• Growth Is Painful | An Uncomfortable Truth About Comparisons | #2GMHC | Ep 34

    Growth vs. Comparison: Preparing, Evolving, and Staying Present | 2 Grown Men Having A Conversation


    In this episode of “2 Grown Men Having A Conversation,” Joe T and D Johns talk about evolving through real growth instead of chasing money, status, or other people’s “goalposts.” They discuss how comparison and ego can make growth feel painful, why “ready” is just a feeling while preparation is the real foundation, and how focusing too far ahead can make you miss the present. Joe T reflects on post-incarceration pressure to “catch up,” the importance of saying no and not enabling unhealthy patterns, and how isolation can be dangerous without accountability. They also explore removing the desire behind harmful habits, being honest about inner thoughts, learning from wise counsel, and collaborating creatively while telling authentic stories. Subscribe to the channel, and comment which part of the conversation hit you the most.


    00:00 Growth Over Chasing

    01:08 Show Intro And Check In

    02:33 Behind After Prison

    05:24 Painful Growth Mindset

    07:59 Ego And Old Friends

    10:57 Prepared Not Just Ready

    17:42 Marriage Prep And Advice

    20:35 Live In The Now

    22:15 Knowing Yourself For Change

    24:33 Digging Into Root Causes

    26:50 Killing the Desire

    28:18 Confession and Accountability

    29:07 Isolation vs Community

    31:07 Telling the Whole Story

    34:27 Growth Box and Real Struggles

    37:52 Committed to Solutions

    39:46 Collaboration Builds Characters

    41:59 Growth and New Perspectives

    44:07 Mock Trials and Proof

    47:22 Health Benefits of Growth

    48:31 Closing Reflections



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    E34 - 49m - Apr 23, 2026
  • Cutting Through On Social Media | YouTube Is A Network | #2GMHC | Ep 33

    Transfer Traffic to YouTube: Consistency, Reposting, and Why YouTube Pays More


    Joe T and D Johns discuss social media growth and monetization, emphasizing that consistency is key and that creators must intentionally transfer traffic from Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook to YouTube. They describe YouTube as the hardest platform to build but the most valuable because it pays best, keeps older videos circulating in the algorithm, and makes creators feel like “household names,” unlike Facebook where earnings reset and older posts stop making money. They debate cross-posting between Instagram and Facebook, suggest “dead” accounts may need new pages, and stress keeping a product ready and plugging it often. They share tactics like reposting content, changing titles to revive clips, deleting and reposting underperforming posts, and staying authentic rather than manufacturing drama, while building community over vanity metrics.


    00:00 Hooking Stories to YouTube

    00:46 Show Intro and Consistency

    01:14 Life Updates and Momentum

    02:00 Brand Shoutout Listen More

    03:42 Cross Platform Traffic Strategy

    05:35 Facebook and Algorithm Realities

    07:19 Reviving Dead Pages

    09:40 Plug Your Product Often

    12:05 Reposting and Deleting Tactics

    15:38 YouTube Pays and Lasts

    17:57 Stop Proving People Wrong

    18:51 Adapting to UGC Style

    19:19 Green Screen Debate

    20:11 Notoriety Versus Money

    21:44 Building Real Community

    23:53 Podcasters And Traffic Loops

    25:49 Why Not Watch Longform

    29:12 Pivoting Beyond Social Media

    30:35 Confidence And Delivery

    32:54 Movie Lesson On Confidence

    35:47 Final Takeaways And Call To Action



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    E33 - 38m - Apr 10, 2026
  • I'm Ready | Why Men Should be Certain About Marriage | #2GMHC | Ep 32

    The Dear Son Network creates honest conversations about fatherhood, masculinity, and the life lessons many men never hear growing up.


    2 Grown Men Having A Conversation: Family Moments, Healing After Prison & Being 1000% Sure About Marriage


    In this episode of “2 Grown Men Having A Conversation,” the hosts reflect on a refreshing weekend centered on family, growth, and relationships. Joe T shares how serving 10 years in prison reshaped his ability to value present moments, describing emotional highlights from a bridal shower and seeing his mother, sister, daughter, and fiancée Ebony bond in ways he hadn’t witnessed since coming home nearly 10 years ago. They discuss how communication history affects how kids approach parents, fears about blending family dynamics, and the importance of anchoring moments that help couples navigate future challenges. He reaffirms he knew early he would marry Eboni and says the weekend made him even more confident about their future and continued growth together. They also promote a new free site, “Podcast Circuit,” designed to connect podcast hosts with potential guests by category.


