and through learning to love even the part of you that does the rejecting.

If you've done all the self-love "work" and still catch yourself in self-judgment, this is the episode that will completely change your relationship with yourself.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 What Self Love Really Is

01:54 A Body Image Trigger

02:56 Embracing The Rejected Parts

05:02 Self Love Fuels Creation

08:29 Ego Concepts And Judgment

09:50 Judging Others Mirrors You

10:44 Loving The Inner Critic

11:51 Morning Self Love Practice

15:19 Divine Mother Visualization

18:01 Apply It To Your Creations

18:55 Closing And Share This

The story you tell yourself to feel safe is the same story cutting you off from your business, your creativity, and your turn-on.

You put something vulnerable out into the world — a launch, a post, your real heart — and it doesn't land the way you hoped. And quietly, without even noticing, you shut down. You tell yourself you don't care, you withdraw, you hold your full expression back. You justify it to yourself with a convenient “story” you construct.

This isn't another episode on mindset or confidence hacks. It's a raw, real-time breakdown of how a protective story forms, how it disconnects you, and how to actually drop it — told through what happened at a singing workshop that cracked Alex wide open.

In this episode;

• Get this full learning experience through the lens of the singing workshop Alex attended, how her “protective story” came in and what she had to do to drop it.
• Why your protective story always disconnects you from your business and the people you're here to serve
• The offhand comment about her singing at six years old that shaped decades of shutting down
• What "let it bleed" actually means — and why feeling the raw wound brings your energy back
• The link between dropping the story and your creative life force returning

If you're building a business that's truly yours and you keep catching yourself shrinking, withdrawing, or going numb right when it matters most — this is the episode.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Tears and Breakthrough

02:42 Ego Stories in Business

06:05 Singing Shame Origin

10:58 Choosing the Workshop

13:46 Solo Singing Trigger

18:07 Final Circle Shutdown

28:38 Crying It Out at Home

34:15 Let It Bleed Practice

41:28 Past Wound Example

48:02 Open Heart Integration

55:17 Closing Thoughts and Next Episode

Most women think going "feminine" in business means going passive. It doesn't — and trying to run your business from constant masculine energy is exactly what's burning you out.

If you're a woman whose work depends on your creativity, your wisdom, or your artistry — pushing harder is not getting you further. In this episode, I'm sharing 5 simple, practical ways to run your business from feminine energy without losing your drive, ambition, or momentum. These aren't conceptual. There are things you can do today.

This isn't a soft "just slow down" episode. This is about understanding why feminine energy is actually a more effective business strategy for women than the masculine hustle model — and the 5 specific shifts that change how you source your energy, your ideas, and your results.

In this episode:

• Why your creativity (not your hours worked) is what actually generates your results
• The story of how I left my engineering job — and the moment of realisation that changed everything
• How to downregulate your nervous system so you can actually access your genius
• Why needing to know how it's going to happen is keeping you in masculine and out of magnetism
• The single shift you can make to every task today that brings you into feminine energy
• The mind-bender of "don't do as much as you possibly can" (and why this works better)

If you're tired of grinding, terrified of going passive, and ready for a third option — this is the episode.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Feminine vs Hustle

01:15 Creativity Creates Results

04:38 Receptivity Not Passivity

05:41 Lead With Desire

06:10 Engineering Exit Story

13:02 Logic and AI Trap

17:47 Downregulate Nervous System

21:02 Create Spaciousness

24:30 Release Need To Know

26:30 Do It Pleasurably

31:28 Do Less Better

34:21 Wrap Up and Next Steps

You’ve tried saying “no” more. You've tried rest days on the weekend. You've tried "just getting past this one busy period." And yet here you are again, sick of hearing yourself say “I'm burnt out, I'm overwhelmed, I can't stop”. In this episode, I'm naming the actual root cause of entrepreneur burnout — the one nobody in the productivity or work-life balance space is talking about — and walking you through the exact 4-step process I use with my Feminine Mystery School clients to break the pattern.

This isn't another burnout recovery episode about time management or boundaries. This is about what's happening in your nervous system and your ego that's keeping you stuck in the cycle of feeling permanently behind, no matter how much you take off your plate.

