Few men have safe, trustworthy spaces for real conversations about the things that matter most to us. Instead, men have suffered in silence, but that changes now. Join renowned author and men’s coach, Bryan Reeves, and his lifelong best friend, Tait Arend, a leadership coach, as they delve deep into the urgent topics men are dying to discuss – intimacy, purpose, manhood, love, and much more. Men (and the women who love them) … this way.

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“Understanding our attachment styles and how they influence our relationships can transform the way we connect with others. It&#39;s not about reaching a perfect state of secure attachment but about attuning to our own needs and those of our partners. This journey is a lifelong process of learning, growing, and healing together.” — Silvy KhoucasianToday on Men, This Way:<ul><li>5:05 – Silvy&#39;s inspiration for exploring attachment styles during her psychology studies</li><li>6:15 – The attachment theory and how childhood experiences with caregivers shape adult relationships</li><li>7:42 – The different attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidant</li><li>10:10 – Personal experiences and realizations around attachment styles in dating and relationships</li><li>12:32 – How attachment styles manifest in relationships and the importance of awareness</li><li>15:04 – Tools and practices for identifying your attachment style</li><li>18:34 – The role of family systems and childhood responsibilities in developing attachment patterns</li><li>21:12 – Healing and developing secure attachment through relationships and self-awareness</li><li>24:08 – The importance of creating agreements and consistency in relationships for healing</li><li>27:20 – How different attachment styles magnetize towards each other and the opportunities for healing</li><li>29:02 – The balance between independence and interdependence in relationships</li><li>31:32 – The gifts and challenges of each attachment style and finding balance</li><li>35:13 – The importance of direct communication and creating secure functioning patterns in relationships</li><li>39:21 – Brian and Silvy&#39;s personal journey and the strategies they use to support each other&#39;s needs</li><li>44:16 – The long-term commitment to relationship growth and healing over years</li><li>47:45 – The role of professional support in working through attachment patterns</li></ul> Connect with Silvy Khoucasian:<ul><li>Website: <a href="https://silvykhoucasian.com/" rel="nofollow">silvykhoucasian.com</a></li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/silvykhoucasian/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/silvykhoucasian/</a> </li></ul> Connect with Bryan &amp; Tait:<ul><li>Website: <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/" rel="nofollow">bryanreeves.com</a> </li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight/" rel="nofollow">@bryanreevesinsight</a> / <a href="https://www.instagram.com/taitarend08/" rel="nofollow">@taitarend08</a></li><li>Email: <a href="mailto:bryan@menthisway.com" rel="nofollow">bryan@menthisway.com</a> / <a href="mailto:tait@menthisway.com" rel="nofollow">tait@menthisway.com</a> </li></ul> This show is produced by Synchro Social

“Understanding our attachment styles and how they influence our relationships can transform the way we connect with others. It's not about reaching a perfect state of secure attachment but about attuning to our own needs and those of our partners. This journey is a lifelong process of learning, growing, and healing together.” — Silvy Khoucasian

121. Creating Healthy Attachment (When You’re Anxious or Avoidant) with Silvy Khoucasian

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“The path to an unbreakable connection is the commitment to staying in partnership, no matter what.” — Bryan Reeves Today on Men, This Way:<ul><li>2:24 – The emotional investment people have in relationships</li><li>3:08 – Exploring the real reasons behind conflicts in relationships</li><li>4:17 – The concept of “crisis of connection” in relationships</li><li>5:38 – Ending unnecessary conflict as a bridge to connection</li><li>6:42 – The importance of support in men’s groups</li><li>19:55 – Weekly connection rituals with family</li><li>23:27 – Reflecting on personal experiences of disconnection and reconnection</li><li>27:30 – The role of men’s emotional vulnerability in relationships</li><li>34:23 – The impact of small daily connection rituals</li><li>42:24 – What is the difference between connection and unbreakable connection</li><li>45:14 – Key elements of building an unbreakable connection</li><li>47:15 – The significance of praise and gratitude in relationships</li><li>50:17 – The power of presence and intentionality in relationships</li><li>59:15 – Addressing the challenge of one partner being more growth-oriented than the other</li><li>1:03:30 – The distinction between requests and requirements in relationships</li><li>1:14:25 – Leaning into relationship challenges and the role of support</li></ul> Connect with Bryan &amp; Tait:<ul><li>Website: <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/" rel="nofollow">bryanreeves.com</a> </li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight/" rel="nofollow">@bryanreevesinsight</a> / <a href="https://www.instagram.com/taitarend08/" rel="nofollow">@taitarend08</a></li><li>Email: <a href="mailto:bryan@menthisway.com" rel="nofollow">bryan@menthisway.com</a> / <a href="mailto:tait@menthisway.com" rel="nofollow">tait@menthisway.com</a> </li></ul>

“The path  to an unbreakable connection is the commitment to staying in partnership, no matter what.” — Bryan Reeves

120. How to Create An Unbreakable Connection in Your Relationship

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“Honesty without kindness is just cruel. But kindness without honesty is manipulation. And honesty with kindness, that’s divine. So I think that’s an inquiry that serves us well to live in, like, ‘How can I be honest?’ ‘How can I be transparent in a way that also takes into account her sensitivity?’” — Bryan Today ... <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/119-at-50-my-biggest-lessons-of-a-life-well-lived/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

“Honesty without kindness is just cruel. But kindness without honesty is manipulation. And honesty with kindness, that’s divine. So I think that’s an inquiry that serves us well to live in, like, ‘How can I be honest?

“Honesty without kindness is just cruel. But kindness without honesty is manipulation. And honesty with kindness, that&#8217;s divine. So I think that&#8217;s an inquiry that serves us well to live in, like, &#8216;How can I be honest?&#8217; &#8216;How can I be transparent in a way that also takes into account her sensitivity?&#8217;” — Bryan 
Today on Men, This Way: 
 
4:15 – Reflecting on Bryan&#8217;s podcast journey and the evolution of Men, This Way 
8:16 – Insights into Bryan&#8217;s varied experiences and their impact on his philosophy 
16:25 – The significance of personal growth and spiritual connection 
18:46 – Understanding how personal growth evolved over the decades 
21:22 – The importance of sharing Bryan&#8217;s learnings and insights from his journey to the world 
31:44 – Misconceptions about honesty in relationships 
35:54 – Choosing your partner daily and overcoming disappointments 
40:05 – Vulnerability as a strength and its role in building connections  
52:55 – Emerging trends that can significantly impact relationships 
56:10 – Embracing fatherhood and future aspirations  
43:10 – Rapid-fire questions: Relationship advice, books, and skills 
 
Resources: 
 
Books mentioned: 
 
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Women-Who-Run-Wolves-Archetype/dp/0345409876">Women Who Run with the Wolves</a> by Clarissa Pinkola Estés 
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Communion-Awakening-Sexual-Essence/dp/155874374X">Intimate Communion</a> by David Deida 
 
 
 
Connect with Bryan &amp; Tait: 
 
