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Stop Trying to Fix People: The Power of Choosing Yourself

Season 2 | Episode 49
3m | Sep 4, 2026

It is heartbreaking to watch someone you care about repeat destructive cycles, or to fight for a broken relationship that the other person refuses to rebuild. Yet the hard truth remains: people only change when they decide to change. Threatening, coaxing, and bargaining will not turn a bottle of water into a rose—nor will it change another human being.

In this episode, Dr. Ray Calabrese shares a memorable classroom experiment to illuminate the limits of external control. Instead of draining your energy trying to fix someone else, discover how shifting your focus inward—toward empathy, authenticity, and personal growth—offers the strongest foundation for peace and true influence.

I'd love to hear your takeaways. Send your reflections to Ray at ray.brese@gmail.com.

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