This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We&#39;ll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn&#39;t present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let&#39;s grow through it.

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From Jordans to $580K: Teaching Kids Ownership with Wall Street With WallaceOn the Dear Son Show, host Jey Blac welcomes financial analyst and chief market strategist Wallace Fisher (“Wall Street With Wallace”), a husband, father in a blended family of seven, and Christ follower, to discuss fatherhood through financial literacy. Fisher shares how his investing journey began with Home Depot’s employee stock plan and 401(k), how a spiritual advisor inspired him to give assets instead of big Christmas gifts, and how consistently buying his son stocks in companies he used helped build a portfolio that reached $580,000—leading the son to quit football due to CTE concerns and pursue portfolio management. They discuss starting early with kids, routines for learning the market, the dangers of internet “tips,” the value of mentorship and accountability, and beginner approaches like disciplined saving, ETFs, and researching fundamentals. Follow the channel, subscribe, and leave a review. 00:00 Gifts Into Stocks01:29 Show Intro And Guest03:03 Meet Wallace Fisher05:20 Family And Athletes07:50 Finance Origin Story10:00 Home Depot To 200K12:35 Christmas As Assets16:00 Quitting Football Shock19:48 Parenting Evolves Over Time24:21 Kids Learn By Watching26:32 Internet Investing Warnings29:17 Routine First Steps31:30 Daily Reading Habit33:59 Mentorship Over Ego39:07 Class Structure Accountability43:27 Starting With Small Money48:50 Portfolio Basics ETFs51:55 Research Beats Cheap Stocks55:10 Contact Info Wrap Up#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk #5starathlete #texasfootball #fridaynightlights Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Shop DSN Merch: <a href="https://thedearsonshop.store" rel="nofollow">https://thedearsonshop.store</a>Connect with Wallace: <a href="https://wswinvestors.com" rel="nofollow">https://wswinvestors.com</a>Follow James: <a href="https://instagram.com/jeyblac" rel="nofollow">https://instagram.com/jeyblac  </a> Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Love Kisha J Studios: <a href="https://houseoflkj.com" rel="nofollow">https://houseoflkj.com</a>   Let’s connect socially:  <a href="https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast" rel="nofollow">https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast</a> https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

From Jordans to $580K: Teaching Kids Ownership with Wall Street With Wallace

On the Dear Son Show, host Jey Blac welcomes financial analyst and chief market strategist Wallace Fisher (“Wall Street With Wallace”), a husband, father in a blended family of seven, and Christ follower, to discuss fatherhood through financial literacy. Fisher shares how his investing journey began with Home Depot’s employee stock plan and 401(k), how a spiritual advisor inspired him to give assets instead of big Christmas gifts, and how consistently buying his son stocks in companies he used helped build a portfolio that reached $580,000—leading the son to quit football due to CTE concerns and pursue portfolio management. They discuss starting early with kids, routines for learning the market, the dangers of internet “tips,” the value of mentorship and accountability, and beginner approaches like disciplined saving, ETFs, and researching fundamentals. Follow the channel, subscribe, and leave a review.



00:00 Gifts Into Stocks

01:29 Show Intro And Guest

03:03 Meet Wallace Fisher

05:20 Family And Athletes

07:50 Finance Origin Story

10:00 Home Depot To 200K

12:35 Christmas As Assets

16:00 Quitting Football Shock

19:48 Parenting Evolves Over Time

24:21 Kids Learn By Watching

26:32 Internet Investing Warnings

29:17 Routine First Steps

31:30 Daily Reading Habit

33:59 Mentorship Over Ego

39:07 Class Structure Accountability

43:27 Starting With Small Money

48:50 Portfolio Basics ETFs

51:55 Research Beats Cheap Stocks

55:10 Contact Info Wrap Up

#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk #5starathlete #texasfootball #fridaynightlights



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“How to Be a Better Father”

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“Mistakes Fathers Make”

“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”



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My Son Chose Money Over the NFL | Fatherhood and Finances | Ep 211 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Dear Son: Tomorrow Isn’t Promised — Condensing the Lessons, Health Wake-Ups &amp; Dating vs. Marriage Energy Hosts D Johns and Jey Blac open the Dear Son Show by reflecting on health wake-up calls, accountability, and support Jey has received while chronicling his fitness and recovery journey. They emphasize that tomorrow isn’t promised and urge parents to “condense” key conversations with their kids rather than delaying important lessons. They discuss how children can misread a parent’s communication, reinforce that love and frustration can coexist, and argue that correction shows belief in a child. The conversation shifts to relationships: distinguishing lust, love, sex, and long-term consequences, warning against applying “marriage energy” in dating, and advising sons to understand value, phases, and self-awareness. They also defend having practical talks about protection without “letting the streets” educate kids, encouraging listeners to stop leaving critical conversations to chance. 00:00 Cold Open Banter00:51 Welcome to Dear Son01:31 Health Scare Update02:58 Fitness Accountability Plan04:37 Tomorrow Isn’t Promised07:43 Condense the Lessons10:58 Love Not Performance15:54 Correction Means Belief19:25 Dating vs Marriage Energy24:19 Commitment Clocks26:20 Environment Shapes Love27:38 Fixer Fantasy Trap29:26 Value Over Hope33:16 Sex Love Decoupling35:32 Real Talk Protection38:33 Talk Before Streets42:55 Conversations Cost44:51 Final Thanks Goodbye #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonshop.store Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

Dear Son: Tomorrow Isn’t Promised — Condensing the Lessons, Health Wake-Ups &amp; Dating vs. Marriage Energy

Hosts D Johns and Jey Blac open the Dear Son Show by reflecting on health wake-up calls, accountability, and support Jey has received while chronicling his fitness and recovery journey. They emphasize that tomorrow isn’t promised and urge parents to “condense” key conversations with their kids rather than delaying important lessons. They discuss how children can misread a parent’s communication, reinforce that love and frustration can coexist, and argue that correction shows belief in a child. The conversation shifts to relationships: distinguishing lust, love, sex, and long-term consequences, warning against applying “marriage energy” in dating, and advising sons to understand value, phases, and self-awareness. They also defend having practical talks about protection without “letting the streets” educate kids, encouraging listeners to stop leaving critical conversations to chance.

