Welcome to episode 335 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Ness Cooper to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss shower sex experiences, benefits, drawbacks, techniques, and accommodating diverse preferences and situations. 

 

Ness Cooper is a Sex and Relationship Expert with over ten years of experience. She has helped individuals, couples, and those in polyamorous relationships find fluidity in intimacy and pleasure. She has a background in counselling with a focus on sex and relationships and has trained in the UK as well as internationally. 

  

Ness has trained in youth sex education and is part of the esteem network by acet. Her favorite study has been studying with the Kinsey Institute of Human Sexuality, and therapy courses run by TASHRA. Ness is kink positive and has trained in kink education and has a paper on BDSM and disabilities coming out in 2022. 

  

She runs a popular Sex Toy review blog. Ness is regularly quoted in the press and has been mentioned in a book about female sexual fantasies "Garden of Desire". Not only does Ness coach people in human sexuality, but she also teaches other professionals on various subjects around sexual wellbeing. 

  

Wanting to learn as much as possible, she has also trained in Pelvic Floor Biomechanics, sea sponges, pessaries, and mental health safeguarding. 

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How most people prefer shower sex over beach sex based on a recent poll. 
•  The benefits of shower sex including different sensations, temperature variations, privacy, and different positions. 
• Establishing boundaries in shower sex, consider order of entry, temperature preferences, lubricant choice, and sex toy integration. 
• Recommended sex toys for shower use include heated vibrators, glass and metal toys, suction handrails, and specialized furniture. 
• Health concerns during shower sex may include proper cleaning of the shower head 
• How positions such as spooning while standing can be a good introduction to shower sex. 
• The importance of aftercare for vulva owners and neurodivergent individuals. 

 

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Welcome to episode 334 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome David Khalili to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the challenges men face due to traditional ideas of masculinity and how this impacts their relationships and communication with partners. 

 

David F. Khalili, MA, LMFT is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist whose practice is focused on working with men, adolescents, couples therapy, and multi-ethnic individuals. He received his master's degree in counseling psychology from Golden Gate University and a master's degree in Sexuality Studies from San Francisco State University. 

  

During his graduate studies, David completed his practicum internship at UCSF AIDS Health Project and followed up with a post-graduate psychodynamic intensive program at The Psychotherapy Institute. Additionally, he has extensive experience working with teenagers, as well as with those experiencing grief, trauma and substance abuse issues. His expertise also lies in working with multi-ethnic individuals and those who have recently immigrated or are first-generation American born.  

  

David specializes in issues ranging from sex and sexuality, sexual disorders and anxiety, to trauma and PTSD, and men's groups. His approach focuses on helping his clients improve their self-awareness - guiding them to understand how they relate to themselves and their life experiences, and how to reach the goals they desire.  

  

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• The limitations traditional masculinity imposes on men in terms of emotional expression. 
•  How traditional masculinity encourages men to only rely on themselves 
•  How men often experience a narrow spectrum of emotions and struggle to communicate their feelings with their partner 
•  The impacts David had growing up in a multicultural household, witnessing the impact of cultural expectations on the expression of emotions. 
•  The way toxic positivity and uncommunicated expectations can cause resentment and psychological distress in relationships. 
•  Understanding the concept of "soul murder" where individuals kill off parts of themselves to conform to societal norms. 
•  How sexual response cycles can help individuals better accept and manage their emotions and reactions in relationships. 

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Welcome to episode 333 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Zachary Zane. In this episode, we discuss his new book Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto, the importance of including men in the sex positivity movement and increasing bisexual male visibility in media and society. 

 

Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, speaker, activist, and sex expert whose work focuses on sexuality, lifestyle, and culture.  

  

He has a weekly sex advice column at Men’s Health titled “Sexplain It,” where he answers a diverse range of questions pertaining to masculinity, ethical non-monogamy, sexual insecurities, and the LGBTQ community. He answers questions with actionable advice that isn’t just “communicate with your partner,” because let’s be real, we all know that already.  

