Decades after falling in love with Sex and the City as teens, Emma (she/they) and Shannon (she/they) answer Carrie&#39;s questions about life, love, and themselves through a modern lens. Episodes come out every second Thursday.Produced by Emma CrandellLogo by <a href="https://www.jaimeclanachan.com/" rel="nofollow">Jaime Clanachan</a>Theme song by <a href="https://open.spotify.com/artist/2bNoMMVO2QO6vySQvjn50L?si=ew0SNiXCQWCMfp5vxpQgfg" rel="nofollow">Travis Bretzer</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/donthateuspod/" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/donthateuspod" rel="nofollow">Twitter</a>

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Just as Aidan once cast aside his grill and declared &#34;Fuck the fajitas&#34; in the name of passion, Emma and Shannon are saying &#34;Fuck the theme&#34; in the name of discussing an episode we&#39;ve never talked about before. We revisit the classic season one episode &#34;The Turtle and the Hare&#34; and chat about one-off characters, sex toys, settling, and marrying your best friend. Digressions include Cool Ranch Doritos, mushrooms, and giant ugly candle decor. Join us (at the other singles table)! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

Episode Recap: "The Turtle and the Hare"

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At what point do you &#34;shut it down&#34; or &#34;proceed with caution&#34;? Emma and Shannon discuss relationship dealbreakers and red flags. Age? Maturity? Hygiene? Children? Smoking? Core values? Do they gel with your friends? Have a giant doll collection? A pet monkey? Do they only ever talk about cutting your hair? Let&#39;s get into it! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

That's a Dealbreaker!

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Oh Carrie, if his words said no, that means no! Emma and Shannon are discussing boundaries: a key part of adult relationships in every context, but far easier said than done. We discuss Carrie&#39;s stalking habit, the girls cutting Carrie off &#34;cold turkey,&#34; other boundaries both set and pushed throughout the show, and whether Carrie and Big are a match made in no boundaries heaven. While we also struggle with setting boundaries, join us in our aspiration to channel the power of Kim Cattrall&#39;s &#34;No.&#34; &lt;3 Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

We don’t want to be in a situation for even an hour where boundaries aren't respected!

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We&#39;ll be Scrutiny, you be Ridicule! Emma and Shannon are discussing conflict in friendships. From blowing off a bud for a piece of politically incorrect meat to sleeping with a friend&#39;s brother, every friendship is bound to incur a fight or two. How you handle it is what counts, and no, we don&#39;t condone a muffin basket. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

When Friends Fight!

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If life is a circus then let&#39;s discuss the elephant in the room: work. So much of our lives revolve around jobs, work dynamics, and pursuing careers. Are you a bonafide career go-getter like Miranda? Are you choosing your choice like Charlotte? Has your life, work, and pleasure become enmeshed like Carrie and Samantha? Do you seemingly have it figured out like Petrovsky? Wherever you&#39;re at, pencil Emma and Shannon in for a conversation about work that we promise is better than another email. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

The "Wonderful" World of Work

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Was Big a big mistake? Who knows, but Shoe Bradshaw sure wasn&#39;t. Emma and Shannon get into Part 2 of our AJLT S2 recap, starting from Miranda&#39;s date with Ms. Darcy, to Che&#39;s awful comedy set, to the last supper in Carrie&#39;s iconic apartment. Carrie is waiting for Aiden, Samantha is stuck in traffic indefinitely, and we&#39;re already waiting for Season 3. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

And Just Like That... This is Annabelle Bronstein. (AJLT Season 2 Recap, Part 2)

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We&#39;re ALIVE! And bringing Part 1 of our AJLT S2 recap! From the steps of the Met to cleaning up beach seaweed to fetching condoms in a blizzard, Emma and Shannon get into the thick of the first six episodes. Strap in. Strap on. We&#39;re headed to WidowCon. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

And Just Like That... You Ruined the Family Scene! (AJLT Season 2 Recap, Part 1)

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New year, new season, same us... well mostly! Emma and Shannon kick off S3 discussing the dimensions of reinvention. Can we revamp our identities with Florentine Peach bedsheets? Tap dancing classes? A new apartment, haircut, or change of a dress? Whether resolutions are your thing or if you are &#34;not giving up shit and resolve nothing&#34; à la Roxane Gay, you&#39;re worth a million and we support you doing you. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

New Year? Same Us... Pretty Much!

