For smart and superficial girls everywhere, this podcast helps multifaceted women untangle society&#39;s expectations of them through candid conversations and tangible tips for crafting your own journey. Hosted by Alexis Barber, entrepreneur, creator and ex-YouTube and Google employee, you&#39;ll hear both the realities of being an ambitious 20-something that identifies as a #MaterialGirl and plenty of gems from our wide range of guests. Follow the show on Instagram and TikTok at @toocollective.

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In this episode, I&#39;m recapping my first year at Wharton, sharing everything I wish I&#39;d known before diving into my MBA journey, as well as my honest opinion on academics, social life, and the lessons I&#39;ve learned during this time. I’m also answering your questions on time management, juggling relationships, how to prep for business school, and what&#39;s on my radar for year two. Timestamps:02:23 Academics09:16 My study routine12:00 My major13:53 Clubs16:34 Travel22:00 Social life24:41 Entrepreneurship27:38 Time management30:52 Average week in the life34:04 Plans for second year36:54 How to prep for grad school40:55 Product recommendations Too Collective:<ul><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/collections/patch-store" rel="nofollow">Shop our Limited Edition Patches!</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.norby.live/signup/5ce7e2ed-fccf-44be-ad7e-e2fa0729ea5d" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Follow Too Collective on Instagram</a></li></ul> Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

162. Recap of my first year as a Wharton MBA student

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In this episode, we’re getting real about the struggles I&#39;ve been facing as an entrepreneur. And how despite being overqualified in many aspects I still don’t feel ready to do a lot of things in my business. We’re talking perfectionism, money, and how I’m planning to scale my business with the resources and insights I&#39;ve gotten from being a Wharton MBA student. Too Collective:<ul><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/collections/patch-store" rel="nofollow">Shop our Limited Edition Patches!</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.norby.live/signup/5ce7e2ed-fccf-44be-ad7e-e2fa0729ea5d" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Follow Too Collective on Instagram</a></li></ul> Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

161. Entreprenuership, perfectionism, and the realities of growing a business

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As we close off the first quarter of 2024, I’m recapping my biggest takeaways and must-have items in wellness, beauty, and fashion from the past three months. Timestamps:1:40 self-worth is the key to everything6:40 difference between capacity and capability8:49 not letting other people make you feel small12:17 wellness faves17:24 beauty faves20:45 fashion faves Products mentionedWellness:Armra Colostrum https://amzn.to/3JbNkC1 Super gut prebiotic https://amzn.to/3vHNMVJ Owala water bottle https://amzn.to/3PNwPQu Skincare: Amazon sheet masks https://amzn.to/4cMOX75 Supergoop glow screen https://howl.me/clYvyj5brHO Summer Fridays cushion cream https://howl.me/clYvEXcQ3To Topicals faded https://howl.me/clYvEX4sEnK Hero Cosmetics patches: https://amzn.to/3vHPnuH Beauty: Westman Atelier Stick Foundation https://howl.me/clYvEXDwUBu Nars liquid foundation https://howl.me/clYvEXUWo8T It cosmetics dual-ended foundation and concealer brush https://howl.me/clYvEXRw1mz Kosas concealer https://howl.me/clYvEYcjyMQ Giorgio armani conceler https://howl.me/clYvEX9qbKy Ole Henrikson lip peptide balm https://howl.me/clYvEXTK1vb Sol de janeiro delicio body balm https://howl.me/clYvEXsOjkO Clothing: Agolde low-rise baggy jeans https://howl.me/clYvEXtY0XE Skims boyfriend pant https://bit.ly/4al2AbX Sporty and rich sweat sets: https://www.sportyandrich.com/collections/sets Boys Lie sweat sets: https://boyslieofficial.com/collections/sweats Too Collective:<ul><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/collections/patch-store" rel="nofollow">Shop our Limited Edition Patches!</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.norby.live/signup/5ce7e2ed-fccf-44be-ad7e-e2fa0729ea5d" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Follow Too Collective on Instagram</a></li></ul> Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

160. Life lessons and material girl favorites (wellness, beauty, fashion)

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We’re all busy but that shouldn’t be reason to leave your health at the bottom of your priorities. In this week’s episode, I’m sharing 8 health and wellness habits that have helped me feel my best and live a healthier life overall. From daily practices to supplements and workout routines. I hope these habits inspire and motivate you to establish a healthy routine that works for you. Resources mentioned:Pilates workouts:<a href="https://digital.joinform.co/" rel="nofollow">Form app</a> Protein:<a href="https://www.oikosyogurt.com/greek-yogurt/triple-zero/" rel="nofollow">Oikos 000 protein yogurt</a><a href="https://chomps.com/" rel="nofollow">Chomps</a><a href="https://liveowyn.com/" rel="nofollow">Owyn</a> My electrolyte colostrum water:<a href="https://tryarmra.com/" rel="nofollow">Armra colostrum</a><a href="https://www.dripdrop.com/" rel="nofollow">Drip drop electrolytes</a> For sleep:<a href="https://www.superhuman.app/app-superhuman" rel="nofollow">Superhuman app</a><a href="https://shopbeam.com/products/sleep-powder?selling_plan=787415095&variant=39994089898039" rel="nofollow">Beam dream drink</a> Too Collective:<ul><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/collections/patch-store" rel="nofollow">Shop our Limited Edition Patches!</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.norby.live/signup/5ce7e2ed-fccf-44be-ad7e-e2fa0729ea5d" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Follow Too Collective on </a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li></ul> Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