    00:00 Prison Gratitude Mindset

    00:51 Show Intro And Check In

    01:47 Letting Your Teen Drive

    02:33 Kids Hesitation And Communication

    04:05 Ask Anyway In Life

    05:01 Weekend Anchoring Moments

    10:29 Family Bonding After Time Lost

    15:40 Blending Families And In Laws

    19:26 Certain About Marriage

    20:52 Growing Together Over Time

    22:47 Wedding Day Emotions

    24:13 Partners Reflect Choices

    24:37 Accountability In Love

    25:27 Creating Emotional Safety

    26:41 Italy Trip Logistics

    27:37 Atlanta Airport Survival

    28:41 Building Podcast Circuit

    32:07 Social Media Comment Culture

    35:36 Wedding Motivation Surge

    38:24 Misread Clips And Titles

    41:19 Easter Naming Debate

    42:10 Emotional Growth With Partner

    44:46 Closing Spoken Word Outro


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    E32 - 45m - Apr 3, 2026
  • My Past Deserves A Pass | We Gotta Do Better | #2GMHC | Ep 31

    2 Grown Men Talk Internet Culture, Grace, and Putting Each Other On


    In this episode of “2 Grown Men Having A Conversation,” Joe T and D Johns discuss how the internet amplifies conflict, rumor, and commentary, making it harder for people to move on from past battles and mistakes. They react to a recent Jay interview and his point that rap beef used to be contained but now can spill into attempts to destroy lives, families, and reputations. They talk about community accountability, the danger of disposable soundbite culture, and how content creation can turn malice into a persona that becomes hard to escape. They explore judging people based on when you met them, referencing the Diddy conversation and similar comments about other figures, and emphasize growth and grace over jealousy. They close by encouraging Black creators to collaborate and announce a “DW Black Owned Businesses” show coming in April.


    00:00 Why Tear Us Down

    00:36 Grace Based On Experience

    01:05 Two Grown Men Intro

    02:09 Learning The Interview Process

    03:16 You Cant Win Comments

    04:06 Jay Interview Internet Reaction

    07:32 Battles Changed By Internet

    09:28 Fan Wars Turn Dangerous

    12:49 Disposable Culture And Feeds

    14:35 Candace Owens Media Machine

    16:18 Joy Or Jealousy Mindset

    18:30 Find The Why Behind Feelings

    19:41 Jealousy Hurts Everyone

    20:32 Content With Hidden Malice

    21:44 Raised On Social Media

    23:23 Chasing What Works

    24:02 Real Impact Over Money

    26:05 Pivoting From A Persona

    28:09 Meeting People Where They Are

    31:09 Nothing Dies On The Internet

    33:01 Putting Each Other On

    40:02 Next Projects And Wrap Up


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    E31 - 41m - Apr 1, 2026
  • Why Men Minimize Their Feelings | I'm Fine. Just Let Me Be. | #2GMHC | Ep 30

    2 Grown Men Talk: Men, Pain, and Learning to Celebrate Progress


    Joe T and D Johns check in on their moods and faith, including a devotion practice centered on “being anxious about nothing.” D Johns details a much needed car worship moment after taking his mother-in-law to the airport. The conversation shifts to what pain men keep to themselves, prompted by the show “Blue Therapy,” and explores how men often default to problem-solving, minimizing feelings, and moving on quickly rather than expressing emotions. They discuss the importance of choosing a partner who can handle honesty without “fixing,” avoiding overstimulation, and not creating self-imposed pressure. They also talk about resentment, PDA and assumptions, routines becoming manipulative, and the need to celebrate relationship milestones (like improved communication) through intentional habits such as date nights, while continuing personal growth and gratitude.