00:00 Cold Open Banter
00:51 Welcome to Dear Son
01:31 Health Scare Update
02:58 Fitness Accountability Plan
04:37 Tomorrow Isn’t Promised
07:43 Condense the Lessons
10:58 Love Not Performance
15:54 Correction Means Belief
19:25 Dating vs Marriage Energy
24:19 Commitment Clocks
26:20 Environment Shapes Love
27:38 Fixer Fantasy Trap
29:26 Value Over Hope
33:16 Sex Love Decoupling
35:32 Real Talk Protection
38:33 Talk Before Streets
42:55 Conversations Cost
44:51 Final Thanks Goodbye

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
“Mistakes Fathers Make”
“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

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TELL HIM NOW | Tomorrow Isn't Promised | Ep 210 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. From Gangs to Purpose: Louie McClain II on Fatherhood, Identity, and Building Pathways On The Dear Son Show, host (D Johns) converses with Louie McClain II from Arlington, Texas, who recounts getting involved in gangs, hiding violence and drug activity from his Liberian immigrant mother, and a pivotal school incident caught on camera that devastated her. Louie explains how seeking protection, acceptance, clout, and a father figure drew him deeper into that life amid a diverse, volatile environment, while his biological father was largely absent after moving to Delaware and later kicked him out. After college in Pensacola studying criminal justice, he found purpose helping at-risk young men and worked in juvenile justice for seven years. Now a father of two, he discusses being unprepared for parenting, challenges of having hard conversations with kids, and building a clear vision through entrepreneurship, including Melanin Origins, The Meditative Coach, and leading the nonprofit Building Pathways to connect disadvantaged people to high-paying construction careers. 00:00 Caught on Camera00:22 Purpose From Pain00:57 Welcome to Dear Son01:53 Optimism and Enthusiasm02:48 Leaving Home and College03:48 Arlington and Gang Life04:47 Why Criminal Justice06:35 Drawn to the Streets08:55 Home Life and Hiding It11:32 School Fight Intervention13:25 Acceptance and Father Figures16:32 Identity as African American17:38 Biological Father Story23:15 What a Father Absence Costs25:26 Needing Dad at Any Age26:54 Custody And Ages27:29 Unprepared Fatherhood29:01 Choosing To Be Present30:24 Learning A New Blueprint32:13 What To Tell The Kids34:45 Timing Hard Conversations38:20 Work Versus Family41:30 Becoming This Version44:01 Building Melanin Origins45:05 Vision And Identity Shift50:38 Building Pathways Mission55:20 Where To Find Him56:00 Closing Thoughts #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk #DearSon #Fatherhood #JuvenileJustice #SecondChances #Mentorship #FatherSon #YouthMentoring #Redemption Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Shop DSN Merch: <a href="https://thedearsonshop.store" rel="nofollow">https://thedearsonshop.store</a> Follow Louie: <a href="https://instagram.com/meditativecoach" rel="nofollow">https://instagram.com/meditativecoach</a><a href="https://buildingpathway.org" rel="nofollow">https://buildingpathway.org </a> Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: <a href="https://thedearsonpodcast.com" rel="nofollow">https://thedearsonpodcast.com </a> Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Love Kisha J Studios: <a href="https://houseoflkj.com" rel="nofollow">https://houseoflkj.com </a> Let’s connect socially: <a href="https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast" rel="nofollow">https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast </a> https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

From Gangs to Purpose: Louie McClain II on Fatherhood, Identity, and Building Pathways

On The Dear Son Show, host (D Johns) converses with Louie McClain II from Arlington, Texas, who recounts getting involved in gangs, hiding violence and drug activity from his Liberian immigrant mother, and a pivotal school incident caught on camera that devastated her. Louie explains how seeking protection, acceptance, clout, and a father figure drew him deeper into that life amid a diverse, volatile environment, while his biological father was largely absent after moving to Delaware and later kicked him out. After college in Pensacola studying criminal justice, he found purpose helping at-risk young men and worked in juvenile justice for seven years. Now a father of two, he discusses being unprepared for parenting, challenges of having hard conversations with kids, and building a clear vision through entrepreneurship, including Melanin Origins, The Meditative Coach, and leading the nonprofit Building Pathways to connect disadvantaged people to high-paying construction careers.