159. 8 non-negotiable health and wellness habits

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As spring brings fresh new energy, this episode dives into everything I&#39;m doing to glow up for the season. I hope this episode inspires you to hit the refresh button in your life and step into this new season feeling your absolute best. Resources mentioned:<a href="https://digital.joinform.co/" rel="nofollow">Form pilates</a>Style archetypes: @<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@asias.jpg" rel="nofollow">asias.jpg</a> Too Collective:<ul><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/collections/patch-store" rel="nofollow">Shop our Limited Edition Patches!</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.norby.live/signup/5ce7e2ed-fccf-44be-ad7e-e2fa0729ea5d" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li></ul> Follow Too Collective on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li></ul> Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

158. Spring glow up guide

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A breakdown of my expenses and how I budget as a grad student and business owner. I also answer your questions regarding career, failure, breakups and ADHD. You asked, I ANSWERED! 5:24 Q1: How do you manage money as a grad student and business owner?9:37 Q2: How to navigate failure and career pivots12:25 Q3: What is bringing you joy right now?14:06 Q4: Breakup tips?17:17 Q5: How do you manage ADHD among all the boss girl sh*t you do? Don’t forget to DM me on IG to have your questions answered on a future episode. Too Collective:<ul><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/collections/patch-store" rel="nofollow">Shop our Limited Edition Patches!</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.norby.live/signup/5ce7e2ed-fccf-44be-ad7e-e2fa0729ea5d" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li></ul> Follow Too Collective on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li></ul> Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

157. How I manage my money being self employed, career failure, and breakup tips (Q&A)

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I’ve been putting off this topic for a while… but let’s unpack how I’ve been completely neglecting my mental and physical health through this crazy period of my life. This episode is about getting back on track. I&#39;ll share how I&#39;m resetting my priorities, what I&#39;m doing to climb out of this funk, and a daily habit that has been super helpful throughout this time. Show Notes1:20 Navigating the stress of recent events2:35 How to deal with too much on your plate6:39 Realizing when you’re engaging in unhealthy habits8:06 Getting my priorities straight!9:44 Being strategic vs trying to accomplish everything12:45 Dealing with the algorithm as a content creator14:02 Examining your priorities16:10 Ask yourself, are you self-sabotaging?17:01 The sacrifice to do the things you love is worth it18:11 Ways I’m prioritizing my health19:43 Orienting yourself with intention20:16 What are five things you’re proud of doing? Too Collective:<ul><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/collections/patch-store" rel="nofollow">Shop our Limited Edition Patches!</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.norby.live/signup/5ce7e2ed-fccf-44be-ad7e-e2fa0729ea5d" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li></ul> Follow Too Collective on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li></ul> Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

156. I’m self sabotaging and here’s what I’m doing about it

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I&#39;m so excited to sit and chat with you guys! Today I&#39;m answering a bunch of questions regarding dating, health, current favorites, classes at Wharton, and everything in between. So let&#39;s get cozy and start talking sh*t. Show Notes0:58 Second semester chat1:51 How am I liking Wharton?3:19 Falling back on priorities3:40 Group life reset4:21 Starting as a leadership fellow7:03 What I dislike about Wharton7:19 Favorite class I’ve taken9:45 Switching management companies12:20 Adjusting to the single life14:19 What I’m loving16:15 Travel favorites19:29 Red light therapy20:30 Supplement update! Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Shop Too Collective:<ul><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/collections/patch-store" rel="nofollow">Shop our Limited Edition Patches!</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.norby.live/signup/5ce7e2ed-fccf-44be-ad7e-e2fa0729ea5d" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li></ul> Follow Too Collective on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li></ul> Shop Alexis&#39;s Picks:<ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/shop/wellnessalexis" rel="nofollow">Shop Alexis’s Amazon Store</a></li><li><a href="https://alexisbarber.komi.io/" rel="nofollow">Shop Alexis’s Outfits and More</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

