Garrett Higbee: Supporting Struggling Pastors

In this episode, we look at how to support struggling pastors with Garrett Higbee, a seasoned pastor and leader in ministry. In this episode, Garrett shares his insights on the challenges pastors and ministry leaders face, as well as the importance of humility, accountability, and teachability. We'll be diving into topics such as the unrealistic expectations placed on pastors, the need for rest and retreat, building a culture of trust within leadership teams, and the importance of self-awareness and emotional intelligence.

Garrett Higbee has always held a passion for counseling, but it was his personal journey and salvation in the early 1990s that sparked his understanding of the struggles and doubts faced by those in ministry. Initially naive to the challenges within the church, Garrett dove headfirst into ministry work, only to discover that pastors and church leaders were not immune to their own personal battles. Determined to address these issues and create a healthier environment within the church, Garrett dedicated his career to counseling and supporting pastors and leaders on their own spiritual journeys. Through his work, he aims to foster a church culture where everyone can thrive and embrace the gospel without the burden of politics or pretense.

Timestamped Overview

[00:04:24] Elevated temptation for caregivers, pastors, leaders.

[00:08:20] The dangers pastors face: fear, isolation, conflict.

[00:10:09] Growing EQ, prioritizing truth, love, and wisdom. Pleasing God and man.

[00:13:56] Loneliness and fear of judgment in leadership

[00:17:12] Conviction from sin leads to growth.

[00:22:34] Cross pollinization, trust, outside help, resilience, soul care.

[00:25:40] Sermon preparation must deeply impact the preacher.

[00:27:10] No need to go elsewhere in Scripture. Personal reflection leads to humility, sharing with others.

[00:30:24] Effective by God's design: walk, withdraw, sharpen, refuel, return.

[00:33:51] Marriage, kids, ministry, prayer walks - partnership.

[00:38:51] Humility, accountability, and teachability essential for success.

[00:40:43] Emptying oneself, humility, and the cross.

Resources Mentioned in this Episode

Coaching and training resources available through GCC: https://www.gccollective.org

Twelve Stones: https://twelvestones.org/