Raising teenagers when everyone else says yes is hard, and our boys don't always like where we land.

We're Jason and Malia, and two of our four sons are teenagers now. Our teens have phones, but they're on lockdown, and they know they're being raised differently than a lot of their friends. In this episode we get honest about what it looks like to set your kids apart: what the world is pulling our teenagers toward, why we have the hard talks early, what to do when you can't control what another kid shows them, when a teenager is old enough to date, and how to set your kids apart without losing them in the process. Jason also shares what it was like doing all the things he doesn't want our boys to do, and what changed.

If you feel the pull of what everyone else is doing but know it's not right for your house, this one is for you.

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If your marriage looks fine from the outside but feels lonely on the inside, you're not crazy. We've been there.

We've been married 16 years, and we've been on the brink of divorce four or five times. Most people around us never knew. So for our anniversary we sat down with questions we wish someone had asked us early on, and neither of us saw the other's list.

We get honest about all of it: when each of us felt most loved and most alone, the year a cancer diagnosis exposed how far apart we were spiritually, the work-late season we still see differently, how close we came even after Jason came to faith, whether divorce is ever okay in a Christian marriage, the advice Jason would give a man walking into marriage, and the one date we'd relive.

If you feel alone in a marriage everyone else thinks is fine, this one is for you. Lonely doesn't have to be the end of the story.

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The most dangerous idols in our lives aren't bad things. They're good things sitting in the wrong seat.

We filmed this on the first football Sunday of the season, so we start with the obvious one. But this is just the two of us getting honest about all of it: the fantasy football years Jason admits consumed him, the 45 minutes Malia loses to a scroll she never meant to start, the AirPods that became Jason's version of a drink after work, and the one idol nobody wants to name, because it's the kids.

So we talk about how you actually find yours. The question that beats any test: how much time did I spend with God today versus the thing I use to check out? Why your credit card statement might know your idols better than you do. What we do instead of deleting everything. The boundaries we keep around video games in our house. And how to bring it up with your spouse without becoming the meme who complains about phones while holding one.

If something good keeps ending up ahead of God in your week, this one is for you. The goal was never getting rid of it.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 The first football Sunday problem

04:48 "I let it consume me"

06:36 The 45-minute scroll

09:20 AirPods, scotch, and checking out

13:19 When the idol is your kids

14:14 Saying it to your spouse without the finger

19:24 Kids, video games, and boundaries

24:42 Your credit card knows where your treasure is

25:03 God at the center, not God first

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As for our house, we will serve the Lord. Inspired by Joshua 24:15

Tithing 10% of your income sounds crazy until you realize none of it was ever really yours to begin with.

This one is just the two of us, working through what The Treasure Principle Bible study is doing to our hearts, our budget, and our bank account anxiety. Because most people want to be generous, they just don't feel like they can afford it yet.

So we get honest about what changed. The 10% pay cut question that reframed tithing for us, and what it forced us to look at in our spending. Why 10% makes you feel it at every income level, even through a layoff year. What it means to steward money that was never ours, instead of acting like the CEO of it. Why Malia calls the tithe "the bare minimum," and what she means. How a guy who thinks in investments learned to see generosity as one, with a return we can't outlive. And the difference between a want and a need in a house with four kids in a consumer-everything world.

If you want to give but you just don't feel like you can yet, this one is for you. It was never about the math.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Money fights, and what ended ours

02:02 What a Bible study did to our budget

02:28 Everything is God's, even the scary parts

04:59 Not the CEO of the money

05:45 The 10% pay cut question

08:03 An investment with infinite return

11:35 "The tithe is the bare minimum"

12:28 Tithing 10% when the math doesn't work

13:44 Wants, needs, and the consumer trap

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Our episode with Ashton, the young Bible student who followed God to Peru

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As for our house, we will serve the Lord. Inspired by Joshua 24:15

Most of us think a rescue is the end of a human trafficking story. Our friend Jess has spent years inside what actually comes after.

