Dating with Intention

Dating with intention means knowing what type of person you’re looking for and what you’re want out of dating them – a spouse, a companion for the next few months, a nightstand, etc.

Get Clear About What You Want 

Set some time to decide on what you want to attract and what your needs are in a relationship. 

To help you focus on what really matters to you, you may make different lists: Needs; Cannot live without; Will not live with. 

Also, be honest about why you’re dating. Are you looking for a long-term partnership? Are you simply looking for some fun? 

What is "hardballing"? "Hardballing" is a term to explain when you tell someone all of your expectations upfront before you even go out on a first date. That way, you don't waste your time and can weed out anyone who may not be as serious about a relationship as you are.