The show all about family; but with gay! A hilarious and heartfelt dive into LGBTQ family life, parenting, and the challenges queer families face.Hosted by queer mom Jaimie Kelton, The Queer Family Podcast brings you weekly interviews with LGBTQIA+ guests exploring how they made their families and how they navigate a world that wasn’t necessarily built for them.The mission? To normalize, elevate, and celebrate queer family life—while proving we’re just like other parents... trying (and often failing) not to lose it when our kid still isn’t wearing shoes and we’re 25 minutes late.Through laughter, honesty, and representation, this show tackles inclusive parenting, family-building journeys, and the age-old question: What’s it really like to raise a family as an LGBTQ person in a world built for the straights?

Jaimie and Dianni know it’s nowhere near the holidays, but when has that ever stopped anyone from watching a sapphic Christmas movie?They decided to take a very sapphic Christmas movie quiz. What starts as a simple game quickly turns into two fully imagined queer holiday romances involving sexy chefs, messy painters, dive bars, mushroom trips, lakeside cabins, and some very questionable plot twists.Play along, compare your fate, and enjoy a completely unserious holiday edition of Tea Time with Jaimie &amp; Dianni. This is a subscriber-exclusive bonus episode!Listen on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/thequeerfamilypodcast?utm_source=chatgpt.com" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content?utm_source=chatgpt.com" rel="nofollow">RedCircle exclusive feed</a> for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations. Edited by Dianni Hall Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Tea Time Bonus: We Accidentally Wrote a Sapphic Christmas Movie

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What happens when you want to build a family—but have no idea where to start?Kaelyn, known online as one half of <a href="https://www.instagram.com/kaelynandveronica/" rel="nofollow">@kaelynandveronica</a>, joins Jaimie to share how she and her wife found their way to parenthood by doing what so many LGBTQ+ families do: looking to the families who had done it before them.Kaelyn shares the emotional—and sometimes surprising—process of choosing a sperm donor, two years of fertility treatments before becoming pregnant with their daughter Rosie, and why having donor siblings has become such a meaningful part of their family&#39;s story. She also opens up about Veronica&#39;s experience as the non-biological mom, raising Rosie with an open understanding of donor conception, and how postpartum depression is shaping their conversations about having another child.Plus, why Kaelyn says if she could have dinner with anyone, she&#39;d choose Rosie&#39;s donor—just so she could say thank you.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>There is no single “right” way to build an LGBTQ+ family.</li><li>Queer families often become roadmaps for the families coming behind them.</li><li>Biology doesn&#39;t determine the depth of a parent-child bond.</li><li>Being open about donor conception gives kids the language to understand their own stories.</li><li>Taking care of the parent matters, too—especially when considering another pregnancy after postpartum depression.</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Kaelyn is a social media manager, content creator, wife to Veronica, and mom to their almost-three-year-old daughter, Rosie. Through <a href="https://www.instagram.com/kaelynandveronica/" rel="nofollow">@kaelynandveronica</a>, she shares their life as a two-mom family, from donor conception and fertility to parenting and LGBTQ+ family life. Her work also focuses on helping others navigate family building and showing more of the many ways families can be created. 🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a> 🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a> 🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories! 🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website 🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Finding the Right Donor—and Finding Our Way to Parenthood

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Is your LGBTQ family as legally protected as you think it is?LGBTQ+ family law attorney Rachel Levy joins Jaimie to break down the legal steps queer and trans families should know about—from confirmatory and second-parent adoption to donor agreements, estate planning, healthcare decisions, name changes, gender markers, and more.Rachel explains why being listed on your child&#39;s birth certificate may not be enough to establish parental rights, what families using known donors should put in writing, and why finding an attorney who actually understands LGBTQ+ family law matters.They also dig into the realities facing trans adults and parents of trans kids right now, including name changes, document updates, privacy and safety concerns, and the enormous differences in protections from state to state. And while the political climate can feel terrifying, Rachel offers an important reminder: frightening headlines don&#39;t always tell the whole legal story, and meaningful protections for LGBTQ+ families are still advancing at the state level.This episode isn&#39;t about panic. It&#39;s about knowing your rights, asking the right questions, and taking the extra steps that can help protect the people you love.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>A birth certificate may not be enough to establish parental rights.</li><li>Confirmatory adoption can offer important legal protection.</li><li>Put known-donor agreements in writing.</li><li>Estate planning is essential for LGBTQ+ families.</li><li>Find an LGBTQ+-competent lawyer who practices in your state.</li><li>Parents of trans kids should understand name-change and gender-marker laws.</li><li>LGBTQ+ protections vary significantly from state to state.</li><li>Scary headlines don’t always reflect what’s actually happening legally.</li><li>There’s no single “right” way for LGBTQ+ and trans people to navigate safety.</li><li>The Uniform Parentage Act could help standardize protections across states.</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s) Rachel Levy is an attorney with <a href="http://www.jernerlaw.com" rel="nofollow">Jerner Law Group</a>, an LGBTQ+ family law firm based in Philadelphia. Her practice focuses on adoption and assisted reproductive technology (ART), estate planning, family building, and transgender legal issues, including name changes and legal affirmation. Rachel is passionate about helping LGBTQ+ families understand their rights and take the legal steps needed to protect themselves and their children. 🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned<a href="https://www.instagram.com/jernerlawgroup/" rel="nofollow">Website: www.jernerlaw.com</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jernerlawgroup/" rel="nofollow">Jerner Law’s LGBTQ+ Resources Hub: www.jernerlaw.com/lgbtq-resources/</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/jernerlawgroup/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @jernerlawgroup</a> 🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a> 🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a> 🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website 🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How to Legally Protect Your LGBTQ+ Family