Jess leads True ID, a Las Vegas ministry that walks with women rebuilding their lives after trafficking and exploitation. We asked her the questions most people are afraid to ask. Why do rescued women so often go back? What does it take to rebuild a life when the record, the name, and the trust are all broken? She says the studies show it can take seven rescues before a woman is finally free. And what happens the first time a woman steps into a safe bedroom of her own?

Then, in the middle of the conversation, Jess told us about the season she calls the dark night of her soul, when hearing these women's stories made a lifelong believer question everything, and the single sentence in a sermon that brought her back. Jason cried on camera for the first time in 31 episodes.

If you have ever felt God tugging on your heart to help but thought you had nothing to offer, this one is for you. Jess would tell you that showing up is the whole job.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 INTRO

03:14 What reintegration really means

05:54 Why she goes back

06:08 Seven rescues

09:30 The first safe bedroom

14:03 Why it's called True ID

24:44 Jess's testimony: the dark night of her soul

48:21 How to actually help

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We keep having the same fight over and over. A week after saying we'd never quit this podcast, that fight almost made us quit.

This one is just the two of us, days after one of the bigger blowups we've had in a while, walking through exactly how the same argument keeps finding us after almost 16 years of marriage. Because what couples fight about is almost never what the conflict is actually about.

So we get honest about our pattern. Where the tension starts before either of us says a word. What happens when one spouse shuts down and goes quiet while the other pushes harder to connect. How our anxious and avoidant attachment styles turn a stressful week into a blowup. Why Malia said "I can't be his Holy Spirit," and what she does instead. And the iceberg picture our coach drew that showed us what's really underneath, and why resolving conflict in our marriage used to take a week and now takes less than a day.

Which one of you goes quiet? If you know this loop, this episode is for you. There is a way out, and it's not learning to argue better.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 We almost cancelled this episode

03:52 Why couples have the same argument on repeat

07:23 Where the fight starts before it starts

08:28 When one spouse shuts down and one pursues

09:29 The moment stress becomes a blowup

12:45 “I can’t be his Holy Spirit”

19:17 The iceberg under every fight

22:27 How the fight finally ends

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Every parent wants their kids to do chores without being asked. We wanted more than that, so we made up The 4 Levels of Service to change their hearts, not just their habits.

For years our nightly kitchen cleanup was a fight. Somewhere along the way it stopped being one, and in this episode we walk through exactly what changed. The four levels we teach our kids, and the level most families never get past. What a study of nearly 10,000 kindergartners found about chores that surprised us. The Post-it note trick that got our whole house clean in 20 minutes with worship music on. And the laundry rule that means we never remind anybody about laundry.

We also get honest about the part that had to change first, and it was not the kids.

If it feels easier to just do it yourself, or you would settle for them doing it without complaining, this one is for you. The goal is a servant's heart, and it starts with ours.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Every Parent Wants This

02:06 “It’s Easier to Just Do It Myself”

03:13 What the Studies Actually Say

04:42 The 4 Levels of Service

06:06 The Level Most Families Live In

07:52 From Nightly Fight to Actually Helpful

12:14 The Post-it Note Power Clean

18:19 The Laundry Rule

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Six months ago God nudged us to start a podcast with no plan and no paycheck. It has not made a dollar. We are not stopping

We get into what it costs, in money and in time we do not have. What we do when the numbers say stop. The rule we made so this never consumes our family. And the one sentence our pastor said that settled whether we would ever quit.

If God has put something on your heart and you keep waiting until you feel qualified, take the leap. This episode is for you.

Timestamp:

00:00 Intro

01:28 Six Months of Our House

02:13 Malia’s Layoff and What Came Next

07:57 Why the Podcast Is a Ministry

12:35 Obedience When You Feel Unqualified

17:56 Following God Without Knowing the Plan

20:25 Protecting Their Family From the Work

22:16 The Advice That Helped Them Keep Going

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Erica LeMarr was having her best year in business while her marriage quietly fell apart. What saved it is the last thing our culture wants to hear.