  

He also has a monthly column at Queer Majority called “Zach and the City,” which explores romance and sexuality through Zane’s fabulous life. Set against the backdrop of New York City, Zane uses his personal experiences as a young and adventurous queer socialite to unpack the current state of cosmopolitan sex, love, and dating.   

  

He currently writes for The Washington Post, Rolling Stone, and Prevention. He was formerly a digital associate editor at OUT Magazine and a contributing editor at Pride.com, Plus Magazine, and The Advocate Magazine. He’s been featured in numerous other publications as well, including Playboy, NBC, SELF, Allure, Dazed, AskMen, Slate, Into, Them, Cosmopolitan, Hornet, NewNowNext, LGBTQ Nation, MerryJane, and Bustle.  

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• Why Zachary wrote his memoir focusing on bisexual men overcoming sexual shame. 
•  
• How even growing up in a sex-positive and queer-affirming household, he still experienced sexual shame. 
•  
• The importance of including men in the sex positivity movement, as they are often left out due to societal expectations and stereotypes. 
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• The challenges bisexual men face when dating, such as disbelief, condescension, or assumptions that they will later come out as gay. 
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• The importance of bisexual representation in media to help normalize the identity and combat stereotypes. 
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• Advice for individuals exploring their sexuality, suggesting not focusing on a label initially and focusing on understanding their feelings and attractions instead. 

 

 

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Welcome to episode 332 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Greg Matos. In this episode, we discuss monogamy in the 21st century, ways in which you can manage temptation and the impact platforms like OnlyFans are having on relationships. 

 

Dr. Greg Matos is a board-certified Couple and Family Psychologist who served over a decade in the U.S. Marine Corps and Navy, becoming a Lieutenant Commander. Greg was awarded the Bronze Star with Combat Valor and the Department of State’s Award for Heroism. He’s the author of Shattered Glass: The Story of a Marine Embassy Guard.  

 

After the military, Dr. Greg began specializing in systems work and Gottman-Method Couples Therapy. He founded a charity on TikTok @abetterloveproject to share science-based advice on love and life with his 40,000 audience members. You can join him for a casual chat and mindful breathing every day on TikTok. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• A look into the Better Love Project and why Dr. Greg started it  
• Analyzing monogamy in the 21st century  
• The way in which social media has affected relationships 
• Looking at the impacts of opening your relationship 
• Understanding how micro-cheating works  
• Balancing your desire whilst in a monogamous relationship 
• Ways in which you can manage temptation 
• The importance of knowing your core values 
• Keeping communication open with your partner for the long haul 
• The impact platforms like OnlyFans are having on relationships 
• Building trust and commitment for a healthy relationship 

 

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Welcome to episode 331 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Morgan. In this episode, we discuss attachment theory, the way different attachment styles affect sexual dynamics and ways in which you can communicate your insecurities. 

 

Meet the relationship coach who's changing the game. With deep expertise in attachment theory and a proven track record of success, she's dedicated to helping women raise their self-worth and find the healthy relationship they deserve.  

 

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In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• Looking at the definition of attachment theory 
• How attachment theory can be the missing piece to the dating puzzle 
• What is insecure attachment style? 
• The way different attachment styles affect sexual dynamics  
• The importance of communication and emotional connection  
• Recommendations on what you can do daily with secure attachment  
• Ways in which you can communicate your insecurities  
• Knowing what is useful to share with your partner 
• Understanding what it is you need to feel better and more comfortable 

 

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Welcome to episode 330 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Niki Davis-Fainbloom. In this episode, we discuss the common misconceptions around fetishes, dealing with internalized shame and understanding that not all fetishes are sexually connected. 

 

Niki Davis-Fainbloom is a Canadian-born, New York-based sex educator, writer, and coach. Since receiving her Master’s degree studying the psychology of sexual dysfunction from NYU, she has facilitated hundreds of sexual education workshops at locations including Planned Parenthood, New York University, and The United Nations.  