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What happens when three people intentionally choose to build a family together?Vikram Kolmannskog is a psychotherapist, writer, and dad raising his four-year-old son with his husband, Daniel, and their son&#39;s mother, Cecilia. From finding each other through a queer family forum to navigating home insemination, biology, and the realities of three-parent co-parenting, their path to family is anything but traditional.Vikram and Jaimie talk about the messy reality of parenting, biological vs. non-biological connection, the pressure to identify the &#34;real&#34; dad, and the deeply ingrained gender roles that still tell us mothers should nurture while fathers should provide.It&#39;s a conversation about rupture and repair, challenging the rules we&#39;ve inherited, and what queer families can teach us about what really makes someone a parent.Because family isn&#39;t biology. It&#39;s love, commitment—and sometimes a whole lot of mess.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Why Vikram and Daniel chose intentional co-parenting</li><li>Finding their child&#39;s mother through a queer family forum</li><li>The very queer logistics of making a baby together</li><li>Navigating three-parent co-parenting when reality didn&#39;t match the plan</li><li>Biology, non-biological parenting, and the idea of the &#34;real&#34; parent</li><li>Why their family kept biological paternity private for the first year</li><li>The gendered expectations placed on mothers and fathers</li><li>Breastfeeding, formula, and the pressure placed on parents</li><li>How therapy helped their family move through conflict and repair</li><li>Why &#34;messy&#34; has become one of Vikram&#39;s favorite words for parenting</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Vikram Kolmannskog is the author of Reflections on Parenting from a Gestalt Therapist Father: Life with Leo, a personal exploration of his first years of parenthood. 🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned<a href="http://www.vikram.no" rel="nofollow">Vikram’s Website</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/vikramwrites/" rel="nofollow">Vikram’s Instagram</a><a href="https://www.routledge.com/Reflections-on-Parenting-from-a-Gestalt-Therapist-Father-Life-with-Leo/Kolmannskog/p/book/9781032872414" rel="nofollow">Vikram’s Book </a> 🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a> 🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a>🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a> 🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Two Dads, One Mom, and a Whole New Way to Think About Family

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Reid Vanderburgh spent more than 20 years living in lesbian community before realizing he was trans. More than 30 years later, he&#39;s a retired therapist, author, stepfather, chosen grandfather, and proud trans elder.Reid joins Jaimie to talk about finding the language to understand yourself, becoming the therapist he once needed, and why younger generations give him hope. They also explore chosen family, the power of representation, and what Reid calls the most important relationship he ever found—the one with himself.It&#39;s a conversation about identity, belonging, empathy, and the gift of becoming who you are.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Representation gives us the language to understand ourselves.</li><li>There&#39;s no one &#34;right&#34; way—or timeline—to know who you are.</li><li>Believe people when they tell you who they are.</li><li>Sometimes the most important relationship is the one you build with yourself.</li><li>Our identities can be gifts, not burdens.</li><li>Chosen family can change—and save—lives.</li><li>Younger generations aren&#39;t creating new identities; they have more freedom to name what&#39;s always existed.</li><li>Progress isn&#39;t linear, but Reid&#39;s 50+ years in the community give him real hope for what&#39;s ahead.</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Reid Vanderburgh is a retired therapist, author, trans elder, and longtime LGBTQ+ advocate who transitioned more than 30 years ago. After his own experience with therapists who didn&#39;t understand what he was going through, Reid became one of the early openly trans therapists dedicated to serving the trans community, working with hundreds of clients throughout his career. He&#39;s also an author, longtime member of the Portland Gay Men&#39;s Chorus, stepfather, and proud chosen grandfather.🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned<a href="https://reidvanderburgh.com/" rel="nofollow">https://reidvanderburgh.com/</a> 🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a>🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a> 🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

