Join Big Smash as he dives deep into the intricate world of modern relationships. From the rollercoaster of dating and marriage to the complexities of being a side piece, a father, or simply navigating the bachelor life, Big Smash shares his candid and often humorous perspectives on it all. Get ready for unfiltered conversations about love, lust, heartbreak, and everything in between. Whether you&#39;re seeking advice, validation, or just a good laugh, this podcast offers a raw and relatable take on the dating scene. Tune in to &#34;Ill Explain All This Later&#34; for a no-holds-barred exploration of the ups and downs of love and life.

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❤️🖤💚 Black love is more than surviving together. It’s about thriving together, building legacies, creating memories, and finding peace in someone who genuinely loves you.In this episode, Big Smash celebrates the beauty, passion, friendship, and cultural connection that make Black love so powerful. From loving your partner out loud to showing the next generation what healthy love looks like, this conversation is about giving Black love the flowers it deserves.Because the greatest part of Black love isn’t finding someone willing to go to the ends of the earth for you… it’s finding someone you’d gladly go to the ends of the earth WITH.

S5E9:Black Love Deserves Better From Us…..

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Everybody wants somebody with money, ambition, and stability. But what the hell are YOU bringing to the table?Big Smash tackles financial entitlement, freeloaders, unrealistic expectations, and relationship double standards.There’s a difference between building WITH somebody and expecting somebody to build EVERYTHING for you.Want a provider? Cool. But your entire financial plan can’t be finding somebody who already has a bag!💯 THE LESSON: Stop demanding a lifestyle you’re unwilling to help create.🎙️ I’ll Explain All This Later Podcast

S5E8:You Want A Bag …Go Get One

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Lies, cheating, broken trust, and everybody in your business. But through all the bullshit, that person still feels like home.Big Smash gets personal about love, hypocrisy, forgiveness, and fighting for a relationship you might be helping destroy.Are you really fixing what’s broken, or just refusing to let go?Sometimes fixing the relationship starts with fixing yourself.🎙️ I’ll Explain All This Later

S5E7:We Fix This Period.

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Big Smash is getting into leadership, trust, submission, boundaries, and family loyalty. What happens when the family you came from starts interfering with the family you’re building?Everybody wants someone they can follow, but can you trust their leadership when you don’t agree with their decisions?Because leading ain’t controlling, and following ain’t always agreeing.I’ll Explain All This Later

S5E6:You Want Me to Follow? Then Lead.

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Everybody depends on the strong one until the strong one starts running out of strength.This episode is about the weight of always being the person who handles it the relationship, the kids, the family, the bills, the problems, the pressure, all of it.Because sometimes you don’t need more advice or another responsibility. Sometimes you just need somebody to realize you’re tired too.Being dependable doesn’t mean being unlimited.

S5E5:I’m Tired Of Being Everybody’s Strong Person

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What happens when both people are tired, both people are contributing, and somehow both still feel unseen?In Episode 4 of I’ll Explain All This Later, Big Smash and Chan break down the weight people carry in relationships money, kids, housework, planning, emotional support, family responsibilities, intimacy, and all the invisible things that keep life moving.Because sometimes the problem isn’t that your partner does nothing.Sometimes you’re both carrying a lot you just don’t realize how heavy the other person’s load is.

S5E4:Who’s Carrying This Relationship

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How do you miss somebody you’re still with?In Episode 3 of I’ll Explain All This Later, Big Smash talks about what happens when the love is still there, but the relationship starts feeling too routine. This isn’t about wanting somebody new—it’s about wanting something new with the person you already chose.Because sometimes you don’t miss the person.You miss the intention, the effort, the curiosity, and the version of “us” that got lost in everyday life.

S5E3:I Miss Us… And We’re Still Together

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How much does your partner really need to know about you?In Episode 2 of I’ll Explain All This Later, Big Smash takes the conversation from personal space to personal privacy. If you’re allowed to have time that belongs to you, are you also allowed to have parts of your past, thoughts, conversations, and experiences that stay yours?This episode digs into privacy vs. secrecy, phone access, past relationships, old mistakes, personal boundaries, and the difference between being honest and giving somebody complete access to your life.Because there’s a difference between hiding something that can affect the relationship… and simply believing not everything has to be explained.Does loving somebody give them the right to know everything about you?Make your choice.

S5E2:You Don’t Need to Know Everything

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Can you be completely in love with somebody and still need time away from them? In the Season 5 premiere of I’ll Explain All This Later, Big Smash tackles the uncomfortable truth about loving your relationship while still loving your own space, freedom, and peace.When a simple request for a day alone gets interpreted as rejection, Smash has a choice to make—and he’ll have to explain why he made it. We’re talking me time vs. quality time, independence vs. neglect, missing parts of single life without wanting to be single, and whether you can give your partner the same freedom you expect for yourself.Because sometimes you don’t need space from your relationship…You just need space from being needed.Make your choice. Then explain it later.