 

Her writing has also been featured in publications such as Mind Body Green, Cosmopolitan, Refinery 29, and Pornhub Sexual Wellness Center.  Her work uses up-to-date research, humor, and practical advice to help people develop the skills to have healthier and more satisfying romantic and sexual relationships.  

 

She is an expert in fetishes, and much of her coaching involves working with folks with unique desires as well as navigating ethical non-monogamy and pleasure. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• What inspired Niki to delve into this line of work 
• Looking at the common fetishes people may desire 
• Understanding the misconceptions around fetishes 
• Analyzing uncommon fetishes such as sneeze fetishes 
• The importance of knowing you’re not alone if you do have a fetish 
• How you can communicate to your partner you have a fetish 
• Why there can be a lot of internalized shame around fetishes 
• Communities you can seek out to bond with others around this  
• How not all fetishes are sexually connected 
• The importance of consent around fetishes 

 

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Welcome to episode 329 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Eric Sprankle. In this episode, we discuss Eric’s upcoming book on masturbation, the misconceptions about masturbation, and how masturbation positively and negatively affects relationships. 

 

Dr. Eric Sprankle is an Associate Professor of Clinical Psychology and Co-Director of the Sexuality Studies program at Minnesota State University, Mankato. He is a licensed clinical psychologist and an AASECT-certified sex therapist affiliated with the Minnesota Sexual Health Institute. He is also the Director of the Secular Therapy Project, a subsidiary of Recovering from Religion. 

 

Dr. Sprankle received his doctorate in clinical psychology from Xavier University in 2009, completed a postdoctoral fellowship in sexual health at the University of Minnesota Medical School in 2011, and was awarded tenure in the Department of Psychology at Minnesota State University in 2017. 

 

He currently leads the Sexual Health Research Team at Minnesota State examining sexuality, stigma, and secularism, and has published articles on the effects of sexually explicit material, older adult sexuality, and sex worker affirmative therapy. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• Looking at the content of Eric’s upcoming book around masturbation  
• How Eric became interested in this subject area 
• The misconceptions around masturbation  
• Analyzing the differences between low, moderate and excessive masturbation  
• Is masturbation beneficial for your wellness? 
• Understanding the context of masturbation  
• Masturbating healthily while in a relationship  
• Making sure your value systems around masturbation align with your partners value system 
• Communicating to your partner about masturbation  
• How masturbation can positively and negatively affect relationships  

 

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Welcome to episode 328 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Veronica Cisneros. In this episode, we discuss the weaponization of sex, the need for mutual pleasure in a healthy relationship and learning to step out of your comfort zone for excitement.  

 

Veronica Cisneros is a force to be reckoned with. With a sparkling personality and a passion for helping couples feel heard, loved, and respected, she's transformed countless marriages from feeling like they're on life-support to thriving in a place of deep understanding and connection. 

 

As a licensed marriage and family therapist, marriage coach, course creator, retreat host, and podcast host, she's leaving her mark on the world – and inspiring her listeners to live their best lives. 

 

But it wasn't always this way. For years, Veronica found herself losing herself in an effort to meet the needs of her family. She was on the brink of losing her marriage – until she took the reins and fought back. Today, she's a true inspiration – and proof that with hard work and dedication, anything is possible. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• What does it mean to weaponize sex? 
• How many women don’t feel seen in their relationship 
• Understanding what sex represents to your partner 
• Ways of not letting day to day life get in the way of sex 
• The need for mutual pleasure in a healthy sexual relationship 
• Knowing the best place to start to improve sex in a relationship 
• The importance of communication and improving communication 
• Learning to step out of your comfort zone for excitement  
• What you will experience at Veronica’s retreat 

 

 

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Welcome to episode 327 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Alexandra Solomon. In this episode, we discuss maintaining great sex in a long-term relationship, boosting your sexual confidence and learning to step into your erotic self. 

