- #41 Whose Happiness Comes First – Mothers or Children?
In this thought-provoking episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve deep into the often overlooked aspect of motherhood: the mother's own happiness and well-being. Join us as we explore the tendency for mothers to prioritize their children's experiences over their own, the societal expectations placed upon mothers, and the impact of relationships, like marriage, on a woman's happiness.
Join us as we celebrate the multifaceted journey of motherhood, encouraging mothers everywhere to nurture their own happiness as they nurture their children. Tune in for an empowering and enlightening conversation.
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1h 19m - May 12, 2024 - #40 How The 20 Year Affair with My Brother in Law Worked Out
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This week Chelsea is joined in the studio with a special guest, Grace. They delve into the intricate layers of Grace's life, where she candidly shares her journey through a decades-spanning marriage. Discover the profound impact of infidelity on Grace's life, as she opens up about her 20-year affair with her brother-in-law, unraveling the tangled web of emotions, guilt, and longing.
In this episode, we confront the uncomfortable truths of marital discord, the allure of forbidden love, and the difficult journey toward reclaiming one's sense of self. We will navigate the depths of Grace's experiences, offering a counterweight to conventional narratives surrounding infidelity and providing a beacon of hope for those grappling with similar struggles.
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1h 0m - May 5, 2024 - #39 Why Do People Stay and Cheat Instead of Leave
This week Chelsea and Ann Marie explore the concept of opportunity cost in relationships, emphasizing the human tendency to prioritize external factors like financial stability and social standing over personal well-being and growth. They discuss how pro's and con's lists can lead to analysis paralysis, hindering individual growth within relationships.
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1h 10m - Apr 28, 2024 - #38 Does The World Change or Does How You View The World Change?
In this week's episode, Chelsea & Ann Marie embark on an exploration of how marriage, infidelity, motherhood and many other factors transformed the way they viewed the world. Dispelling common misconceptions along the way, they bravely share their experiences of embracing new mindsets. As they reflect on the transformative power of flexibility over rigidity, listeners are invited to join them on a candid and thought-provoking journey.
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45m - Apr 21, 2024 - #37 Am I Giving Him an Ultimatum or Setting a Boundary?
In this weeks episode join us for a thought-provoking exploration of boundaries, self-care, and the profound impact they have on the fabric of our relationships. Get ready to embark on a journey of empowerment and connection as we navigate the intricate terrain of setting healthy boundaries.
Topics:
- Distinguishing boundaries from ultimatums.
- Understanding self-abandonment.
- Empowerment through boundaries.
- Comprehensive ways to model boundaries and why it's impactful.
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37m - Apr 14, 2024 - #36 Chelsea Jubilee Reaction
Chelsea reacts to her own guest appearance on an episode of Jubilee centered around infidelity. Join Chelsea as she pulls back the curtain on this experience and talks about what it was really like on this set.
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33m - Apr 7, 2024 - #35 From Trolling to Dialogue: A Betrayed Spouse Shares His Journey
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1h 0m - Feb 25, 2024 - #34 On The Other Side Of Infidelity w/ Melanie
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48m - Jan 21, 2024 - #33 Twin Flames, Validation & Real Love w/ Kristin
Chelsea & Kristin discuss infidelity, the essence of love, societal expectations of relationships, and the concept of soulmates or twin flames. Rather than sticking to societal norms, they emphasize the paramount significance of cultivating self-love, seeking internal validation and nurturing genuine self-understanding. They explore the idea that one's relationship with oneself sets the foundation for their relationships with others.
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48m - Jan 14, 2024 - #32 Male Emotional Affair Gone Wrong w/ Marty
Marty shares his complex journey about an emotional affair he had while being married for 20 years. He details his struggle with balancing his love for his wife and the feelings for his affair partner, while also dealing with personal growth and realization.
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41m - Jan 7, 2024 - #31 Why He Won't Leave Her w/ Minister Jamie
In this episode of The Other Woman and a Wife, host Chelsea is joined by minister Jamie to discuss the topic of infidelity and why women often find themselves in competition with one another. They explore how societal expectations and upbringing shape women's perception of themselves in relation to men, the importance of passion in relationships, and the complexities of reconciling after infidelity. Jamie shares valuable insights on love, the difference between being in love with the idea of a person versus the actual person, and the role of circumstances in changing individuals.