00:00 Caught on Camera
00:22 Purpose From Pain
00:57 Welcome to Dear Son
01:53 Optimism and Enthusiasm
02:48 Leaving Home and College
03:48 Arlington and Gang Life
04:47 Why Criminal Justice
06:35 Drawn to the Streets
08:55 Home Life and Hiding It
11:32 School Fight Intervention
13:25 Acceptance and Father Figures
16:32 Identity as African American
17:38 Biological Father Story
23:15 What a Father Absence Costs
25:26 Needing Dad at Any Age
26:54 Custody And Ages
27:29 Unprepared Fatherhood
29:01 Choosing To Be Present
30:24 Learning A New Blueprint
32:13 What To Tell The Kids
34:45 Timing Hard Conversations
38:20 Work Versus Family
41:30 Becoming This Version
44:01 Building Melanin Origins
45:05 Vision And Identity Shift
50:38 Building Pathways Mission
55:20 Where To Find Him
56:00 Closing Thoughts

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk #DearSon #Fatherhood #JuvenileJustice #SecondChances #Mentorship #FatherSon #YouthMentoring #Redemption 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
“Mistakes Fathers Make”
“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

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From Juvenile Delinquent to Juvenile Justice Leader | Ep 209 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Dear Son: Which Side of the Process Are You On? Boundaries, Criticism &amp; Real Growth On The Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss how society treats disagreement and criticism, arguing that always “taking the high road” can enable disrespect if boundaries aren’t set and enforced. They explore “which side of the process” you’re on—waiting for outcomes versus doing the work—using an orange vs. fresh-squeezed juice analogy, and connect it to parenting, public perception, and social media clips shaping opinions. They emphasize training people how to treat you, defending your name when boundaries are breached, and teaching children awareness, environment-reading, and how behavior communicates value—especially in risky social settings. The episode closes with announcements of a docuseries and live event, and a personal doc-style segment beginning August 15, 2026, following a 90-day health journey after a dangerous blood-pressure reading and a commitment to lifestyle and nutrition changes. 00:00 Disagreeing Feels Forbidden00:59 Meet Dear Son Show01:23 Texas Heat Warmup01:49 Which Side of Process02:26 Orange Juice Mindset03:23 Critics and High Road04:50 Parenting Under Scrutiny05:53 Kids Pushback Dialogues08:32 Dishes Lesson Boundaries10:41 Clips and Misjudgment11:08 Stop Taking High Road15:36 Training Treatment Boundaries16:56 Defending Your Name18:22 Knowing Your Worth19:10 Value Shown Not Said19:38 Common Denominator Check20:23 Dump Truck Or Jewel Box22:21 Teaching Kids Awareness24:43 Environments Shape You29:00 Twenties Are Theory29:38 Consequences Lag Lesson31:33 Elders Were Right33:26 Network Updates And Events34:56 High Road And Gratitude #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonshop.store Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.



Dear Son: Which Side of the Process Are You On? Boundaries, Criticism &amp; Real Growth



On The Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss how society treats disagreement and criticism, arguing that always “taking the high road” can enable disrespect if boundaries aren’t set and enforced. They explore “which side of the process” you’re on—waiting for outcomes versus doing the work—using an orange vs. fresh-squeezed juice analogy, and connect it to parenting, public perception, and social media clips shaping opinions. They emphasize training people how to treat you, defending your name when boundaries are breached, and teaching children awareness, environment-reading, and how behavior communicates value—especially in risky social settings. The episode closes with announcements of a docuseries and live event, and a personal doc-style segment beginning August 15, 2026, following a 90-day health journey after a dangerous blood-pressure reading and a commitment to lifestyle and nutrition changes.



00:00 Disagreeing Feels Forbidden

00:59 Meet Dear Son Show

01:23 Texas Heat Warmup

01:49 Which Side of Process

02:26 Orange Juice Mindset

03:23 Critics and High Road

04:50 Parenting Under Scrutiny

05:53 Kids Pushback Dialogues

08:32 Dishes Lesson Boundaries

10:41 Clips and Misjudgment

11:08 Stop Taking High Road

15:36 Training Treatment Boundaries

16:56 Defending Your Name

18:22 Knowing Your Worth

19:10 Value Shown Not Said

19:38 Common Denominator Check

20:23 Dump Truck Or Jewel Box

22:21 Teaching Kids Awareness

24:43 Environments Shape You

29:00 Twenties Are Theory

29:38 Consequences Lag Lesson

31:33 Elders Were Right

33:26 Network Updates And Events

34:56 High Road And Gratitude

37:42 Docuseries Day One

38:30 Health Wake Up Call

39:35 Assessment And Lifestyle Plan



#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 



Channel Focus Areas:

“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”

“How to Be a Better Father”

“Father Son Relationship Advice”

“Mistakes Fathers Make”

“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”



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Young Man: You Must Train People How to Treat You | Setting Boundaries | Ep 208 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. NéAndré Broussard on Fatherhood, Vulnerability &amp; Building Blac Menswear | Dear Son Show On The Dear Son Show, host D Johns talks with NéAndré Broussard—child of God, husband, father, and visionary entrepreneur—about how his Marine father’s disciplined presence shaped his approach to parenting, structure, and being a dad who’s not a friend. Broussard shares how corporate travel and the loneliness of hotel life pushed him toward full-time entrepreneurship, and how his wife Erica’s support, therapy, and better communication helped him lead through a difficult transition while learning to be vulnerable. He explains Blac Menswear’s mission to change narratives about Black men through content, storytelling, experiences, service, and global brotherhood, including navigating early backlash and defining excellence as aspirational. Broussard credits the vision’s origin to Philando Castile’s killing and describes goals to become a destination platform for Black men. Subscribe and comment with the moment that resonated most. 00:00 Backlash and Criticism01:00 Show Welcome and Guest Intro03:00 Roots in Houston and Dallas03:47 Marine Dad to Softer Side07:14 Presence Is Production11:33 Hotel Door Turning Point15:45 Wife as the Rock20:04 Rough Transition and Therapy26:46 Modeling Conflict for Kids28:57 Nonverbal Damage Lessons30:36 Raising Boys Presently34:07 Travel Mindset Lessons35:51 Father Not Friend37:52 What Is Blac Menswear42:05 Excellence As Standard45:27 Backlash And Staying Ten Toes51:34 Vision Sparked By Philando57:31 Essence For Men Dream01:01:34 Vulnerability Advice To Sons01:04:34 Where To Find Him #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