If your life looks successful on paper and feels empty at home, this conversation is for you.

She sat down with us and held nothing back. The night her husband finally said the thing that woke her up. Hear how a wife who says "I just obey my husband" ended up with more peace, more friends, and a business that doubled.

We asked her the questions you are probably yelling at the screen right now. Isn't that weakness? Where is the line between obedience and being walked on? And what does she say to the strong-willed woman who hears the word submit and wants to say nope!?

Timestamp:

00:00 Introduction

01:40 The last straw

03:59 “What could I learn from a stay-at-home mom?”

06:09 “This is weird. Who are you?”

09:27 The phone call she can't explain

22:07 “I just obey”

31:54 The Bible as a constitution

44:05 Letting Jesus be the CEO

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There is a way to start a gospel conversation without needing the right words. Scott Edlin found it the day before a Super Bowl.

Jason was an atheist three years ago, and he still freezes when a stranger asks about his faith. So we sat down with Scott, founder of the Luke 2 Project, and asked what we actually wanted to know. What do you say when you do not have a verse ready? Why does he believe Christians push more people away from God than they bring in? And what does a box of t-shirts in his trunk have to do with any of it?

He also told us something about getting saved that we had never heard anyone say out loud.

If you believe but go quiet the second somebody asks you why, this one is for you.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Intro

04:44 What happens when you wear one

10:22 32 years in the flesh

12:52 The day before the Super Bowl

25:41 The part of getting saved nobody talks about

29:14 Why Christians push people away

31:46 Just plant a seed

39:45 “Dad, I’m bored” on December 26th

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Jon and Danielle Mackin were already Christians, but looking back, they realized God was not truly at the center of their home. Their kids had seen conflict, their marriage lacked grace, and faith was mostly something they practiced on Sundays.

In this episode of Our House with The Smylies, Jon and Danielle share how that began to change when they surrounded themselves with people who lived out their relationship with Jesus every day. Prayer, worship, grace, and repair slowly became part of their marriage and parenting.

Now their kids still see disagreement, but they also see forgiveness, restoration, and a marriage they can feel secure in. Jon also shares how putting God at the center changed the way he approaches his business and trusts God with what comes next.

If you want faith to become part of everyday family life, this conversation is a practical place to start.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 - Intro

04:08 - Finding Peace in a Chaotic Home

05:22 - Raising Four Kids

08:34 - Discipline, Consequences, and Self-Control

14:57 - Why Repair After Discipline Matters

18:00 - Bringing Faith Into Everyday Family Life

22:10 - Helping Kids Build Their Own Faith

30:54 - Putting God at the Center of Marriage

35:38 - From Sunday Christianity to Everyday Faith

38:31 - How Grace Changed Their Marriage

41:09 - Letting Your Kids See Conflict and Repair

44:11 - Why Marriage Comes Before the Kids

53:49 - Putting God at the Center of Business

59:27 - Praying Over Clients and Surrendering Work

1:05:36 - The Importance of Christian Friendship

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For eight years, Desi and Steve hoped and prayed for a child. When doctors told them pregnancy was no longer likely, they had to face the possibility that becoming parents might look completely different from what they had imagined.

Then, during an anniversary dinner, Steve said the words Desi had been trying to avoid: “We’re being called to foster care.”

In this episode, Desi and Steve share their honest journey through infertility, foster care, adoption, grief, faith, and learning to trust God when life did not go according to plan.

They talk openly about the fear of becoming attached to a foster child, the heartbreak of reunification, the strain foster care placed on their marriage, and the moments when they questioned whether they could continue.

Desi also shares a painful moment when a court decision left her angry with God, only to discover later that He had been working behind the scenes the entire time.