Website: <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/">bryanreeves.com</a>  
Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight/">@bryanreevesinsight</a> / <a href="https://www.instagram.com/taitarend08/">@taitarend08</a> 
Email: <a href="mailto:bryan@menthisway.com">bryan@menthisway.com</a> / <a href="mailto:tait@menthisway.com">tait@menthisway.com</a>

119. At 50: My Biggest Lessons of a Life Well Lived

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“One of the benefits of having this tool, knowing how to hold other men accountable, is that you get to call men into their greatness. You get to help your kids, your partners, your friends, and your own life step into greatness. So, this is not just a tool for your benefit; it’s about developing ... <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/118-you-will-never-grow-if-you-dont-do-this/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

“One of the benefits of having this tool, knowing how to hold other men accountable, is that you get to call men into their greatness. You get to help your kids, your partners, your friends, and your own life step into greatness. So,

“One of the benefits of having this tool, knowing how to hold other men accountable, is that you get to call men into their greatness. You get to help your kids, your partners, your friends, and your own life step into greatness. So, this is not just a tool for your benefit; it&#8217;s about developing a skill set for holding yourself and others accountable. Because at the end of the day, what else are we here for but to help other people step into lives that matter.” —Tait 
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Today on Men, This Way: 
 
1:37 &#8211; The emotional aspects of moving and handling personal effects: 
7:14 &#8211; The negative connotations of accountability and how it plays a crucial role in personal and relational growth 
10:10 &#8211; Lone-Wolfing: The feeling that nobody cares 
12:24 &#8211; Exploring empathy, new experiences, and how men can support each other in personal growth and overcoming challenges 
15:02 &#8211; The importance of support from men&#8217;s groups and the impact of accountability in personal journeys 
17:04 &#8211; Breaking the Bro Code: Men holding other men accountable 
18:45 &#8211; The idea of accountability as punishment 
20:55 &#8211; Losing privileges and going through hardship as part of being accountable 
22:20 &#8211; The resistance that people feel around accountability 
25:47 &#8211; The act of being seen and witnessed 
28:10 &#8211; Accountability statistics and success rate 
29:56 &#8211; Being supported by people who know what they&#8217;re doing 
33:43 &#8211; Accepting and embracing challenges 
43:10 &#8211; The importance of celebration and sharing personal successes 
47:21 &#8211; The impact of recognition on motivation and happiness 
51:57 &#8211; Recap: The elements of accountability 
 
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Connect with Bryan &amp; Tait: 
 
Explore joining us and elevate your relationship: <a href="https://elevaterelationship.com/">elevaterelationship.com</a> 
Website: <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/">bryanreeves.com</a>  
Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight/">@bryanreevesinsight</a> / <a href="https://www.instagram.com/taitarend08/">@taitarend08</a> 
Email: <a href="mailto:bryan@menthisway.com">bryan@menthisway.com</a> / <a href="mailto:tait@menthisway.com">tait@menthisway.com</a>  
 
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This show is produced by <a href="http://soulfireproductionsco.com/">Soulfire Productions</a>

118. You Will Never Grow, If You Don’t Do This

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“Sometimes the initiation of conflict is really a bid for connection. It’s really a desire to figure out how we can get this connection going again. A thriving intimate relationship through conflict and repair, it’s vital for us. It’s vital for our health, for our longevity and for our children. But what we need as ... <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/117-conflict-to-connection-how-to-end-repair-unnecessary-conflict/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

“Sometimes the initiation of conflict is really a bid for connection. It’s really a desire to figure out how we can get this connection going again. A thriving intimate relationship through conflict and repair, it’s vital for us.

“Sometimes the initiation of conflict is really a bid for connection. It&#8217;s really a desire to figure out how we can get this connection going again. A thriving intimate relationship through conflict and repair, it&#8217;s vital for us. It&#8217;s vital for our health, for our longevity and for our children. But what we need as men in the world is a tool that we can use because we have to learn how to repair.” &#8211; Tait 
Today on Men, This Way: 
 
04:40 &#8211; The Illusions of Conflict 
09:38 &#8211; The 3 real reasons why you and your partner are having arguments. 
15:30 &#8211; The most important things to do when you don&#8217;t feel safety and trust 
18:35 &#8211; Recognizing your behavior patterns to learn how to build connection 
22:53 &#8211; How most men learned the worst strategies to handle conflict 
30:00 &#8211; The 3 stages of conflict in healthy relationships 
34:00 &#8211; Why 69% of the disagreements that happen inside of relationships are unresolvable 
35:36 &#8211; The 2 different conflict motivations of Masculine &amp; Feminine energies 
40: 39 &#8211; The 4 Steps (4 S’s) to Mastering Conflict and Repair 
47:11 &#8211; Details about our Elevate your Relationship program 
47: 55 &#8211; How language needless can transform your relationship 
55:35 &#8211; Something you can do if you are experiencing unresolved conflicts and are uncertain how to resolve them. 
 
Connect with Bryan &amp; Tait: 
 
Website: <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/">bryanreeves.com</a>  
Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight/">@bryanreevesinsight</a> / <a href="https://www.instagram.com/taitarend08/">@taitarend08</a> 
Email: <a href="mailto:bryan@menthisway.com">bryan@menthisway.com</a> / <a href="mailto:tait@menthisway.com">tait@menthisway.com</a>  
 
This show is produced by<a href="https://www.synchrosocial.com/main"> Synchro Social </a> 
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117. Conflict to Connection: How to End & Repair Unnecessary Conflict

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“Getting into a relationship is one of the most courageous acts that men and women can have. Each of us are bringing our own pain and suffering into a relationship, and now trying to work it out between two couples. Not only that, everybody’s walking into a new relationship with a 100% breakup rate prior ... <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/116-are-you-sure-your-partner-feels-safe-with-you/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

“Getting into a relationship is one of the most courageous acts that men and women can have. Each of us are bringing our own pain and suffering into a relationship, and now trying to work it out between two couples. Not only that,

“Getting into a relationship is one of the most courageous acts that men and women can have. Each of us are bringing our own pain and suffering into a relationship, and now trying to work it out between two couples. Not only that, everybody's walking into a new relationship with a 100% breakup rate prior to getting into that relationship. So how do we be in a relationship, holding what we're holding, and create safety and trust for one another in ways that matter, that can help us calm our nervous system? And nobody trains us how to do it.” - Tait 
 
 
Today on Men, This Way: 
4:00 - Understanding how women don’t feel safe in the world 
14:10 - Ways in which men unintentionally damage trust in relationships 
22:00 - The gifts that women bring to a relationship 
26:00 - The result of men’s lack of presence 
29:50 - Breaking down the idea of “f*ck your feelings” 
33:50 - How men don’t feel safe in relationships 
40:00 - Identifying criticism delivered unskillfully 
43:20 - The four horsemen of the relationship apocalypse 
48:10 - Having freedom in relationship 
53:15 - 3 steps to connect with your partner 
 
Connect with Bryan & Tait: 
Roadmap to Thriving in Relationship: training.elevaterelationship.com 
Website: bryanreeves.com 
Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08 
Email: bryan@menthisway.com / tait@menthisway.com 
 