 

Over the last two decades, Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon has become one of today’s most trusted voices in the world of relationships, and her work on Relational Self-Awareness has reached millions of people around the world.  

 

Dr. Solomon is a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University, and she is on faculty in the School of Education and Social Policy at Northwestern University where she teaches the internationally renowned course, Building Loving and Lasting Relationships: Marriage 101. In addition to writing articles and chapters for leading academic journals and books in the field of marriage and family, she is the author of two bestselling books, Loving Bravely and Taking Sexy Back.  

 

Dr. Solomon regularly presents to diverse groups that include the United States Military Academy at West Point and Microsoft, and she is frequently asked to talk about relationships with media outlets like The Today Show, O Magazine, The Atlantic, Vogue, and Scientific American. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• Maintaining great sex in a long-term relationship 
• Understanding the dynamics of sex and intimacy  
• Cultivating self-awareness and relational safety  
• How you can repair damaged parts of your sex life 
• Ways in which you can boost your sexual confidence 
• Tools you can use to better communicate with your partner 
• Cultivating the positive aspects of your relationship inside and outside the bedroom 
• Learning to step into your erotic self  

 

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Welcome to episode 326 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe. In this episode, we discuss sexual self-consciousness, incorporating your spirituality into your sex life and recommendations to improve your sexual confidence. 

 

Dr. Shemeka Thorpe is an alum of Florida State and UNCG, a North Carolina native, and a proud Ravenclaw with first-generation college student status.  

 

A lover of the beach who also loves to read books, her passion for research began during her undergraduate studies. Earning her PhD in Community Health Education has enabled this public health professional's goal facilitating positive sexology narratives about Black people rather than deficit-based ones; she strives to create representative teams that consider community needs when disseminating important information from academic journals into meaningful impacts on population health outcomes. 

 

With over 10 years of research under her belt, she is a wheelhouse of knowledge when it comes to sexuality education. As someone deeply embedded in the community and highly active on social media, not only has she been able gather insights from conversations with Black women - but all these experiences also inform her ongoing studies.  

 

Furthermore, this expertise also sees her playing an important role by sitting on editorial review boards for two well-respected journals dedicated to comprehensive sexology counsels and sexual wellness as a whole. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• What sexual self-consciousness means  
• Recommendations to improve your sexual confidence 
• Overcoming the shame spiral that can happen around sex 
• Looking at studies of black women’s sexual experiences 
• How many black women defined pleasure as liberating  
• Analyzing the different sexual experiences of queer and straight people 
• Understanding the difference between pleasure and orgasm 
• Incorporating your spirituality into your sex life 
• The importance of sexual mindfulness  

 

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Welcome to episode 325 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Elliot Justin, M.D., FACEP. In this episode, we discuss the benefits of using a cock ring, readjusting your erectile expectations as you get older and how toys such as vibrators have become more normalized to use for men and women. 

 

Elliot Justin, M.D., FACEP, is an Emergency Medicine Specialist and enthusiastic cock ring user for more than 10 years. In his extensive career as a medical professional, he’s seen inadequate resources dedicated to evaluating men’s sexual health issues.  

  

He believes that before there’s erectile dysfunction, there’s erectile fitness. His interest in regenerative medicine and his passion for regular playful lovemaking and its health benefits inspired him to start FirmTech Inc., the world’s first smart male underwearables company. 

  

FirmTech focuses on developing products that encourage fun, enjoyable sex for men of all ages, while empowering them to better understand their health and the impact of medications, supplements, personal habits, vices and exercise on their sexual wellness. We want to give you the data to make the best decisions for your sex health. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How Elliot became interested in this line of work  
• The benefits of using a cock ring  
• Pros and cons of using medication such as Viagra  
• The relationship between erectile dysfunction and anxiety  
• Readjusting your erectile expectations as you get older 
• Looking at other sex tech products available to improve erections 
• How toys such as vibrators have become more normalized to use for men and women 
• Why you shouldn’t compare your sex life to pornography  
• The way in which sex toys for men are slowly becoming more mainstream 
• Changes you can make such as exercise or better diet to further improve your sex life 

 

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Welcome to episode 324 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Amir Yassai. In this episode, we discuss Amir’s journey of coming out as a queer Muslim, understanding how sexual shame develops, and recommendations on how you can feel more sexually empowered. 

