Who’s Allowed to Be a Popstar? Soulidified’s Malik Heard & Queer Black Visibility in Entertainment
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Popholics, we have so much amazing music out rn! Can we PLEASE let the artists breathe and develop their full painting before critique?!
This week on The Weekly Wind Down, Jer is getting into the conversation surrounding SOULIDIFIED, founding member Malik Heard, and the backlash that has put a spotlight on something much bigger than a debut music video. Following the release of “Man Ain’t Me,” conversations online have moved beyond the music and into questions about Malik being body shamed, scrutinized, and seemingly cropped out of key moments in the visual. And for Jer, this hits close to home.
As someone who experienced the realities of group dynamics firsthand in Phase Five, Jer knows that being talented is not always enough when people have already decided how they want to perceive you. Add being a chocolate Black man and a member of the queer community to the equation, and suddenly the conversation becomes about visibility, representation, and who gets afforded the grace to grow into their star power.
When did critiquing the art become an invitation to demean the artist?
Jer breaks down why the constant body shaming and ridicule directed toward Malik is exhausting, why the way we treat Black queer performers deserves a much bigger conversation, and how public perception can influence an artist's ability to establish themselves before audiences have even given them a fair chance.
We're also looking at the bigger picture of queer Black men in pop culture, from trailblazers like Little Richard to the performers navigating today's entertainment industry. What does it mean to celebrate the influence of queer artists while still allowing colorism, narrow beauty standards, and homophobia to shape how we respond to them?
This isn't about demanding that everybody love every song, performance, or creative decision. It's about recognizing the difference between thoughtful critique and cruelty disguised as an opinion.
Above all, it's a reminder that artists are human beings before they're public property. So before we dissect the visual, debate the branding, or decide who belongs in the spotlight, maybe we should let the FULL puzzle come together first. Let the art develop. Let the artists grow. And let people be seen. Welcome back, Popholics. Let's get into it.
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Chapters
00:00 - Welcome Back, Popholics
00:50 - Romanticizing my life & Stanning Alessia Cara’s penmanship
04:20 - Housekeeping: Vote for Jer as TOP HOST for iHeartRadio
04:57 - Episode Disclaimer: Vibes may get EMO
06:00 - Solidified ‘Man Aint Me’ Review
09:00 - Leave Malik Alone!!!
12:15 - GenZ’s approach to Artistic Queerness
13:45 - How eing signed Influences the final ‘product’
18:18 - Manon & Malik Comparison Venn Diagram
20:22 - Learning to love all the Flavors of a group
22:30 - Trying to wear our business hats to understand consumerism
23:40 - Best Solutions in this scenario