155. Dating life, my new job, and current favorites (Q&A)

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From corporate burnout to building her own creative agency, this week&#39;s guest, Madison Utendahl, walks us through her inspiring and multi-hyphenate career journey. We&#39;ll delve into her time at HBO, Refinery29, and her experience leading social media at the Museum of Ice Cream, and finally, how she founded her creative agency - Utendahl Creative, which has earned her recognition by Adweek&#39;s Creative 100 and Forbes&#39; 30 Under 30.Madison shares her candid story: navigating an identity crisis, finding creative fulfillment, planning a strategic job exit, setting business standards that prioritize work-life balance, and finding a supportive life partner. You will definitely walk away with so many tangible insights to create a life and career you love. Show Notes0:57 Welcome Madison Utendahl!3:28 Recognizing and embracing your multi-hyphen life5:12 Madison’s career trajectory7:12 You are not above the early stages of your job8:01 Life after HBO8:49 Understanding the nuances of things you dislike10:21 Holding space for people and their differing creative ideas12:24 You’re sabotaging your privilege by accepting an unhealthy way of life14:31 Stop taking on unnecessary burdens 16:22 Importance of peer accountability in the workplace18:27 Know your basic needs and accept the sacrifices20:02 Money can’t buy you happiness21:07 Realizing the corporate grind doesn’t work for you22:29 Nothing you see on social is real24:46 Advice for when you’re burnt out28:01 When you have strong boundaries, you don’t let your job/people push you to burn out30:43 You don’t have to reinvent the wheel, you can just emulate other successful companies/societies you look up to31:56 Questioning systemic/archaic constructs35:47 Having to be “twice as good”39:00 Discussing the engagement party41:40 Finding someone who supports your ambition42:52 Finding the right one once you accept your ambition43:48 Instrumental resources for personal and professional development46:08 Rapid fire questions! Keep up with Madison!<a href="https://utendahlcreative.com/" rel="nofollow">Utendahl Creative</a>@madison.utendahl on Instagram Resources/Mentioned<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Art-Gathering-How-Meet-Matters/dp/1594634920" rel="nofollow">The Art of Gathering</a> by <a href="https://www.amazon.com/stores/Priya-Parker/author/B07FCNLNB2?isDramIntegrated=true&ref=ap_rdr&shoppingPortalEnabled=true" rel="nofollow">Priya Parker</a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Big-Leap-Conquer-Hidden-Level/dp/0061735361" rel="nofollow">The Big Leap</a> by <a href="https://www.amazon.com/stores/Gay-Hendricks/author/B000APFFK0?isDramIntegrated=true&ref=ap_rdr&shoppingPortalEnabled=true" rel="nofollow">Gay Hendricks</a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/War-Art-Through-Creative-Battles/dp/1936891026" rel="nofollow">The War of Art </a>by <a href="https://www.amazon.com/stores/Steven-Pressfield/author/B000AQ8R8Q?isDramIntegrated=true&ref=ap_rdr&shoppingPortalEnabled=true" rel="nofollow">Steven Pressfield</a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1594634726" rel="nofollow">Big Magic</a> by <a href="https://www.amazon.com/stores/Elizabeth-Gilbert/author/B000APV4U0?isDramIntegrated=true&ref=ap_rdr&shoppingPortalEnabled=true" rel="nofollow">Elizabeth Gilbert</a> <a href="https://toocollective.com/collections/patch-store" rel="nofollow">Shop our Limited Edition Patches!</a><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a><a href="http://toocollective.norby.live/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a>Follow Too Collective on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en</a>Follow Alexis on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en</a>Follow Alexis on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en</a>Subscribe to Alexis on YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

154. From corporate burnout to a multi-passionate career with Madison Utendahl

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Discover four key elements that will reshape your self-image and strengthen your relationship with yourself. Tune in for practical inner work insights to help you build a more fulfilling and loving life. Show Notes1:24 How I’ve *really* been doing 2:18 Why I love Valentine’s Day3:24 Self-love and what it means4:01 The categories of self-love5:27 Navigating the pressure/anxiety around not being in a relationship6:47 Putting yourself first regardless of your relationship status7:27 Three things that make up self-love8:36 How to build your inherit self-worth10:15 Try to see the nuance in things12:58 Self-esteem as a crucial component in building confidence15:00 If you’re swayed by other people’s opinions, you’’ never feel a true sense of self15:22 Let’s talk about self-discipline 17:18 Redefining self-discipline18:11 Realizing you deserve more and acting accordingly Resources/Mentioned<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Perfectionists-Guide-Losing-Control-Peace/dp/059332952X" rel="nofollow">The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control</a> by <a href="https://www.amazon.com/stores/Katherine-Morgan-Schafler/author/B0BPTLCJMK?isDramIntegrated=true&ref=ap_rdr&shoppingPortalEnabled=true" rel="nofollow">Katherine Morgan Schafler</a> Featured Links:<ul><li><a href="https://chat.openai.com/c/link_to_robe" rel="nofollow">NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe</a></li><li><a href="https://chat.openai.com/c/link_to_website" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://chat.openai.com/c/link_to_affirmation_texts" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li></ul>Follow Too Collective on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li></ul>Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