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Psst... did you hear? It was a full-frontal attack of the face! Emma and Shannon talk gossip, scuttlebutt, and rumours both on the show and behind the scenes. Is gossip good? Is it bad? Or is it just gab? Side conversations include Carrie&#39;s stalking behaviour, actors becoming their characters, the infamous SJP and Kim Cattrall feud, and the haunting eyes behind the movie poster for Tim Allen&#39;s 2006 masterpiece, the Shaggy Dog. Our babies are settled, massage wands returned, and we&#39;re ready to dish the dirt! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

Season Two Finale: Let's Gossip to Get Our Heart Rates Up!

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Flirtini? Tartini? Excuse you! We’d like a cheeseburger, large fries, and a Cosmopolitan! Emma and Shannon are discussing alcohol as an accessory, its relationship to wealth and class, and hot mess territory (that never warrants a passive-aggressive AA card). Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

Hello I'm Drunk!

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We brought the marijuana into the house and we&#39;re taking it with us when we leave! In a special 420 episode, Emma and Shannon are toking about Carrie&#39;s infamous breakup doobie, Sam&#39;s Hawaiian Gold, sex on X, and other drugs in the SATC universe. Join us on a journey – a trip if you will – or we&#39;ll just meet you around the corner at Drown the Hound. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

It Was The E, Carrie!

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Pack your bags, listeners – you&#39;re coming to the country with us! Emma and Shannon discuss the great outdoors, Aidan&#39;s rustic cabin, getting stuck in the mud, appropriate footwear, and feeling out of your element. City life? Country life? Who knows, maybe we&#39;re all just rats in various cute outfits. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

Are We City Squirrels or Country Rats?

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Scout, Pete, Fatty, and Elizabeth Taylor have entered the chat... much to Carrie&#39;s dismay. Let&#39;s talk pets! Emma and Shannon are swiping right on dogs, left on rodents, and discussing the owners on the other end of the leash in the SATC universe. PETE KNEW! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

Not in Front of the Puppy!

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Emma and Shannon are grabbing the big candles and come full circle from discussing death to birthdays and all the mixed feelings about attention, celebration, aging, and expectations that come with them. Order us a couple of Shirley Temples and we&#39;ll see you at Il Cantinori... cc Friar Fuck. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

What's the Deal With Birthdays?

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From Charlotte and Trey to the wedding that&#39;s reduced to just gay, Emma and Shannon are discussing wedding ceremonies, speeches, outfits, and the Liza Minnelli of it all. We&#39;ll see you on the dance floor, Bunny MacDougal! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

I Do... Believe in the Democracy of the Dance Floor!

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*Contains various movie/TV spoilers! In a special Valentine&#39;s Day Minisode, Emma and Shannon rate famous love quotes as they compare to Big’s low-effort love fax/email based on our newly-created and highly-scientific &#34;email to heaven&#34; or &#34;fax to hell&#34; system. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

Minisode: Don't Settle for a Love Fax!

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Emma and &#34;Scannin&#39; Shannon&#34; are confronting their relationship ghosts and taking a dive into the Ex Files. Can Carrie and Big just be friends? Or should we run away and pretend exes don&#39;t exist, à la Miranda? Either way, we&#39;re walkin&#39;, talkin&#39;, scannin&#39;, and feeling hot. 🔥 Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

Can Exes Be Friends?

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Devan, member of our IRL Book Club and English Teacher who finishes every book he starts, is our special guest star! He and Shannon both read Sex and the City by Candace Bushnell, the OG Carrie Bradshaw, and take to the mic to compare and contrast. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

Sex and the City Book Club!

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We&#39;re so bored we could DIE... well, maybe not yet. Emma and Shannon are just two aspiring ghosts discussing how different characters experience death, grief, loss, and Big&#39;s very forward vision of heaven. Digressions include the Sims, ultimatums, face slaps, and Emma&#39;s karaoke funeral. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

Death Becomes Them!

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Bring your own... baby...? Emma and Shannon are exiting their gingerbread houses to discuss the topic of babies and motherhood throughout the show. Don&#39;t worry, this is a stork-free zone, the name Shayla is firmly off limits, and we wouldn&#39;t dare bring a cardboard baby into the picture. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations'>https://redcircle.com/donthateuspod/donations</a>

Bring Your Own Baby?

Decades after falling in love with Sex and the City as teens, Emma and Shannon answer Carrie's questions about life, love, and themselves through a modern lens.

Decades after falling in love with Sex and the City as teens, Emma and Shannon answer Carrie's questions about life, love, and themselves through a modern lens. Episodes come out every second Thursday. Produced by Emma Crandell. Logo by Jaime Clanachan. Theme song by Travis Bretzer.