Episode 7: Choosing Reality

Li Li delves into her struggle to redefine success outside the academic context, highlighting the sense of loss and disorientation she felt after leaving university. She acknowledges the difficulty of accepting that reality often does not align with our expectations, particularly during periods of depression. Li Li emphasizes the importance of seeing things as they are, rather than clinging to unrealistic expectations of how things should be. She shares her personal growth in accepting the limitations of her parents and friends, setting boundaries, and taking responsibility for her own happiness. Li Li encourages listeners to let go of the blame game and begin to see things as they are, empowering them to make informed choices about their relationships and their lives.