This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

116. Are You Sure Your Partner Feels Safe With You?

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“Pretending to have control where we don’t only leads to losing ourselves in the chaos…Embracing this, we learn to dance with uncertainty, finding true power not in control, but in acceptance and adaptability.” – Tait   Today on Men, This Way: 6:30 – The overwhelming complexities of life and finding power in surrender  9:30 – ... <a title="115. Our Experience Surrendering Control to Gain Real Power" href="https://bryanreeves.com/115-our-experience-surrendering-control-to-gain-real-power/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

“Pretending to have control where we don’t only leads to losing ourselves in the chaos…Embracing this, we learn to dance with uncertainty, finding true power not in control, but in acceptance and adaptability.” – Tait   Today on Men,

"Pretending to have control where we don't only leads to losing ourselves in the chaos...Embracing this, we learn to dance with uncertainty, finding true power not in control, but in acceptance and adaptability.” - Tait 
 
 
 
 
Today on Men, This Way: 
 
6:30 - The overwhelming complexities of life and finding power in surrender  
9:30 - The illusion of control and how embracing uncertainty can lead to greater power and freedom 
17:20 - The importance of shifting from trying to exert power over others to sharing power with them 
22:00 - Preparing your children vs. controlling them 
26:40 - How men isolate themselves & understanding “Mr. Nice Guy” 
34:40 - The paradox of power and a simple formula for creating change in life 
40:40 - Power with vs. power over: “Everything in the forest is the forest” 
43:50 - Living inside uncertainty and utilizing it as a tool  
46:00 - The practice of real surrender; allowing messiness vs. the need to “fix” 
53:20 - Power leaks: letting go of behaviors that numb emotions, like pornography use; the impact of negative self-talk & compassion; setting boundaries and speaking up for oneself 
1:03:30 - Vulnerability as a superpower 
1:07:15 - How to add power to your life: the role of habits in standing in your power 
 
 
 
 
Connect with Bryan & Tait: 
 
Referenced book: The Surrender Experiment 
Website: bryanreeves.com  
Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08 
Email: bryan@menthisway.com / tait@menthisway.com  
 
 
 
 
This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

115. Our Experience Surrendering Control to Gain Real Power

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“One of the things we have to be willing to do as men is look at what the impact our actions and our lack of presence is having on ourselves and on the people that we care about most.” – Tait   Today on Men, This Way: Commitment challenges men face with fully choosing partners ... <a title="114. Confronting Masculine Checkout Syndrome in Relationships" href="https://bryanreeves.com/114-confronting-masculine-checkout-syndrome-in-relationships/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

“One of the things we have to be willing to do as men is look at what the impact our actions and our lack of presence is having on ourselves and on the people that we care about most.” – Tait   Today on Men,

“One of the things we have to be willing to do as men is look at what the impact our actions and our lack of presence is having on ourselves and on the people that we care about most.” - Tait 
 
Today on Men, This Way: 
Commitment challenges men face with fully choosing partners 
Presence in relationships & how inconsistency leads to a lack of safety and trust 
“Masculine Checkout Syndrome,” emotional and mental disengagement in men 
Reflections on how past behaviors impacted relationships 
Practical methods for improving daily connection and presence 
 
Connect with Bryan & Tait: 
Website: bryanreeves.com 
Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight 
Email: bryan@menthisway.com / tait@menthisway.com 
 
This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

114. Confronting Masculine Checkout Syndrome in Relationships

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“As men, we paint our faces the best we know how, and we go out into the world and try to be good men, fathers, workers, providers, lovers — and in large measure, because we don’t know what we’re doing, we end up leaving a trail of tears behind for ourselves and for the people ... <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/masks-men-wear-113/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

“As men, we paint our faces the best we know how, and we go out into the world and try to be good men, fathers, workers, providers, lovers — and in large measure, because we don’t know what we’re doing, we end up leaving a trail of tears behind for our...

"As men, we paint our faces the best we know how, and we go out into the world and try to be good men, fathers, workers, providers, lovers — and in large measure, because we don’t know what we're doing, we end up leaving a trail of tears behind for ourselves and for the people that we love the most. It's not because we don't want to do better, it's because we haven't been shown how." 
 
Welcome to the relaunch of "Men, This Way," where Bryan and his childhood best friend, Tait Arend, step into their roles as co-hosts, aiming to amplify the impact they have on men striving to live a good life. 
 
Today on Men, This Way: 
The evolution of Bryan and Tait's 40-year friendship 
Four masks men wear to navigate societal pressure 
Personal journeys toward honesty and vulnerability 
The importance of deep, trustful male relationships 
Personal Growth Formula: Insight plus action equals meaningful change 
 
Connect with Bryan & Tait: 
Website: bryanreeves.com 
Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight 
Email: bryan@menthisway.com / tait@menthisway.com 
 
 
This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

113. A New Era Begins: 40 Years of Friendship, Masks Men Wear, Embracing Honesty

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Few men have safe, trustworthy spaces for real conversations about the things that matter most to us. Instead, men have suffered in silence, but that changes now. Join renowned author and men’s coach, Bryan Reeves, and his lifelong best friend, Tait Arend, a leadership coach, as they delve deep into the urgent topics men are ... <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/men-this-way-the-trailer/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

Few men have safe, trustworthy spaces for real conversations about the things that matter most to us. Instead, men have suffered in silence, but that changes now. Join renowned author and men’s coach, Bryan Reeves, and his lifelong best friend,

Few men have safe, trustworthy spaces for real conversations about the things that matter most to us. Instead, men have suffered in silence, but that changes now. Join renowned author and men’s coach, Bryan Reeves, and his lifelong best friend, Tait Arend, a leadership coach, as they delve deep into the urgent topics men are dying to discuss – intimacy, purpose, manhood, love, and much more. Men (and the women who love them) … this way.

Men, This Way - The Trailer

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Do you know why men tend to check out of relationships? Do you know the 3 Pillars of Intimacy? Do you have a tried and tested roadmap for creating a thriving relationship? Welcome … I’ve got a fantastic episode for you today … I’m putting out less episodes at the moment because something big is ... <a title="112. The 3 Reasons Men Check Out of Relationship (And How To Step Back In)" href="https://bryanreeves.com/reasons-men-check-out-112/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

Do you know why men tend to check out of relationships? Do you know the 3 Pillars of Intimacy? Do you have a tried and tested roadmap for creating a thriving relationship? Welcome … I’ve got a fantastic episode for you today … I’m putting out less epis...

Do you know why men tend to check out of relationships? 
Do you know the 3 Pillars of Intimacy? 
Do you have a tried and tested roadmap for creating a thriving relationship? 
 