153. What no-one admits about self-love

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It&#39;s time we redefine selfishness, break free from old people-pleasing habits, and unapologetically prioritize our needs. It&#39;s easy to let life slip by without realizing how much we bend over for others&#39; expectations, responsibilities, or demands that don&#39;t contribute to our well-being or personal growth.We&#39;ll explore the consequences of sacrificing our needs for others and dive into the transformative journey of declaring our &#39;selfish era.&#39; Tune in for practical insights on shifting your mindset and embracing an authentic, unapologetic way of living. Show Notes1:37 Managing the emotions that come with the end of a long-term relationship2:23 Entering your selfish era and prioritizing your needs3:07 Importance of investing in yourself 4:04 Ways to be intentional with your time and energy5:20 Developing a hobby/identity to create a sense of self outside your relationship6:59 Ask yourself, are you doing things for yourself or to appease someone else?7:38 What do you want your life to look like?8:44 The drawbacks of giving too much11:43 Relinquishing control over certain outcomes12:51 Utilizing calming affirmations to remain levelheaded13:56 What does being selfish mean to you?15:59 Knowing when to walk away16:37 Self-esteem vs self-worth17:55 Stop seeking validation from others18:49 Stop taking responsibility to make everyone help19:27 Self-care isn’t selfish, but being selfish is self-care Featured Links:<ul><li><a href="https://chat.openai.com/c/link_to_robe" rel="nofollow">NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe</a></li><li><a href="https://chat.openai.com/c/link_to_website" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://chat.openai.com/c/link_to_affirmation_texts" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li></ul>Follow Too Collective on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li></ul>Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

152. Being selfish is self-care

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Join me for a raw and candid conversation as I unpack recent insults, dealing with haters in real life, and strategies for facing those who try to make you feel small.We&#39;re unraveling the layers of people-pleasing, and why it&#39;s crucial to protect your energy in a world full of energy vultures. Show Notes2:00 You can’t be everything and still be liked3:11 Protecting your energy as an ambitious person4:31 Avoiding relationships with insecure people5:32 Using accolades to remedy insecurities7:00 Feeling as though you have something to prove8:48 Understanding your subconscious lack of boundaries10:12 Discerning between people pleasing and genuine interest12:19 Chasing perfection never yields happiness13:22 Feel the pain that comes with someone neglecting your success, but don’t let it define you15:20 “If you don’t like me that’s fine…”16:22 It’s only embarrassing if you’re embarrassed17:24 Having the courage to be yourself19:22 On being Nice and Pretty20:31 Nice girls don’t win21:34 It’s important to be discerning with who you trust/share information with23:11 No one can make you feel inferior without your consent Resources/Mentioned <ul><li><a href="https://www.westman-atelier.com/products/vital-skin" rel="nofollow">Westman Atelier Vital Skin Foundation Stick</a></li></ul> Featured Links:<ul><li><a href="https://chat.openai.com/c/link_to_robe" rel="nofollow">NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe</a></li><li><a href="https://chat.openai.com/c/link_to_website" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://chat.openai.com/c/link_to_affirmation_texts" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li></ul>Follow Too Collective on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li></ul>Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

151. How to deal with people who try to make you feel small

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Let&#39;s catch up! Tune in for some recent life updates, reflections on my dating life, and my ins and outs of 2024. I&#39;ll be sharing insights on mindsets, habits, self-care, and what I will absolutely NOT be tolerating this year. Join me for a breakdown of what&#39;s been happening and what&#39;s on the horizon! Show Notes2:42 Life update!6:36 Burnout prevention8:01 What classes am I taking!9:29 Going with the flow10:48 Dating again after a long-term relationship breakup – learning to be intentional13:37 Setting personal standards and sticking to them14:08 New Year’s resolutions – planning for a year of fun and achievement15:24 Stopping to reflect on how far I’ve come18:32 Enjoy the fruits of your labor!19:09 Ins and Outs of 202419:22 Outs!19:29 Sleeping with your phone20:26 Favoring aesthetics in lieu of genuine connection21:29 Dating content from people who’ve never been in relationships22:48 Believing that your dreams are too big24:24 Neglecting to get pedicures25:53 Ins!25:26 Hard gel manicures26:30 Pampering yourself27:17 Baths for stress relief27:42 Supplements and increased water intake28:24 Investing in bodycare29:24 Being unapologetic! Products mentioned:<a href="https://naturium.com/products/the-smoother-glycolic-acid-exfoliating-body-wash" rel="nofollow">Naturium Glycolic Acid Exfoliating Body Wash</a><a href="https://naturium.com/products/the-glow-getter-multi-oil-hydrating-body-wash?_pos=1&_sid=9ba66ea10&_ss=r" rel="nofollow">Naturium Multi-Oil Body Wash</a><a href="https://oseamalibu.com/products/undaria-algae-oil" rel="nofollow">Osea body oil</a>Featured Links:<ul><li><a href="https://chat.openai.com/c/link_to_robe" rel="nofollow">NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe</a></li><li><a href="https://chat.openai.com/c/link_to_website" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://chat.openai.com/c/link_to_affirmation_texts" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li></ul>Follow Too Collective on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li></ul>Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