    00:00 Cold Open and Setup

    00:11 Show Intro and Check In

    01:25 Devotion and Worship Ride

    02:56 Blue Therapy Sparks a Question

    04:10 Men and Emotional Expression

    08:07 Letting Your Partner In

    09:49 Carrying the Load and Misread Signals

    12:04 Self Made Pressure and Lifestyle

    20:42 Why Peace Beats Pain Talk

    22:17 Tools for Handling Pain

    23:50 Stop Chasing Lessons

    25:00 Celebrate The Wins

    26:29 Plan Monthly Celebrations

    27:16 Date Nights Got Lost

    29:12 Wedding Is Just A Moment

    29:56 Ego And Vulnerability

    33:29 Routine Or Manipulation

    35:23 Long Love Still Learns

    37:26 Past Shackles And Healing

    42:05 Keys To Your Joy

    45:01 Choosing Peace Daily

    46:31 Gratitude And Gospel


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    E30 - 47m - Mar 13, 2026
  • Why Every Man Should Audit His Circle | 2 Grown Men Having A Conversation | Ep 29

    The Dear Son, Network creates honest conversations about fatherhood, masculinity, and the life lessons many men never hear growing up.


    Joe T and D Johns talk about summertime energy and personal growth, focusing on emotional availability, letting go of ego, and recognizing real progress in relationships and business. They recap the DSN Live event, including pre-show anxiety, learning to control what they can, resolving a venue issue calmly, and how the night felt like true community through strong audience engagement and feedback from new supporters. They discuss accepting praise, the nerves of trying new things, trusting partners with your vision, and the value of being surrounded by people in purpose who share knowledge rather than gatekeep. They also touch on doing live shows in their hometowns, learning to coexist with other alpha personalities, setting bigger financial goals—specifically making a million this year—and prioritizing memorable experiences in marriage and family life.


    00:00 Summer Check In

    00:32 Emotional Growth

    02:12 Family Shifts

    03:59 DSN Live Anxiety

    06:11 Community Feedback

    07:17 Accepting Praise

    08:48 New Thing Nerves

    11:12 Partnership Trust

    12:48 Handling Venue Issues

    14:37 Future Live Shows

    16:28 Two Grown Men Live

    17:44 Show Highlights

    18:37 Purposeful Circles

    19:22 Money Talks for Kids

    20:18 Coexisting with Alphas

    22:05 Unscripted Podcast Growth

    24:17 Going Home to Perform

    26:24 Millionaire Mindset Goals

    27:47 Marriage and Italy Dreams

    31:35 Regrets and Being Present

    33:46 Pressure to Provide

    35:19 Sharpening Friendships

    36:29 Closing Spoken Word


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    E29 - 37m - Mar 3, 2026
  • Don't Let Up | Validation, Quitting, and God’s Will | Ep 28 | 2 Grown Men Having A Conversation

    2 Grown Men Talk Validation, Quitting, and God’s Will (Plus Fatherhood Lessons)


    Hosts Joe T and D Johns open the episode reflecting on feeling optimistic while also navigating recent slumps and the challenges of staying consistent with their platform. They discuss D Johns' daughter joining a cheer clinic and his concerns about how to encourage her if she faces disappointment, which leads into a deeper conversation about quitting, fear, and preparing the right “keep going” speech as a father. The two explore the habit of doing the “easy thing,” letting themselves off the hook, and how validation from others can stop growth—using examples like drawing, basketball, and creating content when guests cancel. They talk about comparing work in a healthy way as a benchmark, wrestling with pride, and the drive to prove to themselves they can do difficult things, while also reflecting on backgrounds where bigger possibilities didn’t feel accessible. The conversation shifts to instilling belief in children that they can do anything, balancing ambition with humility, and not settling for “good enough.” They also wrestle with interpreting God’s will, avoiding a formulaic faith, and separating identity from results while still being honest about desires—such as building a platform that sustains family, creating financial security, and owning property like a family compound. They emphasize patience, character change, using practical tools and resources, learning to ask for help, and not undervaluing routine skills. The episode closes with a charge referencing 2 Timothy 1:6, encouraging listeners to study the original meaning of “power,” “love,” “sound mind,” and “fear,” and ends with a reflective spoken piece on humility, accountability, pride, and consequences.