From Lesbian Community to Trans Elder: Reid Vanderburgh’s Story

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Not every episode about queer families is about making a family.Sometimes it&#39;s about healing the person who became one.This week, Jaimie sits down with Bronwin Parks and Elinor Svoboda, hosts of the Late in 88 podcast, to explore the &#34;baby gay&#34; still living inside all of us. Together they unpack growing up queer in the 80s and 90s, the importance of queer history, how today&#39;s political attacks echo the past, and why doing our own healing helps us raise more confident, resilient kids.Whether you&#39;re a parent or simply someone still unlearning shame, this conversation is a reminder that our stories—and our history—matter.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Healing ourselves is part of raising healthy kids.</li><li>Queer history helps us understand ourselves—and how far we&#39;ve come.</li><li>We all have an inner &#34;baby gay&#34; who deserves compassion.</li><li>Simply living authentically can change hearts and minds.</li><li>Community and representation matter for every generation.</li><li>The world we&#39;re creating for our kids starts with how we show up today.</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Bronwin Parks and Elinor Svoboda are lifelong friends and the hosts of Late in 88, a podcast that explores queer history through the lens of their own childhoods growing up in conservative Alberta during the late 1980s and 1990s. Blending personal storytelling with queer history, child psychology, and cultural context, they invite listeners to reconnect with—and heal—their own &#34;baby gay.&#34;🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned<a href="https://www.instagram.com/pasitivesolutions/" rel="nofollow">Website: https://latein88.com/</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pasitivesolutions/" rel="nofollow">Late in 88 Social Media</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pasitivesolutions/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/late.in.88/</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pasitivesolutions/" rel="nofollow">TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@late.in.88</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/pasitivesolutions/" rel="nofollow">YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Late.in.88</a>🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a> 🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a> 🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a> 🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Parenting Ourselves While Raising Our Kids

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Melissa Pas Blake grew up with two dads—but not in the way many queer families exist today.After losing her mother to cancer at just six years old, Melissa was raised by her father and his lifelong partner, Ken, throughout the 1970s and 80s, long before LGBTQ+ families had visibility or legal protections.In this heartfelt conversation, Melissa shares what it was like growing up in a loving home while her dads remained largely closeted, why their relationship wasn&#39;t something anyone talked about, and how she eventually came to understand the extraordinary family she&#39;d always had.Together, Jaimie and Melissa explore what children actually need to thrive, how family is built through consistency and love—not gender—and why representation matters so deeply for the next generation.They also discuss second-parent adoption before it even had a name, coming out as the child of queer parents, and the lasting impact of growing up in a home filled with safety, joy, and unconditional love.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Love—not gender—is what makes a family.</li><li>Children don&#39;t need a &#34;perfect&#34; family; they need to feel safe, loved, and significant.</li><li>Melissa&#39;s childhood offers a rare look at queer family life decades before marriage equality.</li><li>Second-parent adoption existed long before it became common because queer families have always found ways to protect each other.</li><li>Growing up with queer parents gave Melissa a broader understanding of love, acceptance, and family.</li><li>Visibility matters because children of LGBTQ+ parents shouldn&#39;t have to carry shame or secrecy about the people they love.</li><li>Even in difficult historical moments, queer families have always existed—and have always been raising wonderful kids.</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Melissa Pas Blake is a clinical hypnotherapist, heart-healing practitioner, and Parkinson&#39;s wellness specialist. Raised by her father and his lifelong partner after losing her mother to cancer at age six, Melissa brings the unique perspective of someone who grew up in a loving gay household during the 1970s and 80s. Today, she helps others heal emotional wounds while sharing her family&#39;s story to inspire and support LGBTQ+ families everywhere.🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned<a href="https://www.instagram.com/pasitivesolutions/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @pasitivesolutions/</a>LinkedIn: Melissa Pas Blake <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissablake2/" rel="nofollow">https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissablake2/</a>Website: <a href="http://pasitivesolutions.com/" rel="nofollow">pasitivesolutions.com</a><a href="https://pasitivesolutions.com/homecoming/" rel="nofollow">https://pasitivesolutions.com/homecoming/</a> 🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a> 🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a> 🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a> 🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website 🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

She Grew Up With Two Gay Dads in the 70s—Here's What She Wants Parents to Know

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When a clip from one of our earlier Tea Time episodes sparked a heated debate online, we knew we had to dedicate an entire episode to it.This week, we&#39;re unpacking the history of &#34;lesbian bed death&#34;—where the term came from, why many researchers now reject it, and whether it&#39;s time for queer women to reclaim it altogether. We talk about intimacy, consent, long-term relationships, aging, emotional connection, and why comparing queer relationships to heteronormative standards misses the point entirely.Whether you&#39;re in a decades-long partnership or just moved in together, this is one of our most thoughtful (and funniest) Tea Time conversations yet.Why You&#39;ll Love This EpisodeThis isn&#39;t just a conversation about sex—it&#39;s a conversation about how queer relationships are often misunderstood. Jaimie and Dianni challenge decades of assumptions, share personal experiences from opposite ends of long-term relationships, and ultimately ask a bigger question: What if we&#39;ve been measuring intimacy all wrong?🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>The surprising (and problematic) origins of the term &#34;lesbian bed death.&#34;</li><li>Why measuring queer relationships through a heteronormative lens misses the point.</li><li>How consent, changing bodies, and life stages naturally affect intimacy.</li><li>Why emotional intimacy often looks different in queer relationships.</li><li>Jaimie&#39;s case for reclaiming &#34;lesbian bed death&#34; as something empowering instead of shameful.</li><li>A thoughtful discussion about comparing relationships—and why frequency isn&#39;t the same as satisfaction.</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Dianni is Jaimie’s friend, fellow queer human, and co-host of Tea Time with Jaimie &amp; Dianni, a short-form bonus series featuring casual, unfiltered conversations about their very different queer little lives. Together, they spill the tea on what’s happening behind the scenes, compare notes across generations and life stages, and talk about the things that don’t always make it into a regular episode of The Queer Family Podcast.Funny, curious, and always ready to ask the follow-up question, Dianni helps turn Tea Time into the kind of conversation that feels like eavesdropping on two friends catching up.🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a> 🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a> 🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Dianni Hall 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Why We Need to Reclaim “Lesbian Bed Death”

