• EP44: Part 2 of SEALFIT Self-Mastery, with SEAL Commander Mark Divine

    Mark Divine (born July 14, 1963) is an American author, podcaster, and retired Navy SEAL Commander.[1][2] His military service spans 20 years (1989–2011) where he oversaw various missions around the world including Asia Pacific, Africa, Bahrain, and Iraq[3] He retired at the rank of Commander in 2011. Mark is founder of the personal development program at SEALFIT.com, and author of numerous books and programs on personal excellence.



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    28m - Jan 2, 2023
  • Part 1 of SEALFIT Self-Mastery, with SEAL Commander Mark Divine

    Mark Divine (born July 14, 1963) is an American author, podcaster, and retired Navy SEAL Commander.[1][2] His military service spans 20 years (1989–2011) where he oversaw various missions around the world including Asia Pacific, Africa, Bahrain, and Iraq[3] He retired at the rank of Commander in 2011. Mark is founder of the personal development program at SEALFIT.com, and author of numerous books and programs on personal excellence.

    SHOW NOTES: - Your belief is a powerful force and attracts (like with success) or repels (like sharks), if you're being true to yourself | - Mark acquired NavySEALS.com in the mid-90's and used it to help prepare clients in their physical, mental, and emotional lives especially to get ready for SEAL training | - His mentoring process increased successful output of SEAL candidates by 5%, a huge impact on the program...but then a bigger business competitor swooped in and took it away | - That was a crushing blow, but served as an evolutionary moment for Mark's growth both personally and professionally | - Use every experience in life to make your life and contribution better.



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    31m - Dec 19, 2022
  • EP42: The Twelve Tasks of Total Self Mastery

    Host Rob DuBois, retired Navy SEAL and founder of Impact Actual

    SHOW NOTES: Rob DuBois takes you "back to the future" with the Twelve Tasks of Impact Actual - the "dirty dozen" life practices that can take you from stuck to unchained. It all begins with a conscious commitment to growth: 1. Commit To Growth; 2. Build Your Body; 3. Mold Your Mind; 4. Heal Your Heart; 5. Search Your Soul; 6. Declare Your "Done"; 7. Clarify Your Condition; 8. Highlight Your Gaps; 9. Observe Your Arena; 10. Orient Your Options; 11. Select Your Path; and 12. Execute Your Mission



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    45m - Dec 5, 2022
  • EP 41: A Combatives Expert Marine Veteran on Protecting Yourself and Others, with Marcquez Henderson

    Marcques Henderson is a renowned public speaker and retired Marine Corps officer who completed multiple combat deployments during his 23-year career. During his service, he traversed 4 continents, working with and learning from various multinational militaries. An active practitioner of jiu-jitsu, kajunkenbo and kali, he has over 21 years of experience instructing martial arts. He also has seven years of experience working in the nightclub industry. The Temple University student-athlete has a bachelor’s degree in Business Administration with a concentration in International Business and Legal Studies. He is certified by the National Organization for Victim Assistance as a Level I Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Victim Advocate. He is further certified as a High-Intensity Tactical Training Instructor, Non-Lethal Weapons Instructor, and Trainer in Tony Blauer’s SPEAR: Personal Defense Readiness system.

    Marcques HENDERSON Part 1 Podcast Show Notes – | www.AzariahMay.org | - “Fear rarely works to our advantage.” It usually leads to poor decisions and inferior outcomes. | - I saw things as a child that no young person should have to experience. I have always been concerned about protecting the defenseless. |- I started boxing as a young teen, and have been active in the fighting styles for my whole life. I was one of the first Marines into the USMC’s “MCMAP” hand-to-hand combatives program. | - I became an advocate in our UVA program for Marines who have suffered sexual violence. These include many more men than some people would assume. Some of the men have been targeted by civilians in the community, including gangs, who want to make an example of a military guy. | - The Azariah May Academy, named after my kids, is a full-spectrum personal protection school, encompassing economic, psychological, and other focus areas in addition to basic “self-defense” techniques. | - We say Personal Protection rather than “self-defense,” because the former conveys the sense that keeping yourself and others safe is a proactive, comprehensive lifestyle. It’s better to prevent violence than to have to react to it. | - At Azariah May, we don’t just teach fighting techniques. We can’t capitalize on someone else’s pain. We want to help people understand how they’ve contributed to their past violent experiences and prevent them in the future. | - Violence has become mainstream. It used to be limited to untrained “bad guys” using it against innocent victims, and trained protectors using it to stop bad guys, but with the explosion of “mixed martial arts” schools anyone – including bad guys – can become trained to high levels. | - Teen dating violence has become a huge problem. Boys today don’t all know how to behave. | - Social media makes many people feel more brave and disrespectful than they really should be.