In this episode:

• Why every "lighten the load" strategy you've tried has failed (and the belief in not-enoughness driving it)
• The mirage your brain keeps dangling — why hitting the next income level or follower count won't fix the burnout
• How operating from threat physically cuts you off from your creative genius and intuition
• The difference between a lot going on and being in stress — most high-achieving women can't tell them apart anymore
• The 3-step process to break the cycle in real time and get back into your turned-on, magnetic creative state

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Burnout Loop Explained

00:44 Why Load Shifting Fails

03:31 Not Enough Belief

05:56 The Dangling Carrot Trap

07:21 Everything Becomes Urgent

09:39 Stress Kills Genius

18:08 Collapse Is Not Rest

20:52 Step One Name The Threats

23:26 Step Two Make Peace

32:44 Step Three Follow Turn On

40:31 Take The Next Desire Step

41:00 Wrap Up Next Resources

In this episode, I share a pattern I keep catching — in myself, in my clients, in a recent conversation with a friend — where you start from genuine inspiration and devotion, and then somewhere in the action-taking, you lose the thread completely. You go from connected and alive to rigid, stressed and purely calculated. And you don't even notice it's happened until everything feels hard.

• The moment I realised my YouTube excitement had turned into a stressed, controlling spiral
• Why "how do I get more people into this" is the most turned-off energy you can bring to your business
• What it actually feels like when you've disconnected from your creation — and the signs most women miss
• The shift that brings you back every time (and it's not more strategy)

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Calculated vs Devoted

01:00 Create From The Heart

04:15 Devotion As A Practice

07:01 Masculine Feminine Flow

09:51 When Logic Takes Over

13:37 YouTube Analytics Spiral

19:28 Structures Without Rigidity

23:39 Reconnect To The Source

26:10 Friend Case Study Shift

30:08 Surrender Control Avoid Burnout

31:30 Tools To Return To Devotion

33:27 Wrap Up And Invitation

You say you want visibility. But every time you go to put yourself out there fully, your nervous system shuts down.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reason so many women struggle to consistently share themselves, build their brand, speak their truth, and allow themselves to be seen… AND exactly HOW to create nervous system safety to be seen.

Because this isn’t actually a content problem. It’s a visibility wound.

Inside this episode:

• Why visibility feels genuinely unsafe to your nervous system
• The hidden connection between childhood conditioning and online self-expression
• The real meaning of vulnerability (and what most people get wrong)
• How to unhook comparison and the painful retreat if you feel rejected or ignored
• How to dissolve self-consciousness
• The secret key for women that no one talks about

This episode is for the woman who craves getting her work out into the world on a might bigger level but knows her system is holding her back from being fully visible… if that’s you, let’s go, baby! See you inside.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Welcome and Theme

01:22 Why Being Seen Feels Scary

02:30 My Visibility Journey

06:26 Childhood Roots of Hiding

12:03 Why Women Feel the Pressure

13:50 Step One Self Validation

21:47 Step Two Vulnerability

32:03 Step Three Connect to Turn On

36:10 Step Four Process Triggers

39:30 Bonus Safe Sisterhood Support

43:09 Wrap Up and New Program

In this episode, I share a raw and honest reflection on my journey with receiving 1:1 coaching nonstop over the past 5 years… and why I stopped two weeks ago.

This is real, honest chat about my journey before I invested in long-term 1:1 coaching, and how I made the transition into having non-stop coaching for the past 5 years… until two weeks ago.

I also break down the deeper truth about investing in yourself, why most people hold themselves back, and what it actually takes to create the life and business you know you’re here for.

Inside this episode:

• Why waiting for your business to “pay for it” is keeping you stuck
• The real reason you place conditions on investing in yourself
• What mentorship has actually given me (beyond money or results)
• Why backing yourself fully is the shift that changes everything
• I’ve spent over $100k with this coach — was it worth it??

If you’ve been hesitating, waiting, or unsure when to hire a coach (or questioning and getting in your head about how much money you should actually spend on coaching), this episode is a must listen!

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Why This Episode Now

01:03 Two Mentorships Wrap Up

01:59 Selective About Coaches

03:18 The Weird Ending Tease

05:01 Personal Development Backstory

07:10 Money Blocks Around Coaching

10:51 Coaching Industry Hot Air

13:39 Finding William Whitecloud

17:22 From Courses to Coaching

19:37 First Framework Coaching

21:10 Going All In On Training

25:49 Investing In William One to One

28:18 How William Leveled Up Her Work

33:55 Repeating Trainings Goes Deeper

34:50 Trainings Need Repetition

36:35 Why Coaching Matters

37:44 One System vs Patchwork

38:37 Success Block Contraction

42:27 Reclaiming Inner Authority

44:04 Building a Feeling Process

46:36 Integration After Launch

52:20 Funding Mentorship Mindset

59:21 Completing With William

01:06:19 Final Choose Yourself

In this episode, I dive into the deeper truth behind people pleasing, how it shows up in micro ways every day in business and on social media… and why it’s not actually about being kind, but about trying to control how others perceive you.