    00:00 Welcome Back: Windy City Vibes & Checking In

    00:18 Optimism After a Slump: Building Together & Turning a Leaf

    00:54 Dad Talk: Daughter’s Cheer Clinic, Tryouts & Handling Disappointment

    02:43 Filling the Gaps: When Guests Cancel and You Default to the “Easy Thing”

    06:12 Validation vs Full Potential: The ‘Good Enough’ Trap

    08:08 Healthy Comparison: Benchmarks, Pride, and Avoiding the Results Game

    12:08 Proving You Can: Access, Environment, and Breaking Old Limits

    14:57 Instilling Belief in Your Kids: Culture at Home & Carrying Family Pressure

    18:35 Bittersweet Success: Perfectionism, Settling, and Wrestling With ‘More’

    22:00 Faith Check: Is It Really God’s Will?

    22:26 Trust, Character & Not Treating the Bible Like a Formula

    24:27 Stop Boxing God In: Desires, Worth & Disassociating From Results

    27:12 Naming the Desire: Providing for Family, Property & Legacy

    28:51 Patience, Timing & Making Sure It’s God’s Signature

    33:47 Missing Tools: Business Wisdom, Asking for Help & Leaving the Wilderness

    39:51 Process Over Highlight Reel: Valuing Routine, Mastery & Charging for Results

    43:27 No More Excuses + Final Charge: Power, Love & a Sound Mind (2 Tim 1:6–7)

    45:13 Closing Spoken-Word Reflection: Humility, Accountability & Pride


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    E28 - 45m - Feb 20, 2026
  • Unpacking The Pain: Marriage, Purpose, Secret Struggles | Ep 27 | 2 Grown Men Having A Conversation

    The pressure of getting married is revealing a struggle I've tried to hide. In this raw conversation, we confront the secret anxieties and personal strongholds that surface before saying 'I do.'


    📺 ABOUT THIS VIDEO

    In this episode of 2 Grown Men Having a Conversation, Joe T and D Johns dive into the raw, unspoken realities of men's mental health during major life changes. As Joe prepares for his wedding, he opens up about the overwhelming anxiety, the feeling of being robbed of family moments, and the financial pressures that come with it. The discussion takes a vulnerable turn as they explore how these stressors can reignite old battles and personal strongholds, specifically addressing pornography as a coping mechanism. This honest dialogue is for anyone navigating pre-wedding anxiety, dealing with hidden vices, or seeking to understand the power of accountability in relationships. Viewers will gain insight into identifying escape mechanisms, the importance of vulnerable communication with a partner, and the path to breaking generational cycles through discipline and faith.


    🔑 KEY TAKEAWAYS

    • Anxiety from major life events, like a wedding, can often trigger old vices and strongholds as familiar but unhealthy coping mechanisms.

    • Using success, work, or other distractions to avoid emotional pain is a temporary fix that prevents true healing and personal growth.

    • Vulnerable communication and accountability, both with your partner and in safe friendships, are essential tools for overcoming personal battles and strengthening your relationships.

    • True discipline involves confronting all areas of weakness, not just highlighting strengths, to live an integrated and accountable life.

    • Intentionally replacing destructive habits with positive, connecting actions (like exercise or quality time with a partner) is a practical strategy to fight mental and spiritual attacks.


    ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 Introduction and Catching Up

    00:29 Discussing Overwhelm and Growth

    01:09 Wedding Preparations and Family Dynamics

    02:06 Struggles and Coping Mechanisms

    03:31 Facing Personal Challenges

    06:29 The Impact of Success and Pain

    14:09 Confronting Vices and Seeking Change

    21:59 The Role of Discipline and Integrity

    25:22 Reflecting on Life's Ironies

    25:48 Struggles and Weaknesses

    26:13 Spiritual Reflections

    27:46 Conversations and Accountability

    29:59 Marriage and Communication

    31:16 Personal Growth and Ministry

    46:51 Parenting and Legacy

    49:30 Embracing Safe Spaces



    💬 NOTABLE QUOTES

    "I love my vices because I can convince myself that in that moment I don't have to be accountable."

    "Am I... do I go as hard at times to substitute my pain with success?"


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    E27 - 50m - Feb 13, 2026
  • I'm Proud of You Bro | Inspire Your Friends | Ep 26 | 2 Grown Men Having A Conversation | #2GMHC

    Meaningful Conversations: Life, Inspiration, and Success with Joe T and D Johns


    Join Joe T and D Johns in an engaging conversation as they talk about personal growth, family support, and defining success. They reflect on recent events, the impact of inspiration on their lives and the importance of perseverance. The discussion delves into navigating uncertainties, emotional regulation, and the power of mutual support. Don't miss this candid discussion that highlights the significance of staying true to oneself and the transformative power of brotherhood. Subscribe to our channel and tell us in the comments which part you enjoyed the most!