Timestamp:

00:00 From infertility to foster care

02:45 Desi and Steve’s faith journey

10:35 Eight years of infertility

11:39 Feeling called to foster care

18:12 Beginning the foster care process

20:07 Receiving their first placement

21:49 How foster care affected their marriage

25:27 Reunification and saying goodbye

31:06 Audrey’s adoption journey

32:26 Wrestling with anger toward God

36:06 Years of uncertainty in foster care

38:28 Loving a foster child as your own

42:00 The unexpected call about their son

46:39 How faith and community carried them

58:13 Supporting foster families

59:23 Creating peace in their home

This episode is for couples facing infertility, families considering foster care or adoption, foster parents navigating uncertainty, and anyone learning to trust God when His plan looks different from their own.

Your journey may not look the way you expected, but that does not mean God has forgotten your family.

Watch the full episode to hear Desi and Steve’s powerful story of how foster care made them parents.

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Traveling with kids rarely goes exactly as planned. Flights get delayed, children have meltdowns, routines disappear, and something almost always goes wrong.

After 14 years of traveling with four kids, Jason and Malia have learned that a successful family trip is not about avoiding the chaos. It is about preparing for it, staying on the same team, and remembering why you decided to travel together in the first place.

In this episode, they talk honestly about the good, the bad, and the stressful parts of traveling with babies, young children, and teenagers. They share stories from airports, road trips, international flights, extended stays, and a family mission trip that changed their perspective on contentment and joy.

They also share practical lessons for making family travel easier, including:

Timestamp:

00:00 Intro

02:05 Why traveling with babies can feel intimidating

04:28 How travel expands a child’s perspective

09:35 Family travel does not have to be expensive

11:46 What traveling reveals about relationships

16:41 Travel tips for different ages

19:06 Babies, blowouts, and airplane meltdowns

22:53 Staying calm when your children are overwhelmed

24:44 Preparing children emotionally for a trip

28:17 The parenting mistake they made after vacation

33:47 Packing, snacks, electronics, and medications

36:21 Keeping God at the center while traveling

38:53 Choosing family experiences over possessions

39:28 How a mission trip changed their family

42:13 Encouragement for parents afraid to travel

This conversation is for parents planning their first family vacation, experienced travelers looking for practical ideas, and Christian families who want to stay connected and keep God at the center wherever they go.

The trip may not be perfect, but that does not mean it will not be worth it.

WATCH THE FULL EPISODE and discover how to make traveling with children less stressful, more meaningful, and more connected.

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Ashton Winningham had his own plans. He was building a business, thinking about moving to California, and figuring out what he wanted his future to look like.

Then God began leading him somewhere completely different: Bible college and missionary work in Peru.

Ashton is a Bible college student and missionary from Las Vegas who followed God’s call to Peru, where he serves through Bible study, evangelism, discipleship, and mission work.

In this episode, Jason and Malia sit down with Ashton to talk honestly about what it looks like to follow God when you do not have the whole plan figured out. Ashton shares how prayer helped shape his decision, what it was like leaving his family and traveling overseas alone for the first time, and how serving in Peru has changed the way he thinks about faith, calling, and the future.

They also talk about Bible college, protecting your faith when you leave home, sharing the gospel in another language, discipleship, the cost of missions, trusting God financially, and how every Christian can live out the Great Commission wherever God has placed them.

Timestamp:

00:00 Every Christian has a mission

03:49 Giving your plans to God

06:31 Leaving home and moving to Peru

11:01 What Bible college is really like

13:00 How to discern where God is leading you

16:05 Bible college, secular college, and protecting your faith

21:09 Preaching the gospel in another language

25:50 The Great Commission and real discipleship

29:50 Mission work in remote areas of Peru

33:43 The hardest part of leaving your family

37:04 How missionaries support themselves financially

41:16 Your calling does not have to look like someone else’s

42:38 Making plans while trusting God with the future

44:56 Finding peace through prayer and God’s Word

This conversation is for Christian parents, young adults, families, and anyone trying to understand what it means to follow God when His direction looks different from the plans you had for yourself.