 

Amir Yassai is a queer Muslim unicorn who won’t shy away from any conversation. Comedy is at the center of everything he does. 

 

Chatting with Amir will be like chatting with an old friend with a lot more sass. He actively battles against racism, transphobia, and body shaming in the queer community. 

 

His courage in speaking out against discrimination and prejudice makes him one of the most engaging people you could talk to: like catching up with your best friend, but spicier! 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• Looking at Amir’s journey as a queer Muslim  
• Overcoming the challenges of coming out as a queer Muslim 
• How Amir’s relationship with his parents has evolved over the years 
• Understanding how sexual shame develops  
• How Amir found a community to help with the challenges of being a queer Muslim 
• Knowing that it’s ok to have a variety of sexual attractions  
• The importance of having open communication with your sexual partners 
• Steps you can take to heal from sexual shame 
• Why it’s healthy to have sexual fantasies  
• Recommendations on how you can feel more sexually empowered  

 

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Welcome to episode 323 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Amanda Louder. In this episode, we discuss ways you can start to engage with roleplay, learning to better communicate with your partner, and how small things like props can make a big difference. 

 

Amanda Louder is a Certified Life Coach who empowers women to embrace their sexuality while maintaining strong relationships with themselves and God.  

  

In addition to being a coach, Amanda is also a wife to Kevin, and mom and stepmom to 5 kids, ranging in ages from 13-22. Amanda knows just how challenging it can be for modern Christian families to find a balance between traditional values and leading an enjoyable life filled with meaningful connections.  

 

When she's not coaching or catering to her family, you'll likely find Amanda at home enjoying one of her favorite hobbies: reading books, watching sports games involving loved ones; fishing by the lake; or camping under open skies surrounded by nature.  

  

Learn more about what motivates this inspiring woman through @AmandaLouderCoaching on Instagram, her 'Sex For Saints' podcast series dedicated to talking about sex and marriage topics or visit her website. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How Amanda became involved in this line of work  
• Learning to better communicate with your partner 
• The importance of building and expanding on trust in a relationship 
• Tips for ways you can start to engage with roleplay  
• How small things like props can make a big difference 
• Making sure that consent is working both ways 
• The benefits of the stop light system for engaging in new sexual activities  
• Maintaining Christian values while having a good sex life 

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Welcome to episode 322 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Stefan Buntrock. In this episode, we discuss prostate orgasms and stimulation, the sex toys available to reach a prostate orgasm, and we also analyze the g-spot and female ejaculation. 

 

Dr. Stefan Buntrock is a board-certified urologist in Göttingen, Germany. He is a Fellow of the European Board of Urology (FEBU) and received European certification as a sexologist and Fellow of the European Committee of Sexual Medicine (FECSM). 

 

For many years as chief physician at the Klinik am Kurpark, one of the largest German rehabilitation clinics for urology, he treated many patients after radical surgical interventions on the prostate and bladder.  

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How Dr. Stefan became interested in this line of work 
• Looking at the research for men reaching orgasm through prostate stimulation  
• Analyzing sex toys and vibrators for men  
• Understanding the g spot; Does it exist? How does it work? 
• Is the g spot linked to female ejaculation? 
• Understanding what a prostate massage is  
• Looking at the the types of stimulation that can cause a prostate orgasm  
• How this area is very mis-understood by the wider public 
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Welcome to episode 321 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Anya Laeta. In this episode, we discuss the different ways people can experience an orgasm, understanding orgasmic breathing and we also hear a sample of a breathing exercise from Anya.