NéAndré Broussard on Fatherhood, Vulnerability &amp; Building Blac Menswear | Dear Son Show

On The Dear Son Show, host D Johns talks with NéAndré Broussard—child of God, husband, father, and visionary entrepreneur—about how his Marine father’s disciplined presence shaped his approach to parenting, structure, and being a dad who’s not a friend. Broussard shares how corporate travel and the loneliness of hotel life pushed him toward full-time entrepreneurship, and how his wife Erica’s support, therapy, and better communication helped him lead through a difficult transition while learning to be vulnerable. He explains Blac Menswear’s mission to change narratives about Black men through content, storytelling, experiences, service, and global brotherhood, including navigating early backlash and defining excellence as aspirational. Broussard credits the vision’s origin to Philando Castile’s killing and describes goals to become a destination platform for Black men. Subscribe and comment with the moment that resonated most.

00:00 Backlash and Criticism
01:00 Show Welcome and Guest Intro
03:00 Roots in Houston and Dallas
03:47 Marine Dad to Softer Side
07:14 Presence Is Production
11:33 Hotel Door Turning Point
15:45 Wife as the Rock
20:04 Rough Transition and Therapy
26:46 Modeling Conflict for Kids
28:57 Nonverbal Damage Lessons
30:36 Raising Boys Presently
34:07 Travel Mindset Lessons
35:51 Father Not Friend
37:52 What Is Blac Menswear
42:05 Excellence As Standard
45:27 Backlash And Staying Ten Toes
51:34 Vision Sparked By Philando
57:31 Essence For Men Dream
01:01:34 Vulnerability Advice To Sons
01:04:34 Where To Find Him

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My Father Gave Me Discipline. That's What I Needed to Be Excellent | Ep 207 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Dear Son: Where Did That Come From? Why Examples, Culture, and Honesty Matter Hosts D Johns and Jey Blac open The Dear Son Show with light family updates, then center the episode on the question, “Son, where did that come from?”—a prompt for understanding the roots of a child’s emotions, choices, and hesitation to communicate. They discuss why examples matter in learning decency and relationship skills, how cultural norms shape expectations and conflict, and why authenticity—rather than sending a “representative”—is crucial in dating and marriage. The conversation stresses sharing age-appropriate real-life stories and lessons, addressing red flags and abusive behavior early, and not covering for harmful actions to avoid consequences. They emphasize checking children’s reactions in sports and life, being intentional about trade-offs, and using honest dialogue to equip sons beyond what they observe at home. 00:00 Fatherhood Reference Point00:42 Show Intro and Hosts01:05 Back to School Pickup Chaos02:09 Grandbaby Turns Two03:47 Where Did That Come From06:19 Comment Sparked the Topic08:58 Why Examples Matter11:53 Decency vs Relationship History14:52 Cultural Norms and Ethnocentrism18:29 Family Culture Inside the House19:14 Kids Growing Up and Parenting Shifts20:59 Authenticity in Relationships22:23 Safety Nonnegotiables23:52 Tell The Whole Story25:50 Drop The Representative33:43 Dating Without Attachments35:29 Modeling Is Not Enough37:43 Checking Aggression Early41:17 Stop Covering Abuse46:45 Tradeoffs And Farewell #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: The Dear Son, Shop: <a href="https://thedearsonshop.store" rel="nofollow">https://thedearsonshop.store</a> Love Kisha J Studios: <a href="https://houseoflkj.com" rel="nofollow">https://houseoflkj.com </a> Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.



Dear Son: Where Did That Come From? Why Examples, Culture, and Honesty Matter



Hosts D Johns and Jey Blac open The Dear Son Show with light family updates, then center the episode on the question, “Son, where did that come from?”—a prompt for understanding the roots of a child’s emotions, choices, and hesitation to communicate. They discuss why examples matter in learning decency and relationship skills, how cultural norms shape expectations and conflict, and why authenticity—rather than sending a “representative”—is crucial in dating and marriage. The conversation stresses sharing age-appropriate real-life stories and lessons, addressing red flags and abusive behavior early, and not covering for harmful actions to avoid consequences. They emphasize checking children’s reactions in sports and life, being intentional about trade-offs, and using honest dialogue to equip sons beyond what they observe at home.



00:00 Fatherhood Reference Point

00:42 Show Intro and Hosts

01:05 Back to School Pickup Chaos

02:09 Grandbaby Turns Two

03:47 Where Did That Come From

06:19 Comment Sparked the Topic

08:58 Why Examples Matter

11:53 Decency vs Relationship History

14:52 Cultural Norms and Ethnocentrism

18:29 Family Culture Inside the House

19:14 Kids Growing Up and Parenting Shifts

20:59 Authenticity in Relationships

22:23 Safety Nonnegotiables

23:52 Tell The Whole Story

25:50 Drop The Representative

33:43 Dating Without Attachments

35:29 Modeling Is Not Enough

37:43 Checking Aggression Early

41:17 Stop Covering Abuse

46:45 Tradeoffs And Farewell



#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 

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“Father Son Relationship Advice”

“Mistakes Fathers Make”

“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”