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Anne has officially finished her final cancer treatment.In this special Tea Time episode, Jaimie sits down with her pal Dianni for an honest conversation about what comes next for her family after a year and a half of chemotherapy, surgeries, radiation, targeted treatment, and caregiving.Jaimie talks about how cancer changed their family, what it was like watching their children navigate the journey, rebuilding intimacy after illness, and the unexpected routines that helped her stay grounded through it all.It&#39;s a quieter, more vulnerable conversation than usual—one about hope, healing, and finding your way forward after surviving something life-changing🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Anne reaches the end of her cancer treatment journey.</li><li>What healing looks like after months of surviving.</li><li>How caregiving changes a marriage.</li><li>Supporting children through a parent&#39;s illness.</li><li>Finding routines that provide comfort during difficult seasons.</li><li>Holding onto tenderness after trauma.</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Dianni is Jaimie’s friend, fellow queer human, and co-host of Tea Time with Jaimie &amp; Dianni, a short-form bonus series featuring casual, unfiltered conversations about their very different queer little lives. Together, they spill the tea on what’s happening behind the scenes, compare notes across generations and life stages, and talk about the things that don’t always make it into a regular episode of The Queer Family Podcast.Funny, curious, and always ready to ask the follow-up question, Dianni helps turn Tea Time into the kind of conversation that feels like eavesdropping on two friends catching up. 🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a> 🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a>🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a> 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato  🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Tea Time: What Comes After Cancer?

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What really happens behind the scenes of The Queer Family Podcast? 👀In this special preview of Tea Time with Jaimie &amp; Dianni, Jaimie is spilling the tea on podcast guest pet peeves, the secret ways she can tell whether someone pitching themselves for the show has actually listened, and what happens when people come on with an agenda of their own.Yes, there are secret tests. Yes, Jaimie knows when you’ve only watched a few social clips. And yes… she has feelings. 😬This is just a preview. Listen to the full episode—and binge more short, fun, unfiltered Tea Time with Jaimie &amp; Dianni episodes—on the <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">exclusive subscriber feed </a>or <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a>. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

The Secret Test I Give Every Podcast Guest

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Tea Time with Jaimie &amp; Dianni is a subscriber-only bonus series where Jaimie and her friend Dianni sit down for short, fun, unfiltered conversations about their very different queer little lives. It’s casual, behind-the-scenes, and a little messy—in the best way.This week, the tea is hot. ☕️Jaimie and Dianni are pulling back the curtain on what really happens behind the scenes of The Queer Family Podcast—from the secret ways Jaimie can tell whether a potential guest has actually listened to the show to people who come on just to push their wares, and one particularly frustrating mansplaining interview.Jaimie opens up about what it takes to produce the show, why she feels so protective of her audience, and what happens when a guest confidently pushes back with information she knows isn’t right.Plus: the very specific question hiding in Jaimie’s guest questionnaire that tells her almost everything she needs to know. 👀Short, messy, unfiltered, and a little feisty. Just how Tea Time should be.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Jaimie has a few sneaky ways of figuring out whether potential guests have actually listened to The Queer Family Podcast.</li><li>A great pitch doesn’t always mean someone understands the show—or the assignment.</li><li>Behind every episode is a lot of time, care, research, and money, which makes it especially frustrating when guests show up unprepared.</li><li>Jaimie shares what happens when a guest confidently pushes back with information she knows isn’t right.</li><li>Protecting the audience sometimes means challenging misinformation, even when it creates an uncomfortable moment.</li><li>The heart of The Queer Family Podcast will always be everyday LGBTQIA+ families sharing stories that deserve to be heard.</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Dianni is Jaimie’s friend, fellow queer human, and co-host of Tea Time with Jaimie &amp; Dianni, a short-form bonus series featuring casual, unfiltered conversations about their very different queer little lives. Together, they spill the tea on what’s happening behind the scenes, compare notes across generations and life stages, and talk about the things that don’t always make it into a regular episode of The Queer Family Podcast.Funny, curious, and always ready to ask the follow-up question, Dianni helps turn Tea Time into the kind of conversation that feels like eavesdropping on two friends catching up. 🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a> 🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/cw/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a> 🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories! 🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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Wilma and Marilyn—better known as The Rainbow Aunties—have loved each other for more than four decades. But for much of that time, they couldn&#39;t live openly as a couple.In this moving conversation, they share how they fell in love in college while Marilyn was in a relationship with a man, why they spent years hiding their relationship, and how military policies, religion, fear, and the threat of losing their children shaped every decision they made.Despite every obstacle, they quietly built a family together, raised two daughters, became grandparents, and eventually found the courage to tell the world the truth about their love.This episode is a powerful reminder that Pride exists because generations before us fought simply to love openly. Wilma and Marilyn&#39;s story is one of resilience, sacrifice, family, and a love that never let go.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Love can survive extraordinary circumstances when rooted in commitment.</li><li>LGBTQ elders paved the way for the freedoms many queer families experience today.</li><li>Family building doesn&#39;t always follow traditional paths.</li><li>Living authentically sometimes takes decades—and that&#39;s okay.</li><li>Protecting children often meant remaining closeted for older generations.</li><li>Representation matters at every age.</li><li>Pride is both a celebration and a remembrance of those who couldn&#39;t safely live out loud.</li><li> </li></ul>🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s) Wilma and Marilyn, known online as <a href="https://www.instagram.com/therainbowaunties_/" rel="nofollow">@therainbowaunties_</a>, are authors, content creators, grandparents, and longtime advocates for LGBTQ visibility. Together for more than forty years, they share stories about love, aging, family, and queer history with warmth, humor, and honesty. Through their social media and their memoir, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Pain-Love-Journey-Outside-Rainbow/dp/1736574906" rel="nofollow">From Pain to Love: Our Journey Outside the Rainbow,</a> they remind people of every generation that it&#39;s never too late to live authentically.🏳️‍🌈 Thanks to our sponsors<a href="https://www.cryobank.com/" rel="nofollow">California Cryobank</a> Use code QUEERFAM26 for a free level 3 subscription to their donor catalogue!🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a>🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a>🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