    00:00 Introduction and Greetings

    00:20 Reflecting on the Live Event

    00:42 Inspiration and Family Support

    05:32 The Importance of Execution

    08:53 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

    20:52 Defining Success and Personal Growth

    23:00 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Family Support

    23:27 The Joy of Overcoming Challenges

    23:44 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

    24:45 Trusting in a Higher Power

    25:46 Facing the Fear of Success

    26:24 The Power of Self-Reflection

    30:03 The Importance of Mutual Support in Marriage

    31:37 Embracing Collaboration and Letting Go of Control

    34:30 The Role of Faith in Overcoming Doubts

    38:08 Accepting Help and Breaking the Cycle

    43:44 Encouragement and Moving Forward



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    E26 - 48m - Jan 23, 2026
  • Anger Almost Cost Me Everything | Ep 25 | 2 Grown Men Having A Conversation | #2GMHC

    Confronting Anger, Mental Health, and Personal Growth


    In this episode of '2 Grown Men Having a Conversation,' hosts Joe T and D Johns delve into an open and honest discussion about their recent emotional experiences. From confronting buried anger to the importance of therapy and mental health, they share insights on personal growth and overcoming challenges in life. Through candid dialogue, they touch upon the significance of being present and emotionally available for their families, as well as the impact of content creation on their lives. The episode also highlights the value of laughter and staying grounded through life's ups and downs. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that reminds us of the importance of self-awareness and continuous improvement in our daily lives.


    00:00 Introduction and Setting the Tone

    00:31 Discussing Anger and Emotional Triggers

    03:26 Therapy and Coping Mechanisms

    13:11 Music and Its Impact

    14:39 Comedy and Influences

    23:22 Podcasting Journey and Business Insights

    27:53 The Importance of Consistency and Perfect Practice

    28:37 Evergreen Content vs. Clickbait

    29:39 The Journey of Podcasting

    30:35 The Evolution of Podcast Episodes

    31:27 Challenges and Realizations in Podcasting

    33:42 Personal Growth and Parenting Reflections

    37:01 Navigating Emotional Regulation and Communication

    44:10 The Impact of Content Creation on Personal Life

    55:28 Final Thoughts and Reflections


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    E25 - 56m - Jan 14, 2026
  • Understanding Core Values and Adaptive Behaviors | 2 Grown Men Having A Conversation

    Join Joe T and D Johns as they delve into an insightful discussion about core values, environment, and adaptive behaviors. They analyze the impact of social media comments, the importance of healthy communication, and how our upbringing and surroundings shape us. They also reflect on the personal growth journey, sharing practical coping strategies and personal experiences. From mental health discussions to decoding internet trends, this conversation is both relatable and thought-provoking. Don't miss this episode, and share your favorite insights in the comments below!


    00:00 Introduction and Podcast Setup

    00:17 Discussing Previous Podcast Topics

    00:36 Handling Negative Comments

    01:29 Social Media and Accountability

    05:04 Finesse Situation and Accountability

    07:58 Surrounded by Idiots: Book Discussion

    10:17 Adapting to New Environments

    20:57 Meeting Ebony and Personal Growth

    26:48 Reflecting on Personal Growth

    27:12 The Struggle of Convincing Others

    27:55 The Importance of Communication

    28:42 Navigating Relationships and Labels

    30:51 Handling Conflict and Core Values

    35:32 Parenting and Setting Expectations

    40:08 Adapting Core Values and Environment

    49:13 Celebrating Growth and Healthy Habits

    52:38 Concluding Thoughts on Core Values


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    E24 - 54m - Jan 10, 2026
  • 2026 Starts Now | Discipline Is The Answer | Ep 23 | 2 Grown Men Having A Conversation | #2GMHC

    Confronting Change and Embracing Growth


    In this engaging episode of 'Two Grown Men Having a Conversation,' Joe T and D Johns discuss their personal journeys of growth, challenges, and the significance of starting their 2026 goals today. They touch on embracing new phases of life, dealing with insecurities, the importance of discipline and accountability, and finding balance in relationships. They also reflect on the evolving nature of their careers and personal lives, sharing meaningful insights that are relatable and motivating. Don't miss their candid discussions on overcoming self-doubt and the transformation that comes with embracing change.