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Where Did That Behavior Come From? | Ep 206 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Dear Son: Who Do You Think You Are? | Lessons vs. Examples, Ego, and Receiving Wisdom In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss identity and the question “Who do you think you are?” through fatherhood, focusing on how people—especially younger generations—often discredit advice by “considering the source” rather than the lesson. They debate whether someone with failures (like multiple divorces or an overweight doctor) can still offer valid wisdom, and warn against seeking to invalidate others, getting stuck on word choice (like “universe” vs. God), or creating echo chambers. They explore how God’s answers may come in unexpected “packaging,” how disregarding guidance can become self-sabotage, and how imposter syndrome and feeling undeserving can undermine growth. The hosts share personal reflections on parenting, missed opportunities, and staying open to learning from anywhere, then preview upcoming Dear Son Network projects including a series with Jey Blac’s dad and a health documentary. 00:00 Lessons for My Kids00:51 Welcome to Dear Son01:55 Episode Theme Identity03:27 Parents Get Dismissed05:00 Consider the Source06:59 Invalidation Culture10:48 Doctor Example Marketing13:36 Universe vs God Wordplay17:50 Don’t Worship People20:14 Sports Coach Breakthrough23:47 Adult Children Advice24:09 Lessons for My Kids25:06 Consistency Beats Hype26:23 Shortcut Wisdom Story30:03 Dad’s Missed Opportunities32:07 Beyond Your Bubble34:46 Stop Asking Why Me38:14 Imposter Syndrome Trap40:15 Fatherhood Second Chances43:10 Network Projects Update46:00 Closing Thanks #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

Dear Son: Who Do You Think You Are? | Lessons vs. Examples, Ego, and Receiving Wisdom

In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss identity and the question “Who do you think you are?” through fatherhood, focusing on how people—especially younger generations—often discredit advice by “considering the source” rather than the lesson. They debate whether someone with failures (like multiple divorces or an overweight doctor) can still offer valid wisdom, and warn against seeking to invalidate others, getting stuck on word choice (like “universe” vs. God), or creating echo chambers. They explore how God’s answers may come in unexpected “packaging,” how disregarding guidance can become self-sabotage, and how imposter syndrome and feeling undeserving can undermine growth. The hosts share personal reflections on parenting, missed opportunities, and staying open to learning from anywhere, then preview upcoming Dear Son Network projects including a series with Jey Blac’s dad and a health documentary.

00:00 Lessons for My Kids
00:51 Welcome to Dear Son
01:55 Episode Theme Identity
03:27 Parents Get Dismissed
05:00 Consider the Source
06:59 Invalidation Culture
10:48 Doctor Example Marketing
13:36 Universe vs God Wordplay
17:50 Don’t Worship People
20:14 Sports Coach Breakthrough
23:47 Adult Children Advice
24:09 Lessons for My Kids
25:06 Consistency Beats Hype
26:23 Shortcut Wisdom Story
30:03 Dad’s Missed Opportunities
32:07 Beyond Your Bubble
34:46 Stop Asking Why Me
38:14 Imposter Syndrome Trap
40:15 Fatherhood Second Chances
43:10 Network Projects Update
46:00 Closing Thanks

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
“Mistakes Fathers Make”
“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

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The Audacity | Ep 205 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Carlton Young (CY) on PTSD, Fatherhood, and Leading From Clarity | Dear Son Show On the Dear Son Show, host D Johns talks with guest Carlton Young (CY, “Mr. 8020”) about fatherhood, identity, and healing through faith and self-awareness. CY shares his background growing up in Birmingham, being adopted by his stepfather, and learning discipline and work ethic from a stern but present dad. He explains how trauma—including being shot at Fort Hood, multiple surgeries, lasting numbness, and an unrecovered bullet near his spine—contributed to PTSD, anxiety, and damaged relationships, including the collapse of his first marriage and strain in his second. CY describes confronting “survival scripts,” improving communication, forgiving himself, and renewing his mind through daily time with God. He discusses writing The Discipline to Finish, leading Mindset U, and his goal to impact a million men by helping them lead from clarity, not chaos. 00:00 Surviving the Shooting00:38 Welcome to Dear Son01:52 How’s Your Heart02:19 Communication and Leadership04:41 Roots and Survival Scripts07:29 Growing Up Overseas09:18 A Stern but Present Dad12:29 Learning to Say I Love You13:37 Parenting and Hard Feedback15:06 Shot at Fort Hood16:23 Joining the Army Fast23:20 Leaving the Military23:44 Starting Over in Dallas24:54 Work Hustle and Uncertainty26:41 Career Pivots28:00 Sales Inspiration28:45 Fatherhood After Trauma29:38 Faith Awakening33:24 PTSD And Healing35:36 Repairing Family Bonds39:21 Self Forgiveness42:01 Writing The Book45:04 Stewarding The Calling47:19 Mission For Men53:21 Where To Find Him54:42 Final Reflections #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow CY: https://instagram.com/iam8020nation and www.carlton-young.com Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

Carlton Young (CY) on PTSD, Fatherhood, and Leading From Clarity | Dear Son Show

On the Dear Son Show, host D Johns talks with guest Carlton Young (CY, “Mr. 8020”) about fatherhood, identity, and healing through faith and self-awareness. CY shares his background growing up in Birmingham, being adopted by his stepfather, and learning discipline and work ethic from a stern but present dad. He explains how trauma—including being shot at Fort Hood, multiple surgeries, lasting numbness, and an unrecovered bullet near his spine—contributed to PTSD, anxiety, and damaged relationships, including the collapse of his first marriage and strain in his second. CY describes confronting “survival scripts,” improving communication, forgiving himself, and renewing his mind through daily time with God. He discusses writing The Discipline to Finish, leading Mindset U, and his goal to impact a million men by helping them lead from clarity, not chaos.