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    39m - Nov 28, 2022
  • EP 40: Breaking Your Unhealthy Habits by Understanding Their Causes, with Gina Worful

    SHOW NOTES: Gina Worful PC Notes | - GinaWorful.com | - Started as dietician, but kept seeing clients didn't succeed at weight or "bad" habits by calories alone | - It's much more than calories in - calories out | - We have to discover WHY we RESIST a healthy diet | - Gina had to walk through a sense of personal failure to better understand theirs | - Learned to dig into the root of behaviors (i.e. smoking - REAL goal is "a moment of peace") | - Program is called "Mastering Mindfulness" | - Emotions compel decisions | - We tend to assume we "lack willpower" | - Mindfulness creates Self-Trust



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    47m - Oct 31, 2022
  • EP 39: Epigenetics and Functional Nutrition, with Cee McDermott

    Cee McDermott, Epigenetic Coach and Functional Nutritionist, is at the forefront of precision lifestyle coaching for optimized wellness and longevity. In-depth genetic assessments, personalized guidance, and cellular-level support remove the ambiguity of a “one-size-fits-all” approach to health and replaces it with action steps specified to the bio-individual needs of each client for enhanced living. Cee is a Kundalini yoga teacher, herbalist, holistic health practitioner, and author of the book Your DNA, Your Life. Cee can be found at www.ceemcdermott.com

    Highlights:

    • 99% of your health and wellness is in your hands
    • There are real genetic "predispositions" for such common things as preferred bedtime, athleticism, and appropriate nutrition
    • Alcoholism and other addiction can be tracked through the genes
    • Cee's new book is "Your DNA, Your Life"


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    46m - Oct 17, 2022
  • EP 38: Part 2 - The Toughest Mission: Surviving Leukemia and Lung Transplants, with Navy SEAL Justin Legg

    Justin Legg is a retired Navy SEAL Officer. He graduated from the U.S. Naval Academy in 2000 with a B.S. in Systems Engineering. He was a member of Basic Underwater Demolition / SEAL Training (BUD/S) Class 234 and became a plank owner (founding member) of SEAL Team SEVEN. While with SEAL Team SEVEN he deployed to the Middle East twice and participated in combat operations in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom. After returning from Iraq, he transferred to Special Boat Team TWENTY-TWO in Mississippi, where he served as a Task Unit Commander and the Team Training Officer. In early 2006 Justin was diagnosed with a severe form of Leukemia. Over the next 10 years Justin endured over 75 treatments of chemotherapy and radiation, a bone marrow stem cell transplant, an immune disorder respiratory failure, a double-lung transplant. | While he was going through his medical adventures, LCDR Legg fought to stay on active duty performing various duties at Naval Special Warfare Group TWO and FOUR, SEAL Team TWO, and even rehabilitated himself well enough to become an operational SEAL Platoon Commander at SEAL Team EIGHT for a short while in between the transplants. Justin medically retired from the Navy in 2012. Justin became the first, and still the only, double lung-transplantee in the world to climb Denali in Alaska. Justin completed his master’s degree in International Relations from the Johns Hopkins School of Advanced International Studies (SAIS) in Washington D.C. H presently works as a Renewable Energy consultant for the Navy’s Resilient Energy Program.

    3:44 Putting aside you know, the real world factors of Well, the thing will be rotten before I ever get anywhere near close to it. But if you could do it, without the elephant rotting away, you got to do it one bite at a time. It's gonna take you a long time. You don't worry about the size of the elephant or how long it's going to take you to eat it. You just start eating, some parts are going to be good.

    6:06 Well, I actually I'm still here. So I think I have pretty good luck. And then I've had the good luck of getting through this, because this prepared me for the next thing. And I've had the good luck of getting through that because it prepared me for the next thing.

    14:33 Trying to keep humor in the situation really helps. You know, there's been plenty of studies that talk about levity actually helping your health. Yes. So yes, laughter actually does produce your measurable health benefits. Not only physical health but mental health. I think having mental health oftentimes When you're in dire straits, where your physical health is failing, your mental health will pull you through the day.

    21:28 in this story of the Zen Master, this teaches you to look at the future for the possibilities that may come regardless of what you do. But it also teaches you to try your best to influence the possibilities of what may come and not judge what the future may hold, based off of today's predictions.

    37:50 I think the biggest thing is don't ever let somebody else tell you that your goal is wrong or unimportant. Your goal is your goal that that's all that matters to you.