    00:00 Introduction and Greetings

    00:14 Setting the Tone for the Conversation

    00:36 Discussing Personal Growth and Goals

    01:02 The Importance of Starting Now

    02:36 Valuing Expertise and Overcoming Insecurities

    05:43 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

    08:34 Navigating Relationships and Communication

    12:33 Reflecting on Personal Changes and Future Goals

    33:10 Struggles of Communication and Burden Sharing

    34:22 The Filter Between Real Life and Conversations

    34:52 Emotional Dynamics in Relationships

    36:20 Balancing Work and Personal Life

    38:04 Focusing on the Present Moment

    38:47 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth

    43:33 The Mirror Effect in Relationships

    53:08 The Importance of Discipline

    01:01:40 Relatability and Social Media Presence

    01:07:27 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections


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    E23 - 1h 9m - Dec 23, 2025
  • Before You Say "I Do," Say "I Do" To You | Ep 22 | Two Grown Men Having A Conversation | #2GMHC

    A Deeper Look into Parenting, Marriage, and Personal Growth | Two Grown Men Having a Conversation


    In this insightful episode of 'Two Grown Men Having a Conversation,' hosts Joe T and D Johns dive deep into the dynamics of relationships, parenting, and personal growth. Joe T reflects on a soulful and emotional experience with his daughter, discussing the trials of being a distant father and the importance of family bonding. D Johns shares wisdom on the intricacies and evolving nature of marriage, touching on personal growth within relationships and realistic expectations. They also tackle the challenges of overcoming personal vices, discussing themes such as self-control and personal accountability. Join the conversation and hear these two grown men speak candidly about life, love, and the journey to self-improvement. Don't forget to subscribe to the channel and share which part of the conversation resonated with you the most in the comments below!


    00:00 Introduction and Greetings

    00:09 A Memorable Weekend

    00:21 Father-Daughter Reunion

    01:33 Reflecting on Family Experiences

    03:14 Holiday Reflections

    05:46 Parenting Challenges and Insights

    17:56 Marriage and Relationship Dynamics

    29:06 Navigating Compliments and Personal Feelings

    29:52 Understanding Relationship Dynamics

    30:27 The Challenges of Aging and Physical Changes

    30:55 Counseling and Self-Reflection

    31:25 Marriage Expectations and Realities

    32:32 Communication and Misunderstandings

    35:06 The Importance of Self-Control and Commitment

    49:12 The Role of Faith and Personal Growth

    01:02:53 The Impact of Influence and Responsibility

    01:04:22 Final Thoughts and Reflections


    #Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk



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    E22 - 1h 4m - Dec 16, 2025
  • No One Man Should Have All That Power | Diddy: The Reckoning | Ep 21 | #2GMHC

    Join Joe T and D Johns in an insightful installment of 'Two Grown Men Having a Conversation.' This episode dives deep into what it means to stay true to oneself in the rapidly evolving digital space, the pressures of corporate conformity, and the ethical quandaries surrounding cultural icons. Joe and D discuss the importance of authenticity, the pitfalls of chasing fame through unethical means, and share personal anecdotes that reveal the challenges of balancing public personas with private lives. They also touch upon the impact of pervasive media figures like Diddy and Sexy Red, and dissect the moral complexities of navigating fame and influence. Whether discussing their own journeys or reflecting on broader cultural phenomena, this episode is packed with relatable, educational 'grown man talk.'


    00:00 Introduction and Purpose

    00:31 The Journey of Authenticity

    01:03 The Struggle with Clickbait

    03:01 Corporate Code Switching

    08:41 The Impact of Perceived Power

    13:28 Navigating Relationships and Authenticity

    24:52 The Dangers of Absolute Power

    32:20 The Consequences of Actions

    33:19 Dark Humor and Its Boundaries

    34:26 A Tragic Story and Public Reaction

    37:09 Generational Differences in Online Behavior

    40:23 The Impact of Social Media Comments

    43:00 The Influence of Popular Culture

    48:24 Reflections on Personal Growth and Influence

    01:01:32 Concluding Thoughts and Encouragement


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    E20 - 1h 3m - Dec 11, 2025
  • I'm Willing to Provide for The One | Gender Roles | Ep 20 | 2 Grown Men Having A Conversation #2GMHC

    Join Joe T and D Johns as they dive into an invigorating and earnest discussion about the complexities of marriage, self-control, and gender roles. In this episode, they reflect on personal experiences and shed light on important relationship dynamics. Key topics include the importance of communication and mutual growth in relationships, the struggle with self-discipline and instant gratification, and how traditional gender roles impact modern partnerships. Engage with a candid conversation that challenges societal norms and encourages personal accountability. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insightful discussions!