00:00 Surviving the Shooting
00:38 Welcome to Dear Son
01:52 How’s Your Heart
02:19 Communication and Leadership
04:41 Roots and Survival Scripts
07:29 Growing Up Overseas
09:18 A Stern but Present Dad
12:29 Learning to Say I Love You
13:37 Parenting and Hard Feedback
15:06 Shot at Fort Hood
16:23 Joining the Army Fast
23:20 Leaving the Military
23:44 Starting Over in Dallas
24:54 Work Hustle and Uncertainty
26:41 Career Pivots
28:00 Sales Inspiration
28:45 Fatherhood After Trauma
29:38 Faith Awakening
33:24 PTSD And Healing
35:36 Repairing Family Bonds
39:21 Self Forgiveness
42:01 Writing The Book
45:04 Stewarding The Calling
47:19 Mission For Men
53:21 Where To Find Him
54:42 Final Reflections

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
“Mistakes Fathers Make”
“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

Follow CY: https://instagram.com/iam8020nation and www.carlton-young.com

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Trauma Propelled Me Into Purpose | Shot. Broken. Chosen. | Ep 204 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Dear Son, I’m Disappointed: How Fathers Can Communicate Disappointment Without Damaging Trust In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac discuss how fathers can communicate disappointment in ways that teach growth without harming a child’s identity. They open with life updates, then frame the topic around being disappointed in one’s parenting approach—especially not exposing children to enough early on and later trying to overcorrect. Using seven research-based prompts, they explore separating identity from behavior, how tone and nonverbal cues can wound, turning disappointment into a conversation instead of a verdict, aiming for growth over guilt, regulating emotions before addressing issues, offering reassurance after accountability, and focusing on what lesson a child will remember long-term. They share personal examples about sarcasm, facial expressions, escalation, consequences, and the importance of revisiting conversations to repair trust. 00:00 Exposure Both Sides00:57 Show Intro And Hosts01:18 Conclave Week Talk02:42 Back To School Reset04:18 Family Health Updates05:11 Dear Son Im Disappointed07:41 Separate Identity Behavior12:43 Consequences And Accountability00:12 Tone Speaks Loudest22:17 Car Wash Teachable Moment27:20 Conversation Not Verdict32:31 Breaking Trauma Reactions33:27 Dad Brain Fence Moment35:56 Guilt Versus Growth38:44 Stuck in Guilt Debate40:47 Calm Teachable Moments46:56 Reassurance After Accountability51:17 Lessons Kids Remember58:35 Closing Intentional Parenting #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

Dear Son, I’m Disappointed: How Fathers Can Communicate Disappointment Without Damaging Trust

In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac discuss how fathers can communicate disappointment in ways that teach growth without harming a child’s identity. They open with life updates, then frame the topic around being disappointed in one’s parenting approach—especially not exposing children to enough early on and later trying to overcorrect. Using seven research-based prompts, they explore separating identity from behavior, how tone and nonverbal cues can wound, turning disappointment into a conversation instead of a verdict, aiming for growth over guilt, regulating emotions before addressing issues, offering reassurance after accountability, and focusing on what lesson a child will remember long-term. They share personal examples about sarcasm, facial expressions, escalation, consequences, and the importance of revisiting conversations to repair trust.

00:00 Exposure Both Sides
00:57 Show Intro And Hosts
01:18 Conclave Week Talk
02:42 Back To School Reset
04:18 Family Health Updates
05:11 Dear Son Im Disappointed
07:41 Separate Identity Behavior
12:43 Consequences And Accountability
00:12 Tone Speaks Loudest
22:17 Car Wash Teachable Moment
27:20 Conversation Not Verdict
32:31 Breaking Trauma Reactions
33:27 Dad Brain Fence Moment
35:56 Guilt Versus Growth
38:44 Stuck in Guilt Debate
40:47 Calm Teachable Moments
46:56 Reassurance After Accountability
51:17 Lessons Kids Remember
58:35 Closing Intentional Parenting

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
“Mistakes Fathers Make”
“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  

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Dear Son, I’m Disappointed: How Fathers Can Communicate Disappointment Without Damaging Trust | 203

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Leon Brown on Fatherhood, Marriage Storms, and Breaking Generational Cycles | Dear Son Show On the Dear Son Show, host D Johns talks with special guest Leon Brown (itsrevleon) about growing up in East Oakland raised by his praying grandmother and supported by his older brother, while navigating life without an active father. Leon shares how faith in Jesus Christ grounded him, how he now views his father with grace while still acknowledging the lack of effort, and why he’s intentional about giving his own children what he didn’t have—presence, guidance, and affection. The conversation explores learning manhood and marriage without a model, the impact of pornography and lust, marrying at 19 after sensing God’s direction, and practical marriage preparation like self-awareness, communication, and weathering storms. Leon also shares metaphors about God’s timing, and invites men to “Breaking Bread With Brothers” on August 29 in DeSoto, Texas. 00:00 Provider Pressure01:02 Show Intro Guest01:49 Faith Foundation02:16 Raised By Grandma03:50 Oakland Roots04:48 Called From Childhood06:31 Grandma Kept It Real07:52 Big Brother Mentor09:47 Absent Father Impact12:32 Grace And Cycles16:03 Present Dad Mission21:12 Marriage Lessons23:37 Porn Exposure Begins25:05 Lust Without Guidance27:01 Why Lust Feels Normal28:15 Married at Nineteen29:53 Waiting and Temptation33:11 Preparing for Marriage35:23 Friction and Change37:13 Family Models and Aging Parents40:03 Ego and Real Feedback41:41 Provider Pressure Seasons45:31 Enjoy the Ride48:38 Gods Protective Delays51:36 Where to Find Leon53:44 Closing Blessing #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