Given that sex was a shameful and taboo topic in her culture, it is miraculous that her attitude toward sex was always one of curiosity and experimentation. Despite being open-minded and comfortable with sex, all her relationships would start lacking passion and excitement after about a year or so. Anya would conclude that she “fell out of love” and looked for a new relationship. Only to repeat this pattern all over 6-12 months later.

 

Not being able to have a sustainable, fulfilling sex life made her feel like a failure in relationships. It is this challenge that ultimately led her to study human sexuality, Tantra, and relationship psychology.

 

Understanding how her erotic mind, desire, arousal, sexual polarity, and anatomy work empowers Anya to create and re-create excitement, passion, and sexual satisfaction every day.

 

She would be lying if she said it’s easy. Yet, having a roadmap to do it made it possible for Anya to have a happy and sexy long-term relationship that she was dreaming about.

 

Today Anya is honored to help you meet your erotic potential and relationship needs.

In this episode, you will hear:

 

·      Looking at the different ways people can experience an orgasm

·      Analyzing emotional v genital-based orgasms

·      Looking at the way your brain wires your thinking of orgasms

·      Understanding the concept of embodiment

·      What is orgasmic breathing?

·      Can anyone practice orgasmic breathing?

·      How you can learn to deepen your breath to enhance your sexual experience

·      A sample of a breathing exercise from Anya

·      Using music to enrich your breathing exercises

·      The different ways vulva and penis owners can benefit from these exercises

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Welcome to episode 320 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Miranda (@PleasureBhabie). In this episode, we discuss how Miranda became involved in Sex Education, looking at the best techniques for thrusting, using lube to your advantage and cultivating your sexual energy for great sex. 

 

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How Miranda became involved in Sex Education  
• Looking at the best techniques for thrusting  
• Common mistakes men make with thrusting  
• Why don’t need to “Jackhammer” your partner for them to orgasm  
• Using lube to your advantage 
• Looking at some of Miranda’s favorite choice of lubes  
• Understanding the importance of consent and communication 
• How to use sexual positions to their best effect  
• Cultivating your sexual energy for great sex  
• Why women shouldn’t have to fake an orgasm 

 

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Welcome to episode 319 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Kevin Anthony. In this episode, we discuss pussy worship, how you can use pussy worship to please your partner, analysing the scent of a pussy and taking the pressure off women to have an orgasm.

Kevin Anthony 'The Truth Warrior' is a former tech guy who turned Men's Relationship Coach and Certified Tantra Counselor. Kevin is truly a modern-day warrior who brings both his heart and sword of truth to everything he does.

 

Kevin has spent over 20 years on a personal quest to redefine and discover what it means to be a man and a warrior. In an era of social programming and mass confusion of what it means to be a man and a warrior in life, relationships, and sex - he is consistently challenging his edge and searching for the truth so that he can help others.

 

He is the co-creator of the course Sexual Power and Mastery with his lover and wife Céline, "The Intimacy Angel," which is the complete training to develop man's stamina, boost his confidence, and enhance his sexual abilities. He and his wife also co-host "The Love Lab Podcast."

 

His passion is helping other men find and discover their hero's journey of being a warrior; to learn how to be deeply connected to their partner and allow intimacy to show up in all areas of their life while still feeling balanced as a man.

  

In this episode, you will hear:

 

·      How many women haven’t properly looked at their own pussy

·      Analyzing the scent of a pussy

·      Why it’s important to embrace the natural smell of pussy

·      The importance of present with your partner

·      Why you need to show your partner your invested in pussy worship

·      Taking the pressure off women to have an orgasm

·      Ways in which to make your partner comfortable and more relaxed

·      Understanding pussy worship doesn’t need to lead to orgasm

·      How you can immerse yourself in experiencing pleasure through pussy worship

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Welcome to episode 318 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Hayley Quinn. In this episode, we discuss how couples in long term relationships can take advantage of sexting, the importance of consent when sexting, and how you can learn to develop your erotic vocabulary. 