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31m - Dec 10, 2023 - #30 Betrayed Husband Unravels Infidelity w/ Shaun
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46m - Nov 26, 2023 - #29 Growing Up in a Toxic Family Environment w/ Kaity
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Description:
Katie shares her story of growing up in dysfunctional families, dealing with emotionally unstable parents, and the trauma these experiences have inflicted on her. Katie extensively shares her childhood experiences, detailing how her parents' unhappy marriage and subsequent divorce shaped her. Katie discusses the lessons she's drawn from these experiences, as well as her efforts to ensure these patterns don't repeat in her own family and relationships.
Topics:
- Impact of Parent's Toxic Relationship
- Relationship with Parents as an Adult
- When to End a Relationship
- Experience with Toxic Stepmothers
- The Impact of Divorce
- Boomer Mentality and Its Effects
- The Fallout of a Family Conflict
- Struggles of Blending a Family
- The Importance of Validation and Apology
- The Bond Between Siblings Amidst Chaos
- The Aftermath and Moving Forward
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51m - Nov 19, 2023 - #28 From Shame to Growth: Therapist Talks Infidelity w/ Romi Cumes
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Romi Cumes is a leading professional in somatic and relational psychotherapy, bodywork, yoga instruction, and intuitive healing. She supports people to explore the profound relationship between somatic (body-centered) awareness, inner-healing and personal growth.
In this episode Romi shares her professional & personal opinion on the topic of infidelity covering the following topics:
Topics:
- Fear of therapy in affairs
- Body's response to thoughts impacts experiences
- Intentionality and mindfulness
- The inner critic and addiction to mobile phones in a relationship
- Powerful exercise for managing stress.
- Processing shame and imbalances
- Communication and open agreements in relationships
- Are cheaters bad people?
- Once a cheater always a cheater?
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39m - Nov 12, 2023 - #27 Former Pastor got Accused of Cheating w/ Dave Capozzi
Dave Capozzi is a former evangelical pastor turned teacher. Dave shares his personal experiences with infidelity, including unexpected proposals and accusations. Chelsea and Dave explore deconstruction, the challenges of marriage within the confines of religion, and the importance of trauma-informed care.
Topics
- Personal Experiences with Infidelity
- The Impact of Marriage and Expectations
- The Decision to leave marriage
- The Process of Deconstruction
- Importance of Trauma-Informed Care
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40m - Nov 5, 2023 - #26 Exploring the Intersection of Religion and Infidelity w/ Bible School Black Sheep
Topics:
- fear of being ostracized
- purpose of religious relationship
- religious deconstruction
- fear of hell
- miss-use of religion
- religion & human development
- community
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57m - Oct 29, 2023 - #25 From Resentment to Healing: How a Betrayed Husband Overcame the Pain of Infidelity w/ Luke Shillings
Luke is relationship coach specialised in infidelity recovery. In his previous marriage he got cheated on by his wife. He now uses that experience to help the betrayer and betrayed parties to heal from their affairs.
This episode is packed with personal stories and insights.
Topics:
- Luke's infidelity experience
- The Role of Feelings and Emotions
- Decision to stay
- Wanted and Unwanted Emotions
- Boundaries to leave
- Handling expectations in a relationship
- Getting over resentment
- Co-parenting
- Rebuilding Trust
- Acceptance and Communication in Relationships
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1h 6m - Oct 22, 2023 - #24 Q&A: Did he use me? Is he having Sex with his wife?
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26m - Oct 8, 2023 - #23 How Money Influences your Relationship & Independence w/ Julie
Topics
- Lack of money
- Independence
- Leaving without money
- Finding a job
- Value system around money
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34m - Oct 1, 2023 - #22 Betrayed Wife Stays in Marriage After Affair w/ Kayti
Topics
- Kayti's betrayal story
- Being honest with emotions
- leading military couples after infidelity
- Fear in affairs
- Avoiding infidelity in marriage
- Choice in affairs
- Managing kids after the divorce
- What men are allowed to do..
- letting go of identity
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