How to Find Your Purpose: The Foundation of Leadership
Some days knock you flat enough that you forget what you're even living for. This episode is about the exercise that can bring it all back into focus.
Dr. Gary McGrath has spent decades coaching CEOs, founders, and senior executives through his company, Statarius. In this first episode of a new solo series, he breaks down his own framework, the seven steps of intentional leadership, starting with the step he believes matters most: purpose.
He traces the idea back to his years training with the Covey Leadership Center in the 1990s, where writing a personal mission statement first became part of his own practice. He walks through the exercise built around imagining your own retirement party, the same one that once led a man in his 40s to resign from his job the very next day after finally getting honest about how he wanted to live.
Dr. Gary explains why he thinks of a personal mission statement as an anchor, something that keeps you oriented on the days life knocks you off center, when you get emotional, distracted, or simply forget what you're doing and why. He also gets specific about what this looks like at home, describing the moment a parent walks in the door still mentally at work, and what children notice even when a parent is physically present.
This episode is for anyone who has built a career without ever stopping to write down the life they actually want.
Key Takeaways:
00:00 The Moment That Redefined Dr. Gary's Life
00:42 The Boy Scout Story Behind Real Leadership
02:20 The One Word That Changed Everything
02:50 How The Seven Steps Model Was Born
03:44 Why Every Leadership Model Should Be Questioned
04:20 How A Tennis Pro Reshaped The Framework
06:04 Why Purpose Starts With A Mission Statement
07:02 The Employee Who Quit After Finding Purpose
08:18 Why Time Management Is Actually A Myth
10:46 Self-Awareness Is The Real Leadership Skill
Resources:
📘 Get the full book, The CEO's Journey: statarius.com/resources
📝 Download the free Mission Statement Builder: statarius.com/mission-statement-builder
Connect with Dr. Gary McGrath:
🌐 Website: statarius.com
💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drgarymcgrath
Listen Next:
🎧 From Founder to Employee to CEO Again: The Leadership Cost of Every Transition (Part 1): open.spotify.com/episode/0Y5et5FRXE25cLvdWc2OlC
🎧 Succession Planning: What Real Accountability Looks Like After the Transfer: open.spotify.com/episode/3x0suDOYTefePSeC1GdENA
About the Host
Dr. Gary McGrath is the founder of Statarius, a leadership development firm focused on helping organizations turn good bosses into great leaders through compassionate accountability. Over a 40-year career spanning Fortune 500 companies, technology startups, and leadership consulting, he has trained and coached thousands of leaders across business and nonprofit organizations. His work centers on developing practical leadership frameworks that help organizations build stronger cultures and more effective leaders at every level.