 

Dating coach Hayley Quinn’s original content, active social media presence, and unique delivery style helps global brands connect to a new audience and drive engagement. 

  

Hayley has worked with numerous premium brands from Neutrogena, to Match, to Glamour, Logitech G, Ogilvy and Hotels.com. Hayley’s skills as a broadcast presenter, mean she can act as an experienced “safe pair of hands” to represent your brand on radio days, TV segments or social media content. She is a skilled copywriter and regularly works with brands to hone their press releases and provides expertise on how to utilize dating content to get your brand into the media. She is also a highly experienced public speaker who can engage on live events, and panels. 

  

As well as being an internationally recognized dating coach and founder of the UK’s largest dating coaching company, Hayley is a published author. Her debut fiction book “The Last First Date” (Harper Collins) and non-fiction “Do This, Not That: Dating” (Simon & Schuster) are due for publication in January 2023. 

  

Hayley has appeared on TV and radio shows across the UK, USA and beyond: providing lively debate and content on love and dating. She’s appeared on shows ranging from BBC News, to Celebs Go Dating, to The Apprentice and is a safe pair of hands for live TV and broadcast. She is also experienced helping behind the scenes with show content. 

    

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How couples in long term relationships can take advantage of sexting 
• Seducing your partner via sexting  
• The way in which sexting can help recapture desire 
• Why audio and voice notes might be the best tool for you to use 
• Security measures you can take if sending sexy pictures 
• The importance of consent when sexting 
• Context is key! Take things one step at a time  
• Learning to develop your erotic vocabulary  
• Bridging the gap if one partner is more confident than the other sexting  
• The need and importance of positive reinforcement  

 

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Welcome to episode 317 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Sebastian Harris. In this episode, we discuss how you can keep a long term relationship hot, the importance of seduction, tips on how you can get better at seducing your partner and how to create more space in your relationship to allow for sexy time! 

 

Sebastian Harris is a dating coach and sex coach who is on a mission to help men to live more fulfilling dating and sex lives. 

    

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• What inspired Sebastian to write his book Rise of the Phoenix: How to Get the Hottest Girls in a World That Wants You to Fail 
• Keeping a long-term relationship hot  
• Why it’s important for you to seduce your partner 
• Mistakes men often make when it comes to seduction  
• How it’s easy to get lazy in a long-term relationship  
• Tips on ways to break out of the laziness  
• Steps you can take to really turn your partner on 
• Keeping communication open so you can be honest about what is and isn’t working 
• Creating space in your relationship to allow for sexy time  
• Looking at the pillars of seductive touch  

 

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Welcome to episode 316 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. David J. Ley to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss cuckolding, analyzing the misconceptions, the role that cuckold porn plays and, tips and suggestions on how you can explore cuckolding. 

 

David Ley is a clinical psychologist, sex therapist and author, based in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He's the author of several books and research articles on sexuality, including his first book, Insatiable Wives, Women who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, which was the first book to examine the cuckolding and hotwife phenomenon. 

 

With Justin Lehmiller and Dan Savage, he published the first psychological study of the cuckold fantasy. Dr. Ley is a frequent guest in media around the world, with appearances in the New York Times, CNN and Time Magazine, as well as Hustler and Playboy magazines. 

     

In this episode, you will hear: 

  

• How David became interested in Cuckolding 
• How is Cuckolding defined? 
• The difference between Cuckolding and Hotwifing  
• Analyzing the misconceptions around Cuckolding  
• Looking at what makes up healthy sexuality  
• The role that masturbation plays in this issue 
• Who initiates Cuckolding? 
• How Cuckold porn is one of the most popular categories  
• Ways in which people are now rejecting shame 
• How Cuckolding is losing its stigma  
• Tips and suggestions on how you can explore Cuckolding  

 

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