Girls with Grafts is a podcast hosted by Amber Wilcox and Rachel Kudlak, Burn Survivors, and supporters of the nonprofit, Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors. The Girls with Grafts podcast is for burn survivors, caregivers, hospital staff, and corporate partners in the burn community. Hear in-depth conversations about burn survivor stories, gain resources for managing a burn injury, hear up-to-date information about Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors community news, and listen in on burn prevention and advocacy information.

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In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with burn survivor Ivan Francisco Ruiz Gamez for a powerful conversation about recovery, grief, mental health, and finding purpose after life-changing loss. 🎙️Ivan was just 11 years old when an RZR accident left him with burns on more than 90% of his body and took the life of his father. He spent seven months in the ICU at Shriners Children’s Northern California and has undergone more than 50 surgeries. Ivan shares what it was like to navigate both physical recovery and grief at such a young age, return to school, adjust to unwanted attention, and lean on his family—especially his mom—through some of his hardest moments.Now 20, Ivan is studying psychology with plans to work with children and is giving back through Spanish SOAR and burn survivor camps. He and Rachel talk about the connection between mental and physical health, the impact of connecting with people who understand, and why Ivan wants other young people to know that life can still hold so much possibility after trauma. ❤️Ivan leaves listeners with a message he continues to live by: keep doing what you love, even if you have to find a new way to do it, and keep looking for something beautiful in life worth holding onto.#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Ivan Francisco Ruiz Gamez is a 20-year-old burn survivor from Mexico, where he continues to live today. His burn injury occurred on June 18, 2018, when he was 11 years old. While traveling with his father in Baja California Sur, they were involved in an RZR accident that resulted in the loss of his father. Following the accident, Ivan was transferred to Shriners Children’s Northern California, where he spent seven months in the ICU. He sustained second- and third-degree burns over 90% of his body and has undergone more than 50 surgeries over the past eight years. Throughout his recovery, his mother has remained by his side, providing ongoing support. Ivan is currently in his third year of studying psychology and hopes to specialize in working with children. <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Get connected or learn more about Spanish SOAR: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/spanish" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/spanish</a> </li><li>Learn more about burn survivor camps: <a href="https://iaburncamps.org/" rel="nofollow">https://iaburncamps.org/</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by the National Fire Protection Association! NFPA is a nonprofit that seeks to save lives and reduce loss with information, knowledge, &amp; passion. Learn more about fire safety and explore their educational resources by visiting www.nfpa.org.Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors

In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with burn survivor Ivan Francisco Ruiz Gamez for a powerful conversation about recovery, grief, mental health, and finding purpose after life-changing loss. 🎙️

Ivan was just 11 years old when an RZR accident left him with burns on more than 90% of his body and took the life of his father. He spent seven months in the ICU at Shriners Children’s Northern California and has undergone more than 50 surgeries. Ivan shares what it was like to navigate both physical recovery and grief at such a young age, return to school, adjust to unwanted attention, and lean on his family—especially his mom—through some of his hardest moments.

Now 20, Ivan is studying psychology with plans to work with children and is giving back through Spanish SOAR and burn survivor camps. He and Rachel talk about the connection between mental and physical health, the impact of connecting with people who understand, and why Ivan wants other young people to know that life can still hold so much possibility after trauma. ❤️

Ivan leaves listeners with a message he continues to live by: keep doing what you love, even if you have to find a new way to do it, and keep looking for something beautiful in life worth holding onto.

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  

Meet Our Guest 
Ivan Francisco Ruiz Gamez is a 20-year-old burn survivor from Mexico, where he continues to live today. His burn injury occurred on June 18, 2018, when he was 11 years old. While traveling with his father in Baja California Sur, they were involved in an RZR accident that resulted in the loss of his father. Following the accident, Ivan was transferred to Shriners Children’s Northern California, where he spent seven months in the ICU. He sustained second- and third-degree burns over 90% of his body and has undergone more than 50 surgeries over the past eight years. Throughout his recovery, his mother has remained by his side, providing ongoing support. Ivan is currently in his third year of studying psychology and hopes to specialize in working with children.

Links 
Get connected or learn more about Spanish SOAR: https://www.phoenix-society.org/spanish 
Learn more about burn survivor camps: https://iaburncamps.org/ 

Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by the National Fire Protection Association! NFPA is a nonprofit that seeks to save lives and reduce loss with information, knowledge, &amp; passion. Learn more about fire safety and explore their educational resources by visiting www.nfpa.org.

Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Your Physical Health Depends on Your Mental Health with Ivan Francisco Ruiz Gamez

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In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with burn survivor Amarion Hally for an open conversation about recovery, mental health, and learning that you don’t have to have everything figured out. 🎙️Amarion shares how his life changed after sustaining severe burns at age 19 and opens up about some of the most difficult parts of his recovery, including losing his fingers, adjusting to changes in his appearance, and navigating the emotional impact of his injury. He also reflects on the life-changing support of his burn care team and how being treated as a person, not just a patient, helped shape his recovery.Rachel and Amarion also talk about the pressure to achieve and how social media can make it seem like everyone else is succeeding while you’re falling behind. Amarion shares why he began posting his story and dancing online, and the message of hope he wants others who are struggling to hear. 🫶  #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Amarion Hally is a young burn survivor whose life changed at age 19 after sustaining severe burns to much of his body and face. Throughout his recovery, Amarion has navigated significant physical and emotional changes, including finger amputations and adjusting to his changing appearance. Today, he is continuing his recovery while openly sharing his experience, positivity, and message of hope with others through social media. <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Follow Amarion on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@str8to_mars" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@str8to_mars</a></li><li>Learn more about Amarion’s recovery: <a href="https://www.wbrz.com/news/spray-on-skin-offers-new-hope-for-burn-patients-in-louisiana/" rel="nofollow">https://www.wbrz.com/news/spray-on-skin-offers-new-hope-for-burn-patients-in-louisiana/</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by the Bert Martin Foundation! The Bert Martin Foundation was established to assist those who help others and provide financial support for nonprofit organizations. We’re honored to have the Bert Martin Foundation as a long-standing Phoenix Society Partner.  Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with burn survivor Amarion Hally for an open conversation about recovery, mental health, and learning that you don’t have to have everything figured out. 🎙️

Amarion shares how his life changed after sustaining severe burns at age 19 and opens up about some of the most difficult parts of his recovery, including losing his fingers, adjusting to changes in his appearance, and navigating the emotional impact of his injury. He also reflects on the life-changing support of his burn care team and how being treated as a person, not just a patient, helped shape his recovery.

Rachel and Amarion also talk about the pressure to achieve and how social media can make it seem like everyone else is succeeding while you’re falling behind. Amarion shares why he began posting his story and dancing online, and the message of hope he wants others who are struggling to hear. 🫶  

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  

Meet Our Guest 
Amarion Hally is a young burn survivor whose life changed at age 19 after sustaining severe burns to much of his body and face. Throughout his recovery, Amarion has navigated significant physical and emotional changes, including finger amputations and adjusting to his changing appearance. Today, he is continuing his recovery while openly sharing his experience, positivity, and message of hope with others through social media.

Links 
Follow Amarion on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@str8to_mars
Learn more about Amarion’s recovery: https://www.wbrz.com/news/spray-on-skin-offers-new-hope-for-burn-patients-in-louisiana/ 

Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by the Bert Martin Foundation! The Bert Martin Foundation was established to assist those who help others and provide financial support for nonprofit organizations. We’re honored to have the Bert Martin Foundation as a long-standing Phoenix Society Partner.  

Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Progress Doesn’t Have to Look Perfect with Amarion Hally

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In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel and Amber sit down with Phil Tammaro, burn survivor, retired fire captain, and Burn Coordinator for the International Association of Fire Fighters (IAFF). 🚒Phil shares how a burn injury at just two years old shaped his life, while his family’s long history in public safety ultimately inspired him to pursue a career in the fire service. He reflects on what it was like to serve as a firefighter while also carrying his own experience as a burn survivor, and how those two parts of his life have shaped his passion for fire safety, burn prevention, and supporting others.Drawing on more than three decades in the fire service, Phil shares practical fire safety and prevention tips and talks about his work with the IAFF to strengthen burn awareness and peer support within the fire service community. ❤️Phil also reflects on the power of connection in his own healing journey, including attending his first Phoenix World Burn Congress and returning nearly every year since. He shares how finding a community of people who understood his experience reinforced something he now carries into his own peer support work: no one should have to navigate recovery alone.  #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Phil Tammaro serves as the Burn Coordinator for the International Association of Fire Fighters (IAFF), where he brings over 31 years of experience as a retired captain from the Billerica, MA Fire Department. He is a nationally recognized subject matter expert and speaker on fire safety, burn prevention, and peer support. From 2009 to 2024, he served as the IAFF 3rd District Burn Coordinator, during which he was awarded the 2016 American Burn Association Burn Prevention Award and the 2023 Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors Joe Hickey Fire Service Award.His personal experience as a burn survivor, combined with his professional background, uniquely qualifies him to effectively address the impact of burn injuries within the fire service and in our communities.Phil’s journey from burn survivor to fire fighter began when he was just a toddler. In 1971, at the age of two, he suffered 3rd degree burns over 35% of his body from an explosion in his home.  Phil spent many years at the Burn Centers in Boston as a patient undergoing numerous skin grafts and reconstructive surgeries to maintain full use of his legs.  His last surgery related to his burns was in 2024, 54 years after the fire. <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Learn more about Phoenix SOAR: <a href="https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar" rel="nofollow">https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar</a> </li><li>Learn more about Phoenix World Burn Congress: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc</a> </li><li>Read “What to Expect: Mental Health &amp; Emotional Well-Being:” <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/what-to-expect-mental-health" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/what-to-expect-mental-health</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by the National Fire Protection Association! NFPA is a nonprofit that seeks to save lives and reduce loss with information, knowledge, &amp; passion. Learn more about fire safety and explore their educational resources by visiting www.nfpa.org. Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel and Amber sit down with Phil Tammaro, burn survivor, retired fire captain, and Burn Coordinator for the International Association of Fire Fighters (IAFF). 🚒

Phil shares how a burn injury at just two years old shaped his life, while his family’s long history in public safety ultimately inspired him to pursue a career in the fire service. He reflects on what it was like to serve as a firefighter while also carrying his own experience as a burn survivor, and how those two parts of his life have shaped his passion for fire safety, burn prevention, and supporting others.

Drawing on more than three decades in the fire service, Phil shares practical fire safety and prevention tips and talks about his work with the IAFF to strengthen burn awareness and peer support within the fire service community. ❤️

Phil also reflects on the power of connection in his own healing journey, including attending his first Phoenix World Burn Congress and returning nearly every year since. He shares how finding a community of people who understood his experience reinforced something he now carries into his own peer support work: no one should have to navigate recovery alone.  