They Raised a Family While Hiding Their Love | The Rainbow Aunties

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When Calypso and her wife Nat decided to start their family, they never imagined the twists and turns ahead. From navigating the UK&#39;s fertility system and searching for a known donor to traveling internationally for IVF, their journey was filled with unexpected setbacks, difficult decisions, and more than a few emotional rollercoasters.In this episode, Calypso shares how one embryo became one pregnancy, the health challenges that changed their plans, and the lessons they learned about resilience, trust, and queer family building along the way.It&#39;s a hopeful, honest conversation about what it takes to create a family—and why sometimes the path that unfolds isn&#39;t the one you originally planned.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Family building rarely goes according to plan—but that doesn&#39;t mean it won&#39;t work out.</li><li>Queer people often rely on community, shared stories, and online creators as our version of &#34;the birds and the bees.&#34;</li><li>Fertility journeys can uncover important health information that impacts far more than family building.</li><li>Choosing a donor is deeply personal, and there is no one right way to do it.</li><li>Known donors, anonymous donors, and everything in between can be beautiful paths to parenthood.</li><li>IVF involves far more waiting, uncertainty, and emotional ups and downs than most people realize.</li><li>Sometimes the hardest part of family building is adapting when the original plan changes.</li><li>Being in a queer relationship can create opportunities for flexibility and choice that don&#39;t always exist in heterosexual fertility journeys.</li><li>One embryo really can be enough.</li><li>Sharing our stories helps the next family feel a little less alone.</li></ul>🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Calypso Barnum-Bobb is a queer creator, storyteller, and founder of <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mothercalypso/" rel="nofollow">Mother Calypso</a>, a platform documenting her and her wife Nat&#39;s journey to parenthood. Through honest and heartfelt content, she shares the realities of queer family building, fertility treatment, donor conception, and the emotional highs and lows that come with creating a family.Based in London, Calypso is also the co-founder of <a href="https://www.wearepeoplelikeus.com/" rel="nofollow">People Like Us Retreats</a>, which creates transformative retreat experiences for queer women, trans, and non-binary people around the world. Her work centers on visibility, community, and helping LGBTQIA+ people feel less alone in their journeys. 🏳️‍🌈 Thanks to our sponsors<a href="https://www.cryobank.com/" rel="nofollow">California Cryobank</a> Use code QUEERFAM26 for a free level 3 subscription to their donor catalogue! 🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/mothercalypso/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/mothercalypso/</a></li><li><a href="https://www.wearepeoplelikeus.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.wearepeoplelikeus.com/</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/peoplelikeusretreats/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/peoplelikeusretreats/</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@mothercalypso" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/@mothercalypso</a></li></ul>🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a> 🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a>🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website 🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Known Donors, IVF & One Very Special Embryo