Welcome … I’ve got a fantastic episode for you today … I’m putting out less episodes at the moment because something big is about to happen for this podcast … and we’re on the precipice of a new era that will launch in just a few weeks!  
I’ve hired a new podcast production team that is powerfully challenging me to raise my game big-time in this space  … we’ve been stripping Men This Way down to rebuild it back up better … I was even challenged to think of a new name for the podcast, to make it more understandable and accessible to people … now, the name “Men, This Way” has so much meaning to me personally, but there was some concern that it didn’t make sense to anyone else, or that it suggested the podcast was only for men and not women, which although I certainly tailor this to speak more to men, I always want women to feel welcome here, too … so that was a concern … and so we came up with a bunch of different name possibilities … that process even infiltrated my dreams … my dream team even came up with an amazing title …  “Balloons for Men” … … yeah hahaha …yeah hahaha …. actually NOT going with that title … actually none of the hundreds of names we came up with felt any better than, Men, This Way, … so I’m excited to say, we’re keeping that name … but there’s another huge change upcoming that I’ll announce when we launch on Thursday, February 22, and that I’m personally sooooo excited about. I’ll just give you a hint: I hate doing this shit alone.  
And with that, let’s dive into today’s episode. 
This is a rebroadcast of a different podcast I was recently on – <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-art-of-masculinity/id1406170885?i=1000639062965" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Art of Masculinity</a> – hosted by my dear friend and past Men This Way guest, Johnny Elsasser. We had a profound conversation about my “thriving relationship road map” for men, and I wanted to make sure you heard it here. Johnny does a great job hosting and jamming with me on this topic that is of vital importance to any man who truly wants to thrive in his life. 
 
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS 
•Emotional intelligence and vulnerability in male relationships 
•The three pillars of intimacy 
•Navigating rejection and emotional expression 
•Strategies for deepening connection and fostering fulfilling partnerships 
•Unlocking the secret to unstoppable success in relationships through self-ownership 
 
 
 
ELEVATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP &#8230; is a 6-month live coaching experience for MEN challenged by an intimate relationship. 
In this live 6-month coaching experience – in which you get direct, personal support from Bryan – you will learn how to better navigate conflict, create (and maintain) healthy boundaries, be your full authentic self in relationship to your partner, create emotional connection with your partner, practice the Art of Masculine-Feminine Intimacy (for deeper passion), and more. 
If you&#8217;d like to be considered for this, please fill out this form and we’ll arrange a no-cost, no-pressure phone consultation ASAP to explore if this is a good fit for you: 
 
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Connect with Bryan: 
•<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Instagram</a> 
•<a href="https://bryanreeves.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Website </a> 
•<a href="https://training.elevaterelationship.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Elevate Your Relationship Coaching Program For Men &#8211; A Free Training</a>

112. The 3 Reasons Men Check Out of Relationship (And How To Step Back In)

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Do all relationships struggle? What even is intimacy … really? Why do so many men struggle with relationships and intimacy? In this episode, my very special guest and I dive into these questions and more for useful insights to make a meaningful difference in your life … And my very special guest is … my ... <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/challenges-wife-silvy-khoucasian-111/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

Do all relationships struggle? What even is intimacy … really? Why do so many men struggle with relationships and intimacy? In this episode, my very special guest and I dive into these questions and more for useful insights to make a meaningful differe...

Do all relationships struggle? 
What even is intimacy … really? 
Why do so many men struggle with relationships and intimacy? 
 
In this episode, my very special guest and I dive into these questions and more for useful insights to make a meaningful difference in your life … And my very special guest is &#8230; my wife of 8 years … Silvy Khoucasian …  
Silvy is brilliant and bad-ass in her own right. She’s the host of the popular instagram community under her name, where she writes about attachment, healthy boundaries, relational dynamics … I’m constantly hearing from people, even my own clients often, who tell me they saw something she posted the other day that struck them deeply …  
Silvy is already a world renowned and highly sought after expert on the subject of healthy relationships and how to create and maintain them.  
She’s been interviewed by Vogue Magazine, Playboy Magazine, Allure Magazine, featured by Buzzfeed and countless other worldwide media. 
In today’s episode Silvy and I dive into The 2nd Pillar of a Thriving Man: Intimacy … which is one of The 5 Pillars of a Thriving Man: Purpose. Intimacy. Family. Brotherhood. Spirituality.  
We talk about our relationship and each of our cultures, family systems, backgrounds that we brought into the relationship, and some of the challenges we’ve faced as a result of that. We did clash at the beginning of our relationship, a lot, even broke up after just 4 months, even still today sometimes we clash. But that is exactly what we both needed and continue to need to grow in our relational capacity to love. We fought hard against our differences early on, and it almost cost us both a great relationship. 
We talk about all that and more, as we invite you into our love story, and our adventure in intimacy both with ourselves and each other …  
One last thing …  
The time is NOW to apply for “ELEVATE 2024 &#8211; My year-long coaching journey for men committed to thriving in life” … enrollment is open. I’m only inviting 10 men to go through all of 2024 with me, personally, on the adventure of a lifetime. And already 6 spots are taken. Only 4 spots remain. 
If you’re ready to rise above the distractions &amp; compulsions sabotaging you from living your fullness as a man. 
If you&#8217;re done trying to lone-wolf it through life, bearing all your burdens alone … this is for you. 
ELEVATE 2024 includes personal coaching with me for an entire year, alongside a select group of trustable men on the journey with you. We’ll also meet in person for a 5-day retreat mid-way through in a beautiful spot in nature. Through this experience these men, and I, will become your brothers for life.  
You can learn more and hear about past participant’s experiences at  <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/elevate">https://bryanreeves.com/elevate</a>  
 
Now, let’s get back to this encounter with my lovely Lady Silvy Khoucasian. This is a very special episode in which we both get vulnerable about our experience together.  
I strongly encourage you to stay tuned all the way through to the end of this episode of Men, This Way … 
Alright,  
Let’s dive &#8230; 
CONNECT WITH SILVY  
Instagram – <a href="https://www.instagram.com/silvykhoucasian/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">@silvykhoucasian</a> 
Official Website &#8211; <a href="http://www.silvykhoucasian.com">www.silvykhoucasian.com</a> 
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111. Challenges I've Faced in Relationship With My Wife w/ Silvy Khoucasian (My Wife)

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Do you live with an inspired vision guiding your way? Have you set up accountability to help you achieve what you deeply desire? Are you really even aware of what’s in your way of achieving it? In this episode, my brilliant guest is again, none other than my life long childhood friend, Tait Arend, … ... <a title="110. The Roadmap To Enlivenment For Men" href="https://bryanreeves.com/roadmap-enlivenment-110/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

Do you live with an inspired vision guiding your way? Have you set up accountability to help you achieve what you deeply desire? Are you really even aware of what’s in your way of achieving it? In this episode, my brilliant guest is again,

Do you live with an inspired vision guiding your way? 
Have you set up accountability to help you achieve what you deeply desire? 
Are you really even aware of what’s in your way of achieving it? 
 