150. My ins and outs for 2024 (habits, mindsets and self care)

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Today, we&#39;re diving into my journey getting off birth control and the lifestyle changes I&#39;ve made to balance my hormones. I&#39;ll walk you through how I prepared my body to remove hormonal birth control, discuss the side effects I noticed, and share my research on the impact of birth control on our bodies. Additionally, I share what I&#39;m doing now to balance my hormones, my list of favorite supplements, and other non-negotiable habits that have transformed my health.Note: around minute 16:00 when I mention excess progesterone, I meant to say excess estrogen.Resources mentioned:<a href="https://www.amazon.com/WomanCode-Perfect-Amplify-Fertility-Supercharge/dp/006213079X" rel="nofollow">Women Code by Alisa Vitti</a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Moody-Bitches-Taking-Missing-Having/dp/0143107909" rel="nofollow">Moody Bitches by by Julie Holland</a><a href="https://ouraring.com/product/rings" rel="nofollow">Aura Ring</a><a href="https://shopbeam.com/products/sleep-powder?selling_plan=787415095&variant=40207521742903" rel="nofollow">Beam Dream</a> (supplement for sleep)<a href="https://mybinto.com/" rel="nofollow">Binto Supplements</a><a href="https://www.arrae.com/products/bloat" rel="nofollow">Arrae Bloat Pills</a><a href="https://nutrafol.com/" rel="nofollow">Nutrafol</a> (for hair growth)<a href="https://elixhealing.com/" rel="nofollow">Elix</a> (healing elixirs)<a href="https://aliveapp.co/" rel="nofollow">Alive App</a> (workouts)<a href="https://www.onepeloton.com/app" rel="nofollow">Peloton App</a> (workouts)<a href="https://flo.health/" rel="nofollow">Flo app</a> (cycle tracking)<a href="https://www.notion.so/planning-for-the-future-4597f83e4f214441b6127a8eb7c21e62?pvs=21" rel="nofollow">Simple Modern 40oz Cup</a><a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4473164/" rel="nofollow">Study: High cholesterol in women because of skipping breakfast</a> Too Collective:<ul><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/products/too-classic-robe" rel="nofollow">NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.norby.live/signup/5ce7e2ed-fccf-44be-ad7e-e2fa0729ea5d" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Follow Too Collective on Instagram</a></li></ul> Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