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    47m - Oct 10, 2022
  • EP 37: Part 1 - The Toughest Mission: Surviving Leukemia and Lung Transplants, with Navy SEAL Justin Legg

    Justin Legg is a retired Navy SEAL Officer. He graduated from the U.S. Naval Academy in 2000 with a B.S. in Systems Engineering. He was a member of Basic Underwater Demolition / SEAL Training (BUD/S) Class 234 and became a plank owner (founding member) of SEAL Team SEVEN. While with SEAL Team SEVEN he deployed to the Middle East twice and participated in combat operations in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom. After returning from Iraq, he transferred to Special Boat Team TWENTY-TWO in Mississippi, where he served as a Task Unit Commander and the Team Training Officer. In early 2006 Justin was diagnosed with a severe form of Leukemia. Over the next 10 years Justin endured over 75 treatments of chemotherapy and radiation, a bone marrow stem cell transplant, an immune disorder respiratory failure, a double-lung transplant. While he was going through his medical adventures, LCDR Legg fought to stay on active duty performing various duties at Naval Special Warfare Group TWO and FOUR, SEAL Team TWO, and even rehabilitated himself well enough to become an operational SEAL Platoon Commander at SEAL Team EIGHT for a short while in between the transplants. Justin medically retired from the Navy in 2012. Justin became the first, and still the only, double lung-transplantee in the world to climb Denali in Alaska. Justin completed his master’s degree in International Relations from the Johns Hopkins School of Advanced International Studies (SAIS) in Washington D.C. He presently works as a Renewable Energy consultant for the Navy’s Resilient Energy Program.

    1:43 So we distinguish ourselves at impact with impact coaching, we talk about rather than personal development, we talked about whole person development, the whole person, body, mind, heart and soul. And that fifth power, the done zone, healthy boundaries. 6:59 I did have connections to some members of the royal family and they are a family. That's that's who they are. At the end of the day. And with all of the problems that our family has, with all of the complications and the infighting and all of that just done on a grand scale in the public eye. And it's very, it's a very strange existence to contemplate. 17:24 It's that whole ability to have conversations is a lost art, I think ability to have healthy debate ability to actually enter into conversations with someone with a different opinion or someone who doesn't fit the box.19:06 I do think that the pace that we live is one of the most damaging things for us right now. We live so fast, and we're trying to get to the next conversational, we're listening, just so the person can stop talking. So we can say what we're trying to say. And therefore there's this kind of like, we're not really listening. We just want to get our voice heard. 23:00 And the irony for me is like, all of my work is based on complex systems evolution. And yet to market that, technically speaking, I should like reduce, reduce that into the reductionist philosophy of how to do an Instagram post or a reel or a meme or anything that's like 10 seconds worth of content. And it doesn't work.



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    49m - Oct 3, 2022
  • EP 36: Trauma, Holistic Health, and Somatic Intervention with Victoria Fenton

    https://victoriafenton.net/ - Many people don't even know they have a life's mission. - We see growing as "aging"...but it's always a chance to be growing. - This is related to the two ways of seeing the world: Growth or Fixed mindsets. - The human life is a complete systems and somatics provide a way to understand our inner life. - Somatics describes any practice that uses the mind-body connection to help you survey your internal self and listen to signals your body sends about areas of pain, discomfort, or imbalance. - Trauma teaches us to "control" for safety, but that excessive control harms us. - Victoria's coaching provides a safe place to "be everything messy."

    1:43 So we distinguish ourselves at impact with impact coaching, we talk about rather than personal development, we talked about whole person development, the whole person, body, mind, heart and soul. And that fifth power, the done zone, healthy boundaries.

    6:59 I did have connections to some members of the royal family and they are a family. That's that's who they are. At the end of the day. And with all of the problems that our family has, with all of the complications and the infighting and all of that just done on a grand scale in the public eye. And it's very, it's a very strange existence to contemplate.

    17:24 It's that whole ability to have conversations is a lost art, I think ability to have healthy debate ability to actually enter into conversations with someone with a different opinion or someone who doesn't fit the box.

    19:06 I do think that the pace that we live is one of the most damaging things for us right now. We live so fast, and we're trying to get to the next conversational, we're listening, just so the person can stop talking. So we can say what we're trying to say. And therefore there's this kind of like, we're not really listening. We just want to get our voice heard.

    23:00 And the irony for me is like, all of my work is based on complex systems evolution. And yet to market that, technically speaking, I should like reduce, reduce that into the reductionist philosophy of how to do an Instagram post or a reel or a meme or anything that's like 10 seconds worth of content. And it doesn't work.



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    56m - Sep 26, 2022
  • EP 035: Part 2 - National Security through Better Dialogue, with Safehouse.Global founder Jeff Carr

    Jeffrey Carr has been an internationally-known cybersecurity adviser, author, and researcher since 2006. He invented REDACT, the world’s first global R&D database and search engine to assist companies in identifying which intellectual property is of value to foreign governments. He is the founder and organizer of Suits & Spooks (now Safe House Global), a “collision” event to discuss hard challenges in the national security space. | Jeffrey has contracted with the CIA’s Open Source Center’s Eurasia Desk as a Russia SME (2010), and has provided cyber intelligence briefings to the DIA, the FBI, and the Chief of Naval Operations Strategic Study Group. He has been a frequent lecturer at the U.S. Air Force Institute of Technology and the U.S. Army War College, and was a technical peer reviewer for Tallinn 2.0, the second edition of the Tallinn Manual on the International Law Applicable To Cyber Operations.