In this episode, my brilliant guest is again, none other than my life long childhood friend, Tait Arend, … and he and I mine these questions, and more for wise insights that could make a meaningful difference in your life. 
Today’s conversation is an extension of our last episode together <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/enlivened-on-purpose-tait-arend-108/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Episode 108</a> &#8211;  in which we talked about The 5 Pillars of a Thriving Man: Purpose. Intimacy. Family. Brotherhood. Spirit. 
In that episode we also talked about the 5 things holding men back from truly thriving in life, cynicism, isolation, feeling disoriented, feeling numb, and feeling powerless. 
Today, we’re going to give you some of our secret sauce … the road map we use to help men have what they really want in life. Collectively, Tait and I have over 30 years experience working with men on some of the deepest challenges men will ever face in life. This road map is what we’ve discovered works to help men achieve what they really want in life – beyond the material success – and what men really want is to feel fully enlivened every day, to be powerfully on purpose, and to feel deeply supported in our lives so that we don’t have to carry all our burdens alone. 
In today’s episode we’ll share the ten steps we see as essential, that you can apply to essentially any dream or desire you have, whether it’s to start a business, grow a business, or simply have a great relationship, or just feel great everyday no matter what is going on around you – these ten steps are the essential recipe for achieving and having whatever it is you want.  
Now, I know ten steps may sound like a lot … like what happened to the 3 point plan or the 5 step process or maximum 7 steps please …. Lol … well, sure, there’s lots of maps out there that challenge you to dream big and act big, but what I like about our unique roadmap is, as you walk these 10 steps, in addition to getting clarity around your vision and taking meaningful action and all that important stuff, our journey also brings you face to face with the things that are holding you back, the wounds and blindspots that live in your shadow, the resistance that is sabotaging you and possibly the ones you love, too. It requires you to be honest with yourself about where you may be lacking in skill, or insight, and to get accountability and powerful support with people, mentors, guides, fellow journeyman, who can actually help you get where you aim to go. So, while there’s lots of conveniently 3-step plans out there, our roadmap effectively brings you face to face with yourself, for you are both your greatest ally, and your greatest adversary.  That’s all I’ll say for now … Tait and I will dive deeper in today’s episode on how to be fully enlivened, powerfully on purpose, and feel deeply supported.  
… Speaking of which,  
At the time of this recording, I only have 4 spots left for my <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/elevate" target="_blank" rel="noopener">ELEVATE 2024 coaching adventure for men committed to thriving in life</a> … 
If you have any curiosity about what it might look like to journey alongside a small group of trustable, inspired men, including myself, I strongly encourage you to learn more about, and if you dare, apply for “ELEVATE 2024” … I’m only inviting 10 men to go through all of 2024 with me, and 6 spots are now taken … might even be 7 by the end of today. 
So … If you’re ready to rise above the distractions &amp; compulsions sabotaging you from living your fullness as a man. 
If you&#8217;re done trying to lone-wolf it through life, bearing all your burdens alone …

110. The Roadmap To Enlivenment For Men

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In this episode, my brilliant guest is Michaela Boehm. Michaela Boehm is one of the most influential and wise teachers who’s work has profoundly influenced my life. I was fortunate to study with her personally over the course of about 3 or 4 years. I was certified by her as an “Intimacy &amp; Attraction” workshop ... <a title="109. The Deeper Truths of (Sexual) Polarity w/ Michaela Boehm" href="https://bryanreeves.com/deeper-polarity-michaela-boehm-109/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

In this episode, my brilliant guest is Michaela Boehm. Michaela Boehm is one of the most influential and wise teachers who’s work has profoundly influenced my life. I was fortunate to study with her personally over the course of about 3 or 4 years.

In this episode, my brilliant guest is Michaela Boehm. 
Michaela Boehm is one of the most influential and wise teachers who’s work has profoundly influenced my life. I was fortunate to study with her personally over the course of about 3 or 4 years. I was certified by her as an &#8220;Intimacy &amp; Attraction&#8221; workshop teacher. She’s taught me so much about sexual polarity, relationship dynamics, embodiment, and also how to be an ethical teacher – and there are a lot of unethical, immature, overlysimplistic, teachers coaches influencers in the world today. 
If you’ve never heard of Michaela … then you’ve obviously not followed Gwyneth Paltrow’s relationship journey … I’m just kidding … but also not … because Michaela actually is known as the intimacy coach to the stars … her publicly acknowledged clients include Gwyneth Paltrow and Will Smith, which is cool but what’s most impressive to me about Michaela is that she combines degrees in psychology and extensive clinical counseling experience with in-depth training in the yogic arts as a classical Kashmiri Tantric lineage holder … So, Michaela’s approach to intimacy and relationships empowers her students through an eclectic mix of education, experiential exercises and guided explorations sourced in both eastern and western realms of knowledge and tradition. She’ll share a bit of her extensive background in our conversation &#8211; some 35,000 client hours over decades of working with not just Academy Award–winning actors, producers, business pioneers, and multiple Grammy Award–winning musicians, but also for many years working in clinical settings with high-trauma clients. 
Now, just to let you know … our conversation starts off broad and philosophical; and truly fascinating, as her knowledge of human dynamics and relational dynamics is vast and deep! She takes us into the original origins of the terms masculine and feminine, and helps us understand why those terms actually can be harmful when rigidly applied to human relationships; especially the way so many online coaches and influencers are attempting to do these days. 
In the latter half of this episode, we dive into practical applications of sexual challenges that many couples face when one or both partners don’t know how to just be in their bodies … and these days, truth is, MOST of us don’t really know how to be in our bodies. So if improving your sexual experiences is something you’re interested in, definitely stay tuned to the end of the episode as Michaela shares profoundly useful, and practical understandings of what makes for great sex. If you’re in a relationship where you or your partner often don’t feel interested in sex, or sex has become a struggle, this is a rich conversation, and I think you’ll enjoy it and be served well by it. 
One last thing …  
The time is NOW to apply for “ELEVATE 2024 &#8211; My year-long coaching journey for men committed to thriving in every domain of life” … enrollment is now open. I’m only inviting 10 men to go through all of 2024 with me, personally, on the adventure of a lifetime. And already 3 spots are taken.  
If you’re ready to rise above the distractions &amp; compulsions sabotaging you from living your fullness as a man. 
If you&#8217;re done trying to lone-wolf it through life, bearing all your burdens alone … this is for you. 
If you’re ready for a big breakthrough in your relationship, or around getting clarity about your purpose … this is for you. 
ELEVATE 2024 includes personal coaching with me for an entire year, alongside a select group of trustable men on the journey with you. We’ll also meet in person for a 5-day retreat mid-way through in a beautiful spot in nature. Through this experience these men, and I, will become your brothers for life.  
Get the details and, if you dare, apply at <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/elevate">https://bryanreeves.com/elevate</a>

109. The Deeper Truths of (Sexual) Polarity w/ Michaela Boehm

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In this episode, my brilliant and inspired guest is none other than Tait Arend. Tait is my business partner in “Men, This Way,” and my co-faciltator for the last 3 years in the men’s work I’ve been hosting for men all over the world. He and I together have stewarded around 50 men through our ... <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/enlivened-on-purpose-tait-arend-108/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

In this episode, my brilliant and inspired guest is none other than Tait Arend. Tait is my business partner in “Men, This Way,” and my co-faciltator for the last 3 years in the men’s work I’ve been hosting for men all over the world.