149. The 411 on getting off birth control and healthy habits to balance hormone health

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This one&#39;s for all the material girls out there! In this episode, Alexis shares her 2023 favorites. Discover the secrets behind Alexis&#39;s glowing skin, must-have makeup essentials, luxurious home picks, fashion picks, and even book recs!Shop Too Collective:<ul><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/products/too-classic-robe" rel="nofollow">NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.norby.live/signup/5ce7e2ed-fccf-44be-ad7e-e2fa0729ea5d" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li></ul> Follow Too Collective on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li></ul> Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> MAKEUP<ul><li>REFY BROW GEL: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2ELNZUu7" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2ELNZUu7</a>  </li><li>REFY LIP IN FAWN: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2EMpvKXc" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2EMpvKXc</a> </li><li>AMI COLE LIP OIL: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2ELouUFp" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2ELouUFp</a> </li><li>DIOR ROSEWOOD BLUSH: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2ELBhcM5" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2ELBhcM5</a> </li></ul> SKIN<ul><li>PEACH AND LILLY GLASS SKIN: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2ELhWFXH" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2ELhWFXH</a> </li><li>SUMMER FRIDAYS MOISTURIZER: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2EL6YhZI" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2EL6YhZI</a> </li><li>&amp; SUNSCREEN: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2ELUmHPz" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2ELUmHPz</a> </li></ul> BODY &amp; FRAGRANCE<ul><li>OUAI ST BARTHS SCENTS: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2hTY0d0Z&" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2hTY0d0Z&amp;</a> <a href="https://howl.me/cli2EMN8BxY" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2EMN8BxY</a> </li><li>YSL BLACK OPIUM: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2ELKYNHX" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2ELKYNHX</a> </li><li>11:11 BODY OIL: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2EMqB5lg" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2EMqB5lg</a> </li><li>SOL DE JANIERO NIGHT ONE</li></ul> HAIR<ul><li>OUAI DETOX SHAMPOO: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2EM3BIaF" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2EM3BIaF</a> </li><li>REV AIR: <a href="https://myrevair.com/products/q4tp2023" rel="nofollow">https://myrevair.com/products/q4tp2023</a> </li><li>WOW SPRAY: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2ENqsEgv" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2ENqsEgv</a> </li><li>CURLING IRON</li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/47b3zsV" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/47b3zsV</a> </li><li>HAIR STICK</li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/3TA2yaC" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3TA2yaC</a> </li></ul>HOME <ul><li>11 11 DIFFUSERS</li><li><a href="https://howl.me/cli2EMzwwVV" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2EMzwwVV</a> </li><li>NESPRESSO MACHINE</li><li><a href="https://www.nespresso.com/us/en/vertuo-coffee-machines" rel="nofollow">https://www.nespresso.com/us/en/vertuo-coffee-machines</a> </li><li>DYSON FAN</li><li><a href="https://amzn.to/47gRJgR" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/47gRJgR</a> <a href="https://howl.me/cli2ENaOzej" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2ENaOzej</a> </li><li>OUAI X DEDCOOL LAUNDRY DETERGENT</li><li><a href="https://howl.me/cli2EM4RDKx" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2EM4RDKx</a> </li><li>BYREDO SOAPS</li><li><a href="https://howl.me/cli2EMVFB4m" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2EMVFB4m</a> </li></ul> CLOTHING<ul><li>LULULEMON ALIGN MINI FLARES</li><li><a href="https://howl.me/cli2EMMCmfe" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2EMMCmfe</a> </li><li>MONDAY SWIMWEAR SWIMSUITS</li><li><a href="https://mondayswimwear.com/" rel="nofollow">https://mondayswimwear.com/</a> </li><li>AGOLDE LOW RISE JEANS</li><li><a href="https://howl.me/cli2EMt4QTO" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2EMt4QTO</a> </li><li>HOUSE OF CB DRESSES</li><li><a href="https://howl.me/cli2EMq9Ldu" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2EMq9Ldu</a> </li><li>SKIMS BRA: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2ENr0YYx" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2ENr0YYx</a>  </li></ul> ACCESSORIES<ul><li>VIVRELLE: <a href="http://vivrelle.com" rel="nofollow">vivrelle.com</a> </li><li>MY BLUE LIGHT GLASSES; <a href="https://amzn.to/3NJow7h" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3NJow7h</a>  </li><li>AMAZON EARRINGS: <a href="https://amzn.to/48lTU3w" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/48lTU3w</a>  </li></ul> BOOKS<ul><li>THE MOUNTAIN IS YOU: <a href="https://amzn.to/3tqq1At" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3tqq1At</a> </li><li>THE PERFECTIONISTS GUIDE TO LOSING CONTROL: <a href="https://amzn.to/3THi4Se" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3THi4Se</a> </li></ul> TRAVEL<ul><li>AWAY SUITCASES : <a href="https://howl.me/cli2ENiiJlx" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2ENiiJlx</a> </li><li>LULULEMON DUFFLE BAG: <a href="https://howl.me/cli2EMQ5uGP" rel="nofollow">https://howl.me/cli2EMQ5uGP</a> </li><li>MINI WHITE NOISE MACHINE: <a href="https://amzn.to/3RWz5q7" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3RWz5q7</a> </li><li>STONEY CLOVER POUCHES: <a href="https://www.stoneycloverlane.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.stoneycloverlane.com/</a> </li></ul> OTHER / TECH<ul><li>SUPERHUMAN APP </li><li>PINTEREST</li><li>TRIPOD: <a href="https://amzn.to/3NIHPgR" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3NIHPgR</a> </li><li>MY MICROSOFT SURFACE PRO 9: <a href="https://amzn.to/48fFItf" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/48fFItf</a> </li><li>MY DJI POCKET 2: <a href="https://amzn.to/3TJgnU6" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3TJgnU6</a> </li></ul> TV SHOWS:<ul><li>Real Housewives</li><li>The Crown</li><li>The Bear</li></ul> Shop Alexis&#39;s Picks:<a href="https://www.amazon.com/shop/wellnessalexis" rel="nofollow">Shop Alexis’s Amazon Store</a><a href="https://alexisbarber.komi.io/" rel="nofollow">Shop Alexis’s Outfits and More</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

148. My 2023 favorites: skincare, makeup, home, fashion and more

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In this week&#39;s Too Smart For This, Alexis shares her goal-setting tips for the new year! Chock full of insight, practical tips, and inspiration, this solo episode is a must for empowering you on your journey toward a fulfilling and purpose-driven future. Tune in to discover the keys to unlocking your potential and making 2024 the year you turn your aspirations into reality! Show Notes3:27 How to set goals and create a vision board!5:05 You can’t control time, but you can change your relationship with the clock6:07 The subtle power of changing your identity7:47 Rewriting your narrative and crafting your identity9:57 Transforming resilience into suffering11:30 Using goal visualization to get what you want13:35 Categories for creating a personal brand/identity16:30 Use/focus on what you don’t want17:09 Understanding your capacity and capabilities19:44 Reviewing and evaluating your calendar performance21:15 Create capacity buckets!25:21 Goals: feelings vs accomplishments29:21 Capacity and intent in identity development29:55 Building accountability structures for yourself31:26 Aim for the maximum!33:09 Utilizing the structures that exist around you33:50 The benefits of morning meditation(s)35:02 Develop a framework for responding to negative situations35:13 Move, regulate, vent36:48 Build a self-care buffer zone38:48 Making vision boards for the 5 areas of your life Resources/Mentioned<a href="https://www.nespresso.com/us/en/order/machines/vertuo/vertuo-plus-grey?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiAvoqsBhB9EiwA9XTWGSvmW66MOiZdQFqx8vUDMU-xoCXT2ujt_dULe6FE4rN1rGVOBS1mDxoCXDsQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds" rel="nofollow">Nespresso Vertuo</a> – use code 20Alexis!<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/0735211299" rel="nofollow">Atomic Habits</a> by James Clear<a href="https://www.superhuman.app/" rel="nofollow">Superhuman App</a><a href="https://youtu.be/bQzH6zpWQPI?si=pdCwKiUOuI0TOnFS" rel="nofollow">Google Calendar hacks video</a> <a href="https://toocollective.com/products/too-classic-robe" rel="nofollow">NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe</a><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a><a href="http://toocollective.norby.live/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a> Follow Too Collective on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en</a>Follow Alexis on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en</a>Follow Alexis on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en</a>Subscribe to Alexis on YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