    - The first S&S gathering, ten years ago, was based on the concern that social media was becoming a dangerous tool for disinformation...how right that was | - With September's event we're focusing on Ukraine's defense against the Russian invasion | - Gazprom, the Russian oil company, has had at least three unexplained explosions in recent months...this is a perfect example of "multi-modal warfare" | - Adversaries no longer require physical access to damage the enemy's resources | - "Robot surgery" has caused many more injuries and deaths than the medical industry is talking about...what if these basic malfunctions could be weaponized?

    00:34 We have an interesting balancing, you know, there's checks and balances baked into the system of liberty, freedom, freedom of capitalism or freedom or controls in a capitalized a capitalistic controlled system like you're describing, the Soviets discovered that central control is extremely cumbersome, but effective control. And in the end, you know, they collapse from the weight of trying to control everything.

    4:07 The US doesn't have a choice anymore, and hasn't had a choice for a number of years, where it must go outside of his borders, to hire talent.

    5:04 We have not emphasized science and math, in our educational system here, and other countries have. So we're relying on those individuals with those skills from outside of the US. Same with getting the necessary components, right to supply our, our products, or having even having products made overseas, that for whatever reason, you know, we can't afford the labor or we can't afford some other aspect of it.

    10:26 There are costs to that distrust, massive costs downstream, we're going to find we're finding already, no man is an island. This is fundamentally the same as interpersonal relationships.

    19:41 Your news feed should have a mix of points of view. So that it gets you to think well, how can two things be true? Well, probably it cannot. So how do you discern what's real and what isn't? And because in that happens when you have a variety of points To view, on the other hand, social media does not do that it does the exact opposite.

    25:06 I think it has to come down to individuals making informed choices about what they do and why they do it. And what the repercussions are if they don't do it. And then hopefully they'll, you know, make the right choice.



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    36m - Sep 19, 2022
  • EP 034: Part 1 - National Security through Better Dialogue, with Safehouse.Global founder Jeff Carr

    Jeffrey Carr has been an internationally-known cybersecurity adviser, author, and researcher since 2006. He invented REDACT, the world’s first global R&D database and search engine to assist companies in identifying which intellectual property is of value to foreign governments. He is the founder and organizer of Suits & Spooks (now Safe House Global), a “collision” event to discuss hard challenges in the national security space. | Jeffrey has contracted with the CIA’s Open Source Center’s Eurasia Desk as a Russia SME (2010), and has provided cyber intelligence briefings to the DIA, the FBI, and the Chief of Naval Operations Strategic Study Group. He has been a frequent lecturer at the U.S. Air Force Institute of Technology and the U.S. Army War College, and was a technical peer reviewer for Tallinn 2.0, the second edition of the Tallinn Manual on the International Law Applicable To Cyber Operations.

    In intelligence we're always questioning our assumptions | - Critical thinking requires an understanding of the at least 60, distinct, "logical fallacies" humans tend to slip into | - Safehouse.Global was originally called "Suits and Spooks" | - Safehouse is a series of convocations designed to bring disparate voices to the table and improve shared understanding for better national security solutions | - It's only through expanding our view that we can recognize real threats to security...for example, the Chinese and American governments are both "experiments" in national structures - but ours is not working as effectively as theirs, in real time.

    1:32 We need to be a better people, we as human beings, we as Americans need to be more open minded more according to our ideals, the the idea of diversity, the idea of honoring dissent, discussing with respect debating things effectively. And that's where it's important to bring in different voices and different perspectives. So we'll be talking about an organization, a series of events that were formerly called suits and spooks.

    5:29 So, in order to help determine what's true, or what's, you know, objectively provable, you have to invite alternative views. That's the only way that that you'll be able to discover what's hiding behind your particular set of biases.

    20:18 So the system that we have in place for determining what is secure and and what is not secure is it's really, it's really never secure. It's only what degree of insecure Are you willing to accept?

    26:27 That's the price we paid. When we adopted the internet. And we adopted moving everything to the cloud, right? The benefit, the benefits are many. Downside, you're more vulnerable now than ever before.