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  


Meet Our Guest 
Phil Tammaro serves as the Burn Coordinator for the International Association of Fire Fighters (IAFF), where he brings over 31 years of experience as a retired captain from the Billerica, MA Fire Department. He is a nationally recognized subject matter expert and speaker on fire safety, burn prevention, and peer support. From 2009 to 2024, he served as the IAFF 3rd District Burn Coordinator, during which he was awarded the 2016 American Burn Association Burn Prevention Award and the 2023 Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors Joe Hickey Fire Service Award.

His personal experience as a burn survivor, combined with his professional background, uniquely qualifies him to effectively address the impact of burn injuries within the fire service and in our communities.

Phil’s journey from burn survivor to fire fighter began when he was just a toddler. In 1971, at the age of two, he suffered 3rd degree burns over 35% of his body from an explosion in his home.  Phil spent many years at the Burn Centers in Boston as a patient undergoing numerous skin grafts and reconstructive surgeries to maintain full use of his legs.  His last surgery related to his burns was in 2024, 54 years after the fire.

Links 
Learn more about Phoenix SOAR: https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar 
Learn more about Phoenix World Burn Congress: https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc 
Read “What to Expect: Mental Health &amp; Emotional Well-Being:” https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/what-to-expect-mental-health 

Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by the National Fire Protection Association! NFPA is a nonprofit that seeks to save lives and reduce loss with information, knowledge, &amp; passion. Learn more about fire safety and explore their educational resources by visiting www.nfpa.org. 

Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Protecting, Preventing, and Supporting with Phil Tammaro

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In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with burn survivor and Phoenix SOAR Peer Supporter Fahima Abbas for a heartfelt conversation about emotional healing, self-confidence, and finding your voice. 🩷Fahima shares her burn survivor journey and how living with facial scars has shaped the way she sees herself and connects with others. She reflects on the challenges of rebuilding confidence and learning to love herself, as well as the powerful impact of finding an online community of burn survivors who understood her experience. ✨ That connection inspired Fahima to begin sharing her own story and eventually become a Phoenix SOAR Peer Supporter, so she could offer that same sense of understanding and hope to others.Together, Rachel and Fahima talk about what it means to feel comfortable being seen, the freedom that can come from owning your story, and why our scars never determine our worth. Scars don’t change our value—and finding the confidence to believe that can be an important part of healing. 💪#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Fahima Abbas is a burn survivor living with facial scars from a life-changing experience. Her journey with facial burns has shaped so much of who she is today and continues to influence how she sees herself, connects with others, and supports the burn community. <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Learn more about Phoenix SOAR: <a href="https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar" rel="nofollow">https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar</a> </li><li>Follow Fahima on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fahimalove_" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/fahimalove_</a> </li><li>Follow Fahima on Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/FahimaAbbasJourney/" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/FahimaAbbasJourney/</a></li><li>Follow Paige Lauren Billiot, aka Flawless Affect, on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/flawless_affect/?hl=en" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/flawless_affect/?hl=en</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by the Bert Martin Foundation! The Bert Martin Foundation was established to assist those who help others and provide financial support for nonprofit organizations. We’re honored to have the Bert Martin Foundation as a long-standing Phoenix Society Partner.  Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with burn survivor and Phoenix SOAR Peer Supporter Fahima Abbas for a heartfelt conversation about emotional healing, self-confidence, and finding your voice. 🩷

Fahima shares her burn survivor journey and how living with facial scars has shaped the way she sees herself and connects with others. She reflects on the challenges of rebuilding confidence and learning to love herself, as well as the powerful impact of finding an online community of burn survivors who understood her experience. ✨ That connection inspired Fahima to begin sharing her own story and eventually become a Phoenix SOAR Peer Supporter, so she could offer that same sense of understanding and hope to others.

Together, Rachel and Fahima talk about what it means to feel comfortable being seen, the freedom that can come from owning your story, and why our scars never determine our worth. Scars don’t change our value—and finding the confidence to believe that can be an important part of healing. 💪

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  

Meet Our Guest 
Fahima Abbas is a burn survivor living with facial scars from a life-changing experience. Her journey with facial burns has shaped so much of who she is today and continues to influence how she sees herself, connects with others, and supports the burn community.

Links 
Learn more about Phoenix SOAR: https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar 
Follow Fahima on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fahimalove_ 
Follow Fahima on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FahimaAbbasJourney/
Follow Paige Lauren Billiot, aka Flawless Affect, on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/flawless_affect/?hl=en 

Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by the Bert Martin Foundation! The Bert Martin Foundation was established to assist those who help others and provide financial support for nonprofit organizations. We’re honored to have the Bert Martin Foundation as a long-standing Phoenix Society Partner.  

Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Scars Don’t Change Our Value with Fahima Abbas

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In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel and Amber sit down with Tracy Smaldino, a burn survivor, trauma survivor, author, keynote speaker, podcast host, and founder of Trauma Rock Stars™. 🎸Tracy shares her journey as the sole survivor of a fatal car accident that left her with severe burns as a child, and how she carried her trauma in silence for many years before beginning to lean into healing. Together, Rachel, Amber, and Tracy talk about the lasting impact of trauma, the challenges burn survivors can face with summer heat, and what it means to find your voice when you are finally ready to share your story.Tracy also shares how meditation, music, and her years in the music industry shaped the creation of Trauma Rock Stars™—a platform that frames healing like a concert, from the sound check to the headliner moment. 🎵 Her message is a powerful reminder that trauma does not define us, and every survivor has a Rock Star inside them.  #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Tracy Smaldino is a trauma survivor, author, keynote speaker, podcast host, and the founder of Trauma Rock Stars™ — a platform built on the belief that your trauma doesn’t define you, it refines you. Tracy’s story begins as the sole survivor of a fatal car accident that left her with severe burns as a child — and, years later, a survivor of sexual assault. For years she carried her trauma in silence. When she finally leaned into her healing journey, everything changed. She turned her pain into purpose and Trauma Rock Stars™ was born. As a burn survivor, Tracy brings a deeply personal understanding to her work — and an unshakeable belief that every person has a Rock Star inside them. Sometimes they just need someone to hand them the mic.<h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Visit Tracy’s website: <a href="https://traumarockstars.com/" rel="nofollow">https://traumarockstars.com/</a></li><li>Listen to Trauma Rock Stars: <a href="https://traumarockstars.com/#podcast" rel="nofollow">https://traumarockstars.com/#podcast</a> </li><li>Listen to TRAUMA ROCK STAR Songs that Saved Us: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0mQfkVQtw1eB1eNSsD9ZQy" rel="nofollow">https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0mQfkVQtw1eB1eNSsD9ZQy</a> </li><li>Watch our episode “The Science of Staying Cool: Dr. Craig Crandall and the Burn Survivor Heat Risk Calculator:” <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-eB-KLHqD4o" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-eB-KLHqD4o</a> </li><li>Share your story with our Virtual Open Mic: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/open-mic-submission" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/open-mic-submission</a> </li></ul><h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by Buses by the Beach! Buses by the Beach is a community of VW bus enthusiasts based in West Michigan. They come together to camp, host amazing events, and raise funds to support Phoenix Society. And mark your calendars for the Bus Boo 2026, happening October 2nd - 4th in Dorr, Michigan. Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel and Amber sit down with Tracy Smaldino, a burn survivor, trauma survivor, author, keynote speaker, podcast host, and founder of Trauma Rock Stars™. 🎸

Tracy shares her journey as the sole survivor of a fatal car accident that left her with severe burns as a child, and how she carried her trauma in silence for many years before beginning to lean into healing. Together, Rachel, Amber, and Tracy talk about the lasting impact of trauma, the challenges burn survivors can face with summer heat, and what it means to find your voice when you are finally ready to share your story.

Tracy also shares how meditation, music, and her years in the music industry shaped the creation of Trauma Rock Stars™—a platform that frames healing like a concert, from the sound check to the headliner moment. 🎵 Her message is a powerful reminder that trauma does not define us, and every survivor has a Rock Star inside them.  

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  

Meet Our Guest 
Tracy Smaldino is a trauma survivor, author, keynote speaker, podcast host, and the founder of Trauma Rock Stars™ — a platform built on the belief that your trauma doesn’t define you, it refines you. Tracy’s story begins as the sole survivor of a fatal car accident that left her with severe burns as a child — and, years later, a survivor of sexual assault. For years she carried her trauma in silence. When she finally leaned into her healing journey, everything changed. She turned her pain into purpose and Trauma Rock Stars™ was born. As a burn survivor, Tracy brings a deeply personal understanding to her work — and an unshakeable belief that every person has a Rock Star inside them. Sometimes they just need someone to hand them the mic.

Links 
Visit Tracy’s website: https://traumarockstars.com/
Listen to Trauma Rock Stars: https://traumarockstars.com/#podcast 
Listen to TRAUMA ROCK STAR Songs that Saved Us: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0mQfkVQtw1eB1eNSsD9ZQy 
Watch our episode “The Science of Staying Cool: Dr. Craig Crandall and the Burn Survivor Heat Risk Calculator:” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-eB-KLHqD4o 
Share your story with our Virtual Open Mic: https://www.phoenix-society.org/open-mic-submission 
 
Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by Buses by the Beach! Buses by the Beach is a community of VW bus enthusiasts based in West Michigan. They come together to camp, host amazing events, and raise funds to support Phoenix Society. And mark your calendars for the Bus Boo 2026, happening October 2nd - 4th in Dorr, Michigan. 

Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Becoming the Headliner of Your Own Healing Story

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In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with Rebecca Garber, a nurse practitioner at HCA HealthONE Swedish Burn and Reconstructive Center in Englewood, Colorado.With more than 25 years of experience caring for burn-injured patients, Rebecca brings a powerful perspective on the clinical and emotional sides of recovery. 🩺 She shares what first drew her to burn care, how her understanding of healing has evolved over time, and why supporting patients and families goes far beyond physical recovery.Rebecca also discusses her connection to Phoenix Society and the impact of Phoenix SOAR, a peer support program that connects burn survivors and loved ones with trained supporters who have lived experience. 💙 She reflects on what makes peer support so meaningful, what she looks for in future peer supporters, and how Phoenix World Burn Congress has shaped the way she thinks about burn recovery, community, and care.This conversation is a reminder of the important role burn care professionals play—not only in helping patients heal, but in connecting them to hope, support, and community. 👏 #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Rebecca Garber is a nurse practitioner for the HCA Health 1 Swedish Burn and Reconstructive Center in Englewood, Colorado. She has cared for burn injured patients for more than 25 years. Rebecca works closely with the Phoenix SOAR peer supporters of her program. She is passionate about supporting this invaluable resource and training for future peer supporters.  <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Learn more about Phoenix SOAR: <a href="https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar" rel="nofollow">https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar</a></li><li>Learn more about Phoenix World Burn Congress: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc</a> </li><li>Read “The Power of Peer Support:” <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/the-power-of-peer-support" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/the-power-of-peer-support</a> </li><li>Read “Peer Support is Powerful:” <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/peer-support-is-powerful" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/peer-support-is-powerful</a> </li><li>Explore our toolkit for burn care professionals: <a href="https://resources.phoenix-society.org/tools-for-burn-care-professionals" rel="nofollow">https://resources.phoenix-society.org/tools-for-burn-care-professionals</a> </li><li>Explore our Resource Center: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by AlloSource! AlloSource is one of the largest human tissue providers, honoring tissue donors by creating innovative skin allografts to help burn surgeons heal patients. Learn more at: <a href="https://allosource.org" rel="nofollow">https://allosource.org</a>. Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with Rebecca Garber, a nurse practitioner at HCA HealthONE Swedish Burn and Reconstructive Center in Englewood, Colorado.