You do not have to know the entire plan. Sometimes, you simply have to take the next faithful step.

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For years, Jason thought prayer was “woo-woo.” Bringing God into everyday life did not make sense to him, while Malia continued praying for him for 15 years.

Today, prayer is one of the most important rhythms in their marriage and family.

In this episode, Jason and Malia talk honestly about why prayer can feel awkward, especially for new believers or couples who have never prayed together. They share how prayer slowly became part of their daily lives and how it changed the way they handle marriage struggles, anxiety, parenting, conflict, forgiveness, and difficult seasons.

They also share practical ways families can begin praying without making it complicated, including:

Timestamp:

0:00 Why Jason thought prayer was “woo-woo”

03:31 An atheist’s perspective on prayer

04:38 The journey that changed his view of God

10:39 Praying for your spouse and marriage

13:30 Teaching children how to pray

17:32 Building prayer into family life

19:43 Prayer, gratitude, and anxiety

23:50 Why we should pray for people immediately

27:29 Simple ways to start praying as a family

31:04 Why prayer feels awkward at first

33:51 Building a faith that lasts beyond Sunday

This conversation is for Christian couples, parents, new believers, and anyone who wants to put God at the center of their home but does not know where to begin.

Prayer does not have to sound perfect. Sometimes, you simply have to start.

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Brian Davila made millions in real estate, paid off his house, and bought $50,000 Rolexes. And he still woke up anxious, empty, and without peace. In this episode, the real estate millionaire and host of The Way sits down with us to tell the truth about having everything the world sells as success and still feeling like something was missing, until he gave his life to God and everything changed.

This is one of the most honest conversations we've had on Our House. Brian opens up about the anxiety he carried his whole life and the moment it lifted after one prayer, the secret struggles with anger and pornography he never told anyone, and how confession and baptism set him free. He shares what it was like to build wealth alongside Ryan Pineda and still feel restless, and how faith finally gave him the peace that money never could.

We also walk through the story of his son Joshua, who was born with Down syndrome. Brian and his wife were pushed hard by doctors to end the pregnancy, and they refused. He explains why every child is a gift made in the image of God, and why his family sees Joshua not as a burden but as a blessing. Malia, a nurse midwife who has delivered these diagnoses to families herself, brings a perspective you rarely hear on both sides of that room.

Jason also shares his own testimony of being healed of lymphoma without chemotherapy, and together they talk about why God so often has to bring us to our knees before we finally look up. If you are chasing success, struggling to find peace, or trying to bring God to the center of your home, this one is for you.

"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him." Romans 8:28

CHAPTERS

00:00 Everything money could buy, still no peace

04:06 From teen dad to real estate millionaire

06:51 Their son Joshua and a Down syndrome diagnosis

09:28 When doctors kept pushing abortion

19:14 "Joshua is not a glitch. He is a gift."

23:18 The success that left him empty

28:13 The prayer that healed his anxiety

33:04 Jason's testimony: healed of cancer

46:06 Building a God-centered home

56:58 One tip to bring peace into your home

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Every parent of a teenager knows the fear: your kid is pulling away, the conversations are getting shorter, and you wonder if you're slowly losing them. In this episode we sit down with Brandon Davis, a youth expert who spends around 80 hours a week with kids as the youth director at City Light Vegas, a regional Young Life director, and a former high school teacher. He's walked thousands of teenagers through the exact season your kids are in, and he names the single biggest mistake parents of teens make: correcting more than they connect.

If you're a Christian parent trying to raise kids who keep their faith, this conversation is for you. Brandon breaks down why most people who follow Jesus come to faith before age 18 and why that number collapses after their twenties, what to do when your teen doesn't want to go to church, and how to bring church into your home when you can't get them through the doors. We talk about being a leader to your kids instead of just a friend, why connection has to come before correction, and what a dad leading the faith at home actually changes for a child's future.