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    30m - Sep 12, 2022
  • EP 033: Critical Thinking at a Critical Juncture in American History, with USMC Lt Col Brian "Noonan" McDermott

    Brian McDermott served 20 years as a Marine aviator retiring in 2016 as a Lieutenant Colonel. He deployed in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom, and Operation Enduring Freedom twice (one to Afghanistan, other to the Horn of Africa). Held various billets in safety, operations and maintenance, including as the Marine CH-53E Detachment Commander in the Horn of Africa region. His supporting establishment tours include Faculty Advisor and Naval Expeditionary Operations Course Director at the USMC Expeditionary Warfare School and as the Marine Corps University (MCU) Red Team Director after successful completion of the 9-week Red Team Leaders course at the U.S. Army University of Foreign Military and Cultural Studies (UFMCS). | He was also accredited by UFMCS in Jan 2016 as the only non-resident Red Team Instructor/Facilitator to designate Marines the USMC Military Occupational Specialty Red Team Member designation after successful completion of the rigorous UFMCS Red Team course requirements. Since his retirement from the Corps, Mr. McDermott has been employed by as a contractor at: National Geospatial Intelligence-Agency College in VA as a Critical Thinking Senior Instructor, Joint Improvised Threat Defeat Organization in VA as a Tactical Red Team Intelligence Analyst, with the Defense Threat Reduction Agency in VA as the Strategic Red Team Intelligence Analyst Lead, and a senior facilitator at the Office of the Director of National Intelligence in MD. | He currently works as a Solutions Architect for MOSAIC Technologies Group, LLC, and as a part-time Adjunct Professor at the MCU College of Distance Education and Training Continuing Education Program for an asynchronous on-line Red Team course he designed. He is also the founder and President of Red Teaming Solutions & Training, LLC. Finally, he is also an Advisory Board member at the Center for Advanced Red Teaming at the University of Albany, State University of New York (SUNY). | He was a contributor to the UFMCS Red Team Handbook v9.0, and interviewed by Bryce Hoffman as a USMC Red Team Subject Matter Expert (SME) for his book Red Teaming: How Your Business Can Conquer The Competition By Challenging Everything.

    4:03 This guest is a very close personal friend of mine. And I really admire his incredible ability to not only do the red teaming work that he'll talk about, and how you in in the audience can listen to can find ways to apply this critical thinking, alternative analysis and ways to look at the world through different lenses.

    26:22 I try not to overestimate my capabilities, by having respect, and better understanding how that other entity that other organizations, how they, as best I can, how they think, and how they prepare and do actions and stuff like that.

    27:26 It's like a QR fo quick reaction force for better thinking, using methods, using analytical techniques to think through a problem set and get better answers is never a bad thing. And empathy, being able to understand to perceive the other person or other organizations, other side's experience of the of the conflict, or another situation is not agreeing with it.

    39:04 So I love this quote, I've been capturing your you're taking notes on what you've said. You meant you made a conscious comment about have a better conversation.



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    54m - Sep 5, 2022
  • EP 032: Part 2 - A Life of Service and Sacrifice with Navy SEAL Captain Pete "Bullfrog" Wikul

    A Life of Service and Sacrifice with Navy SEAL Captain Pete "Bullfrog" Wikul, part 2.

    3:44 He said, P look, Time Magazine, we got the Nobel Peace Prize. I said, get out of here.

    5:05 But sometimes it's nice to know that the end thing of what we're doing is going to bring about peace. So we can go back home and, and drink beer around the campfire and prepare for the next fight. Because you need some peace in between there well, knowing that we live in a tumultuous, violent world, and probably war is not going away for the next 100 years or so.

    10:43 He's finger punching. This is really colonel and he's saying Now you listen here. You're a soldier, and I'm a soldier, and I'm not gonna let you kill women and children here today in this village. And I thought, great, you know, and you're almost thinking, Okay, we're gonna die today. You don't think that but it's somewhere way back in your head. And you're trying to think, Okay, we got to solve this problem.

    19:13 Peace is part of the continuum of war. I mean, they're intertwined because as soon as you liberate something, even a world war two or any other place, as soon as you live liberate a village, we now have a responsibility to try to bring them back to some sort of normalcy.

    22:40 It's not about devastation. It's about establishing security and stability.

    25:28 So my first rule was take care of your people, they're your most important assets.

    29:46 And even when you don't [win], you're the man in the arena, so always be proud that you are the man or you are the woman in the arena.



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    E32 - 35m - Aug 29, 2022
  • EP 031: Part 1 - A Life of Service and Sacrifice with Navy SEAL Captain Pete "Bullfrog" Wikul, part 1

    A Life of Service and Sacrifice with Navy SEAL Captain Pete "Bullfrog" Wikul, part 1.

    2:05 So rites of passage is something we missed today in the Xbox enabled generation kids can believe they're commandos because they can go to Amazon Prime and buy armor and, and get AR fifteens on the corner and go around acting like tough guys.

    3:17 There's no one best thing to be in the world as just being truly yourself as the best thing.

    10:58 I'm going to do a couple things. I want to be a jazz drummer. But in the meantime, I'm also going to help homeless veterans find a place to live and a job I still wanted to give a little bit back, although, you know, when you do close to 40 years, some people say, Oh, you were giving back. I said, I don't have to get back I already gave. I gave 40 years.

    11:23 All of us that have served, we can't get it out of our blood. We can't get it out of our psyche, we can't.