In this episode, my brilliant and inspired guest is none other than Tait Arend. 
Tait is my business partner in “Men, This Way,” and my co-faciltator for the last 3 years in the men’s work I’ve been hosting for men all over the world. He and I together have stewarded around 50 men through our two immersive coaching programs, our year-long ELEVATE Men’s Coaching Experience, and our new live 6-month coaching experience, Elevate Your Relationship, in which we work with men committed to improving their intimate relationship experiences. 
You should also know … Tait is my childhood best friend of 40 years!  
He’s truly one of my favorite people on the planet … you could say in many ways we raised each other through our adolescent years when we didn’t really have other people, certainly not any wise male elders, showing up for us. 
Tait has made a beautiful life for himself in the decades we’ve known each other. He’s a family man with two kids I just adore … a lovely wife Elsa who’s one of my wife’s best friends …  and Tait is masterful in his facilitation of men; he’s spent years mentoring men in 12 step programs, he’s been a leadership coach and worked for a decade in consulting, guiding Fortune 500 companies and their employees through monumental shifts.  
Everyone loves Tait … you’re gonna love him, too. 
Tait and I dive into a profound conversation around what men really want in life, what typically stands in our way of having it, and what aspects of life it could truly serve us to focus on … if we are ever to genuinely thrive in the ways that matter most to us. 
We talk brotherhood, and we talk about the 5 Pillars of a Thriving Man, our map for manhood which we steward men through in our <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/elevate">year-long Elevate Men&#8217;s coaching program</a> … which, is now open for application, by the way … at <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/elevate">https://bryanreeves.com/elevate.</a> 
If you want to share feedback or share what this conversation inspired in you, you can email me directly at bryan@bryanreeves.com &#8230; I’d love to hear your thoughts. 
This episode drops all kinds of wisdom nuggets and insights that could absolutely be life-changing for you, so … 
Take a deep breath, and stay present with us, all the way through to the end of this episode of Men, This Way … 
Alright … 
Let’s dive … 
 
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108. How to Be Fully Enlivened & Powerfully On Purpose w/ Tait Arend

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Today I’m talking with my old friend, Mark Groves, founder of “Create The Love,” the massively successful Instagram Page and Community dedicated to helping people create inspired and inspiring relationships.  This is actually a rebroadcast of an episode Mark and I did on HIS podcast.  I just love my conversations with Mark, and in this ... <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/men-intimacy-mark-groves-107/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

Today I’m talking with my old friend, Mark Groves, founder of “Create The Love,” the massively successful Instagram Page and Community dedicated to helping people create inspired and inspiring relationships.

Today I’m talking with my old friend, Mark Groves, founder of “Create The Love,” the massively successful Instagram Page and Community dedicated to helping people create inspired and inspiring relationships.  
This is actually a rebroadcast of an episode Mark and I did on HIS podcast.  
I just love my conversations with Mark, and in this episode we explore Masculine and feminine communication, and how we men have been set us up to fail in modern relationships. We talk about what men AND women can do to take responsibility for the communication in a relationship, and we dive a bit into my book “<a href="https://bryanreeves.com/book">Choose Her Everyday Or Leave Her</a>” as well … all that and more. 
I just love my conversations with Mark, and in this episode we explore Masculine and feminine communication, and how we men have been set us up to fail in modern relationships. We talk about what men AND women can do to take responsibility for the communication in a relationship, and we dive a bit into my book “Choose Her Everyday Or Leave Her” as well … all that and more. 
But first .. MEN … if you’re up for an extraordinary deep-dive adventure into your own personal growth in 2024 … ELEVATE 2024 … My year-long coaching journey for men committed to thriving in life &#8211; is now open for application and enrollment. I’m only inviting 10 men to go through all of 2024 with me, personally, on this adventure. 
And already at the time of this taping, I’ve only got 7 spots left.  
Hear other men&#8217;s experience ???? <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/elevate">https://bryanreeves.com/elevate</a> 
We typically get around 70-100 applications every year, and we’ve already got 3 spots of 10 filled … so apply ASAP. 
Please know: This isn’t for everyone. This is only for men committed to self-discovery and personal growth, men who value relationships and connection, men who are genuinely seeking emotional well-being and mindfulness, and men who desire to fully live their deepest purpose in life …  
If that’s you … apply now. 
ELEVATE 2024 can help you live more fully into your courageously authentic self, and help you break out of the sabotaging habits and patterns that prevent you from fully offering your unique gifts to your loved ones, your family, and the world … 
Whether you’re seeking more success in life, or you’re already successful in meaningful ways, but something is just still missing for you … Just take the next step. This could be the one of the greatest gifts you ever give yourself: The gift of brotherhood with extraordinary, and trustable, men. 
<a href="https://bryanreeves.com/elevate">https://bryanreeves.com/elevate</a> 
Ok, last thing … 
It’s time to read a recent review on the podcast. 
If you hear me read your review, please email me at support@bryanreeves.com or contact me through my website, <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/">www.bryanreeves.com</a> and you will get free lifetime access to either my <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/love-sex-relationship-magic-audio-program/">&#8220;Love, Sex, Relationship Magic&#8221;</a> Online Program or &#8220;<a href="https://bryanreeves.com/boundaries/">The Boundaries Program: Relationships Suck Without Boundaries!</a>&#8221;  
Here’s today’s review: … 
mikeyboy26, 23/08/2019 &#8212; UK Apple Podcasts 
Thank you for this wonderful podcast. I’ve been listening to it and enjoying the many insights from Bryan and guests. It’s super good ???? I was talking to my friend recently about how so much of the stuff you and your guests talk about weren’t stuff that we were taught growing up or in school. In fact all that stuff was almost taboo subjects you know? Like it wasn’t cool to talk about our feelings and our sexuality or even have an open safe environment where you felt comfortable expressing your feelings. For all men out there looking to find a deeper connection in your relationships and...

107. Men Aren’t Prepared For Real Intimacy w/ Mark Groves

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In today’s episode, I engage in a profound conversation with the founder of “The Father Son Connection Experience,” Luke Entrup. We discuss various topics related to men and emotions, fathers and sons, and rites of passage for boys at different ages.  HIGHLIGHTS (brought to you by … obviously … AI!) (00:00) Intro (07:03) Some significant ... <a title="106. Fathers, Sons, and Rites of Passage w/ Luke Entrup" href="https://bryanreeves.com/fathers-sons-luke-entrup-106/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

In today’s episode, I engage in a profound conversation with the founder of “The Father Son Connection Experience,” Luke Entrup. We discuss various topics related to men and emotions, fathers and sons, and rites of passage for boys at different ages.