147. How to reinvent yourself in 2024

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Welcome back to Too Smart For This episode 146! In this episode, Alexis shares details of her first semester experience in the Wharton MBA program. She covers everything you want to know - from finances and academics to social life. If you&#39;re considering applying for an MBA, especially at a top program like Wharton, this episode is essential listening. Alexis tells all about the realities of B-school and life on campus as a first year MBA student. Show Notes1:20 Wharton Q&amp;A!2:29 Overview of business school8:04 Utilizing the deferred enrollment program9:21 Breaking down the b-school landscape11:23 Let’s talk academics17:08 Social dynamics of an MBA program20:20 Navigating the social scene25:57 Budgeting for social travel/events32:36 Scholarships33:47 First semester summary Resources/Mentioned<a href="https://cgsm.org/" rel="nofollow">The Consortium</a><a href="https://mlt.org/" rel="nofollow">Management Leadership for Tomorrow</a> Shop Too Collective:<ul><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/products/too-classic-robe" rel="nofollow">NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a></li><li><a href="https://toocollective.norby.live/signup/5ce7e2ed-fccf-44be-ad7e-e2fa0729ea5d" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a></li></ul> Follow Too Collective on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li></ul> Follow Alexis on Social Media:<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a></li></ul> Shop Alexis&#39;s Picks:<a href="https://www.amazon.com/shop/wellnessalexis" rel="nofollow">Shop Alexis’s Amazon Store</a><a href="https://alexisbarber.komi.io/" rel="nofollow">Shop Alexis’s Outfits and More</a>alexisbarber.nycBusiness Inquiries: hello@alexisbarber.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

146. Wharton AMA: cliques, finances, academics, parties

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Welcome to a special milestone episode of Too Smart For This! Today, Alexis is celebrating her 25th birthday, and she&#39;s taking a moment to reflect on the valuable lessons she&#39;s learned in the past year. Join her as she shares personal insights, growth moments, and the wisdom gained on her journey so far. It&#39;s a candid episode filled with reflections, gratitude, and the anticipation of what lies ahead. Let&#39;s celebrate and learn together on this birthday edition of Too Smart For This! Quick Notes1:20 Recapping 242:15 Thank you!2:30 Life lessons from 24 years2:41 Putting yourself first without feeling guilty5:45 The myth of the balanced life7:04 Embracing the unexpected8:11 No one is coming to save you11:05 Viewing failure as a good thing13;43 How to own your shit and stop blaming others16:57 Figuring out what’s most important to you18:43 Trust YOUR timing22:07 Goals for 25!22:48 #1 Have fun and enjoy life23:06 #2 Become a version of you your younger self would look up to23:31 #3 Show up for yourself25:50 #4 Invest in personal care27:20 #5 Don&#39;t allow yourself to dream small <a href="https://toocollective.com/products/too-classic-robe" rel="nofollow">NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe</a><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a><a href="http://toocollective.norby.live/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a>Follow Too Collective on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en</a>Follow Alexis on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en</a>Follow Alexis on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en</a>Subscribe to Alexis on YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

145. Lessons from 24, goals for 25

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Video DescriptionIn this episode of Too Smart For This, join Alexis as she candidly shares some takeaways from what have been chaotic times, to say the least. She talks about prioritizing yourself again, how she came to the decision that she doesn&#39;t want to be actively dating and is ok with being single and walking through the uncomfortable changes that she’s going through. Show Notes1:46 Whirlwind first semester of Wharton2:30 Life update!6:47 Decentering men8:50 You are in charge of your own happiness9:36 Believing that you can accomplish great things11:26 Cultivating patience in an immediate gratification world14:09 Everything is happening for your highest good … you will be okay14:45 Discomfort as a catalyst for growth15:57 The power of being present18:18 Realizing when you’re engaging in self-sabotaging behavior Resources/Mentioned<a href="https://www.rhodeskin.com/products/glazing-milk" rel="nofollow">Rhode Glazing Milk</a><a href="https://www.elfcosmetics.com/power-grip-primer/82846.html?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiApaarBhB7EiwAYiMwqph23E9RDM1B5g5xOsqooLq4y3q3L_-4zvNjzmnlVI7MSyXcnqfXoxoCGWQQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds" rel="nofollow">e.l.f. Power Grip Primer</a><a href="https://www.narscosmetics.com/USA/ginger-radiant-creamy-concealer/0607845012351.html?bvstate=pg%3A5%2Fct%3Aq&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiApaarBhB7EiwAYiMwqvTz0keuXifBSDCDtUT0voSMNJODmiRzk1VsLj_oR1cyz-xVbvhqkxoCHkAQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds" rel="nofollow">NARS Radiant Creamy Concealer</a><a href="https://fentybeauty.com/products/match-stix-contour-skinstick-mocha?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiApaarBhB7EiwAYiMwqtA9V3EHTQUHist2lXmYAtAP_92oeAaIEnZ3GqQITqW2RYD0HZvsjhoCzrgQAvD_BwE&utm_adgroup=135632325559&utm_campaign=17181274964&utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google&variant=41471075090477" rel="nofollow">Fenty Beauty Match Stix</a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery/dp/1949759229" rel="nofollow">The Mountain is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery</a><a href="https://www.amicole.com/products/lip-treatment-oil" rel="nofollow">Ami Cole Lip Treatment Oil</a> <a href="https://toocollective.com/products/too-classic-robe" rel="nofollow">NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe</a><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a><a href="http://toocollective.norby.live/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a>Follow Too Collective on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en</a>Follow Alexis on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en</a>Follow Alexis on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en</a>Subscribe to Alexis on YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