    21:54 Now I have this incredible jazz band with Grammy Award winning and critically acclaimed and ageless musicians. And if you ask me why I'm playing with these guys, I can only tell you, it's directed by God, you know, now I can swing them.

    23:41 The first part of my destiny was being a Man at Arms was being a Navy SEAL. And, and not everybody gets it really gets a destiny because life gets in the way, as a kid, you know what you want to do, but life gets in the way, and you never get a chance to do it.

    33:01 Something, we never talked about it. The mission is the music. You count. And this is the beauty. It's just like going on a mission. You start play, you count down that tune, you play the tune. And if somebody makes a mistake, they don't. But if I make a little mistake, they jump on my grenade and they do something so nobody knows that I may have just made a mistake. Awesome.



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    53m - Aug 22, 2022
  • EP 030: Effectively Combatting Human Trafficking, with Navy SEAL Mike "Fulli" Fullilove

    Retired U.S. Navy SEAL Senior Chief Michael “Fulli” Fullilove is the Operations Director of DeliverFund, a non-profit dedicated to the elimination of human trafficking. Fulli has 20 years of experience operating as a SEAL across multiple SEAL Teams. He led cross functional teams conducting complex special operations throughout the Middle East. He has worked in a variety of project and program management positions working across cultures to achieve operational goals, and spent five years at a Naval Special Warfare command where he was responsible for combining multi-intelligence disciplines with special operations expertise to defeat hostile networks. | Over the course of his career Mike deployed 3 times to Iraq, twice to Afghanistan, and once to Kosovo, in addition to numerous other locations. He is the recipient of the Bronze Star Medal with Valor, The Defense Meritorious Service Medal, and numerous specific commendation medals. During his deployments, he worked with senior level foreign government leadership and focused on countering violent extremist organizations, human and physical infrastructure development for operational purposes, and personnel recovery. Following retirement, he provided operational consultant services to military, government and faith-based clients.

    4:17 I'm going to introduce our topic today of human trafficking with an expert in the field and a current active champion in the field of human trafficking.

    6:05 I went back to the teams where I was part of a unit specialized in targeting and operations and Intelligence Fusion. And really what we're doing was focusing on violent extremist networks, and really trying to take a network approach as opposed to playing whack a mole, which, up to that point, you know, the military is very good, you kill one bomb maker, and the next one builds plays.

    10:58 Traffickers only look at their victims as commodities, they are not viewed as humans, they are not viewed as viable beings with a life of soul or anything else, they are simply a can of soup.

    16:21 And it's something that I think is alarming for a lot of people because you never see it. You never touch it, you never feel it. You never actually see it. And if you see it, you don't know what you're even looking at.

    44:06 That's a really really important point that goes to Stephen Covey's circles of influence in circles of concern today most people on social are focused on their in their circle of concern, like Oh, I'm really interested in this topic and they waste their time learning about stuff they literally can have no effect on

    46:11 hey, that little piece, right? You make it better. And frankly, that's the that should be the goal, to leave things a little bit better than the way you found it.



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    48m - Aug 8, 2022
  • EP 029: 5 Easy Tips for Whole Person Health, with Dr. John Owens

    Dr. John Owens is a leading health expert, workplace wellness advocate and a true believer that health comes from within. He brings a wealth of knowledge and experience back from years of working in California with Olympic gold medalists and professional football, baseball, basketball, hockey and volleyball athletes. He is passionate about giving back to the community by educating from a health and wellness perspective on how to live a healthy lifestyle. He takes this mindset into local businesses and corporations with the same goal in mind. His objective is to revolutionize health care and strengthen the vitality of the Tulsa community.

    Dr. Owens believes in treating the body as a whole by looking at the cause of dysfunction and not just the symptom. He prides himself on staying current in the latest techniques and healthcare advancements in order to maintain his reputation for excellence. John strives each day to better the lives of his patients; choosing to care for the individual and not just their symptoms allows for a personal and unique experience. He grew up in Tulsa as the youngest of six children. He played college football at DePauw University and later finished his degree at the University of Arkansas. John received three undergraduate degrees (Exercise Physiology/Biomechanics, Anatomy & Physiology, Health & Wellness). After graduation, he attended Chiropractic School at Parker University in Dallas.

    2:17 This week, we've managed to bring back a previous guest who went over like a very popular discussion with medical with science with health with cutting edge with holistic understanding about how the body is more than just meat. There's an emotional aspect to our life which affects our physical there's a mental aspect that affects our emotional and our physical.

    6:59 So there's five different areas first, the first and foremost is to move.

    7:40 It's finding an activity that you enjoy doing. And something that you're passionate about, that actually gets you moving. So it especially breaking up those times, if you a lot of people now working from home.

    13:25 Number two is going to be hydration. So we talked about water, the quality of water and different things in our last episode. And so there's a lot, a lot of people don't realize the extent of dehydration, that they have that like the degree of dehydration.

