Scientists estimate that we have between 50,000 to 70,000 thoughts every day. Whenever you think about something, it is a form of self talk. If you believe “Thoughts become Things” then the things we say to ourselves about ourselves eventually determine what we attract for ourselves.Darnell &amp; Traci Self will be co-hosting a new podcast sharing how reshaping our thoughts (SelfTalk) enhanced our relationship with one another and others, our business, our faith and our ability to help others tap into their fullest potential as entrepreneurs, leaders, teachers, coaches, parents, and those who simply want to live a joyful life!So get ready to challenge and overcome self-sabotaging &amp; negative thoughts. There will be lots of laughter but even more lessons as we grow through these podcast episodes together!Be sure to tune in!

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Ever wonder why some people just don’t seem to take promises seriously? In this episode we are going to dive into why it is important to keep the commitments that we give our word to. We&#39;ll also uncover : How To Understand Commitment: How perceptions of commitment can differ from person to person and the impact this has on expectations and relationships.Business and Personal Values: The importance of &#34;following the dollar&#34; and ensuring mutual respect in professional relationships.Consequences and Boundaries : How to learn how about setting boundaries without being insensitive, and the importance of respecting your own time and efforts.and more!Connect with us on social mediahttps://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Holding On to Commitment: When Expectations Clash with Reality

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In life, we all reach a point where we can dream, think, and wonder about the life we desire or we can go out and make it happen! In this episode we are going to uncover the truth about Doing Vs. Deciding! Let&#39;s get into : <ul><li>Embracing Fear: The Power of Fighting When There&#39;s No Way Out</li><li>Unlocking Your Potential: Overcoming the Fear of Others&#39; Opinions</li><li>Becoming Better at Making Decisions: The Disconnect Between Deciding and Execution. </li></ul> And so much more!Connect with us on social mediahttps://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How To DO THE THINGS YOU DESIRE TO DO! ( Doing Vs. Deciding)

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In the story of Moses, we learn 5 Mindsets that could be holding us back from being all that God has called us to be! Let&#39;s talk about it in this quick episode of The Self Talk Experience! Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

5 Lies Holding You Back From Greatness!

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If you are looking for the keys to Having a Winner’s Mindset, this is the episode for you! In our season finale we are excited about unpacking the power of Having A Winner&#39;s Mindset!In life , breakthroughs don’t just happen, and many times we will have to go through trials, growth seasons, and setbacks in order to get to where we desire. We believe that “there is ALWAYS SOMETHING TO LEARN.” We’l unpack in this episode :  <ul><li>How to get out of the “quicksand” of life : Why having different thoughts and allowing them to do whatever they want is the quickest way to “feel out of control.” </li></ul> <ul><li>The power of CONTINUOUS GROWTH : How to look at life’s challenges as a way to learn the best lessons to prepare you for your next level. </li></ul> <ul><li>Why EMPATHY WINS over JUDGEMENT : Why “understanding when you don’t understand gives you leverage in relationships, negotiations, and opening up opportunity. </li></ul> And so much more!Connect with us on social mediahttps://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How Have A Winner’s Mindset ( ALWAYS SOMETHING TO LEARN) | Episode 121

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We all have patterns that we live by and they can turn us into an unstoppable force or leave us in a pit of confusion and &#34;being stuck.&#34; &#34;Revolutionize your life as we unveil the secrets to breaking free from self-sabotaging patterns. It is time to kickstart your journey towards success through positive self talk and start winning in life! Connect with us on social mediahttps://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How To Win More In Life ( If You Disrupt Your Patterns) | Episode 120

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Having the ability to pivot and adjust is extremely rare! If you want to be the kind of person who is able to is able to change your self talk from “I had to start over” TODAY is the day where you begin to tell yourself that you are MAKING AN ADJUSTMENT. There is POWER IN THE PIVOT! Let’s talk about the wisdom, power, and authority you will gain by being a person who is able to adjust and pivot when it is time! You can do this! Connect with us on social mediahttps://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