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Jake and Sean never expected a conversation on Grindr to lead to marriage, parenthood, and three kids at once.Raised in conservative Mormon families, both men spent years trying to reconcile their faith with their sexuality. In this episode, they share how they met while still closeted, fell in love while trying to &#34;find wives,&#34; navigated coming out, left the LDS church, and eventually built their family through surrogacy.They also open up about pregnancy loss, the emotional realities of family building, and the unforgettable moment they learned they weren&#39;t having one baby—or even two—but triplets.It&#39;s a beautiful conversation about faith, love, resilience, and creating the family you once thought was impossible.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Growing up Mormon and realizing they were gay</li><li>Meeting on Grindr while trying to &#34;find wives&#34;</li><li>The pressure of faith, repentance, and belonging</li><li>Coming out to their families</li><li>Leaving the LDS church together</li><li>Building careers with family as the goal</li><li>Choosing an egg donor and creating embryos</li><li>Pregnancy loss and the emotional toll of surrogacy</li><li>The shocking ultrasound that revealed triplets</li><li>Raising triplets as gay dads</li><li>How they talk to their children about surrogacy and donor conception</li><li>Breaking cycles of shame and creating a different future for their kids</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)<a href="https://www.instagram.com/daddiestothree/" rel="nofollow">Jake and Sean</a> are Utah-based dads to triplets, former Mormons, real estate professionals, and LGBTQ+ family advocates. Through their social media platform, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/daddiestothree/" rel="nofollow">@daddiestothree</a>, they share the joys, challenges, and everyday realities of raising triplets while helping normalize queer families for millions of viewers. Their story of faith, love, surrogacy, and parenthood has inspired families around the world.. 🏳️‍🌈 Thanks to our sponsors<a href="https://www.cryobank.com/" rel="nofollow">California Cryobank</a> Use code QUEERFAM26 for a free level 3 subscription to their donor catalogue! 🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a>🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a>🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

From Closeted Mormons to Gay Dads of Three

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The babies aren&#39;t babies anymore.In this candid conversation, Jaimie sits down with returning guest and friend José Rolón (NYC Gay Dad) to talk about parenting preteens and teenagers as LGBTQ+ parents. From puberty and emotional regulation to first crushes, social media, and navigating the outside world&#39;s assumptions about queer families, this episode explores what changes—and what stays the same—as our kids get older.Jaimie and José share honest stories about raising confident kids, keeping communication open during the middle school years, helping children navigate questions about their families, and finding humor in the chaos of parenting adolescents. They also discuss what it&#39;s like when your family exists in the public eye and how to empower kids to feel proud of who they are and where they come from.Because it turns out building the family was only the beginning.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Why puberty can feel like a return to your child&#39;s toddler years.</li><li>How queer parents can keep communication open as kids become more independent.</li><li>Helping children navigate questions and assumptions about LGBTQ+ families.</li><li>What happens when your family&#39;s story exists publicly online.</li><li>Why humor can be one of the most powerful parenting tools.</li><li>Raising confident kids who are proud of their families.</li><li>The challenge of balancing protection and independence during the tween and teen years.</li><li>José&#39;s surprisingly satisfying take on raising a straight son as a gay dad.</li><li>Why connection often happens during activities—not formal sit-down conversations.</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)José Rolón is the creator of NYC Gay Dad, an author, advocate, and one of the most recognizable voices in LGBTQ+ parenting. As a father of three teenagers, José has spent years sharing the realities of queer family life, fatherhood, and raising confident, compassionate children. He is also Jaimie&#39;s co-host on Love, Take Two, the podcast celebrating life&#39;s second acts and proving that sometimes the sequel really is better than the original. 🏳️‍🌈 Thanks to our sponsors<a href="https://www.cryobank.com/" rel="nofollow">California Cryobank</a> Use code QUEERFAM26 for a free level 3 subscription to their donor catalogue! 🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned<ul><li><a href="https://pod.link/1872088833?sort=popularity&view=apps" rel="nofollow">Love, Take Two</a></li><li> </li></ul>🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a> 🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a>🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Queer Parents, Preteens & Puberty with José Rolón

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In Part 2 of the conversation with donor conception expert, author, therapist, and podcaster Lisa Schuman, Jaimie flips the roles and asks the questions, diving deep into donor conception, queer family building, and the emotional realities of parenting in donor-conceived families.Drawing from decades of experience in reproductive medicine, Lisa shares what research reveals about communication openness, why honesty with donor-conceived children matters so deeply, and how LGBTQ+ families have helped shape the conversation around intentional parenting.The conversation explores internalized homophobia, non-biological parenting, genetics, identity, and the fears many queer parents quietly carry. It is an affirming and thoughtful discussion about trust, openness, and the many valid ways families are created.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Why communication openness matters more than donor openness</li><li>The importance of talking to donor-conceived children early and often</li><li>How queer families helped shape donor conception research</li><li>Internalized homophobia and the pressure queer parents put on themselves</li><li>Why there is no “right” way to build a family</li><li>The emotional differences between queer and non-queer family building journeys</li><li>How intentionality impacts LGBTQ+ parenting</li><li>Why honesty builds trust in donor-conceived families</li></ul>🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Lisa Schuman is a therapist, author, adoption and donor conception expert, and the founder of the Center for Family Building. She is the co-author of Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception and host of the podcast Building Your Family with Lisa Schuman. Lisa has spent decades helping individuals and couples navigate infertility, donor conception, adoption, and the emotional complexities of family building. 🏳️‍🌈 Thanks to our sponsors<a href="https://www.cryobank.com/" rel="nofollow">California Cryobank</a> Use code QUEERFAM26 for a free level 3 subscription to their donor catalogue! 🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned<ul><li><a href="https://familybuilding.net/" rel="nofollow">Lisa’s website: The Center For Family Building</a></li><li>https://familybuilding.net/</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a>🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a>🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Raising Donor-Conceived Kids With Honesty and Pride