    17:50 Number three, that really is just overall self care. So a lot of people we we end up taking care of other people all the time, we're always looking to see you know, what we can do for other people all the time. And we failed to take care of ourselves.

    26:59 Diet is a lifestyle, what you eat, day to day is your diet. Not it's not a crash course, and you know, you know, 14 days to lose 10 pounds or, you know, whatever it is, it's, it's about how you how you have a variety in your diet, it's the portion control.

    43:09 Lastly, but not leastly is recover. So we kind of touched on this throughout some of these other ones, but really making it a point making it a major thing, because a lot of these overlap, but you know, sleep, in particular, getting the sleep that you need.

    48:49 But clearing out the RAM. That way we can function properly, we can be better, we can be faster, we can be smarter, we can make better decisions, because when we have all these things going on all around us all the time, it can be very overwhelming.



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    56m - Aug 1, 2022
  • EP 028: Leading Your Team by Developing Yourself, with Daveed Gartenstein-Ross

    Leading Your Team by Developing Yourself, with Daveed Gartenstein-Ross

    2:17 The goal is simply put is to understand predict an act to empower clients as they navigate and address emergent challenges rooted in security technology and changing global society.

    3:37 Because again, my book was released 10 years ago yesterday, we're doing a big event this month, about the powerful Peacemaker workshop in late July, and I want folks to jump in on that. But also July 5 of 2022 is the date of publication of another work by a guy know, tell us about your new book.

    5:17 I think part of what was misunderstood is the way that groups like these engage in organizational learning, there's a lot more that you can't see on the surface.

    9:15 You have Marshall McLuhan in the 1960s stated seven years, famously said the media is the message. Really, the medium by which we communicate really determines the message there. He was talking about the move to broadcasting media to television, and now we have the move to social media with much more sloganeering, very rapid communication. It's very easy for you know, lies or half truths, or misrepresentations or simplifications to travel quickly and for ideas to harden around that.

    20:14 You know, the internet, like a gun like a hammer, like your car is purely agnostic. It's what people choose to do with it, that creates the result. So the internet can't do anything by itself. It just sits there and waits for people to use it to exploit it for positive or negative activities.

    37:46 To me, the wisdom of a 360 is not that you see what people think. And you do what's going to make you more popular. Instead, it's really use the wisdom contained there to understand what am I doing wrong?

    42:32 And your job of growth as a leader is never linear.



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    49m - Jul 25, 2022
  • Ep 027: A Coach's Journey, with Kristy Klein

    Kristy Klein has been a part of Impact Actual since the very beginning. She was a client of Rob's many years back, and their conversations planted the seed that led to the concept of the first "Impact Coach" certification. Her full time career is as scientist and program manager as a Government Civilian. The leadership skills she has honed and grown over the 10+ years in her career translate well in to her coaching. Kristy also has a long history as a triathlete and endurance athlete over almost 20 years, in addition to coaching. This experience in racing and training for grueling events has allowed her to hone skills in mental resilience and endurance, along with the physical aspect. These skills have helped her rebound and rebuild after some major health issues reared their ugly heads and brought her personal athletic career as she knew it to a grinding halt. Being a coach and helping others become more well rounded in life and in sports is now her passion.

    2:51 Because again, as I as I scanned over there, all of this came from accidents, good fortune intersections, and quick relationships and things leading to things. So let's go back though to talk about you personally, you, you are a scientist, I like to just use that simple term because I don't understand what it is.

    4:39 you mentioned doing it like methodically, you said that you liked the way it was done structurally. That actually kind of segues right back to being scientific in the method and so forth following step by step that makes sense that will be appealing to somebody as compared to loosey goosey intuition based only like hey, how you feeling today, let's talk about your feelings. It's saying you You know, we're going to hold accountability, what do you what's next, never stay in the comfort zone too long, basically right step to the next thing, move on to the next thing. And that is a really big part of your story.

    8:55 It only happened a couple of years ago, and I've had some peaks and valleys with my conditions ever since it's not like I got diagnosed and got on medication and life was back to hunky dory. You know, there's been little sub peaks and valleys coming through that in the last four years or so since I got diagnosed. So, you know, it's still a work in progress. You know, this is, is a lifetime process. It's not like, you know, when you go through these programs, when I do all this stuff, it's not like I do it, close the book and, and move on.

    14:57 I never realized how small my goals were Until I realized how big I am.

    20:59 right, I'm not going to tell you life's gonna be rosy and you go through this and you're never going to have a problem again in your life. Now that's not that's life happens and life is full of problems. It's just gives you better skills and coping mechanisms to maybe later on, get through that a lot quicker, a lot easier to get through your problems easier, or, you know, faster or whatever, it gives you better coping skills.

    33:55 But until you get it off your chest, you can't move past it. And that's the thing. I mean, like I keep talking about glossy trifold we're not we're not two dimensional images of ourselves in the impact world. We're about being 100% real 360 whole person and saying you can't shock me bring it to me.