The Secret TO STARTING AGAIN ( THE PIVOT) | Episode 119

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How do you determine if you say YES or NO to a request? Are there things in your life that you KNOW you should say NO to but because of the expectations of others, a desire to be “balanced’ or even a negative self talk, you give in? Being resolute in your decision making will open up more than you could have every dreamed of! In this episode we are going to uncover how to make your YES’s STRONG AND YOUR No’s even STRONGER! We’ll dive into : - How to overcome the objections of your own self talk that keep you in cycles. - Why “NO” is a complete sentence! - What relationships you can give alternative answers to in order to accomplish your goals. And more! Connect with us on social media https://www.instagram.com/darnell_self https://www.instagram.com/traciself https://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

The Power Of SAYING NO! | Episode 118

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We all want to “arrive at the top” and most people can get there if they are willing to sacrifice for a season. In order to GO UP we have to GIVE UP! If you are wanting to elevate your relationships, income, vision, and lifestyle, this is the episode for you. In this episode we are going to uncover the self talk, willpower, and discipline we all need to get to the next level. Let’s go! Connect with us on social media https://www.instagram.com/darnell_self https://www.instagram.com/traciself https://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How to ELEVATE TO YOUR NEXT LEVEL | Episode 117

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Overcoming a season of difficulty though being resilient isn&#39;t easy. For many people, it is in the &#34;in between&#34; where they give up. This is what we would call YOUR SLINGSHOT SEASON! If you could cut your learning and earning curve by adjusting your self talk, would you be able to do it? How do you muster up the strength, positive internal dialogue, and accountability in order to get through the tough seasons! In this episode we are going to talk about the power of NEVER GIVING UP during difficult times! THIS is YOUR SLINGSHOT SEASON! Connect with us on social mediahttps://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

What To Do WHEN YOU WANT TO GIVE UP In Your "SLINGSHOT SEASON" | Episode 116

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We are all on a journey to connect with , add value to, and be blessed by the people who we are called to be around. In this episode we are going to dive into the importance of KNOWING your audience! Whether you are in business for yourself, an employee, the leader of your family, or in a conversation, this is the episode for you! If you know your audience, you can be efficient, effective, and have massive impact upon those around you! Let’s talk about it! Connect with us on social mediahttps://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How To KNOW and GROW Your Audience!  | Episode 115

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Do you need to reset? Is it possible that you have the power to re-frame, re-structure, and re-create some of the goals that you thought were &#34;set in stone&#34; ? On this episode we are going to dive into the power we have to change in the middle of a time period in order to WIN! We&#39;ll discuss : <ul><li>Why it is okay to re-start your goals when you have gained clarity that you didn&#39;t have before. </li><li>The importance of setting S.M.A.R.T. goals and why we have the power to be honest about where we are and where we want to be. </li><li>Accountability: Why it is important to have the right support system as you are on a journey to accomplish something that seems difficult. </li></ul>and so much more!Connect with us on social media https://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

RESET : Why You Can Choose To Start Over Today | Episode 114

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You can get to where you want to be but how do you gauge if you are able to get to the next level? When we are seeking to move forward, there are a set of steps we must take in order to get to where we&#39;d ultimately like to arrive! CHECKING ALL THE BOXES calls us higher, deeper, and to a greater level of self accountability. In this episode we are going to dive into the importance of Checking Your Box. Let&#39;s talk about how to :* Move past the comparison trap.* Be honest about your current progress on the way to where you ultimately want to be .* Detoxing old mindsets and replacing your thought patterns.and so much more!Connect with us on social media https://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How To Get TO THE NEXT LEVEL OF SUCCESS | Episode 113

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Connect with us on social media https://www.instagram.com/darnell_self https://www.instagram.com/traciself https://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Lead YOU First : The Truth About Self- Leadership & Self TalkEpisode 112