Welcome back to Tea Time with Jaimie &amp; Dianni, the Patreon-exclusive bonus series where nothing is off limits and the conversations go everywhere.This week’s tea starts with Jaimie’s accidental deep dive into the world of nails, hand talking, and super-glued gel manicures… and somehow spirals into a very real conversation about monogamy, jealousy, queer relationships, and the idea of openness in long-term partnerships.Dianni and Jaimie unpack the differences between queer relationship styles, the emotional realities of open relationships versus monogamy, and why something that sounds freeing in theory can feel very different in practice. From “suggestive hugs” to monthly relationship check-ins, this episode is funny, vulnerable, and deeply honest in the way only Tea Time can be.Also discussed:<ul><li>Lesbian nail salon culture (or lack thereof)</li><li>Why Jaimie’s nails keep popping off</li><li>Serial monogamy vs queer openness</li><li>Jealousy and relationship boundaries</li><li>What openness actually requires emotionally</li><li>Feeling secure vs wanting freedom</li><li>Why communication matters more than labels</li><li>The difference between fantasy and reality in relationships</li></ul>Grab your tea. This one gets personal. ☕️ Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Tea Time: To Open or Not to Open?

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Jaimie sits down with therapist, author, podcaster, and donor conception expert Lisa Schuman. Lisa turns the mic on Jaimie as they explore the origins of The Queer Family Podcast, the emotional realities of donor conception, the fears many queer parents carry around biological connection, and why queer families are some of the most intentional families out there. They also discuss humor, resilience, Pride, and the importance of showing up for the entire LGBTQIA+ community right now.They also discuss:<ul><li>LGBTQIA+ family building</li><li>Donor conception</li><li>Non-biological parenting</li><li>Infertility in queer families</li><li>The emotional realities of donor conception</li><li>Bonding with children as a non-bio parent</li><li>Queer parenting and intentionality</li><li>Talking to kids about donor conception</li><li>Humor and normalization in queer households</li><li>The current political climate for LGBTQIA+ families</li><li>Trans rights and queer community solidarity</li><li>Second-parent adoption and legal protections</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Queer families are some of the most intentional families out there.</li><li>The emotional realities of non-bio parenting deserve to be talked about openly and without shame.</li><li>Infertility can impact queer families too — and it can feel incredibly isolating without representation.</li><li>Biological connection does not define the strength of a parent-child bond.</li><li>Bonding with a child is not always instant, even for biological parents.</li><li>Humor can be a powerful tool for normalizing donor conception and queer family structures for kids.</li><li>Representation and storytelling matter deeply for LGBTQIA+ people navigating family building.</li><li>Today’s political climate is creating real fear for many LGBTQIA+ families, especially trans and nonbinary people.</li><li>Legal protections like second-parent adoption remain critically important.</li><li>Pride is not just celebration — it is resilience, visibility, advocacy, and community care.</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Lisa Schuman is a therapist, author, adoption and donor conception expert, and the founder of the Center for Family Building. She is the co-author of Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception and host of the podcast Building Your Family with Lisa Schuman. Lisa has spent decades helping individuals and couples navigate infertility, donor conception, adoption, and the emotional complexities of family building. 🏳️‍🌈 Thanks to our sponsors<a href="https://www.cryobank.com/" rel="nofollow">California Cryobank</a> Use code QUEERFAM26 for a free level 3 subscription to their donor catalogue! 🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned<ul><li><a href="https://familybuilding.net/" rel="nofollow">Lisa’s website: The Center For Family Building</a></li><li>https://familybuilding.net/</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a>🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a>🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Donor Conception, Pride & Intentional Parenting

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Jaimie and special co-host José Rolón (@nycgaydad) sit down with married couple Jake and Hannah Graf — authors, advocates, and parents of two — to talk about love, transition, intentional family building, and the beautiful chaos of parenting.Jake shares why he chose to pause testosterone and create embryos years before meeting Hannah, while Hannah opens up about transitioning while serving in the British Army and believing she’d never experience love or parenthood. Together, they talk about finding each other, navigating surrogacy as a trans couple, becoming parents during the height of the COVID lockdowns, and the powerful realization that biology is only one small piece of what makes a family.They also discuss:<ul><li>trans fertility and preserving options for future parenthood</li><li>why queer families are often forced to have “the big conversations” early</li><li>the emotional realities of non-biological parenthood</li><li>parenting through fear, uncertainty, and a global pandemic</li><li>the importance of representation and telling joyful trans family stories</li><li>their new children’s book, The Silly Frilly Dress</li></ul>This conversation is funny, emotional, deeply affirming, and a reminder that queer families don’t just exist — we thrive.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Queer family building requires extraordinary intentionality</li><li>Fertility preservation can create future possibilities for trans people</li><li>Non-biological parenthood is every bit as real and powerful</li><li>Surrogates are truly life-changing partners in queer family creation</li><li>The “instant bond” narrative around parenthood can be harmful</li><li>Representation matters — especially joyful trans family representation</li><li>Kids thrive when they’re allowed to express themselves authentically</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Jake Graf is a filmmaker, writer, actor, and director based in London. A longtime advocate for trans visibility and LGBTQ+ families, Jake has worked extensively in film and television and is passionate about telling authentic queer stories.Hannah Graf is a former British Army officer, public speaker, and advocate for trans inclusion. After becoming one of the first openly trans officers in the British Army, Hannah has used her platform to champion visibility, inclusion, and family representation.Together, Jake and Hannah are parents to two daughters and co-authors of the children’s book The Silly Frilly Dress, a story about self-expression, identity, and allowing kids to be exactly who they are. 🏳️‍🌈 Thanks to our sponsors<a href="https://www.cryobank.com/" rel="nofollow">California Cryobank</a> Use code QUEERFAM26 for a free level 3 subscription to their donor catalogue! 🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/hannahw253/" rel="nofollow">Hannah on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/DVgSJziDC0h/?img_index=1" rel="nofollow">Jake on Instagram</a></li><li>Order The Silly Frilly Dress in the US</li><li><a href="https://geni.us/TheSillyFrillyDress" rel="nofollow">Order The Silly Frilly Dress in the UK</a></li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a>🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a>🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️‍🌈 Shop merch <a href="https://queerfampodmerchstore.dashery.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. 🏳️‍🌈 Full transcript &amp; episode info available on our website 🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Love, Transition & Parenthood with Jake and Hannah Graf

