16: Same Letters, Different Story (Symptoms & Diagnoses for Borderline Personality and Bipolar Disorders)
Bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder may have similar names and some overlapping symptoms, but they are very different diagnoses.
In this episode, Amy and Brittney break down the differences between bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder, including depression, mania and hypomania, emotional reactivity, impulsivity, attachment, and fear of abandonment. They also look at where symptoms can overlap and why telling the difference isn't always as straightforward as it seems.
Along the way, they use examples from King of the Hill, Shameless, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, Girl, Interrupted, and even Star Wars to help put some of these symptoms into context. They also discuss sleep, medication, support systems, routines, and other tools that may help manage symptoms.
Plus: Amy learns that apparently starting with the same letter is enough for her brain to file two completely different diagnoses in the same folder.
Chapters
00;21 Intro
01:11 Why the Mix-Up?
02:23 Symptoms if Bipolar Depression
08:00 Pop Culture Examples of Bipolar
12:24 Symptoms & Criteria of Borderline Personality Disorder
17:37 Pop Culture References of Borderline
22:56 Overlaps of Bipolar and Borderline
26:24 Getting Help, Not Self-Diagnosis
28:39 Help for Both Disorders
33:41 Three Spirit Drinks
34: 24 Is it Manic?
35:20 Medications
37:04 Non-Medicinal Help
47:22 One last question
52:08 How You Can Help Someone
This episode was recorded on May 4, 2026 and released on August 26, 2026.
Episode links:
I Hate You Don't Leave Me by Jerold J. Kreisman, Hall Strauss https://amzn.to/4qDgyyA
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Credits:
Co-Produced and Hosted by: Brittney Baxter Dameron and Amy Lotsberg
Production, Artwork, and Editing: Amy Lotsberg at Collected Sounds Media, LLC.
Theme song. “The Journey” by Melissa West and Mixed/Mastered by Pink Flamingo Home Studio
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