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Session #3: 08/27/2022

Episode 3
1h 10m | Aug 27, 2022

Here are the main takeaways from our session: 

  • You're still working on finding the right moment to break up with the boyfriend. He recently made a comment about "deprograming you from being a Democrat". Understanding that, as facetious as it sounds, there's a part of him that means it is the final straw for you. The breakup is not a matter of if, but when, and we will discuss what tools you might need to help support you to do that, possibly in a future session
  • We spent a great deal of time questioning what level of distance you need from your parents, and what you were comfortable with doing to make that happen. You ultimately decided you want to stay in California, so you can stay with your current job for 3 more years, but that you're willing to move to something more affordable (the "East Bay"), even if that causes possible conflict with your family. 
  • We talked about how the dynamic in your house is equivalent to "emotional asbestos", and that it's time to make some moves (literally and figuratively) and decisions to make that happen, hopefully by October, as your parents will be on vacation to Ireland during that time. 
  • The goal between now and next week is to keep looking for apartments and applying, and if the right time comes up, to break up with the boyfriend.
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Private Podcast-- Eileen
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