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    36m - Jul 18, 2022
  • EP 026: Next-Generation Treatment Options for Combat PTSD, with Amber and Marcus Capone of SEAL Team SIX

    "Next-Generation Treatment Options for Combat PTSD," with Amber and Marcus Capone of SEAL Team SIX. When he was medically retired after 13 years. and multiple combat deployments as a U.S. Navy SEAL, Marcus Capone and his wife, Amber, thought that life would return to normal. Instead, their struggle had just begun. Marcus was experiencing an escalating myriad of challenges, including depression, isolation, cognitive impairment, excessive alcohol use, headaches, insomnia, and impulsivity.

    Marcus was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), but, instinctively, Amber felt there was more to be discovered. After learning about the effects of blast waves, concussive, and sub concussive brain injuries, everything started to become clear. Marcus’ military career as an explosives expert, combined with his prior years of contact sports, had left him with the invisible wounds of traumatic brain injury (TBI), a condition that has significant overlap with PTSD, and is often not properly diagnosed.

    1:11 Another friend of mine who told me he was taking the cocktail, and the VA gives you this massive or the or the military gives you a massive cocktail of antidepressants or stimulants or whatever the the pattern may be of medications and medications alone are often not the solution, often not the solution to PTSD or whatever. There's a mental illness involved.

    3:02 After multiple combat deployments, Marcus and Emerson realized that the subsequent years would be wrought with escalating hardships misdiagnosis, a broken veteran healthcare system and desperation to find a meaningful solution before it was too late.

    13:20 Helping guys get access to different type of treatment modalities that are really helping full like mind, body and soul.

    24:16 But right now, today, if you don't do the proper integration, excuse me preparation before these psychedelic journeys, and then the proper integration afterwards, you know, you can you're it's it could be a recipe for disaster, you want to do these, you know, you want to go into these experiences with all the tools and all the information you need.

    29:11 Many of these deep psychedelic journeys, by the way that are not fun, that are like a lot of work and you're, you know, you're in a bed, or resting in some type of palette, because you're, you're on, you're on a heavy, heavy dose of these medicines. When you're on these medicines, they tap into your subconscious and they reach down and they make you deal with some of those traumas that potentially can be causing you to have that addiction.

    33:52 I think it's so important to you know, like, we're from a community of very good soldiers, but also very unconventional thinking individuals. And so I think that that goes for both the guys and the spouses is very much the case.

    42:43 That's perfect vet solutions.org I want to point everybody to that. Open your minds, you know, dear listener, in your mind.



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    46m - Jul 11, 2022
  • EP 025: A Combat Vet's Journey through PTSD, with Steve Rosen

    "A Combat Vet Journey through PTSD," with Steve Rosen. Steve Rosen retired from a 20 year Army career in 2013 at the age of 40. He spent the next 6 years in Arizona blazing all kinds of professional trails as a fitness coach and aspiring professional speaker. In 2019, after fighting off childhood, combat, and violence related PTSD he had to sell his business and retire. He has spent the past three years facing his PTSD head on with the help of mental health professionals. His progress has slowly given him a new and fulfilling life. Steve now works part time as a fitness coach. He recently decided to convert his Ford Escape SUV into a tent on wheels. He enjoys both stealth and traditional camping. He’s been married 22 years and they are raising two amazing teenage sons.

    2:30 because it is possible if you're dealing with it right now, whether you're military or not military, the thing that I came away with have come away with is that it's not about the military trauma is not about being a combat veteran trauma is about being human being experienced something.

    4:32 when I was a kid, I don't know about you, but I was told you can't say anything about this. And so not only was I subconsciously knowing that I was shameful and dark, but I was also told hey, this is shameful and dark to be telling the body there's going to be event you think it's bad now wait to see the consequences of sharing this and looking back, I'm like, Oh my gosh, if I would have just snitched on who was doing whatever they were doing.

    8:17 Because as chaotic as the army was it also gave me the structure that I absolutely needed to get me out of the stuff I was doing.

    14:07 So wherever combat happens, doesn't make that place bad. It's just where it happens to be. So I rack to me, I look at it as just going through such a dark period. And such, just, you know, it's just so different over there. And you never forget how different it is.

    20:49 And slowly, I just started to really become scared to live and decided that life is just too dangerous. And this is all unconscious, of course, you know, but I started slowing down my life.

    44:05 know that's I think it's important to share the reason because death has always been part of my trauma. Which is why I'm obsessed and I find myself obsessed with the concept of death. Not wanting it but also seeing it as an eventual way, way way down the road relief, but not now. Hell no, I want to keep going. And I and even though it hurts, and it's scary, and I have panic attacks, and I sweat and I get, you know, scared. I'm alive.



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    55m - Jul 4, 2022
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