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Vanessa and Jory of <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernfamilynextdoor/" rel="nofollow">@modernfamilynextdoor</a> join the Pride Extravaganza to share their journey from closeted college classmates to raising three children together. They open up about religious shame, coming out to family, known donor conception, reciprocal IVF, difficult pregnancies, and the emotional realities of non-bio parenting in queer families. This conversation is funny, vulnerable, and deeply relatable for anyone navigating LGBTQ family building.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Vanessa and Jory share how growing up religious shaped their experiences with internalized homophobia and delayed coming out.</li><li>The couple discusses falling in love after meeting in college — despite both initially trying to avoid their attraction to women.</li><li>They open up about coming out to family members, navigating acceptance, and the emotional impact of feeling like they might lose family relationships.</li><li>Vanessa and Jory explain how they built their family through known donor conception and later expanded their family through reciprocal IVF.</li><li>The conversation explores the unique emotional realities of non-bio parenting in queer families, including fears around bonding and identity.</li><li>Vanessa shares the painful assumptions strangers made about her relationship to her son because she is Mexican and her son is white with red hair.</li><li>They discuss how little information and representation existed for LGBTQ+ families when they first started trying to conceive in 2015.</li><li>The episode highlights the intentionality, resilience, and complexity that often comes with queer family building.</li></ul> 🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)Vanessa and Jory are the creators behind <a href="https://www.instagram.com/modernfamilynextdoor/" rel="nofollow">@modernfamilynextdoor</a> where they share the realities of raising a queer family online with honesty, humor, and heart. Through their content, Vanessa and Jory have become a source of visibility and representation for other LGBTQ+ families navigating similar journeys. 🏳️‍🌈 Thanks to our sponsors<a href="https://www.cryobank.com/" rel="nofollow">California Cryobank</a> Use code QUEERFAM26 for a free level 3 subscription to their donor catalogue! 🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Email <a href="mailto:thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com" rel="nofollow">thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com</a> 🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">Patreon</a> for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 <a href="https://app.redcircle.com/shows/d2c61ac1-cfc5-477f-a545-f1ad21f88eec/exclusive-content" rel="nofollow">redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content</a>🏳️‍🌈 What resonated most with you?Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!🏳️‍🌈 Let’s Connect!Find us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/" rel="nofollow">IG</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast?_r=1&_t=ZP-8v7M6BUBw2I" rel="nofollow">TikTok</a>, <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/queerfampod.bsky.social" rel="nofollow">Bluesky</a>, &amp; <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️‍🌈 Watch full episodes on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thequeerfamilypodcast" rel="nofollow">YouTube</a>🏳️‍🌈 Order the <a href="https://bookshop.org/p/books/if-these-ovaries-could-talk-the-things-we-ve-learned-about-making-an-lgbtq-family-jaimie-kelton/14848704?ean=9780999294390&next=t" rel="nofollow">If These Ovaries Could Talk book </a>🏳️‍🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️‍🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️‍🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato  🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation! Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/the-queer-family-podcast/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Known Donor, Reciprocal IVF & Three Kids Later | Vanessa & Jory

The show all about family; but with gay! A hilarious and heartfelt dive into LGBTQ family life, parenting, and the challenges queer families face.

Hosted by queer mom Jaimie Kelton, The Queer Family Podcast brings you weekly interviews with LGBTQIA+ guests exploring how they made their families and how they navigate a world that wasn’t necessarily built for them.

The mission? To normalize, elevate, and celebrate queer family life—while proving we’re just like other parents... trying (and often failing) not to lose it when our kid still isn’t wearing shoes and we’re 25 minutes late.

Through laughter, honesty, and representation, this show tackles inclusive parenting, family-building journeys, and the age-old question: What’s it really like to raise a family as an LGBTQ person in a world built for the straights?