In this one hundred and fifty-sixth episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out what the Big Book says about using other helpful books. We continued to talk about helpful books after the one was mentioned in last episode. Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solution to our problems.

Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert

Illusions by Richard Bach

The Messiah's Handbook by Richard Bach

Pinnacle Prayers by Howard Wills

The Daily Stoic 366 Meditations by Ryan Holiday

The Wise Mind of H.I.M. Emperor Haile Sellassie I

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In this one hundred and fifty-fifth episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out what the Big Book says about fear and matching calamity with serenity. Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solution to our problems.

Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert

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In this one hundred and fifty-fourth episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out what the Big Book says about times when we have resentments towards sponsors or sponsees. Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solution to our problems.

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• Noodle It Out with Nikki Weekly Meeting hosted by Reco12 is held each Monday at 9:00 eastern time on Zoom. The link for that is here: 
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• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
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Today, Nikki and Justin Noodle out the 7th through 12th Signs of Recovery in the SLAA fellowship. Come and check out where you are in this journey.

Signs of Recovery

7. We allow ourselves to work through the pain of our low self-esteem and our fears of abandonment and responsibility. We learn to feel comfortable in solitude.

8. We begin to accept our imperfections and mistakes as part of being human, healing our shame and perfectionism while working on our character defects.

9. We begin to substitute honesty for self-destructive ways of expressing emotions and feelings.

10. We become honest in expressing who we are, developing true intimacy in our relationships with ourselves and others. 

11. We learn to value sex as a by-product of sharing, commitment, trust and cooperation in a partnership. 

12. We are restored to sanity, on a daily basis, by participating in the process of recovery. 

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Today, Nikki and Justin Noodle out the first 6 Signs of Recovery in the SLAA fellowship. Come and check out where you are in this journey.

Signs of Recovery

1. We seek to develop a daily relationship with a Higher Power, knowing that we are not alone in our efforts to heal ourselves from our addiction.

2. We are willing to be vulnerable because the capacity to trust has been restored to us by our faith in a Higher Power.

3. We surrender, one day at a time, our whole life strategy of, and our obsession with, the pursuit of romantic and sexual intrigue and emotional dependency.

4. We learn to avoid situations that may put us at risk physically, morally, psychologically or spiritually.

5. We learn to accept and love ourselves, to take responsibility for our own lives, and to take care of our own needs before involving ourselves with others.

6. We become willing to ask for help, allowing ourselves to be vulnerable and learning to trust and accept others.

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Episode 151 and we are noodling out the characteristics of a Sex-love Addict.

Characteristics of Sex and Love Addiction

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1. Having few healthy boundaries, we become sexually involved with and/or emotionally attached to people without knowing them.

2. Fearing abandonment and loneliness, we stay in and return to painful, destructive relationships, concealing our dependency needs from ourselves and others, growing more isolated and alienated from friends and loved ones, ourselves, and God.

3. Fearing emotional and/or sexual deprivation, we compulsively pursue and involve ourselves in one relationship after another, sometimes having more than one sexual or emotional liaison at a time.

4. We confuse love with neediness, physical and sexual attraction, pity and/or the need to rescue or be rescued.

5. We feel empty and incomplete when we are alone. Even though we fear intimacy and commitment, we continually search for relationships and sexual contacts.

6. We sexualize stress, guilt, loneliness, anger, shame, fear and envy. We use sex or emotional dependence as substitutes for nurturing care, and support.

7. We use sex and emotional involvement to manipulate and control others.

8. We become immobilized or seriously distracted by romantic or sexual obsessions or fantasies.

9. We avoid responsibility for ourselves by attaching ourselves to people who are emotionally unavailable.

10. We stay enslaved to emotional dependency, romantic intrigue, or compulsive sexual activities.

11. To avoid feeling vulnerable, we may retreat from all intimate involvement, mistaking sexual and emotional anorexia for recovery.

12. We assign magical qualities to others. We idealize and pursue them, then blame them for not fulfilling our fantasies and expectations.

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In this one hundred and fifitieth episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out the importance of being consistent and being disciplined in recovery. Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solution to our problems.

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• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
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In this one hundred and forty-ninth episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out the dangers or seeking romantic relationships in the rooms of recovery, also known as 13th stepping. Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solution to our problems.