144. breaking free from boy stress, desperately trying to stay sane in the chaos, avoiding self-sabotage

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Welcome back to Too Smart For This! This week, Alexis is sharing the tangible tips she used to #glowup this year! Make sure to rate the show 5 Stars and share on Instagram @toocollective Don&#39;t forget that Too Collective is having our BIGGEST SALE OF THE YEAR: 25% off all robes! Get them before we sell out! Show Notes2:20 How to transform your life4:23 TooCollective Black Friday sale!5:13 10 tools I’ve used to glow up over the past year5:57 #1 Dreaming + being honest with yourself8:45 #2 Everything is happening for your highest good11:34 #3 Importance of discomfort for personal growth13:01 #4 Check in with yourself and your priorities!14:49 #5 Minimizing digital interaction18:52 #6 Maximizing calendar productivity 19:37 #7 Build routines that enable you to become your best self21:23 #8 Habit stacking and its importance24:01 #9 You need to live life!27:26 #10 Be present! Resources/Mentioned<a href="https://www.superhuman.app/?gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQiA35urBhDCARIsAOU7QwncK53hhYeGAHkIA8ArfVbu8EIxhxE-UDFQIRWBrswa0H8eHb_nTIAaAs_1EALw_wcB" rel="nofollow">Superhuman App</a><a href="https://mybinto.com/?gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQiA35urBhDCARIsAOU7Qwkv0G91Nk4rdm5rU34IXNEE8ypVLCOMBGQ1KJOWvCyBAm5O19-hHzoaAuoJEALw_wcB&utm_campaign=Brand&utm_medium=CPC&utm_source=Google" rel="nofollow">Binto Supplements</a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/You-Can-Heal-Your-Life/dp/0937611018" rel="nofollow">You Can Heal Your Life</a> by <a href="https://www.amazon.com/s?i=stripbooks&ref=dp_byline_sr_book_1&rh=p_27%3ALouise+Hay&s=relevancerank&text=Louise+Hay" rel="nofollow">Louise Hay</a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Perfectionists-Guide-Losing-Control-Peace/dp/059332952X" rel="nofollow">The Perfectionist&#39;s Guide to Losing Control: A Path to Peace and Power</a> by <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Katherine-Morgan-Schafler/e/B0BPTLCJMK/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1" rel="nofollow">Katherine Morgan Schafler</a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Conscious-Luck-Secrets-Intentionally-Fortune/dp/1250622948" rel="nofollow">Conscious Luck: Eight Secrets to Intentionally Change Your Fortune</a> by <a href="https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=dp_byline_sr_book_1?field-author=Gay+Hendricks+PH.D.&ie=UTF8&search-alias=books&sort=relevancerank&text=Gay+Hendricks+PH.D." rel="nofollow">Gay Hendricks </a>and <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Carol-Kline/e/B000APJI12/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_2" rel="nofollow">Carol Kline</a>  <a href="https://toocollective.com/products/too-classic-robe" rel="nofollow">NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth Robe</a><a href="https://toocollective.com/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Website</a><a href="http://toocollective.norby.live/" rel="nofollow">Too Collective Affirmation Texts</a>Follow Too Collective on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=en</a>Follow Alexis on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en</a>Follow Alexis on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en</a>Subscribe to Alexis on YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

143. Tangbile Tips I Used to Glow Up This Year

For smart and superficial girls everywhere, this podcast helps multifaceted women untangle society's expectations of them through candid conversations and tangible tips for crafting your own journey. Hosted by Alexis Barber, entrepreneur, creator and...

For smart and superficial girls everywhere, this podcast helps multifaceted women untangle society's expectations of them through candid conversations and tangible tips for crafting your own journey. Hosted by Alexis Barber, entrepreneur, creator and ex-YouTube and Google employee, you'll hear both the realities of being an ambitious 20-something that identifies as a #MaterialGirl and plenty of gems from our wide range of guests. Follow the show on Instagram and TikTok at @toocollective.