The One Thing You Must Do Before You Lead Anyone Else
7m | Aug 20, 2026Before you can lead anyone else, at work or at home, there's one exercise almost every leader skips. This episode is part of Dr. Gary McGrath's solo series on the Seven Steps of Intentional Leadership, built on his executive coaching framework and the LeaderStep7 program at Statarius, and it covers step one: Purpose.
Dr. Gary explains why a personal mission statement works as a leader's anchor, especially in moments like being hit with a problem before saying good morning, when the more effective move is noticing the person before the issue. He connects Carol Dweck's research on fixed versus growth mindset to how leaders handle feedback, then closes with a simple framework called SPIES for checking balance across five areas of life, using physical health as a concrete example of how small changes add up.
This episode is built for any leader, new or experienced, who wants a clear starting point before working on anything else.
Key Takeaways:
00:00 Leadership Is A Responsibility Not A Position
00:28 Why Purpose Is Step One In Leadership
01:24 Your Personal Mission Statement Is Your North Star
03:12 Fixed Mindset Versus Growth Mindset Explained
04:14 Why Leaders Struggle To Give Honest Feedback
05:44 The SPIES Model For Life Balance
06:36 Awareness, Application, And Effectiveness Defined
07:10 Next Up: Emotional Intelligence And Decision Making
Connect with Dr. Gary McGrath:
🌐 Website: statarius.com
💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drgarymcgrath
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About the Host
Dr. Gary McGrath is the founder of Statarius, a leadership development firm focused on helping organizations turn good bosses into great leaders through compassionate accountability. Over a 40-year career spanning Fortune 500 companies, technology startups, and leadership consulting, he has trained and coached thousands of leaders across business and nonprofit organizations. His work centers on developing practical leadership frameworks that help organizations build stronger cultures and more effective leaders at every level.