Leon Brown on Fatherhood, Marriage Storms, and Breaking Generational Cycles | Dear Son Show

On the Dear Son Show, host D Johns talks with special guest Leon Brown (itsrevleon) about growing up in East Oakland raised by his praying grandmother and supported by his older brother, while navigating life without an active father. Leon shares how faith in Jesus Christ grounded him, how he now views his father with grace while still acknowledging the lack of effort, and why he’s intentional about giving his own children what he didn’t have—presence, guidance, and affection. The conversation explores learning manhood and marriage without a model, the impact of pornography and lust, marrying at 19 after sensing God’s direction, and practical marriage preparation like self-awareness, communication, and weathering storms. Leon also shares metaphors about God’s timing, and invites men to “Breaking Bread With Brothers” on August 29 in DeSoto, Texas.

00:00 Provider Pressure
01:02 Show Intro Guest
01:49 Faith Foundation
02:16 Raised By Grandma
03:50 Oakland Roots
04:48 Called From Childhood
06:31 Grandma Kept It Real
07:52 Big Brother Mentor
09:47 Absent Father Impact
12:32 Grace And Cycles
16:03 Present Dad Mission
21:12 Marriage Lessons
23:37 Porn Exposure Begins
25:05 Lust Without Guidance
27:01 Why Lust Feels Normal
28:15 Married at Nineteen
29:53 Waiting and Temptation
33:11 Preparing for Marriage
35:23 Friction and Change
37:13 Family Models and Aging Parents
40:03 Ego and Real Feedback
41:41 Provider Pressure Seasons
45:31 Enjoy the Ride
48:38 Gods Protective Delays
51:36 Where to Find Leon
53:44 Closing Blessing

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The Generational Curse Ran Into Me | Ep 202 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Obligation Over Expected Entitlement | Dear Son Show In this episode of the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss “obligation over expected entitlement,” exploring the difference between what parents are truly responsible to provide versus what children or spouses may come to expect as normal. Using a hypothetical about an 18-year-old son who leaves his dad’s house for the summer but still expects promised benefits (car, TV, clothes, college support), they examine the message parents send when accountability is rejected but rewards are still demanded. They emphasize setting clear boundaries, communicating expectations and consequences, and confirming understanding to remove excuses. The conversation also covers how projection and optics can blur needs versus wants, how expectations can damage relationships, balancing emotion with logic in parenting and business, valuing humility and input, and being mindful of leading families toward goals that may not be shared. 00:00 Parent Duty Vs Choice01:06 Welcome And Catch Up02:51 Life Shifts And Family05:01 Topic Expected Entitlement08:01 Defining Real Obligations12:21 Gratitude And Money Optics14:52 18 Year Old Pushback Scenario21:58 Boundaries Accountability Contracts25:50 When Help Includes Advice28:37 PAP PAD PAM30:09 Expectations Ruin Bonds33:32 Let Kids Be Themselves37:55 Dreams At What Cost38:59 Logic Emotion Balance47:20 Humility And Feedback52:14 No Dictators At Home54:15 Show Growth And Future #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

Obligation Over Expected Entitlement | Dear Son Show

In this episode of the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss “obligation over expected entitlement,” exploring the difference between what parents are truly responsible to provide versus what children or spouses may come to expect as normal. Using a hypothetical about an 18-year-old son who leaves his dad’s house for the summer but still expects promised benefits (car, TV, clothes, college support), they examine the message parents send when accountability is rejected but rewards are still demanded. They emphasize setting clear boundaries, communicating expectations and consequences, and confirming understanding to remove excuses. The conversation also covers how projection and optics can blur needs versus wants, how expectations can damage relationships, balancing emotion with logic in parenting and business, valuing humility and input, and being mindful of leading families toward goals that may not be shared.

00:00 Parent Duty Vs Choice
01:06 Welcome And Catch Up
02:51 Life Shifts And Family
05:01 Topic Expected Entitlement
08:01 Defining Real Obligations
12:21 Gratitude And Money Optics
14:52 18 Year Old Pushback Scenario
21:58 Boundaries Accountability Contracts
25:50 When Help Includes Advice
28:37 PAP PAD PAM
30:09 Expectations Ruin Bonds
33:32 Let Kids Be Themselves
37:55 Dreams At What Cost
38:59 Logic Emotion Balance
47:20 Humility And Feedback
52:14 No Dictators At Home
54:15 Show Growth And Future

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
“Mistakes Fathers Make”
“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