Jason and Malia also open up about their own discipline that was quietly disconnecting them from one of their boys, and how they course-corrected. This is an honest look at teenage rebellion, faith, and the long game of parenting, from someone who sees what happens behind the scenes in families every single day.

Brandon is also a kingdom entrepreneur. He founded Ash Clothing, a Christ-centered streetwear brand built to help people wear their faith in a way that points back to God. Give him a follow and check out the brand below.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 Intro

02:04 Meet Brandon Davis

03:41 Why youth ministry matters

06:36 Teaching teens vs mentoring teens

08:03 What Young Life is

12:08 Why families feel safer outside church walls

16:54 Building trust with teenagers

18:25 The power of showing up consistently

24:41 The biggest mistake parents make with teens

25:26 What teens really need from parents

28:19 Connect before you correct

31:25 Teens need leaders, not just friends

34:07 God-centered homes and family contrast

36:09 Honest conversations with your kids

38:15 When kids do not want church

40:02 Letting your child choose faith

42:46 When your child walks away from faith

44:52 God is not done with their story

46:52 Faith, business, and setting culture

52:29 Being the Bible someone reads

54:27 Staying present as a busy parent

58:14 A simple habit for more peace at home

01:00:00 Closing

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We've hosted four au pairs over the years, and in this episode we tell the honest truth about what it's really like to invite one into your home. Our former au pair Judith lived with us for two years, flew back from Spain to surprise our boys, and the reveal went viral with millions of views. She sits down with us to talk through the good, the hard, and the parts nobody warns you about, whether you're a parent thinking about hiring an au pair or a nanny, or a young person wondering if becoming an au pair is right for you.

If you're weighing the au pair program, you'll hear how the matching process actually works, what it costs, the difference between an au pair and a nanny, the horror stories to watch out for, and how to know if it's the right fit for your family. And if you're thinking about becoming an au pair yourself, Judith shares exactly what she was scared of, what surprised her, and the advice that made her take the leap.

This is a real conversation about opening your home, building trust, and how someone who starts as a stranger can become family for life.

If your family loves stories like this, subscribe and come along with us. New episodes help families bring God closer to the center of their homes.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Judith reacts to the viral video

01:04 The au pair who became family

03:32 Judith’s dream to come to America

06:22 Her mom prayed for this family

08:39 Trusting an 18-year-old with three boys

10:41 She was never just hired help

14:20 When Judith first felt at home

24:24 Boundaries and empathy

28:49 The nightly routine that mattered

31:32 What changed when God became central

35:39 Parenting so kids want to come back

37:52 Letting kids be who they are

38:48 The story behind the viral video

40:52 Why the video touched millions

45:33 Advice for taking the leap

47:40 Final thoughts

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As for our house, we will serve the Lord, and we pray you will too.

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We had a beautiful home, four healthy boys, and a good life, and Malia still searched for a bigger house almost every night. This is the story of how we stopped chasing more and finally found contentment.

If you have ever told yourself "I'll be happy when we get the bigger house, the next promotion, the more comfortable life," this episode is for you. We talk honestly about discontentment, why nothing you have ever feels like enough, and how the constant pull toward more quietly steals the joy of right now. We get into money and the love of money, the pressure of the American dream and keeping up with the Joneses, raising kids in a culture of instant gratification, and what finally shifted our hearts toward gratitude and trust in God.

We’re sharing the real moments that changed how we see our home, our marriage, and what "enough" actually means. The grass isn't greener on the other side. It's greener where you water it.

If this encourages you, the best way to support the show is to like, subscribe, and leave a comment with the one thing you're choosing to be content with today.

CHAPTERS :

00:00 – Intro

01:03 – Is the Grass Really Greener?