In today&#8217;s episode, I engage in a profound conversation with the founder of &#8220;The Father Son Connection Experience,&#8221; Luke Entrup. We discuss various topics related to men and emotions, fathers and sons, and rites of passage for boys at different ages.  
HIGHLIGHTS (brought to you by &#8230; obviously &#8230; AI!) 
(00:00) Intro 
(07:03) Some significant event or experience in your early life that played a fundamental role in shaping you as a man? 
Bryan expresses a desire to learn more about the Lukes significant life experiences that have shaped him as a man. Luke, shares a pivotal event from his early life that profoundly influenced his journey into manhood. 
Luke begins by describing his passion for acting during his upbringing and how it was central to his identity. However, as he reached his late teens, his enthusiasm for acting waned, and he felt lost and uncertain about his path in life. 
At the age of 22, Luke&#8217;s father introduced him to a transformative men&#8217;s weekend experience. This event had a profound impact on Luke&#8217;s life, marking his transition from boyhood to manhood. He describes how the supportive community of men helped him confront his insecurities, self-doubt, and narrow-mindedness. Luke vividly recalls a powerful moment during the weekend when an elderly man declared him a man, sparking cheers from the group. 
This experience fundamentally changed Luke&#8217;s perspective on masculinity, emphasizing the importance of living a purposeful life, valuing emotions, and combining inner strength with an open heart. It set him on a lifelong journey to seek deeper truth and meaning, redirecting the trajectory of his life. 
Bryan, the host, reflects on his own experiences and the absence of a similar rite of passage with his own father, highlighting the prevalent issue of uninitiated men in today&#8217;s culture. Luke acknowledges the societal challenge of uninitiated men and the need to reintroduce meaningful rites of passage into the culture to address this issue. 
The conversation touches on the cultural shift toward healthier masculinity and the potential for positive change in the future. 
(16:06) What was the organization your father was part in? 
 Luke, shares a significant life experience from his early years that profoundly impacted his journey into manhood. The host, Bryan, also reflects on his own experiences in this context. 
Luke discusses how his father&#8217;s upbringing played a crucial role in shaping him as a man, emphasizing how blessed he feels to have had such a father. He mentions an organization called the Mankind Project that his father was part of, which led him to an impactful men&#8217;s weekend experience. 
The men&#8217;s weekend, known as the New Warrior Training Adventure, involved being surrounded by a community of around 80 men. Luke and Bryan share their experiences from participating in this training, highlighting the powerful moments that marked their transitions from boyhood to manhood. 
Luke explains the significance of such moments, noting the deep human need for belonging and the sense of isolation that many men experience in today&#8217;s culture. He emphasizes that the belonging experienced in a brotherhood of men can be transformative and nurturing. 
Bryan adds that the sense of belonging, even more than problem-solving, is what often draws men to this type of work. They both underscore the unique quality of men&#8217;s work and the vital role it plays in providing both support and challenge, ultimately contributing to personal growth and fulfillment. 
The podcast episode continues to discuss the importance of men&#8217;s work and the impact it can have on personal development and self-discovery. 
(25:33) what is Rights of passage and why is it so important for young men? 
 the topic shifts to discussing rites of passage,

106. Fathers, Sons, and Rites of Passage w/ Luke Entrup

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Today, I have the pleasure of hosting actor and activist Adrian Grenier as my guest. You may recognize Adrian from his roles in the popular HBO series “Entourage” or his appearances in films like “The Devil Wears Prada” alongside Meryl Streep, Anne Hathaway, and Emily Blunt. More recently, he has been featured in the Netflix ... <a href="https://bryanreeves.com/delusions-fame-adrian-grenier-105/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

Today, I have the pleasure of hosting actor and activist Adrian Grenier as my guest. You may recognize Adrian from his roles in the popular HBO series “Entourage” or his appearances in films like “The Devil Wears Prada” alongside Meryl Streep,

Today, I have the pleasure of hosting actor and activist Adrian Grenier as my guest. You may recognize Adrian from his roles in the popular HBO series &#8220;Entourage&#8221; or his appearances in films like &#8220;The Devil Wears Prada&#8221; alongside Meryl Streep, Anne Hathaway, and Emily Blunt. More recently, he has been featured in the Netflix hit series &#8220;Clickbait.&#8221; But, more importantly (at least for me) is that Adrian is my dear friend. 
Adrian is part of my close-knit circle of friends, a group of remarkable individuals that I&#8217;ve featured in recent episodes. This circle includes the multi-talented artist Aryeh-Or, as well as my profound brothers Arjuna O&#8217;Neal, Stefanos Stefandos, and the brilliant Kelly Gardner. 
Indeed, my circle of friends, known as &#8220;Man Cave Elite,&#8221; consists of extraordinary men. Today, I&#8217;m excited to introduce you to another thoughtful, introspective, and talented brother, Adrian Grenier. I&#8217;ve had the privilege of witnessing Adrian&#8217;s remarkable transformation journey. He has evolved from a wildly hedonistic and indulgent Hollywood actor—a lifestyle he openly admits to—to a grounded family man, a devoted husband, a new father, and a humble steward of 46 acres of land in deep Central Texas. On his new show, &#8220;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/earthspeed/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Earthspeed</a>,&#8221; which you can find on Instagram and YouTube, he shares his experiences and learnings from tending to and partnering with the land. 
In this episode, Adrian shares the driving forces behind his transformation. What compelled him to change, and why? I believe every man, whether he openly expresses his ambitions or harbors them deep within, needs to hear the stories of men who have achieved cultural success, only to realize that the summit of fame and fortune isn&#8217;t all it&#8217;s cracked up to be. Adrian has achieved success at the highest level as an actor, and his journey is a testament to this. 
Adrian and I also delve into our adventures and the challenges we&#8217;ve faced as brothers, both individually and together. We open up about some tender moments in our conversation—Adrian has just become a new father, while I&#8217;m in the midst of grieving the loss of my own. This conversation is a heartfelt exchange between brothers who sometimes have differing views on important matters but remain committed to supporting, loving, and respecting each other. 
 
My new book Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her), written for men and women, is now also available for <a href="https://www.audible.com/pd/Choose-Her-Every-Day-Or-Leave-Her-Audiobook/B0BPR9LVFP">AUDIOBOOK</a> as well.  
 
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS  
(00:00) Intro 
(08:46) Adrian’s first video 
In his first video, Adrian takes a nostalgic trip down memory lane as he reflects on the pictures and videos from that time. During that period, he was exceptionally sober and approached life with a profound seriousness. His beard was notably long and robust, and he paid meticulous attention to his hair and grooming. This was a time marked by deep retreat, meditation, self-examination, and a rejection of the material possessions he had amassed. 
Adrian was constantly on the move, seeking to avoid materialism and distractions that might hinder his personal growth journey. As a result, he made the bold decision to move into a camper, which offered minimal amenities—a tiny refrigerator, a scant selection of cutlery, and a toilet. It was an incredibly challenging and uncomfortable experience. 
Adrian expresses his gratitude to Bryan for being a supportive presence during his lowest moments, when he found himself at the rock bottom of his transformative journey. 
(14:33) What stopped working for you? 
Adrian took a moment to reflect. &#8220;Maybe everything was working out a bit too perfectly for me,&#8221; he began,

105. The Grand Delusions of Fame & Success w/ Adrian Grenier

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Have you ever been confronted with death? Either yours or someone else’s? What gifts has that confrontation brought you? (it has brought you gifts, right?) Are you daily committed to making every day your best day? If not, why not? In this episode, my esteemed guest, Hal Elrod, author of “The Miracle Morning,” and I ... <a title="104. Death Brings Gifts w/ Hal Elrod" href="https://bryanreeves.com/death-gifts-hal-elrod-104/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

Have you ever been confronted with death? Either yours or someone else’s? What gifts has that confrontation brought you? (it has brought you gifts, right?) Are you daily committed to making every day your best day? If not, why not? In this episode,

Have you ever been confronted with death? Either yours or someone else’s? 
What gifts has that confrontation brought you? (it has brought you gifts, right?) 
Are you daily committed to making every day your best day? If not, why not? 
 