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• Noodle It Out with Nikki Weekly Meeting hosted by Reco12 is held each Monday at 9:00 eastern time on Zoom. The link for that is here: 
• To become a Reco12 Spearhead and support this family of recovery resources, please consider donating here.
• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
• To send a question to be noodled on a future episode, send it to noodlewithnikki@gmail.com.
• To get the workbook referenced in this episode, go to https://12steps4hours.org/
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In this one hundred and forty-eighth episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out what the Big Book says about trying to get an ex back. Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solution to our problems.

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• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
• To send a question to be noodled on a future episode, send it to noodlewithnikki@gmail.com.
• To get the workbook referenced in this episode, go to https://12steps4hours.org/
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In this one hundred and forty-seventh episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out a listener question about hesitance in trusting God in ALL things and about perceived self-sufficiency in some areas. Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solution to our problems.

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• Noodle It Out with Nikki Weekly Meeting hosted by Reco12 is held each Monday at 9:00 eastern time on Zoom. The link for that is here: 
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• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
• To send a question to be noodled on a future episode, send it to noodlewithnikki@gmail.com.
• To get the workbook referenced in this episode, go to https://12steps4hours.org/
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In this one hundred and forty-sixth episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out a listener question asking about what to do when neighbors are overstepping their bounds and "eating our souls". Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solution to our problems.

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• To become a Reco12 Spearhead and support this family of recovery resources, please consider donating here.
• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
• To send a question to be noodled on a future episode, send it to noodlewithnikki@gmail.com.
• To get the workbook referenced in this episode, go to https://12steps4hours.org/
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In this one hundred and forty-fifth episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out a prayer and concept that Justin has been using many times daily for the last month or so. Nikki helps shine some Big Book light on the process and we discuss the transformation that is happening. Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solution to our problems.

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• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
• To send a question to be noodled on a future episode, send it to noodlewithnikki@gmail.com.
• To get the workbook referenced in this episode, go to https://12steps4hours.org/
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In this one hundred and forty-fourth episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out a question that was emailed to us by Veena about genuine service vs. co-dependency. We dive deep into our purpose and jobs and roles that God assigns. Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solution to our problems.

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• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
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In this one hundred and forty-third episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out a question that was emailed to us about transfering addictions and become addicted to seeking adrenaline rushes. We discuss several perspectives of this. Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solution to our problems.

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• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
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• To get the workbook referenced in this episode, go to https://12steps4hours.org/
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In this one hundred and forty-second episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out a question on regret of the past and we discuss how we have experienced that our past can become our greatest asset and a little bit about living life TODAY so that we don't have regrets tomorrow. Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solution to our problems.

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• Noodle It Out with Nikki Weekly Meeting hosted by Reco12 is held each Monday at 9:00 eastern time on Zoom. The link for that is here: 
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• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
• To send a question to be noodled on a future episode, send it to noodlewithnikki@gmail.com.
• To get the workbook referenced in this episode, go to https://12steps4hours.org/
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In this one hundred and forty-first episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out a far-ranging and wide-based question that starts with not experiencing the promises to God to all sorts of things. Come and join us as we dive deep in the Big Book for the Solition to our problems.

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• Noodle It Out with Nikki Weekly Meeting hosted by Reco12 is held each Monday at 9:00 eastern time on Zoom. The link for that is here: 
• To become a Reco12 Spearhead and support this family of recovery resources, please consider donating here.
• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
• To send a question to be noodled on a future episode, send it to noodlewithnikki@gmail.com.
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In this one hundred and fortieth episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out a real-life experience that Justin had the previous night and morning where a new insight on the destructive nature of assumptions and the helpful practice of minimizing expectations came crashing together.

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• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
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In this one hundred and thirty-ninth episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out a listener question about the need for a "grandsponsor" or that my sponsor have a sponsor.

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• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
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In this week's Noodle it Out with Nikki M we go back to a previous recording that Nikki did on the Reco12 Speaker Meeting a couple of years ago. In this talk, Nikki discusses entering the world of the spirit.

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In this one hundred and thirty-seventh episode of the Noodle it Out with Nikki M Podcast, Nikki and Justin noodle out a question that involves codependency, helpfulness, and the promises of the Big Book.

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• Noodle It Out with Nikki Weekly Meeting hosted by Reco12 is held each Monday at 9:00 eastern time on Zoom. The link for that is here: 
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• Get your own Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous here.
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• To get the workbook referenced in this episode, go to https://12steps4hours.org/
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