Through real-life examples from my own interactions (including a kinda spicy one!), I show you how subtle and unconscious this pattern can be and how it quietly shapes your communication, decisions, and boundaries.

Inside this episode:

• Why people pleasing is actually a form of control and manipulation
• The hidden fear driving your need to be liked, understood, or approved of
• How over-explaining and over-giving keep you stuck and drained
• What it looks like to choose your truth — even when it feels uncomfortable
• How to stop managing other people’s perceptions and start being real

If you’ve ever felt like you need to explain yourself, keep the peace, or make sure everyone feels good—this episode will change the way you see it.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

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Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Welcome and Theme

00:49 Creating From Whats Alive

01:57 People Pleasing Roots

03:21 Social Media Pleasing Patterns

05:54 Recent Triggering Situation

08:26 Gym Reply and Queen Vibes

10:35 Power Dynamics Explained

14:52 Receiving Without Deflecting

18:37 Replying Without Owing

24:46 Slave Offer and Exploration

27:32 Aftercare and Overgiving

30:36 Clear Boundaries No Explaining

33:49 Humiliation Request Check-In

35:29 Realizing Zero Desire

38:02 People Pleasing Aftermath

41:00 People Pleasing Is Control

45:06 Gaslighting Vibes and Validation

49:42 Owning Your Truth Anyway

53:04 Another Date Red Flag

56:03 Business Boundaries Practice

58:36 Emailing and Social Replies

01:02:11 Permission Not to Please

In this episode, I break down what it actually means to “receive” life and why most people are unconsciously resisting it, without even realising.

Through real-time examples from my own day (including things not going to plan, feeling triggered, and navigating frustration), I show you the difference between resisting what’s happening vs receiving and how this directly impacts your ability to create what you want.

This is one of the most important shifts you can make if you want to stop feeling thrown off, like you have to do everything yourself, unsupported or blocked by life.

Inside this episode:

• The subtle (but powerful) difference between receiving vs resisting
• Why things “not going to plan” only derail you if you let them
• How your ego creates stories that keep you stuck and reactive
• What it actually looks like to use everything that happens as fuel
• A simple way to move forward — no matter what’s happening around you

If you’ve ever felt like your day, your mood, or external circumstances keep throwing you off, this episode will completely shift how you see it.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 New Recording Setup

01:14 Upload Disaster Story

04:36 Recovery And Lessons

06:40 Switching Recording Workflow

07:27 What It Means To Receive

08:18 Morning Plans Go Sideways

10:09 Resistance Versus Receiving

13:44 Triggers And Ego Stories

17:14 Using What Is To Create

25:13 Turn On Code Explained

29:24 Everything Happens For You

29:59 Life As Raw Clay

31:14 Ego Stories And Triggers

33:56 Victim Attachment

36:01 Receiving Saves Energy

37:23 Wrist Injury Wake Up Call

41:21 Rehab As Opportunity

43:45 Stop Resisting Reality

47:31 Receiving Versus Resisting

53:26 Acro Villa Perspective Shift

57:38 Wrap Up And Call To Action

After fracturing my wrist, I was reminded in a very real way that there is a deeper intelligence at play — one that knows how to bring things together far beyond what we can consciously figure out. This episode is about learning how to work with that… instead of exhausting yourself trying to do it all alone.

Inside this episode:

• Why trying to control everything is creating stress, burnout, and resistance
• The subtle difference between doing your part vs trying to do everything
• How to shift from force and over-effort into flow and co-creation
• What my fractured wrist revealed about trust, healing, and creation
• How to start letting life support you (without becoming passive or avoidant)

If you’ve been feeling like it’s all on you—or like you’re doing everything but nothing is working—this episode will open up a completely different way of creating.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Welcome Back From Bali

00:17 New House New Setup

02:28 Finding The Episode Theme

03:36 Control Burnout And Trust

07:04 Creative Cycles Not Hustle

12:26 Big Fruiting Season Recap

14:05 Leaning Into The Feminine

18:03 Thailand Wrist Fracture Lesson

21:54 Greater Intelligence In Healing

26:23 Letting Life Come Together

28:49 Effortless Alignment

29:42 Wrist Healing Lesson

30:16 Body Intelligence Basics

30:58 Poop Analogy Setup

31:52 Pushing Versus Surrender

35:31 Creation Without Control

37:55 Do Your Part

39:56 Bali Villa Manifestation

44:38 Clients Remember Support

46:50 Let Go Reflection

49:05 Next Episode Tease

51:55 Share And Review

In this episode, Alex dismantles exactly what’s happening when you’re trying to create, but nothing feels right, and you can’t seem to write, speak or do the thing you’ve planned to… and exactly what to do to come back into your heart & find your authentic ALIVENESS again.