In this episode, my esteemed guest, Hal Elrod, author of &#8220;The Miracle Morning,&#8221; and I delve into these questions and more to unearth profound insights that can significantly impact your life. 
While this episode doesn&#8217;t revolve around Hal&#8217;s Miracle Morning practice, let me briefly summarize it. The Miracle Morning combines six practices, from journaling to meditation, into a morning routine that can be completed in as little as six minutes or extended as long as you wish. I once dedicated an entire hour to it, and the results were transformative, leaving me feeling euphoric. However, our discussion today takes a different path. 
There are numerous ways to learn about The Miracle Morning, as it has become a global phenomenon. Multiple books have sold millions of copies, there&#8217;s a documentary on Amazon Prime, a thriving online community with millions participating worldwide, and more. Today, I have the privilege of conversing with its creator, Hal Elrod, to explore other facets of his remarkable life journey. 
Before we dive in, I must share a secret to how I consistently bring exceptional and inspiring guests like Hal to this podcast. My commitment to regularly surround myself with and engage in conversations with inspiring individuals has been a game-changer in my life. Many of my guests, including Hal, are a result of these personal connections. 
About a year ago, I met John Vroman, the founder of Front Row Dads, who has become a dear friend residing just 15 minutes away. During our time together, I mentioned an essay I wrote eight years ago titled &#8220;Choose Her Every Day or Leave Her.&#8221; To my surprise, John informed me that one of his closest friends, Hal Elrod, had read that article and credited it with saving his marriage. I was deeply honoured by this revelation. 
Being a fan of Hal&#8217;s work and knowing that my words had a meaningful impact on him strengthened our connection. There&#8217;s something profoundly gratifying about knowing that your vulnerable words have touched someone in a profound way, forging a deeper bond. 
I was thrilled to finally have the opportunity to converse with Hal on &#8220;Men This Way&#8221; today. Let me reiterate that our focus today isn&#8217;t on &#8220;The Miracle Morning&#8221; but on another crucial topic that all men must confront to live fulfilling lives, foster strong relationships, and achieve their deepest aspirations. 
 
HIGHLIGHTS  
(14:31) Bryan delves into Hal&#8217;s life, recounting his near-death encounters and significant life events. From the loss of his baby sister to the harrowing incident of being struck by a drunken truck driver, surviving a coma, overcoming leg paralysis, and ultimately conquering cancer, these experiences have profoundly shaped him.  
Throughout these trials, Hal&#8217;s unwavering focus on the bright side of life has become his most treasured superpower, a guiding force for the remainder of his days. His ability to detach from circumstances beyond his control and find peace in the present moment has emerged as a cornerstone of his outlook on life. &#8220;Not being attached to things that you can&#8217;t change, being at peace with life exactly as it is,&#8221; defines his resilient perspective. 
(19:43) Hal&#8217;s profound perspective on life and death is one of complete acceptance and inner peace, deeply influenced by his studies in enlightenment and Greek philosophy. He openly shares his outlook on death, viewing it with a sense of serenity. To Hal, death is not to be feared, for it is an inevitable part of life. 
He likens life to a coin,

104. Death Brings Gifts w/ Hal Elrod

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Have you ever experienced a transformational psychedelic trip? Have you ever experienced a traumatic psychedelic trip?  Are you curious about the world of psychedelic therapy and whether it might benefit you? In this episode my brilliant guest is Dr.Rachel Harris, and together she &amp; I mine these questions and more for wise insights that can ... <a title="103. The Wisdom of Psychedelics w/ Dr Rachel Harris" href="https://bryanreeves.com/wisdom-psychedelics-rachel-harris-103/" rel="nofollow">Read more</a>

Have you ever experienced a transformational psychedelic trip? Have you ever experienced a traumatic psychedelic trip?  Are you curious about the world of psychedelic therapy and whether it might benefit you? In this episode my brilliant guest is Dr.

Have you ever experienced a transformational psychedelic trip? 
Have you ever experienced a traumatic psychedelic trip?  
Are you curious about the world of psychedelic therapy and whether it might benefit you? 
 
In this episode my brilliant guest is Dr.Rachel Harris, and together she &amp; I mine these questions and more for wise insights that can make a meaningful difference in your life. 
In a world where few true elders exist, Rachel Harris stands out as a genuine wise elder. She&#8217;s authored two books: &#8220;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Listening-Ayahuasca-Depression-Addiction-Anxiety/dp/1608684024">Listening to Ayahuasca</a>&#8221; and her latest work, &#8220;<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Swimming-Sacred-Guides-Psychedelic-Underground/dp/1608687309">Swimming in the Sacred: Wisdom from the Psychedelic Underground</a>.&#8221; With 40 years of experience as a psychotherapist, she&#8217;s also spent a decade in academic research, publishing over 40 scientific studies and reviews. She even received the National Institute of Health&#8217;s New Investigator Award. The use of psychedelics, once associated solely with 1960s counterculture, is now becoming more mainstream, with over 30 million Americans having tried them, as per a 2010 national survey. 
Renowned author Michael Pollen, who shares his experiences with psychedelic trips, sheds light on the National Institute of Health&#8217;s research into using psilocybin and MDMA for treating PTSD, addiction, depression, and end-of-life anxiety. This field is currently witnessing exciting advancements. 
Rachel Harris, apart from her roles as a psychotherapist and author, is a dedicated researcher in psychedelics. In her book &#8220;Swimming in the Sacred,&#8221; she raises caution about the potential loss of wisdom as legal and medical institutions embrace these exceptional medicines. Through insightful interviews, Harris delves into the past fifty years of psychedelic use, featuring discussions with &#8220;female elders&#8221; who&#8217;ve guided transformative entheogenic journeys for inner healing and spiritual growth. I thoroughly enjoyed my conversation with Rachel; her profound insights into the psychedelic realm, drawn from her personal experiences and extensive research, combined with her intimate dialogues with these remarkable women who&#8217;ve guided psychedelic journeys for decades, make this episode a must-listen for anyone intrigued by psychedelics. 
CONNECT WITH RACHEL HARRIS 
Rachel&#8217;s Book &#8211; <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Swimming-Sacred-Wisdom-Psychedelic-Underground/dp/1608687309">Swimming in the Sacred: Wisdom from the Psychedelic Underground</a>. 
CONNECT WITH BRYAN  
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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS  
(09:23) &#8211; In an exclusive interview, Rachel described her unique lifestyle on an island surrounded by a pristine freshwater lake that stretches for a mile with depths of up to 50 feet. Just across the street from her residence lies the majestic Atlantic Ocean, lending a picturesque yet rugged ambiance to her surroundings. This idyllic retreat, however, comes with its challenges. Rachel spends her time on the island exclusively during the summer months due to the harsh winter conditions that make it nearly inhabitable. 
It requires a 20-minute journey on a dirt road, followed by a 40-minute boat ride. Even after this considerable effort, the journey is not over, as there&#8217;s an additional half-hour drive to access the nearest medical facility—a small community hospit...

103. The Wisdom of Psychedelics w/ Dr Rachel Harris

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