With more than 25 years of experience caring for burn-injured patients, Rebecca brings a powerful perspective on the clinical and emotional sides of recovery. 🩺 She shares what first drew her to burn care, how her understanding of healing has evolved over time, and why supporting patients and families goes far beyond physical recovery.

Rebecca also discusses her connection to Phoenix Society and the impact of Phoenix SOAR, a peer support program that connects burn survivors and loved ones with trained supporters who have lived experience. 💙 She reflects on what makes peer support so meaningful, what she looks for in future peer supporters, and how Phoenix World Burn Congress has shaped the way she thinks about burn recovery, community, and care.

This conversation is a reminder of the important role burn care professionals play—not only in helping patients heal, but in connecting them to hope, support, and community. 👏 

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  
 
Meet Our Guest 
Rebecca Garber is a nurse practitioner for the HCA Health 1 Swedish Burn and Reconstructive Center in Englewood, Colorado. She has cared for burn injured patients for more than 25 years. Rebecca works closely with the Phoenix SOAR peer supporters of her program. She is passionate about supporting this invaluable resource and training for future peer supporters. 
 
Links 
Learn more about Phoenix SOAR: https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar
Learn more about Phoenix World Burn Congress: https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc 
Read “The Power of Peer Support:” https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/the-power-of-peer-support 
Read “Peer Support is Powerful:” https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/peer-support-is-powerful 
Explore our toolkit for burn care professionals: https://resources.phoenix-society.org/tools-for-burn-care-professionals 
Explore our Resource Center: https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources 
 
Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by AlloSource! AlloSource is one of the largest human tissue providers, honoring tissue donors by creating innovative skin allografts to help burn surgeons heal patients. Learn more at: https://allosource.org. 
 
Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.  


Phoenix SOAR, Peer Support, and the Power of Burn Community with Rebecca Garber

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Girls with Grafts is back for Season 9! 🎉 Rachel and Amber sit down with burn nurse Kailin Kyle to talk about her path into nursing and burn care, which began after her uncle was treated at the Connecticut Burn Center.Kailin shares how attending her first American Burn Association conference inspired her to become more involved with Phoenix Society and help revitalize her hospital’s Phoenix SOAR Program. ❤️ Now serving as Co-Lead Coordinator, she helps facilitate monthly support groups, coordinate certified peer support visits, and recruit new peer supporters.Together, they discuss the power of peer support—both through traditional visits and community-building experiences such as events and gatherings. Kailin also reflects on attending Phoenix World Burn Congress and shares advice for other burn care professionals interested in starting or rebuilding a peer support program.🏥#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Kailin Kyle has been a registered nurse for nearly five years and will celebrate three years as a burn nurse this summer. Her interest in burn care began in 2021, when her uncle was treated at the Connecticut Burn Center. After attending her first American Burn Association conference in 2023, Kailin became involved with Phoenix Society and later became Co-Lead Coordinator for the Connecticut Burn Center’s Phoenix SOAR Program. Today, she helps host monthly support groups, coordinates certified peer support visits, and recruits new peer supporters. Kailin is proud to help build a safe, supportive community for burn survivors in Connecticut. <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Learn more about Phoenix SOAR: <a href="https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar" rel="nofollow">https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar</a> </li><li>Contact Sara Byrne, our Community Specialist for Phoenix SOAR at SByrne@phoenix-society.org</li><li>Join our Phoenix SOAR Coordinator Facebook Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/135603113920080/" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/groups/135603113920080/</a> </li><li>Join our Phoenix SOAR Peer Supporter Facebook Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/PhoenixSOARPeerSupporter" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/groups/PhoenixSOARPeerSupporter</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by the Board of Certification for Emergency Nursing (BCEN)! BCEN is committed to advancing burn care through the Certified Burn Registered Nurse, or CBRN, credential — a certification designed to recognize specialized knowledge and expertise across the burn care continuum. Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Girls with Grafts is back for Season 9! 🎉 Rachel and Amber sit down with burn nurse Kailin Kyle to talk about her path into nursing and burn care, which began after her uncle was treated at the Connecticut Burn Center.

Kailin shares how attending her first American Burn Association conference inspired her to become more involved with Phoenix Society and help revitalize her hospital’s Phoenix SOAR Program. ❤️ Now serving as Co-Lead Coordinator, she helps facilitate monthly support groups, coordinate certified peer support visits, and recruit new peer supporters.

Together, they discuss the power of peer support—both through traditional visits and community-building experiences such as events and gatherings. Kailin also reflects on attending Phoenix World Burn Congress and shares advice for other burn care professionals interested in starting or rebuilding a peer support program.🏥

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  

Meet Our Guest 
Kailin Kyle has been a registered nurse for nearly five years and will celebrate three years as a burn nurse this summer. Her interest in burn care began in 2021, when her uncle was treated at the Connecticut Burn Center. After attending her first American Burn Association conference in 2023, Kailin became involved with Phoenix Society and later became Co-Lead Coordinator for the Connecticut Burn Center’s Phoenix SOAR Program. Today, she helps host monthly support groups, coordinates certified peer support visits, and recruits new peer supporters. Kailin is proud to help build a safe, supportive community for burn survivors in Connecticut.

Links 
Learn more about Phoenix SOAR: https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar 
Contact Sara Byrne, our Community Specialist for Phoenix SOAR at SByrne@phoenix-society.org
Join our Phoenix SOAR Coordinator Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/135603113920080/ 
Join our Phoenix SOAR Peer Supporter Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/PhoenixSOARPeerSupporter 
 
Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by the Board of Certification for Emergency Nursing (BCEN)! BCEN is committed to advancing burn care through the Certified Burn Registered Nurse, or CBRN, credential — a certification designed to recognize specialized knowledge and expertise across the burn care continuum. 

Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

A Burn Nurse’s Mission to Build Connection with Kailin Kyle

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In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with Abby Horton, MS, CCLS, a Certified Child Life Specialist with over a decade of experience supporting children and families through burn injuries and medical trauma. Abby&#39;s work spans pediatric burn care, inpatient rehabilitation, and critical care, and she brings that depth of experience to a conversation about one of the challenges families navigating a burn injury often face: how to prepare children for a visit to the burn center. 🏥Drawing on her recent article in Journey Magazine, &#34;Preparing Siblings and Children of Burn Survivors for a Burn Center Visit,&#34; Abby walks through why giving children a sense of choice and control matters so much, how caregivers can tell whether a child is ready to visit, and age-appropriate ways to talk about burn injuries and hospitalization. 🗣️ She also speaks candidly about the sibling experience—the fear, confusion, and guilt that can surface—along with the behavioral changes caregivers might see at home, from regression to withdrawal, and how to respond with patience rather than panic.Whether you&#39;re a parent, a sibling, or someone who simply wants to better support a family going through this, Abby offers grounded, compassionate guidance for helping the youngest members of a burn survivor&#39;s circle feel seen, prepared, and cared for. ❤️#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Abby Horton, MS, CCLS, is a Certified Child Life Specialist with over a decade of experience supporting children and families impacted by burn injuries and medical trauma. Her work spans pediatric burn care, inpatient rehabilitation, and critical care, with a focus on trauma-informed, developmentally appropriate support, school re-entry, and family-centered programming. She continues to work in both hospital and community settings, including private practice, extending burn-informed care beyond the hospital. <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Read Abby’s article “Preparing Siblings and Children of Burn Survivors for a Burn Center Visit: A Child Life Perspective:” <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/preparing-siblings-and-children-of-burn-survivors-for-a-burn-center-visit" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/preparing-siblings-and-children-of-burn-survivors-for-a-burn-center-visit</a></li><li>Learn more and read Sara’s STEPS: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/what-we-do/saras-steps" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/what-we-do/saras-steps</a></li><li>Read “Supporting Siblings of Children with Burn Injuries:” <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/supporting-siblings-of-children-with-burn-injuries" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/supporting-siblings-of-children-with-burn-injuries</a> </li><li>Read “More Than Just Camp: How Pediatric Burn Camps Foster Healing, Belonging, and Growth:” <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/more-than-just-camp-how-pediatric-burn-camps-foster-healing-belonging-and-growth" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/more-than-just-camp-how-pediatric-burn-camps-foster-healing-belonging-and-growth</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by the Pritzker Hageman Law Firm! The Pritzker Hageman burn injury legal team helps burn survivors and their loved ones pursue compensation and justice throughout the United States. Learn more at: LegalJourney.guide.Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with Abby Horton, MS, CCLS, a Certified Child Life Specialist with over a decade of experience supporting children and families through burn injuries and medical trauma. Abby&#39;s work spans pediatric burn care, inpatient rehabilitation, and critical care, and she brings that depth of experience to a conversation about one of the challenges families navigating a burn injury often face: how to prepare children for a visit to the burn center. 🏥

Drawing on her recent article in Journey Magazine, &#34;Preparing Siblings and Children of Burn Survivors for a Burn Center Visit,&#34; Abby walks through why giving children a sense of choice and control matters so much, how caregivers can tell whether a child is ready to visit, and age-appropriate ways to talk about burn injuries and hospitalization. 🗣️ She also speaks candidly about the sibling experience—the fear, confusion, and guilt that can surface—along with the behavioral changes caregivers might see at home, from regression to withdrawal, and how to respond with patience rather than panic.

Whether you&#39;re a parent, a sibling, or someone who simply wants to better support a family going through this, Abby offers grounded, compassionate guidance for helping the youngest members of a burn survivor&#39;s circle feel seen, prepared, and cared for. ❤️

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  
 
Meet Our Guest 
Abby Horton, MS, CCLS, is a Certified Child Life Specialist with over a decade of experience supporting children and families impacted by burn injuries and medical trauma. Her work spans pediatric burn care, inpatient rehabilitation, and critical care, with a focus on trauma-informed, developmentally appropriate support, school re-entry, and family-centered programming. She continues to work in both hospital and community settings, including private practice, extending burn-informed care beyond the hospital.
 
Links 
Read Abby’s article “Preparing Siblings and Children of Burn Survivors for a Burn Center Visit: A Child Life Perspective:” https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/preparing-siblings-and-children-of-burn-survivors-for-a-burn-center-visit
Learn more and read Sara’s STEPS: https://www.phoenix-society.org/what-we-do/saras-steps
Read “Supporting Siblings of Children with Burn Injuries:” https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/supporting-siblings-of-children-with-burn-injuries 
Read “More Than Just Camp: How Pediatric Burn Camps Foster Healing, Belonging, and Growth:” https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/more-than-just-camp-how-pediatric-burn-camps-foster-healing-belonging-and-growth 

Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by the Pritzker Hageman Law Firm! The Pritzker Hageman burn injury legal team helps burn survivors and their loved ones pursue compensation and justice throughout the United States. Learn more at: LegalJourney.guide.

Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Choice, Comfort, and Courage: Helping Children Visit a Loved One in the Burn Center

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When Damon Spring joined his local volunteer fire department, he was answering a call to serve his community. 🚒 During his rookie year, that calling changed his life forever. On August 18, 2018, Damon was caught in a wildfire burnover sparked by a helicopter crash, an event that would come to be known as the Sheep Creek Fire.In this episode, Rachel sits down with Damon to talk about what drew him to firefighting, the day everything changed, and the long road of physical and emotional recovery that followed. Damon opens up about the hardest stretch of his journey—years two through five post-injury—and the support that carried him through it.Now eight years into his firefighting career and a Phoenix SOAR Peer Supporter, Damon is turning his experience into hope for others. ❤️ He recently launched Scar Warriors, a social media community where he shares his story and offers encouragement to fellow survivors and anyone struggling with their mental health.#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories🔗 Looking for links? Check out our show’s description on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Damon Spring is 29 years old and has been a volunteer firefighter for 8 years. During his rookie year, he was involved in a wildfire burnover sparked by a helicopter crash on August 18th, 2018, later known as the Sheep Creek Fire. Damon became a peer supporter for Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors because he wanted to help other survivors — something he hopes to continue growing in. He recently started a social media page called &#34;Scar Warriors&#34; as a way to share his story, help others, and offer a little hope to fellow survivors or anyone who&#39;s struggling mentally. <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Learn more about Phoenix SOAR (Survivors Offering Assistance in Recovery): <a href="https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar" rel="nofollow">https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar</a></li><li>Follow Scar Warriors on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scarwarriors/ </li><li>Join Phoenix Society’s next Virtual Support Group: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/what-we-do/virtual-support-group" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/what-we-do/virtual-support-group</a> </li><li>Request a one-on-one peer support visit: <a href="https://resources.phoenix-society.org/peer-support-request" rel="nofollow">https://resources.phoenix-society.org/peer-support-request</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today&#39;s podcast is powered by Summit Fire Consulting, a national fire protection engineering and code consulting firm helping people design and maintain complex buildings. Their experts interpret fire and building codes, design suppression and smoke management systems, and ensure safe egress in everything from healthcare facilities and historic buildings to stadiums and multi-family housing.Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

When Damon Spring joined his local volunteer fire department, he was answering a call to serve his community. 🚒 During his rookie year, that calling changed his life forever. On August 18, 2018, Damon was caught in a wildfire burnover sparked by a helicopter crash, an event that would come to be known as the Sheep Creek Fire.

In this episode, Rachel sits down with Damon to talk about what drew him to firefighting, the day everything changed, and the long road of physical and emotional recovery that followed. Damon opens up about the hardest stretch of his journey—years two through five post-injury—and the support that carried him through it.

Now eight years into his firefighting career and a Phoenix SOAR Peer Supporter, Damon is turning his experience into hope for others. ❤️ He recently launched Scar Warriors, a social media community where he shares his story and offers encouragement to fellow survivors and anyone struggling with their mental health.

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  
 
Meet Our Guest 
Damon Spring is 29 years old and has been a volunteer firefighter for 8 years. During his rookie year, he was involved in a wildfire burnover sparked by a helicopter crash on August 18th, 2018, later known as the Sheep Creek Fire. Damon became a peer supporter for Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors because he wanted to help other survivors — something he hopes to continue growing in. He recently started a social media page called &#34;Scar Warriors&#34; as a way to share his story, help others, and offer a little hope to fellow survivors or anyone who&#39;s struggling mentally.
 
Links 
Learn more about Phoenix SOAR (Survivors Offering Assistance in Recovery): https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar
Follow Scar Warriors on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scarwarriors/
Join Phoenix Society’s next Virtual Support Group: https://www.phoenix-society.org/what-we-do/virtual-support-group 
Request a one-on-one peer support visit: https://resources.phoenix-society.org/peer-support-request 

Podcast Sponsor 
Today&#39;s podcast is powered by Summit Fire Consulting, a national fire protection engineering and code consulting firm helping people design and maintain complex buildings. Their experts interpret fire and building codes, design suppression and smoke management systems, and ensure safe egress in everything from healthcare facilities and historic buildings to stadiums and multi-family housing.
 
Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Answering the Call: Damon Spring on Firefighting, Recovery, and Giving Back

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Heat hits differently when you&#39;re a burn survivor—and this week, we&#39;re getting into the science behind why. ☀️Rachel and Amber sit down with Dr. Craig Crandall, Professor of Internal Medicine at UT Southwestern Medical Center and Director of the Thermal and Vascular Physiology Laboratory at Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Dallas. For over 20 years, Dr. Crandall has been continuously funded by the NIH to study the long-term thermoregulatory and cardiovascular effects of severe burn injuries and he brings all of that expertise to the table in this conversation.We dig into how Dr. Crandall first found his way into burn research, what actually happens in a survivor&#39;s body during heat stress, and why heat tolerance looks so different after a burn injury. From there, we walk through the Burn Survivor Heat Risk Calculator—breaking down what each input means (think TBSA, burn location, body weight, activity level, and more) and why it matters for your safety. We also cover cooling strategies, why your heart rate might spike in the heat, and the critical role hydration plays in regulating your body temperature. 🏃We highly recommend watching this one on YouTube for the full experience!  #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Craig Crandall is a professor of Internal medicine at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center and is the director of the Thermal and Vascular Physiology laboratory at Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Dallas. For over 20 years he has been continuously funded by the NIH to assess the long-term thermoregulatory and cardiovascular consequences of severe burn injuries.   <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Access the Heat Rick Calculator: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/burn-survivor-heat-risk-calculator" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/burn-survivor-heat-risk-calculator</a> </li><li>Visit the Thermal &amp; Vascular Physiology Laboratory website: <a href="https://www.texashealth.org/ieem/Research/Thermal-and-Vascular-Physiology-Laboratory" rel="nofollow">https://www.texashealth.org/ieem/Research/Thermal-and-Vascular-Physiology-Laboratory</a> </li><li>Contact Craig &amp; his team: <a href="mailto:ieemthermoregulationthd@texashealth.org" rel="nofollow">ieemthermoregulationthd@texashealth.org</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by the Board of Certification for Emergency Nursing (BCEN)! BCEN is committed to advancing burn care through the Certified Burn Registered Nurse, or CBRN, credential — a certification designed to recognize specialized knowledge and expertise across the burn care continuum. Learn more by visiting https://bcen.org.Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Heat hits differently when you&#39;re a burn survivor—and this week, we&#39;re getting into the science behind why. ☀️


Rachel and Amber sit down with Dr. Craig Crandall, Professor of Internal Medicine at UT Southwestern Medical Center and Director of the Thermal and Vascular Physiology Laboratory at Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Dallas. For over 20 years, Dr. Crandall has been continuously funded by the NIH to study the long-term thermoregulatory and cardiovascular effects of severe burn injuries and he brings all of that expertise to the table in this conversation.

We dig into how Dr. Crandall first found his way into burn research, what actually happens in a survivor&#39;s body during heat stress, and why heat tolerance looks so different after a burn injury. From there, we walk through the Burn Survivor Heat Risk Calculator—breaking down what each input means (think TBSA, burn location, body weight, activity level, and more) and why it matters for your safety. We also cover cooling strategies, why your heart rate might spike in the heat, and the critical role hydration plays in regulating your body temperature. 🏃

We highly recommend watching this one on YouTube for the full experience!  

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  
 
Meet Our Guest 
Craig Crandall is a professor of Internal medicine at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center and is the director of the Thermal and Vascular Physiology laboratory at Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital Dallas.  For over 20 years he has been continuously funded by the NIH to assess the long-term thermoregulatory and cardiovascular consequences of severe burn injuries.  

Links 
Access the Heat Rick Calculator: https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/burn-survivor-heat-risk-calculator 
Visit the Thermal &amp; Vascular Physiology Laboratory website: https://www.texashealth.org/ieem/Research/Thermal-and-Vascular-Physiology-Laboratory 
Contact Craig &amp; his team: ieemthermoregulationthd@texashealth.org 
 
Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by the Board of Certification for Emergency Nursing (BCEN)! BCEN is committed to advancing burn care through the Certified Burn Registered Nurse, or CBRN, credential — a certification designed to recognize specialized knowledge and expertise across the burn care continuum. Learn more by visiting https://bcen.org.
 
Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

The Science of Staying Cool: Dr. Craig Crandall and the Burn Survivor Heat Risk Calculator

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In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with Dr. Charles McKenzie and his son, Scott, to talk about burn recovery, family support, and the lasting impact of community.❤️Scott was just 10 years old when he survived a fuel tank explosion that left him with severe burns and a long recovery, including six weeks at the Arizona Burn Center. Now a 17-year-old high school senior, rugby player, and outdoor adventurer, Scott reflects on his injury, returning to school, and the incredible support he received from family, friends, and his community—including a memorable school drop-off in a Ferrari from fellow local survivor Jason! 🚗Charlie talks about his experience as both a parent and a pediatric dentist. He also discusses how Scott’s recovery inspired him to help develop specialized oral appliances to better support patients with facial burns.Together, Scott and Charlie share advice for parents and caregivers, what it means to give back, and how the burn community continues to show resilience, connection, and the power of living full lives after injury. ✨To learn more about Charlie’s work with specialized oral appliances for facial burns, visit Kenzie Therapy at kenzietherapy.com #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guests </h2>Dr. Charles McKenzie is a pediatric dentist at Valleywise Health, home of the Arizona Burn Center—and he’s joining us today alongside his son, Scott. Scott is a 17-year-old high school senior, outdoor adventurer, rugby player, and all-around fixer who’s known for his kindness and inclusivity. When he was just 10 years old, Scott survived a fuel tank explosion that left him with severe burns and a long recovery, including six weeks in the burn center. That life-changing experience shaped both of their paths. While Scott grew into the resilient, community-minded teen he is today, Dr. McKenzie combined his experience as a father and a dentist to help develop specialized oral appliances to better support patients with facial burns—work he now continues as part of the hospital burn care team. <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by Cunningham Law Firm! Located in Phoenix, Arizona and helping clients nationwide, the Cunningham Law Firm specializes in personal injury, wrongful death and burn related cases. Learn more by visiting https://cunninghamlawfirm.com.  Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel sits down with Dr. Charles McKenzie and his son, Scott, to talk about burn recovery, family support, and the lasting impact of community.❤️

Scott was just 10 years old when he survived a fuel tank explosion that left him with severe burns and a long recovery, including six weeks at the Arizona Burn Center. Now a 17-year-old high school senior, rugby player, and outdoor adventurer, Scott reflects on his injury, returning to school, and the incredible support he received from family, friends, and his community—including a memorable school drop-off in a Ferrari from fellow local survivor Jason! 🚗

Charlie talks about his experience as both a parent and a pediatric dentist. He also discusses how Scott’s recovery inspired him to help develop specialized oral appliances to better support patients with facial burns.