    00:00 Introduction and Greetings

    00:21 Morning Motivation and Encouragement

    01:09 Facing Challenges and Personal Growth

    02:02 Courageous Conversations and Personal Power

    03:59 Sponsorships and Business Aspirations

    06:25 Gender Roles and Relationship Dynamics

    20:03 Teaching Respect and Chivalry

    21:45 Supporting Each Other in Relationships

    24:15 Understanding Unspoken Issues in Relationships

    24:45 The Importance of Communication in Marriage

    26:39 Men's Healing and Societal Expectations

    27:29 Balancing Emotional Needs in Relationships

    29:28 The Role of a Supportive Partner

    31:16 Challenges and Realities of Marriage

    34:39 The Impact of Infidelity and Self-Control

    40:14 Marriage Counseling and Personal Growth

    44:21 Commitment and Continuous Effort in Marriage

    49:35 Final Thoughts and Viewer Engagement


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    E20 - 50m - Nov 26, 2025
  • So Negative! | Healing, Growth, Self-Reflection | Ep 19 | 2 Grown Men Having A Conversation | #2GMHC

    Join JoeT and D Johns in this captivating episode of '2 Grown Men Having a Conversation' where real talk meets personal growth. Dive into the evolution of mindsets as Joe and his guest discuss transformation from past lifestyles, the challenges of maintaining positivity in a negative culture, and the importance of seeking personal joy and maturity. Highlights include a discussion on overcoming arrested development, navigating friendships with different backgrounds, and the significant roles both men and women play in a balanced relationship. Don't miss out—subscribe now for more insightful conversations!


    00:00 Introduction and Greetings

    00:18 Reflecting on Personal Growth

    00:50 Generational Differences and Parenting

    02:37 Cultural Observations and Critiques

    05:06 Navigating Social Media and Public Perception

    10:41 Personal Experiences and Cultural Adjustments

    18:08 The Importance of Positive Role Models

    23:40 Reflecting on Past Choices

    24:04 The Influence of Environment

    26:22 Understanding Arrested Development

    27:38 The Importance of Growth

    31:18 Struggles with Alcohol

    35:56 Embracing Change and Maturity

    39:52 Aspirations and Legacy

    47:32 The Role of a Man


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    E19 - 49m - Nov 21, 2025
  • God Didn’t Bless That | Faith, Influence, and Free Will | Ep 18 | 2 Grown Men Having A Conversation

    In this compelling episode of '2 Grown Men Having a Conversation,' Joe T and D Johns dive deep into a heartfelt discussion on the intersection of faith, influence, and the complexities of free will. They explore the authenticity of blessings, the ethics of influence within the music industry, and the challenge of staying true to one’s purpose amidst external pressures. Highlighting their own personal struggles and victories, Joe and TD provide a thought-provoking dialogue that invites viewers to reflect on their own spiritual journeys. Don't miss out on this impactful conversation—subscribe to our channel for more insightful discussions!


    00:00 Introduction and Catching Up

    01:14 Discussing Sports Allegiances

    02:39 Debating the Concept of Blessings

    12:14 The Role of Free Will and Evil

    31:07 Personal Stories and Reflections

    35:45 Struggling with Faith and Trust

    36:44 The Role of the Holy Spirit

    37:37 Blessings and Character Changes

    39:57 Calling Out in the Culture

    43:26 Church and Community Critique

    54:46 The Danger of Performance in Worship

    01:11:21 Final Reflections and Personal Charges

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    E18 - 1h 13m - Nov 12, 2025
  • These Are Your Idols? | 2GMHC | EP 17

    The "culture" (whatever that means) has taught a few generations to value the wrong things. Of course we've been part of the problem at some point. Now that we know better, what does doing better look like. We talked about it all.