S5E1: I Love You, But I Like My Life Too

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This season we talked about love, loyalty, temptation, protection, parenting, friendships, mistakes, pain, and growth.But for the finale, the focus turns inward.After everything life put you through… did it make you wiser, stronger, colder, more guarded, or more honest with yourself?This episode is about the lessons we paid for, the people we outgrew, the mistakes that changed us, and the moments that forced us to become somebody new.Because surviving the experience is only half the story.The real question is…After everything… who did you become?

S4E13:What Did You Become

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The new regime begins now.In this special PodWarz Round 1 episode, Big Smash officially brings his address as he becomes President of the United States of Smash and delivers his first-ever State of Smash Address.What would a nation built on common sense actually look like? tune in and find out

S4Bonus6:The United States Of Smash

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Podwarz round 3 Everybody wants the crown.Everybody wants the success, the respect, the money, the growth, and the results.But very few people want the process that comes with it.In this episode, Big Smash takes a hard look at why so many people are chasing outcomes they haven&#39;t prepared for, why shortcuts eventually come with a price, and how discipline, consistency, and integrity are still undefeated.From social media&#39;s obsession with overnight success to the lessons hidden in struggle, this conversation challenges listeners to stop focusing on the destination and start respecting the journey.Because every shortcut creates a future invoice.Every rep matters.Every sacrifice matters.And every lesson you avoid eventually finds its way back to you.

S4TheBonus5:You Cant Cheat The Process

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Some thoughts are supposed to stay in your head… but we’re saying them out loud. In this episode, Big Smash and Bougee Babe take a hilarious but honest look at the people, situations, and decisions we just can’t feel sorry for. From repeated mistakes and fake accountability to self-inflicted drama and karma finally collecting its debt, we’re diving into those moments where all you can say is… “Lowkey… they had it coming.” This isn’t about being heartless. It’s about recognizing when consequences aren’t bad luck—they’re the result of choices. Laugh with us, disagree with us, and maybe even see yourself in a few of these stories.

S4TheBonus5:Lowkey They Had It Coming

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We’ve all had that one person that had us doing WAY too much 😂 Ignoring red flags.Sending long texts.Going broke trying to prove love. “Remember When I Was Simpin” is a funny, honest, and painfully real conversation about overloving people who never deserved your softness in the first place. 🎙️ PodWarz 2 Round 1💔 Some of y’all still healing from what’s discussed on this episode.

S4TheBonus4:Remember When I Was Simpin

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This ain’t a feel good episode… this is a REAL one.Big Smash and Uncle Dolemite sit down and break life all the way down from childhood lessons you didn’t even realize you were learning… to teenage decisions that felt right at the time… to grown man accountability that you can’t run from.No filters. No fake wisdom.Just real talk about:<ul><li>The lessons that cost you</li><li>The patterns you had to face</li><li>The truths most people avoid</li><li>And what it really takes to grow into the man you’re supposed to be</li></ul> They challenge each other, call out bad habits, and speak on the difference between surviving life… and actually learning from it.

S4TheBonus3:What Has Life Taught You

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Before social media told people what to wear… Chicago already knew how to step.This bonus episode takes you back to the late 90s and early 2000s—when being fly wasn’t about designer labels, it was about being clean, intentional, and confident. From crispy white tees and flawless Air Force 1s to Jordans that meant something and Pelle Pelle jackets that made statements, this is a deep dive into the culture that made Chicago one of the flyest cities in fashion.This ain’t just about clothes it’s about identity, pride, and presence.Because back then… you didn’t dress to be seen.You dressed to be respected.

S4TheBonus2:The Midwest Drip

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Everybody got an opinion… especially when they only saw a piece of the picture.In this episode, Big Smash break down what happens when confidence turns into control, and how some people mistake their way for the way. Just because something doesn’t look like how you’d do it doesn’t make it wrong — it just means you don’t understand it yet.This isn’t a rebuttal… it’s a recalibration.We’re talking perspective, premature opinions, and why moving different will always get misread by people who only respect familiarity. Not everything needs to be loud to be intentional, and not everybody speaking on you has seen enough to define you.Sometimes people ain’t wrong… they just early.

S4TheBonus1: You Just Early

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In this episode, Big Smash breaks down the reality behind success using the message of The Pursuit of Happiness and why the journey to winning is never as pretty as it looks. We dive into what it really means to stay locked in when life isn’t going your way. From struggling in silence, to carrying responsibility under pressure, to maximizing every opportunity when it finally shows up this episode is about endurance.

S4E12:The Pressure That Builds Diamonds

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In this episode, Big Smash takes it back to the foundation — family.Using the message behind Soul Food, we break down what really holds a family together when life gets real. Because it’s easy to say “family over everything” when everything is good… but what happens when tension, pride, money, and miscommunication start pulling people apart?

S4E11:The Family That Stays

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What happens when two individuals are forced to become a unit?In this episode of I’ll Explain All This Later, Big Smash breaks down the powerful theme of “Ride or Die” versus real loyalty, using the cultural backdrop of survival, pressure, and partnership Queen And SlimToo many people say they want a partner for life—but when pressure shows up, so does their true character.

S4E10:The Me Becomes Us

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