Together, Scott and Charlie share advice for parents and caregivers, what it means to give back, and how the burn community continues to show resilience, connection, and the power of living full lives after injury. ✨

To learn more about Charlie’s work with specialized oral appliances for facial burns, visit Kenzie Therapy at kenzietherapy.com

 #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  

Meet Our Guests 
Dr. Charles McKenzie is a pediatric dentist at Valleywise Health, home of the Arizona Burn Center—and he’s joining us today alongside his son, Scott. Scott is a 17-year-old high school senior, outdoor adventurer, rugby player, and all-around fixer who’s known for his kindness and inclusivity. When he was just 10 years old, Scott survived a fuel tank explosion that left him with severe burns and a long recovery, including six weeks in the burn center. That life-changing experience shaped both of their paths. While Scott grew into the resilient, community-minded teen he is today, Dr. McKenzie combined his experience as a father and a dentist to help develop specialized oral appliances to better support patients with facial burns—work he now continues as part of the hospital burn care team.

Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by Cunningham Law Firm! Located in Phoenix, Arizona and helping clients nationwide, the Cunningham Law Firm specializes in personal injury, wrongful death and burn related cases. Learn more by visiting https://cunninghamlawfirm.com.  

Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

A Son and Father’s Story of Resilience, Recovery, and Life After a Burn Injury

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This week on Girls with Grafts, Rachel and Amber welcome Phyllida Swift, CEO of Face Equality International, for a special episode celebrating Face Equality Week. 💛Phyllida shares her journey to becoming a global advocate for face equality and why this work is deeply personal and meaningful to her. Together, they explore what face equality really means—and why it matters for burn survivors and anyone living with a visible difference.The conversation dives into this year’s Face Equality Week theme, hospitality, and what it looks like to create spaces where everyone feels truly welcomed, respected, and included, whether in restaurants, workplaces, or daily life. Phyllida also shares cultural views on facial differences from around the world and recent global wins that are changing perceptions and making a difference. 🌎This episode reminds us that everyone deserves to feel seen, valued, and included just as they are! #SeenAndServed #FaceEqualityWeek #FEW #IFEW #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Phyllida Swift is an appearance activist and the CEO of Face Equality International, an NGO campaigning to end the discrimination and indignity experienced by the global facial difference community. After sustaining facial scars in a car accident in 2016, she set out to reshape the negative narratives that dictate the public perception of scars and disfigurements. Her TEDX explores the harms caused by disproportionately poor media representation of facial difference via villains and vulnerable people on screen.  <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Get involved and learn more about Face Equality Week: <a href="https://faceequalityinternational.org/about-fei/international-face-equality-week/" rel="nofollow">https://faceequalityinternational.org/about-fei/international-face-equality-week/</a></li><li>Visit Face Equality International’s website: <a href="https://faceequalityinternational.org/" rel="nofollow">https://faceequalityinternational.org/</a></li><li>Learn more about face equality: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/what-is-face-equality" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/what-is-face-equality</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by Kerecis! From a small town in northwest Iceland, Kerecis develops, manufactures, and sells patented fish-skin soft tissue regeneration products. Kerecis GraftGuide is their intact fish-skin especially developed for the management of burn wounds. Learn more about Kerecis by checking out their website www.kerecis.com or reach out to info@kerecis.com if you are interested in using their products.Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

This week on Girls with Grafts, Rachel and Amber welcome Phyllida Swift, CEO of Face Equality International, for a special episode celebrating Face Equality Week. 💛

Phyllida shares her journey to becoming a global advocate for face equality and why this work is deeply personal and meaningful to her. Together, they explore what face equality really means—and why it matters for burn survivors and anyone living with a visible difference.

The conversation dives into this year’s Face Equality Week theme, hospitality, and what it looks like to create spaces where everyone feels truly welcomed, respected, and included, whether in restaurants, workplaces, or daily life. Phyllida also shares cultural views on facial differences from around the world and recent global wins that are changing perceptions and making a difference. 🌎

This episode reminds us that everyone deserves to feel seen, valued, and included just as they are! 

#SeenAndServed #FaceEqualityWeek #FEW #IFEW #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  
 
Meet Our Guest 
Phyllida Swift is an appearance activist and the CEO of Face Equality International, an NGO campaigning to end the discrimination and indignity experienced by the global facial difference community. After sustaining facial scars in a car accident in 2016, she set out to reshape the negative narratives that dictate the public perception of scars and disfigurements. Her TEDX explores the harms caused by disproportionately poor media representation of facial difference via villains and vulnerable people on screen. 
 
Links 
Get involved and learn more about Face Equality Week: https://faceequalityinternational.org/about-fei/international-face-equality-week/
Visit Face Equality International’s website: https://faceequalityinternational.org/
Learn more about face equality: https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/what-is-face-equality 
 
Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by Kerecis! From a small town in northwest Iceland, Kerecis develops, manufactures, and sells patented fish-skin soft tissue regeneration products. Kerecis GraftGuide is their intact fish-skin especially developed for the management of burn wounds. Learn more about Kerecis by checking out their website www.kerecis.com or reach out to info@kerecis.com if you are interested in using their products.

Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

You Are Uniquely You: Celebrating Face Equality Week with Phyllida Swift

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In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel talks with Ariadna Bernal about her journey after a gas explosion left her with burns over 90% of her body. Ariadna describes her early days, starting with treatment in Mexico and then continuing her care at Shriners Hospitals for Children in California. She also shares how important her mom was, always staying by her side through everything. ❤️Together, they explore the emotional and mental side of recovery, including the moment Ariadna first connected with another burn survivor and realized she wasn’t alone. That connection became a turning point, inspiring her to give back through peer support. Ariadna explains how community, empathy, and shared experiences helped her heal in ways that medical care alone could not.Now a dedicated Phoenix SOAR Peer Supporter, Ariadna is actively involved in the Spanish Phoenix SOAR program, helping expand access and connection for Spanish-speaking survivors and families. She is also studying Psychology, hoping to work in a clinical setting, ideally at Shriners, to support children and teens after burn injuries. Her story shows how connection can turn pain into purpose. 🌟 #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>A few years ago, Ariadna Bernal life changed completely after an explosion in her home caused by a gas buildup, which left her with severe burns over 90% of her body. It was a long and painful journey, but the unconditional support of her family and access to psychological care were key in helping her heal both physically and emotionally.Over time, she discovered the power of community by connecting with other burn survivors. Through a social worker at the hospital, she was introduced to this support network and given the opportunity to become a peer supporter. Since then, she has been actively involved, offering support through empathy and lived experience while accompanying others on their path to recovery.Ariadna is passionate about reading, music, painting on canvas, and spending time with family and friends. She is currently pursuing a degree in Psychology, with the goal of specializing in the clinical field. Her biggest dream is to one day work at Shriners Hospital for Children, where she is also a patient, so she can support children and teenagers who, like her, have faced the impact of burn injuries. <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Learn more about Phoenix SOAR: <a href="https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar" rel="nofollow">https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar</a></li><li>Explore Phoenix Society’s Spanish resources: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/spanish" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/spanish</a> </li><li>Read “Ariadna&#39;s Path from Pain to Purpose:” <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/ariadnas-path-from-pain-to-purpose" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/ariadnas-path-from-pain-to-purpose</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by the National Fire Protection Association! NFPA is a nonprofit that seeks to save lives and reduce loss with information, knowledge, &amp; passion. Learn more about fire safety and explore their educational resources by visiting www.nfpa.org.Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel talks with Ariadna Bernal about her journey after a gas explosion left her with burns over 90% of her body. Ariadna describes her early days, starting with treatment in Mexico and then continuing her care at Shriners Hospitals for Children in California. She also shares how important her mom was, always staying by her side through everything. ❤️

Together, they explore the emotional and mental side of recovery, including the moment Ariadna first connected with another burn survivor and realized she wasn’t alone. That connection became a turning point, inspiring her to give back through peer support. Ariadna explains how community, empathy, and shared experiences helped her heal in ways that medical care alone could not.

Now a dedicated Phoenix SOAR Peer Supporter, Ariadna is actively involved in the Spanish Phoenix SOAR program, helping expand access and connection for Spanish-speaking survivors and families. She is also studying Psychology, hoping to work in a clinical setting, ideally at Shriners, to support children and teens after burn injuries. Her story shows how connection can turn pain into purpose. 🌟 

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  
 
Meet Our Guest 
A few years ago, Ariadna Bernal life changed completely after an explosion in her home caused by a gas buildup, which left her with severe burns over 90% of her body. It was a long and painful journey, but the unconditional support of her family and access to psychological care were key in helping her heal both physically and emotionally.

Over time, she discovered the power of community by connecting with other burn survivors. Through a social worker at the hospital, she was introduced to this support network and given the opportunity to become a peer supporter. Since then, she has been actively involved, offering support through empathy and lived experience while accompanying others on their path to recovery.

Ariadna is passionate about reading, music, painting on canvas, and spending time with family and friends. She is currently pursuing a degree in Psychology, with the goal of specializing in the clinical field. Her biggest dream is to one day work at Shriners Hospital for Children, where she is also a patient, so she can support children and teenagers who, like her, have faced the impact of burn injuries.
 
Links 
Learn more about Phoenix SOAR: https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar
Explore Phoenix Society’s Spanish resources: https://www.phoenix-society.org/spanish 
Read “Ariadna&#39;s Path from Pain to Purpose:” https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/ariadnas-path-from-pain-to-purpose 
 
Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by the National Fire Protection Association! NFPA is a nonprofit that seeks to save lives and reduce loss with information, knowledge, &amp; passion. Learn more about fire safety and explore their educational resources by visiting www.nfpa.org.
 
Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Finding Strength in Connection: Ariadna’s Journey from Survivor to Supporter

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This week on Girls with Grafts, Rachel talks with burn survivor Kelsay Parrott about healing that goes beyond the physical and finding purpose in pain. 🩷Kelsay shares her story of being burned at four years old and how, for many years, she focused on physical recovery without fully addressing the mental and emotional effects of her injury. She explains what it was like to finally start deeper healing and how it changed her life.The conversation shows the power of connection, from the community she found at burn camp to the time she secretly signed herself and her mom up for Phoenix World Burn Congress. That choice became a turning point, giving her a sense of belonging, support, and a place where she felt understood.Kelsay also explains how her experiences led her to earn a Master’s degree in Christian Ministry focused on trauma and disability. Now, she uses her story to support others in recovery. She believes that even the most painful experiences can lead to purpose. ✨ #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Kelsay Parrott is a burn survivor whose story began at the age of four when she was severely burned in a candle accident and given less than a 5% chance of survival. After enduring the physical trauma of her injuries, she later faced the unseen battle of the mental and emotional aftermath.Through finally receiving the support and care she needed, Kelsay began a journey of healing that transformed her pain into purpose. Today, she strives to be a beacon of hope for others walking through trauma and recovery.Kelsay holds a Master of Arts in Christian Ministry with a focus on trauma and disability. She regularly writes on her blog, *Healing a Burned Soul*, where she shares encouragement, faith, and insights for those navigating the complexities of trauma. She is also currently working toward launching a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing care and support for trauma survivors, caregivers, first responders, and others impacted by trauma. Kelsay&#39;s life motto is &#34;if my pain can change one person&#39;s life, it was all worth it.&#34; <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Read Kelsay’s blog: <a href="https://www.healingburnedsoul.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.healingburnedsoul.com/</a> </li><li>Learn more about Phoenix World Burn Congress: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc</a> </li><li>Join our Facebook group for burn survivors and loved ones: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/phoenixsocietypeersupport" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/groups/phoenixsocietypeersupport</a> </li><li>Find a burn camp near you: <a href="https://iaburncamps.org/" rel="nofollow">https://iaburncamps.org/</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by Buses by the Beach! Buses by the Beach is a community of VW bus enthusiasts based in West Michigan. They come together to camp, host amazing events, and raise funds to support Phoenix Society. And mark your calendars for the 2026 Bus Benefit, happening May 22nd-25th in Trufant, Michigan. Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

This week on Girls with Grafts, Rachel talks with burn survivor Kelsay Parrott about healing that goes beyond the physical and finding purpose in pain. 🩷

Kelsay shares her story of being burned at four years old and how, for many years, she focused on physical recovery without fully addressing the mental and emotional effects of her injury. She explains what it was like to finally start deeper healing and how it changed her life.

The conversation shows the power of connection, from the community she found at burn camp to the time she secretly signed herself and her mom up for Phoenix World Burn Congress. That choice became a turning point, giving her a sense of belonging, support, and a place where she felt understood.

Kelsay also explains how her experiences led her to earn a Master’s degree in Christian Ministry focused on trauma and disability. Now, she uses her story to support others in recovery. She believes that even the most painful experiences can lead to purpose. ✨ 

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  
 
Meet Our Guest 
Kelsay Parrott is a burn survivor whose story began at the age of four when she was severely burned in a candle accident and given less than a 5% chance of survival. After enduring the physical trauma of her injuries, she later faced the unseen battle of the mental and emotional aftermath.

Through finally receiving the support and care she needed, Kelsay began a journey of healing that transformed her pain into purpose. Today, she strives to be a beacon of hope for others walking through trauma and recovery.

Kelsay holds a Master of Arts in Christian Ministry with a focus on trauma and disability. She regularly writes on her blog, *Healing a Burned Soul*, where she shares encouragement, faith, and insights for those navigating the complexities of trauma. She is also currently working toward launching a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing care and support for trauma survivors, caregivers, first responders, and others impacted by trauma. Kelsay&#39;s life motto is &#34;if my pain can change one person&#39;s life, it was all worth it.&#34;

Links 
Read Kelsay’s blog: https://www.healingburnedsoul.com/ 
Learn more about Phoenix World Burn Congress: https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc 
Join our Facebook group for burn survivors and loved ones: https://www.facebook.com/groups/phoenixsocietypeersupport 
Find a burn camp near you: https://iaburncamps.org/ 
 
Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by Buses by the Beach! Buses by the Beach is a community of VW bus enthusiasts based in West Michigan. They come together to camp, host amazing events, and raise funds to support Phoenix Society. And mark your calendars for the 2026 Bus Benefit, happening May 22nd-25th in Trufant, Michigan. 
 
Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Your Injury Doesn’t Define You—It Can Be a Catalyst for Change with Kelsay Parrott

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In this special National Volunteer Week episode of Girls with Grafts, we welcome Madeleine Carson, Director of Programs at Burns Recovered and our Volunteer of the Month. We talk about the power of community, connection, and supporting others. 🤝 Madeleine shares how she became involved in the burn survivor community—including a full-circle moment where Amber, who works at United Rentals, became part of a meaningful connection: United Rentals reached out to Madeleine at Burns Recovered to support a survivor, Amber was looped into the conversation, and together they helped move the project forward. It’s a fun, unexpected example of how small connections within our community can come together to make a real impact.Rachel and Madeleine also talk about the many programs Burns Recovered offers, including pediatric burn camps, adult retreats, and family events. They also talk about Madeleine’s role as Board President of the International Association of Burn Camps (IABC) and how working together across the burn community helps more people access these important experiences. 🏕️ The heart of this episode is the special feeling of burn camp. These camps help people form lifelong friendships, build confidence, and remind survivors they are not alone. Whether you are a volunteer, a survivor, or someone interested in helping, this conversation shows how powerful it is to show up, support others, and be part of something bigger. 💛#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Madeleine Carson is originally from Maryland but has called St. Louis, Missouri her home for the past 16 years. She is a clinically trained social worker and has been serving as the director of programs with Burns Recovered since 2019. Madeleine was drawn to the burn survivor community after learning about the existence of burn camps for pediatric burn survivors.  Madeleine is a camp kid at heart, having attended and then worked at the same day camp in suburban Maryland for 14 consecutive summers.Madeleine is not a burn survivor herself, but she understands the healing power of being part of a community of people with shared lived experience. Since joining Burns Recovered in 2019, she has made it her mission to create open and compassionate spaces for burn survivors of all ages to gather and support one another such as a week-long pediatric burn camp, weekend-long retreats for adult burn survivors and young-adult burn survivors and a weekend-long family camp.In her free time, Madeleine serves as the Board President of the International Association of Burn Camps (IABC). Madeleine enjoys baking bread, reading, and lounging on the couch with her old dogs, Enzo and Tesla. She is so excited to watch World Cup Soccer this summer and to attend a game in Kansas City for her 40th birthday!  <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Get in contact with Madeline Carson at: <a href="https://brsg.org/contact-us/" rel="nofollow">https://brsg.org/contact-us/</a> </li><li>Learn more about Burns Recovered: <a href="https://brsg.org/" rel="nofollow">https://brsg.org/</a> </li><li>Learn more about their upcoming “Adult LIFE Retreat:” <a href="https://brsg.org/events/adult-retreat/" rel="nofollow">https://brsg.org/events/adult-retreat/</a> </li><li>Learn more about the IABC: <a href="https://iaburncamps.org/" rel="nofollow">https://iaburncamps.org/</a> </li><li>Explore the IABC’s directory: <a href="https://iaburncamps.org/camp-directory/" rel="nofollow">https://iaburncamps.org/camp-directory/</a> </li><li>Get involved with Phoenix Society: <a href="https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-volunteer-week" rel="nofollow">https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-volunteer-week</a>   </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by Jensen Hughes! Since 1939, Jensen Hughes has been a global leader in fire protection engineering and safety solutions. Jensen Hughes combines expert knowledge, innovative strategies, and groundbreaking research to help clients protect lives, property, and reputations—making the world a safer, more resilient place.Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

In this special National Volunteer Week episode of Girls with Grafts, we welcome Madeleine Carson, Director of Programs at Burns Recovered and our Volunteer of the Month. We talk about the power of community, connection, and supporting others. 🤝 Madeleine shares how she became involved in the burn survivor community—including a full-circle moment where Amber, who works at United Rentals, became part of a meaningful connection: United Rentals reached out to Madeleine at Burns Recovered to support a survivor, Amber was looped into the conversation, and together they helped move the project forward. It’s a fun, unexpected example of how small connections within our community can come together to make a real impact.

Rachel and Madeleine also talk about the many programs Burns Recovered offers, including pediatric burn camps, adult retreats, and family events. They also talk about Madeleine’s role as Board President of the International Association of Burn Camps (IABC) and how working together across the burn community helps more people access these important experiences. 🏕️ The heart of this episode is the special feeling of burn camp. These camps help people form lifelong friendships, build confidence, and remind survivors they are not alone. 

Whether you are a volunteer, a survivor, or someone interested in helping, this conversation shows how powerful it is to show up, support others, and be part of something bigger. 💛

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  
 
Meet Our Guest 
Madeleine Carson is originally from Maryland but has called St. Louis, Missouri her home for the past 16 years. She is a clinically trained social worker and has been serving as the director of programs with Burns Recovered since 2019. Madeleine was drawn to the burn survivor community after learning about the existence of burn camps for pediatric burn survivors.  Madeleine is a camp kid at heart, having attended and then worked at the same day camp in suburban Maryland for 14 consecutive summers.

Madeleine is not a burn survivor herself, but she understands the healing power of being part of a community of people with shared lived experience. Since joining Burns Recovered in 2019, she has made it her mission to create open and compassionate spaces for burn survivors of all ages to gather and support one another such as a week-long pediatric burn camp, weekend-long retreats for adult burn survivors and young-adult burn survivors and a weekend-long family camp.

In her free time, Madeleine serves as the Board President of the International Association of Burn Camps (IABC). Madeleine enjoys baking bread, reading, and lounging on the couch with her old dogs, Enzo and Tesla. She is so excited to watch World Cup Soccer this summer and to attend a game in Kansas City for her 40th birthday! 
 
Links 
Get in contact with Madeline Carson at: https://brsg.org/contact-us/ 
Learn more about Burns Recovered: https://brsg.org/ 
Learn more about their upcoming “Adult LIFE Retreat:” https://brsg.org/events/adult-retreat/ 
Learn more about the IABC: https://iaburncamps.org/ 
Explore the IABC’s directory: https://iaburncamps.org/camp-directory/ 
Get involved with Phoenix Society: https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-volunteer-week   
 
Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by Jensen Hughes! Since 1939, Jensen Hughes has been a global leader in fire protection engineering and safety solutions. Jensen Hughes combines expert knowledge, innovative strategies, and groundbreaking research to help clients protect lives, property, and reputations—making the world a safer, more resilient place.
 
Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

The Magic of Showing Up: Volunteerism & Burn Camp with Madeleine Carson

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In this special episode, Girls with Grafts joins forces with the H.E.A.L. Changed by Fire Podcast for an important conversation about connection, healing, and the resources that help burn survivors after they leave the hospital. 🏥 Rachel, Lori, and Jen talk about how groups like Phoenix Society and Change by Fire are helping to close the gap between medical recovery and long-term healing. Their goal is to make sure survivors and their families can find support wherever they are in their journey.They talk about how peer support programs like Phoenix SOAR can make a big difference, and how digital spaces and podcasts help more people find community. Sharing survivor stories is also shown to be an important part of healing. The conversation points out that when organizations in the burn community work together, more survivors can get the support, resources, and care they need. ❤️#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guests </h2>Lori Janik is a holistic trauma therapist and mother of three who serves as Secretary and Community Outreach Director on the Board of Directors for Changed by Fire. She discovered her “why” for supporting the burn community years ago while working with burn survivors in an inpatient setting. There, she witnessed the deep emotional and social struggles survivors and families face long after physical injuries begin to heal. Lori brings clinical expertise, compassion, and advocacy to Changed by Fire. She is committed to helping survivors reconnect with their bodies, rebuild their lives, and find community. Lori is proud to lead these conversations on the H.E.A.L. Podcast, highlighting the voices of survivors, families, and burn care professionals.In 2017, Jen Severance experienced a life‑changing burn injury after collapsing while cooking at home. She spent a month in the burn unit undergoing multiple surgeries and a long, challenging recovery. Jen documented her journey through photos and explored countless healing modalities, from scar massage to physical therapy, compression garments, and cupping. Today, Jen’s life is richer because of the love and inspiration she found in the burn survivor community. As guest host of the H.E.A.L. Podcast, Jen brings empathy, courage, and authenticity to each episode, helping others feel understood and supported as they navigate life after burn injury. <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Listen to the H.E.A.L Podcast: <a href="https://www.changedbyfire.org/podcast" rel="nofollow">https://www.changedbyfire.org/podcast</a></li><li>Visit Changed by Fire’s website: <a href="https://www.changedbyfire.org/" rel="nofollow">https://www.changedbyfire.org/</a> </li><li>Learn more about Phoenix World Burn Congress: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc</a> </li><li>Explore our STEPS tools: <a href="https://resources.phoenix-society.org/getting-back-out-there-tools-for-social-empowerment" rel="nofollow">https://resources.phoenix-society.org/getting-back-out-there-tools-for-social-empowerment</a></li></ul> Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

In this special episode, Girls with Grafts joins forces with the H.E.A.L. Changed by Fire Podcast for an important conversation about connection, healing, and the resources that help burn survivors after they leave the hospital. 🏥 Rachel, Lori, and Jen talk about how groups like Phoenix Society and Change by Fire are helping to close the gap between medical recovery and long-term healing. Their goal is to make sure survivors and their families can find support wherever they are in their journey.

They talk about how peer support programs like Phoenix SOAR can make a big difference, and how digital spaces and podcasts help more people find community. Sharing survivor stories is also shown to be an important part of healing. The conversation points out that when organizations in the burn community work together, more survivors can get the support, resources, and care they need. ❤️

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  

Meet Our Guests 
Lori Janik is a holistic trauma therapist and mother of three who serves as Secretary and Community Outreach Director on the Board of Directors for Changed by Fire. She discovered her “why” for supporting the burn community years ago while working with burn survivors in an inpatient setting. There, she witnessed the deep emotional and social struggles survivors and families face long after physical injuries begin to heal. Lori brings clinical expertise, compassion, and advocacy to Changed by Fire. She is committed to helping survivors reconnect with their bodies, rebuild their lives, and find community. Lori is proud to lead these conversations on the H.E.A.L. Podcast, highlighting the voices of survivors, families, and burn care professionals.

In 2017, Jen Severance experienced a life‑changing burn injury after collapsing while cooking at home. She spent a month in the burn unit undergoing multiple surgeries and a long, challenging recovery. Jen documented her journey through photos and explored countless healing modalities, from scar massage to physical therapy, compression garments, and cupping. Today, Jen’s life is richer because of the love and inspiration she found in the burn survivor community. As guest host of the H.E.A.L. Podcast, Jen brings empathy, courage, and authenticity to each episode, helping others feel understood and supported as they navigate life after burn injury.

Links 
Listen to the H.E.A.L Podcast: https://www.changedbyfire.org/podcast
Visit Changed by Fire’s website: https://www.changedbyfire.org/ 
Learn more about Phoenix World Burn Congress: https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc 
Explore our STEPS tools: https://resources.phoenix-society.org/getting-back-out-there-tools-for-social-empowerment 
﻿
Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Connection Beyond the Hospital: A Girls with Grafts x H.E.A.L. Collaboration

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In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel talks with Chris Akin, a burn survivor, entrepreneur, and media personality. Together, they discuss resilience, determination, and how to make the most of each day.Chris tells the story of the industrial explosion that caused his burn injury and describes his early days recovering in the hospital and how his determination shaped his recovery. 💪 Rachel and Chris also chat about the mindset that helped him move forward. Chris shares that he had to be selfish during recovery, focusing on whatever he needed to heal and return to life, even after being told he had little chance of survival.They also talk about Chris’s book and his journey as a writer, including what inspired him to share his story and how the experience changed his life. Chris doesn&#39;t necessarily see the accident itself as positive, but he explains that the lessons he learned from surviving it led his life in a positive direction. 💛 #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Chris Akin is a burn survivor, author, and media personality whose life changed dramatically after a catastrophic industrial explosion in 1994 left him with burns over 69% of his body. Given little chance of survival and facing predictions of amputation and lifelong disability, Chris defied the odds and fought his way through an intense and painful recovery. In his memoir, Call Me Chris: A Tale of Healing, Recovery, Selfishness and Resolve, he shares a brutally honest account of surviving severe burns, navigating the emotional and physical realities of recovery, and rebuilding his life after trauma. Known for his candid storytelling and dark humor, Chris offers a powerful perspective on resilience, identity, and the determination it takes to move forward after a life-altering injury. <h2> </h2><h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Read “Call Me Chris: A Tale Of Healing, Recovery, Selfishness and Resolve:” <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Call-Me-Chris-Recovery-Selfishness/dp/152398838X" rel="nofollow">https://www.amazon.com/Call-Me-Chris-Recovery-Selfishness/dp/152398838X</a> </li><li>Learn more about Akin IT Services: <a href="https://www.akinitservices.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.akinitservices.com/</a>  </li><li>Learn more about Chris’s pinball arcade: <a href="https://www.pinballpa.com/" rel="nofollow">https://www.pinballpa.com/</a></li><li>Visit Chris’s substack: <a href="https://cmspn.substack.com/" rel="nofollow">https://cmspn.substack.com/</a> </li><li>Listen to “Liming Out of the Fire:” <a href="https://cmspn.substack.com/s/limping-out-of-the-fire" rel="nofollow">https://cmspn.substack.com/s/limping-out-of-the-fire</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by the Donor Alliance Foundation &amp; the Brookby Foundation! Both of these foundations play a critical role in supporting Phoenix Society and our programs. Their partnerships help us continue to create spaces for healing, connection, and advocacy—and we couldn’t do it without them! Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Selfish for Survival with Chris Akin

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This week on Girls with Grafts, Amber and Rachel sit down with Ashley Nelson for an honest conversation about identity, confidence, and dating after a burn injury.Ashley shares how she changed her mindset from seeing herself as a “burn victim” to a “burn survivor,” and how this new perspective changed how she views herself. She also talks about her dating experiences, including how she tells her story, the support she received, and the tough moments that helped her grow. ❤️Ashley also describes small acts of courage, like getting a pedicure at a nail salon while people stare, and reminding herself that her scars do not define her worth. 💅 We also talk about Love Is Blind Season 10, Emma Betsinger, and how pop culture can start important conversations about vulnerability, being seen, and handling tough topics in relationships.This episode is real, relatable, and reminds us that confidence isn’t about hiding your scars. It’s about owning your story. ✨ #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Ashley Nelson is 33 years old and sustained burns over 35% of her body at the age of 24. She currently works as a Sales Account Manager and holds a degree in Psychology. <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Find fire blankets on Amazon: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/s?crid=2LOKE71OU1MNK&k=fire+blankets&ref=nb_sb_noss_1&sprefix=fire+blanket%2Caps%2C171" rel="nofollow">https://www.amazon.com/s?k=fire+blankets&amp;crid=2LOKE71OU1MNK&amp;sprefix=fire+blanket%2Caps%2C171&amp;ref=nb_sb_noss_1</a></li><li>Learn more about Phoenix World Burn Congress: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc</a></li><li>Explore Dateability: <a href="https://info.dateabilityapp.com/" rel="nofollow">https://info.dateabilityapp.com/</a></li><li>Watch “In Sickness and In Health: A Modern Dating App for Disabilities, Introducing Dateability:” <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32N8Lzp0yno" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32N8Lzp0yno</a> </li><li>Read “Love Is Blind’s Emma Admits She ‘Felt So Isolated’ Going into the Pods Due to Her &#39;Unique Story&#39;:” <a href="https://people.com/love-is-blind-emma-admits-she-felt-so-isolated-going-into-the-pods-due-to-a-unique-story-exclusive-11908197" rel="nofollow">https://people.com/love-is-blind-emma-admits-she-felt-so-isolated-going-into-the-pods-due-to-a-unique-story-exclusive-11908197</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by Gropper &amp; Nejat, a personal injury firm dedicated to supporting burn survivors in New York and New Jersey. They understand the physical, emotional, and financial challenges that come with burn injuries and fight tirelessly to secure justice and compensation for their clients. Receive a free consultation today by visiting groppernejat.com.Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

This week on Girls with Grafts, Amber and Rachel sit down with Ashley Nelson for an honest conversation about identity, confidence, and dating after a burn injury.

Ashley shares how she changed her mindset from seeing herself as a “burn victim” to a “burn survivor,” and how this new perspective changed how she views herself. She also talks about her dating experiences, including how she tells her story, the support she received, and the tough moments that helped her grow. ❤️

Ashley also describes small acts of courage, like getting a pedicure at a nail salon while people stare, and reminding herself that her scars do not define her worth. 💅 We also talk about Love Is Blind Season 10, Emma Betsinger, and how pop culture can start important conversations about vulnerability, being seen, and handling tough topics in relationships.

This episode is real, relatable, and reminds us that confidence isn’t about hiding your scars. It’s about owning your story. ✨ 

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  

Meet Our Guest 
Ashley Nelson is 33 years old and sustained burns over 35% of her body at the age of 24. She currently works as a Sales Account Manager and holds a degree in Psychology.

Links 
Find fire blankets on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=fire+blankets&amp;crid=2LOKE71OU1MNK&amp;sprefix=fire+blanket%2Caps%2C171&amp;ref=nb_sb_noss_1
Learn more about Phoenix World Burn Congress: https://www.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-wbc
Explore Dateability: https://info.dateabilityapp.com/
Watch “In Sickness and In Health: A Modern Dating App for Disabilities, Introducing Dateability:” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32N8Lzp0yno 
Read “Love Is Blind’s Emma Admits She ‘Felt So Isolated’ Going into the Pods Due to Her &#39;Unique Story&#39;:” https://people.com/love-is-blind-emma-admits-she-felt-so-isolated-going-into-the-pods-due-to-a-unique-story-exclusive-11908197 

Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by Gropper &amp; Nejat, a personal injury firm dedicated to supporting burn survivors in New York and New Jersey. They understand the physical, emotional, and financial challenges that come with burn injuries and fight tirelessly to secure justice and compensation for their clients. Receive a free consultation today by visiting groppernejat.com.

Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Love Is Blind… But Scars Aren’t: Ashley Nelson on Dating with Hidden Burns

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In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel talks with burn surgeon and researcher Dr. Cliff Sheckter about how to give survivors better tools and information when they are thinking about reconstructive scar surgery. 🩺We discuss the Decision Aid for Reconstructive Scar Surgery, a new resource to help survivors decide if surgery is right for them. Dr. Sheckter explains why this tool was made, what questions it helps answer, and how it helps survivors think about both practical results and quality of life. ❓ We discuss why some survivors may feel let down even after a successful procedure and look at how expectations, identity, and healing are all closely linked.Rachel and Dr. Sheckter also look at the bigger picture, including gaps in research about scar outcomes, how “quality of life” is measured in burn recovery, and what future studies may focus on. This episode offers practical and encouraging advice to help you make choices that feel right for you.  #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Dr. Cliff Sheckter is the Burn Center Director at Santa Clara Valley Medical Center, which serves the San Francisco Bay Area in burn and trauma care. He is double board certified in plastic/reconstructive surgery and surgical critical care and dedicates his practice to burn patients and survivors. He completed his medical/surgical training at USC, Stanford, and the University of Washington. Dr. Sheckter is an Assistant Professor of Surgery at Stanford University and teaches medical students and residents comprehensive burn care. He is also a health policy researcher and has published multiple articles related to burn survivor quality-of-life and health economics in burn care. <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Read Dr. Sheckter “Is Scar Surgery Right for Me? A New Tool Guides Decisions Around Reconstructive Scar Surgery for Burn Survivors:” <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/is-scar-surgery-right-for-me-a-new-tool-guides-decisions-around" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/is-scar-surgery-right-for-me-a-new-tool-guides-decisions-around</a> </li><li>Explore the American Burn Association&#39;s survivor support and aftercare resources: <a href="https://www.ameriburn.org/patients/burn-survivor-support-and-aftercare-resources" rel="nofollow">https://www.ameriburn.org/patients/burn-survivor-support-and-aftercare-resources</a> </li><li>Learn more about Phoenix Society’s Virtual Support Group: <a href="https://www.phoenix-society.org/what-we-do/virtual-support-group" rel="nofollow">https://www.phoenix-society.org/what-we-do/virtual-support-group</a></li><li>Join Phoenix Society’s Facebook Group for survivors and caregivers: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/phoenixsocietypeersupport" rel="nofollow">https://www.facebook.com/groups/phoenixsocietypeersupport</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by AlloSource! AlloSource is one of the largest human tissue providers, honoring tissue donors by creating innovative skin allografts to help burn surgeons heal patients. Learn more about AlloSource and their continuing education hours by visiting their Resource Marketplace Listing directly on Phoenix Society’s website. Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

In this episode of Girls with Grafts, Rachel talks with burn surgeon and researcher Dr. Cliff Sheckter about how to give survivors better tools and information when they are thinking about reconstructive scar surgery. 🩺

We discuss the Decision Aid for Reconstructive Scar Surgery, a new resource to help survivors decide if surgery is right for them. Dr. Sheckter explains why this tool was made, what questions it helps answer, and how it helps survivors think about both practical results and quality of life. ❓ We discuss why some survivors may feel let down even after a successful procedure and look at how expectations, identity, and healing are all closely linked.

Rachel and Dr. Sheckter also look at the bigger picture, including gaps in research about scar outcomes, how “quality of life” is measured in burn recovery, and what future studies may focus on. This episode offers practical and encouraging advice to help you make choices that feel right for you.  

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  
 
Meet Our Guest 
Dr. Cliff Sheckter is the Burn Center Director at Santa Clara Valley Medical Center, which serves the San Francisco Bay Area in burn and trauma care. He is double board certified in plastic/reconstructive surgery and surgical critical care and dedicates his practice to burn patients and survivors. He completed his medical/surgical training at USC, Stanford, and the University of Washington. Dr. Sheckter is an Assistant Professor of Surgery at Stanford University and teaches medical students and residents comprehensive burn care. He is also a health policy researcher and has published multiple articles related to burn survivor quality-of-life and health economics in burn care.

Links 
Read Dr. Sheckter “Is Scar Surgery Right for Me? A New Tool Guides Decisions Around Reconstructive Scar Surgery for Burn Survivors:” https://www.phoenix-society.org/resources/is-scar-surgery-right-for-me-a-new-tool-guides-decisions-around 
Explore the American Burn Association&#39;s survivor support and aftercare resources: https://www.ameriburn.org/patients/burn-survivor-support-and-aftercare-resources 
Learn more about Phoenix Society’s Virtual Support Group: https://www.phoenix-society.org/what-we-do/virtual-support-group
Join Phoenix Society’s Facebook Group for survivors and caregivers: https://www.facebook.com/groups/phoenixsocietypeersupport 
 
Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by AlloSource! AlloSource is one of the largest human tissue providers, honoring tissue donors by creating innovative skin allografts to help burn surgeons heal patients. Learn more about AlloSource and their continuing education hours by visiting their Resource Marketplace Listing directly on Phoenix Society’s website. 
 
Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

How to Decide if Reconstructive Scar Surgery Is Right for You with Dr. Cliff Sheckter

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This week on Girls with Grafts, Rachel talks with Mikki Rothbauer, a psychotherapist who has spent over twenty years helping burn survivors and their families at Regions Hospital Burn Center.Mikki talks about what she has learned from years of supporting burn survivors, from the first days after injury to long-term healing. 💛 She leads burn support groups and coordinates a hospital-based Phoenix SOAR program. Mikki often reminds patients, “support group needs you.” In this episode, she explains why letting survivors choose to join peer support can be an important part of recovery.Rachel and Mikki discuss the emotional impacts of burn injuries, how to know when it may be time to get professional mental health help, and how resilience and confidence support healing. 💪 We also talk openly about topics that are often overlooked, like body image, sexuality, and intimacy after a burn injury, sharing both survivor and caregiver perspectives with honesty and care.  #BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!   <h2>Meet Our Guest </h2>Mikki Rothbauer, MSW, LICSW, is a pediatric and adult burn and trauma psychotherapist who has worked with burn survivors and their families in a Level 1 trauma center for more than 21 years. She is deeply passionate about supporting survivors of burn and trauma injuries and considers it a privilege to be part of each patient’s healing journey.Recognizing that burn and trauma injuries impact the entire family, Mikki works closely with patients and their support systems from the onset of injury through the months and years that follow. She emphasizes cognitive behavioral strategies to help address acute stress and PTSD symptoms, and her clinical focus also includes grief and loss, cosmetic differences, hidden burns and injuries, survivor’s guilt, and work-related injuries.Mikki enjoys working with patients of all ages and uses a collaborative, patient-centered approach to support individuals as they return to living full and meaningful lives. She facilitates burn support groups, coordinates her center’s SOAR peer support program, and has a special interest in addressing body image and sexuality concerns during recovery.In addition to her clinical work, Mikki has contributed to the field through published articles and book chapters related to trauma and burn recovery. She considers it a true honor to walk alongside patients and their loved ones as they navigate recovery after traumatic injury. <h2>Links </h2><ul><li>Learn more about Phoenix SOAR: <a href="https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar" rel="nofollow">https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar</a> </li><li>Request a peer support visit through Phoenix Society: <a href="https://resources.phoenix-society.org/peer-support-request" rel="nofollow">https://resources.phoenix-society.org/peer-support-request</a> </li><li>Read “Understanding Intimacy and Sexuality After Burn Injury:” <a href="https://phoenix-society.org/resources/understanding-intimacy-and-sexuality-after-burn-injury" rel="nofollow">https://phoenix-society.org/resources/understanding-intimacy-and-sexuality-after-burn-injury</a> </li></ul> <h2>Podcast Sponsor </h2>Today’s podcast is powered by the Bert Martin Foundation! The Bert Martin Foundation was established to assist those who help others and provide financial support for nonprofit organizations. We’re honored to have the Bert Martin Foundation as a long-standing Phoenix Society Partner.  Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

This week on Girls with Grafts, Rachel talks with Mikki Rothbauer, a psychotherapist who has spent over twenty years helping burn survivors and their families at Regions Hospital Burn Center.

Mikki talks about what she has learned from years of supporting burn survivors, from the first days after injury to long-term healing. 💛 She leads burn support groups and coordinates a hospital-based Phoenix SOAR program. Mikki often reminds patients, “support group needs you.” In this episode, she explains why letting survivors choose to join peer support can be an important part of recovery.

Rachel and Mikki discuss the emotional impacts of burn injuries, how to know when it may be time to get professional mental health help, and how resilience and confidence support healing. 💪 We also talk openly about topics that are often overlooked, like body image, sexuality, and intimacy after a burn injury, sharing both survivor and caregiver perspectives with honesty and care.  

#BurnSurvivor #GirlsWithGrafts #Podcast #SurvivorPodcast #BurnSurvivorStories

⭐️ Enjoyed the show? Tell us by leaving a 5-star review and sharing on social media using hashtag #GirlswithGrafts and tagging Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors!  
 
Meet Our Guest 
Mikki Rothbauer, MSW, LICSW, is a pediatric and adult burn and trauma psychotherapist who has worked with burn survivors and their families in a Level 1 trauma center for more than 21 years. She is deeply passionate about supporting survivors of burn and trauma injuries and considers it a privilege to be part of each patient’s healing journey.

Recognizing that burn and trauma injuries impact the entire family, Mikki works closely with patients and their support systems from the onset of injury through the months and years that follow. She emphasizes cognitive behavioral strategies to help address acute stress and PTSD symptoms, and her clinical focus also includes grief and loss, cosmetic differences, hidden burns and injuries, survivor’s guilt, and work-related injuries.

Mikki enjoys working with patients of all ages and uses a collaborative, patient-centered approach to support individuals as they return to living full and meaningful lives. She facilitates burn support groups, coordinates her center’s SOAR peer support program, and has a special interest in addressing body image and sexuality concerns during recovery.

In addition to her clinical work, Mikki has contributed to the field through published articles and book chapters related to trauma and burn recovery. She considers it a true honor to walk alongside patients and their loved ones as they navigate recovery after traumatic injury.

Links 
Learn more about Phoenix SOAR: https://resources.phoenix-society.org/phoenix-soar 
Request a peer support visit through Phoenix Society: https://resources.phoenix-society.org/peer-support-request 
Read “Understanding Intimacy and Sexuality After Burn Injury:” https://phoenix-society.org/resources/understanding-intimacy-and-sexuality-after-burn-injury 

Podcast Sponsor 
Today’s podcast is powered by the Bert Martin Foundation! The Bert Martin Foundation was established to assist those who help others and provide financial support for nonprofit organizations. We’re honored to have the Bert Martin Foundation as a long-standing Phoenix Society Partner.  

Interested in becoming a sponsor of the show? Email us at info@phoenix-society.org.

Healing Is a Journey, Not a Destination with Mikki Rothbauer: Why Support Group Needs You

A Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors Podcast

Girls with Grafts is a podcast hosted by Amber Wilcox and Rachel Kudlak, Burn Survivors, and supporters of the nonprofit, Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors. The Girls with Grafts podcast is for burn survivors, caregivers, hospital staff, and corporate partners in the burn community. Hear in-depth conversations about burn survivor stories, gain resources for managing a burn injury, hear up-to-date information about Phoenix Society for Burn Survivors community news, and listen in on burn prevention and advocacy information.