05:52 – The Love of Money vs. a Scarcity Mindset

10:18 – Finding True Gain: Godliness with Contentment

13:13 – Raising Kids in an AI Era & Shifting Career Views

17:41 – Teaching Patience to Our Children (The Marshmallow Test)

20:45 – Real Estate Temptations: Shifting from Zillow to Contentment

27:49 – Life-Changing Mission Trip to the Dominican Republic

31:50 – Surrendering to God's Timing in Business & Leadership

39:23 – Embracing the Seasons, Sacrifices, and Nuances of Marriage

43:03 – Viewing Our Children as God's Children (The Art of Stewarding)

46:27 – Conclusion: Water the Grass Where You Are Planted

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ABOUT OUR HOUSE We're Jason and Malia Smylie, married over 15 years with four boys. We're not pastors, just parents sharing how we're learning to build a God-centered home with more peace, contentment, and joy. New episodes every week.

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In 2022, Omar and Aubi Foster sat in a counselor's office asking the question no couple wants to ask: how did we get here? Seven years married, two kids, a thriving gym, and a marriage quietly falling apart. This is the story of how rock bottom became the best thing that ever happened to them.

In this episode of Our House with The Smylies, the Fosters share how God restored their marriage after they nearly walked away. Aubi opens up about the "boss babe" lie, chasing corporate success while losing her family, and the moment she stopped fighting. Omar shares how seeking affirmation outside his marriage almost cost him everything, and what it took to finally lead his home.

Then came the prayer that changed it all. They asked God to close doors so clearly they couldn't mess it up. Three days later, Aubi lost her six-figure job. What looked like disaster became the beginning of a completely new life: a God-centered marriage, homeschooling their kids, turning their gym into a ministry, and a family stronger than they ever thought possible.

If your marriage feels stuck, distant, or close to over, this conversation is proof that the valley is where the fruit grows.

WHAT WE COVER:

- The slow drift that almost ended their marriage (it's never one big thing)

- The counselor's office moment: "Do you want to fix this?"

- Why chasing career success left Aubi empty and stretched thin

- How Omar stepped up to lead his family, faith, and finances

- The prayer that cost Aubi her job 3 days later

- Selling his dream car to bring his wife home to their kids

- Chaos is not a lack of peace, it's a lack of order

- Surrendering their business and losing members because of their faith

- Their family values: Fosters love God, love people, do hard things, never quit

- Raising kids without TV or video games (and why)

- Practical first steps to bring peace into your home this week

CHAPTERS: 

00:00 - Bringing God to the Center of Your Home

01:26 - Meeting Omar and Abby Foster (CrossFit Social City)

02:56 - How High School Sweethearts Reconnected After 10 Years

05:33 - Hitting Rock Bottom: Marital Disconnection and the "Boss Babe" Lie

12:47 - The Turning Point: Shifting from Worldly Success to Biblical Order

14:05 - Reclaiming the Role of a Spiritual Leader and Provider

17:49 - The Power of Surrender: Losing Jobs and Selling Cars

24:14 - Walking with Your Kids: Generational Change and Personal Healing

27:38 - Strengthening Father-Son Bonds Through Running Marathons

31:15 - Learning to Move into the Valley and Giving Up Total Control

34:53 - Using Your Business as a Ministry for the Community

39:45 - Practical Faith Habits and Consistency for Busy Families

47:59 - Choosing a Screen-Free Home: Why the Fosters Ditched the TV

50:01 - Establishing Core Family Values That Last

53:17 - Teachable Moments: Biblical Discipline and Grace vs. Legalism

56:16 - One Piece of Advice: Daily Scripture and Practicing Gratitude

59:43 - Where to Find Omar and Abby Foster

CONNECT WITH THE FOSTERS: 

Omar Foster: https://www.instagram.com/oldskoolomar

Aubi Foster: https://www.instagram.com/aubi

CrossFit Social City: https://www.instagram.com/

BOOKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED:

- Imagine Heaven by John Burke

- Bringing Up Boys / Bringing Up Girls by Dr. James Dobson

- Matthew 6:25-30

- Soul Surfer (film)

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We're Jason and Malia Smylie. We've been married over 15 years, have 4 boys, and we help families bring God to the center of their home, their marriage, and their business.

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