    In this episode, Joe T and D Johns dive deep into a heartfelt conversation discussing important life transitions, the pressures of societal expectations, and the battle between personal growth and public perception. They shed light on the struggle to maintain authenticity while navigating life's challenges. Key topics include the impact of cultural influences on personal development, the role of celebrities in shaping societal values, and the importance of remaining true to oneself amidst external pressures. Don't miss out on this engaging dialogue, and be sure to subscribe for more thought-provoking discussions.


    00:00 Introduction and Catching Up

    00:31 Reflecting on Life and Priorities

    03:21 Materialism and Cultural Values

    06:24 Critique of Celebrity Influence

    09:05 Generational Perspectives and Advice

    11:07 The Role of Idols and Social Responsibility

    26:09 Corporate Compliance and Public Perception

    28:39 Addressing the Sheep Mentality

    29:56 Cultural Reflections and Criticisms

    31:47 Personal Accountability and Transformation

    32:29 Navigating Content Creation and Convictions

    36:35 Judging Others' Convictions

    39:20 The Importance of Accountability

    47:46 The Role of Influencers and Authenticity

    53:12 The State of the Community and Final Thoughts

    E17 - 1h 0m - Nov 7, 2025
  • Breaking Down Male Abuse | Unpacking Emotional, Financial, and Psychological Trauma | Ep 16 | 2GMHC

    In this eye-opening episode of 'Two Grown Men Having a Conversation,' Joe T & D Johns tackle the overlooked topic of male abuse. From emotional manipulation to financial exploitation and psychological distress, they share personal stories and insights that resonate deeply. Key topics include: identifying the signs of abusive relationships, the nuanced forms of abuse men often face, and the importance of seeking help and self-healing. Don't miss this candid and enlightening discussion. Be sure to subscribe to the channel for more transformative conversations!


    00:00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene

    00:01:40 Understanding Abusive Relationships

    00:02:25 Personal Experiences with Abuse

    00:04:15 Impact of Abuse on Behavior

    00:08:27 Marriage and Relationship Dynamics

    00:12:22 Recognizing and Addressing Abuse

    00:13:59 Cultural and Social Influences on Abuse

    00:23:36 Concerns About Children's Influences

    00:23:57 Impact of Music and Media

    00:25:13 Sexual and Emotional Abuse

    00:26:28 Personal Experiences with Abuse

    00:28:05 Emotional Abuse and Narcissism

    00:28:46 Struggles with Potential and Purpose

    00:31:09 Parental Influence and Validation

    00:34:40 Recognizing and Addressing Abuse

    00:45:08 The Importance of Leaving Toxic Relationships


    #FaithTalk #GodsVoice #Obedience #SoulTies #promescuity #grownmantalk #DallasTX #christiandoctrine #equality #falsenarrative





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    E16 - 46m - May 17, 2025
  • Breaking Silence | How to Take Your Power Back w/ Latoya Smith | Ep 15 | 2GMHC

    Join us in this powerful episode as Joe T and D Johns of 'Two Grown Men Having a Conversation' sit down with Latoya Smith, a licensed therapist and inaugural guest of the show. Together, they explore the profound impact of trauma and the journey towards healing. Latoya courageously shares her personal story of surviving sexual abuse and how it shaped her life, offering invaluable insights for anyone who has faced similar experiences. Key topics covered include the significance of mental health awareness, the damaging effects of victim shaming, and the importance of accountability. Don't miss this heart-to-heart conversation that aims to inspire and empower. Be sure to like, comment, and subscribe to stay updated with more impactful discussions.


    00:00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Greetings

    00:00:34 Introducing the First Guest: Latoya Smith

    00:01:28 Latoya's Story: Overcoming Trauma

    00:05:44 Impact of Trauma on Relationships

    00:08:39 Coping Mechanisms and Healing

    00:17:31 The Role of Therapy and Support

    00:32:19 Latoya's Journey to Becoming a Therapist

    00:36:09 Reflecting on Past Actions and Realizations

    00:37:21 The Challenge of Overcoming 'No'

    00:38:11 Confronting Personal Accountability

    00:40:21 Victim Blaming and Societal Attitudes

    00:52:16 The Role of Culture in Shaping Behavior

    01:13:23 The Importance of Safe Spaces and Emotional Expression


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