Drawing from her lived creative process, Feminine Alchemy, and the principles behind Be Unacceptable, this episode explores:

• Why forcing yourself to be somewhere you’re not disconnects you from your truth & turns into performance mode - which feel horrible!
• Why feeling blocked doesn’t mean you’re off-track — and what it’s really showing you.
• The role of devotion, follow-through, and self-trust in real creative momentum.
• How power is reclaimed not by feeling “on top the world again” — it’s claimed by THIS [listen to find out].

You don’t need to fix yourself or learn how to override your ‘bleh’ feelings to be powerful and creative. 

You need to know how to follow the path back to what’s alive and be brave enough to step onto it. That’s what this episode does.

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Instagram — @beunacceptable

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YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

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In this episode, Alex dismantles the illusion of permission and reveals why waiting for recognition, success, confidence, followers, qualifications, or approval is the very thing keeping you stuck.

Drawing from Be Unacceptable and Code Four: You Are the Permission You’ve Been Waiting For, this conversation exposes:

• Why no one is coming to give you permission
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• How acting “smaller than you are” is actually an unconscious performance
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• Why your circumstances don’t change before you step up—they change because you do
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• The moment everything shifts when you stop waiting and start owning your authority
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This is a call to stop postponing your life.

You don’t need permission to be who you already are.

You just need to claim it. 

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Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

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Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

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Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

Every decision you make answers this — whether you realise it or not.

In this episode, Alex breaks down the core question behind confusion, self-doubt, and feeling stuck: are you making your life about safety, approval, and security… or about living your true nature and purpose?

Drawing from Code One of Alex’ new book, Be Unacceptable, The Holy Hot Service of Self-Worship, this episode reveals why trying to “secure life first” keeps you in conflict, and how everything becomes simple once you choose what your life is actually for.

This is a foundational episode for women ready to stop straddling two paths—and fully choose their own.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

FIND DARE

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

Ok, here is the long-awaited next podcast episode — YES, I WROTE MY BOOK! And had a book launch, and launched it on Amazon, and hit best seller in one of my categories within 24hrs (without doing any Amazon launch tactic), alongside completing and launching the Dare Silk Collection, Dare Elevate Collection & Dare Glass Pleasure Collection… all at the same event.

Listen to this episode to hear about the process and exactly what’s happened in the last 3 months in my last episode… it’s been a lot!

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

🍆 FIND DARE

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

I’ve been talking about writing this book for years now… and yet here we are, two years later, and it still isn’t finished. In this episode, I take you deep, deep, deep behind the scenes (of my consciousness) into the real reasons I’ve been avoiding it.

This is not a normal podcast episode - in this episode I take you along with me through my own process of uncovering why I haven’t been writing the book. It’s 100% raw, real, bts.

It isn’t just about writing a book - it’s about what we all avoid, what we fear being seen for, and the ways we hold ourselves back from our own creative genius. My hope is that by sharing my process in such a vulnerable way, it sparks something inside of you, too.

I hope you love this one. 💖

👉 WHERE TO FIND ALEX & GET MORE

• Find me on Insta and DM me here @alexh.co.
• Subscribe to my YouTube channel @alexisharvey.
• Visit my website for my latest offerings here themoderwoman.academy

In this raw and honest update, I share the next layer of what I’m working through in my weight loss/ health journey - and what I’ve been learning (of which there are two main things that I share in this ep!).

For years, I’ve oscillated between two modes: total food freedom, where I feel light, radiant, and intuitive with eating… and the dark spiral of compulsion, emotional eating, and shame.

This year, I’ve been facing this pattern head-on and sharing about what I’m learning through this process - which has been sooooooo rich. Omg.

In this episode, I dive into:

⚡️ What shifted when I decided to sit with the unbearable sensation instead of numbing it with food

⚡️ The truth about programs and patterns that run our lives if we don’t stop them

⚡️ Why your results in body, business, and life are always a direct match for who you are “being”

⚡️ The crucial difference between doing something for a temporary result and embodying it as your new identity

Whether your struggle is with food, business consistency, or self-sabotage, this episode will show you how to recognise the unconscious programs running you - and how to finally liberate yourself from them.

👉 WHERE TO FIND ALEX & GET MORE

• Find me on Insta and DM me here @alexh.co.
• Subscribe to my YouTube channel @alexisharvey.
• Visit my website for my latest offerings here themoderwoman.academy