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Are you in love with the process of BECOMING the best version of yourself? What do you do when you are on the journey to making your dreams come true but are faced with all kinds of adversity? This is the episode for you! In the world of entrepreneurship there are so many ways to make your dreams come true financially, relationally, and generationally. In our experience, we&#39;ve been blessed to have an industry that &#34;CHOSE US&#34; and we have been able to see the rewards for sacrifice, focus, and desire to help as many people as we can! Listen to WHY We Fell In Love With Direct Sales and how you too can FALL IN LOVE with the process of becoming the best version of yourself! Connect with us on social media https://www.instagram.com/darnell_self https://www.instagram.com/traciself https://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

WHY We Fell In Love With Direct Sales | Episode 111

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Winning at the beginning of the year requires you to OVERCOME DISTRACTIONS! In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of distractions and how they impact our ability to stay focused on our goals. We&#39;ll discuss the different types of distractions, both internal and external, and share how to stay on track when distractions arise! We can use tools like time blocking, setting boundaries, and using affirmations to combat distractions and maintain focus. From practical tips to thought-provoking discussions, this episode will leave you with a newfound perspective on overcoming distractions and achieving your goals. So, tune in and let&#39;s navigate the world of distractions together. Connect with us on social mediahttps://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Overcoming Distractions: Strategies for Staying Focused and Achieving Your Goals! | Episode 110

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In life, we all have a choice to use the times that we experience setbacks, challenges, and even &#34;losses&#34; to be chances to develop, gain insight, and become victorious! In this episode we will unpack the truth behind How To Turn Your &#34;Losses&#34; Into Winning Lessons! Connect with us on social mediahttps://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How To Turn Your "Losses" Into Winning Lessons | Episode 109

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We are almost in a near year and it is time to start PLANNING TO WIN in every area of your life! Having the preparation, ability to sharpen your skills for, and attract what you desire in the new year can be done! In this episode we are going to dive into how you can DOMINATE in every area of your life in 2024! Let&#39;s talk about it! Grab some merch from our friend Jazz Steele : https://www.instagram.com/healwithjazzsteele/ Connect with us on social mediahttps://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Planning To WIN IN THE NEAR YEAR | Episode 108

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When was the last time you did something that challenged your perception, definition and framework of WHO YOU ARE? Getting out of our comfort zones should be reinvented. It is when we are open to new experiences, opportunities for growth, and to expand who we think we that life change can truly happen! In this episode we are going to talk about EXPANDING YOUR COMFORT ZONE in order to become THE BEST YOU while impacting, challenging, and inspiring those around you!  Connect with us on social mediahttps://www.instagram.com/darnell_selfhttps://www.instagram.com/traciselfhttps://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How To Expand Your COMFORT ZONE| Episode 107

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Setting goals for the new year? Many times, how we see our goals can determine our sense of awareness, traction, and accountability on the journey to accomplishing them. In this episode we are going to unpack the importance of CHANGING THE DATE OF YOUR GOALS before you vacate the pursuit of them! As we are approaching a new year it is important to have the right self talk as you plan for, are on the journey towards, and CRUSH your goals! Connect with us on social media https://www.instagram.com/darnell_self https://www.instagram.com/traciself https://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

CHANGE THE DATE NOT THE GOAL : How To Reframe Your Goals | Episode 106

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Having the power to finish what you start has so much to do with your self talk, level of dedication, and.... SYSTEMS of Accountability. In this episode let&#39;s talk about the power of FINISHING! Connect with us on social media https://www.instagram.com/darnell_self https://www.instagram.com/traciself https://www.instagram.com/theselftalkexperience/ Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How To START and FINISH | Episode 105

Scientists estimate that we have between 50,000 to 70,000 thoughts every day. Whenever you think about something, it is a form of self talk. If you believe “Thoughts become Things” then the things we say to ourselves about ourselves eventually determine what we attract for ourselves.

Darnell & Traci Self will be co-hosting a new podcast sharing how reshaping our thoughts (SelfTalk) enhanced our relationship with one another and others, our business, our faith and our ability to help others tap into their fullest potential as entrepreneurs, leaders, teachers, coaches, parents, and those who simply want to live a joyful life!

So get ready to challenge and overcome self-sabotaging & negative thoughts. There will be lots of laughter but even more lessons as we grow through these podcast episodes together!

Be sure to tune in!