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Parental Obligation vs Entitlement | Ep 201 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Obedience, Isolation &amp; Rediscovering Yourself | Corey Hughes on Faith, Fatherhood, and Healing Cory Hughes returns to The Dear Son Show to discuss rebuilding happiness and identity after divorce, loss, and seasons of uncertainty. He explains how God’s instruction to move from Dallas to Phoenix in 2023 forced isolation, self-examination, and learning not to outsource happiness, while also creating a pathway that led to his daughter receiving a scholarship to Arizona State. Corey and the host talk about waiting on God, resisting vices during crisis, and how control and distrust can shape faith and relationships. Corey shares lessons from business about accepting help, shifting from chasing money to pursuing peace and presence with family, and becoming authentic instead of performing. He outlines a vision for encouraging men to be emotionally honest and building community through future content, books, and a podcast. 00:00 Disobedience Costs00:41 Daughter’s Door Opens01:49 Welcome to Dear Son02:32 Life in Arizona Heat04:08 Why Talk About Happy05:14 Journey to Self07:12 Hearing God Move09:06 Obedience Blesses Kids12:50 Waiting Well Struggles15:04 Cracks and Kintsugi19:16 Don’t Waste Crisis22:13 Ice Tray Theory24:53 Trust and Control27:09 Business and Delegation29:12 Chasing the Bag29:53 Presence Over Perfection30:22 Trading Money for Peace31:45 Enough Without Stuff32:55 Buying Relationships34:14 Titles and Identity36:07 Deleting Instagram Reset37:46 Authentic Not Performing39:07 Kind Not Nice40:13 Family Sees the Change41:14 Surrendering to Gods Will43:21 What Glory Looks Like45:33 Podcast as Personal Growth48:49 Vulnerability Goes Viral50:39 Defining Success Impact53:47 Accountability Podcast Promise54:49 Where to Find Corey55:21 Laughter and Closing #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

Obedience, Isolation &amp; Rediscovering Yourself | Corey Hughes on Faith, Fatherhood, and Healing

Cory Hughes returns to The Dear Son Show to discuss rebuilding happiness and identity after divorce, loss, and seasons of uncertainty. He explains how God’s instruction to move from Dallas to Phoenix in 2023 forced isolation, self-examination, and learning not to outsource happiness, while also creating a pathway that led to his daughter receiving a scholarship to Arizona State. Corey and the host talk about waiting on God, resisting vices during crisis, and how control and distrust can shape faith and relationships. Corey shares lessons from business about accepting help, shifting from chasing money to pursuing peace and presence with family, and becoming authentic instead of performing. He outlines a vision for encouraging men to be emotionally honest and building community through future content, books, and a podcast.

00:00 Disobedience Costs
00:41 Daughter’s Door Opens
01:49 Welcome to Dear Son
02:32 Life in Arizona Heat
04:08 Why Talk About Happy
05:14 Journey to Self
07:12 Hearing God Move
09:06 Obedience Blesses Kids
12:50 Waiting Well Struggles
15:04 Cracks and Kintsugi
19:16 Don’t Waste Crisis
22:13 Ice Tray Theory
24:53 Trust and Control
27:09 Business and Delegation
29:12 Chasing the Bag
29:53 Presence Over Perfection
30:22 Trading Money for Peace
31:45 Enough Without Stuff
32:55 Buying Relationships
34:14 Titles and Identity
36:07 Deleting Instagram Reset
37:46 Authentic Not Performing
39:07 Kind Not Nice
40:13 Family Sees the Change
41:14 Surrendering to Gods Will
43:21 What Glory Looks Like
45:33 Podcast as Personal Growth
48:49 Vulnerability Goes Viral
50:39 Defining Success Impact
53:47 Accountability Podcast Promise
54:49 Where to Find Corey
55:21 Laughter and Closing

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
“Mistakes Fathers Make”
“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

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Obedience, Isolation & Rediscovering Yourself | Getting Back to Me | Ep 200 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Dear Son: Let Them Learn… But Don’t Miss the Conversation | Episode 199 In Episode 199 of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac reflect on how hard it is for fathers to watch their sons make decisions, especially when they ignore advice, and how parenting often means balancing guidance with letting them learn through experience. They share personal stories of being thrust into adulthood early—college detours, military-to-school transitions, dropping out, early parenthood, and reckless moments that once felt “memorable” but carried real danger—highlighting how bad choices can become normalized in groups. They discuss reading warning signs, avoiding “go along to get along” behavior, choosing friends wisely, and timing hard conversations early rather than waiting until it’s too late, while also previewing plans to celebrate Episode 200 with the audience. 00:00 Negotiating Temptation01:01 Show Intro and Heat Talk02:04 Son Nearing Graduation04:14 Watching Him Choose08:37 Rewinding to 1909:03 D Johns College Detour12:57 Jey Blac Army to College16:34 Fatherhood Changed Everything18:05 Let Them Crash or Save Them22:26 Sharing Stories Without Glorifying24:48 Timing and Wider Bumpers26:55 Earn the Secret Sauce27:49 Stay on the Bus29:05 When Bad Choices Work30:42 Normalized Foolery36:58 Signs and Warnings00:22 Choose Your Circle44:13 Talk to Them Now45:48 Planning Episode 20051:48 Wrap and Goodbye #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

Dear Son: Let Them Learn… But Don’t Miss the Conversation | Episode 199

In Episode 199 of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac reflect on how hard it is for fathers to watch their sons make decisions, especially when they ignore advice, and how parenting often means balancing guidance with letting them learn through experience. They share personal stories of being thrust into adulthood early—college detours, military-to-school transitions, dropping out, early parenthood, and reckless moments that once felt “memorable” but carried real danger—highlighting how bad choices can become normalized in groups. They discuss reading warning signs, avoiding “go along to get along” behavior, choosing friends wisely, and timing hard conversations early rather than waiting until it’s too late, while also previewing plans to celebrate Episode 200 with the audience.

00:00 Negotiating Temptation
01:01 Show Intro and Heat Talk
02:04 Son Nearing Graduation
04:14 Watching Him Choose
08:37 Rewinding to 19
09:03 D Johns College Detour
12:57 Jey Blac Army to College
16:34 Fatherhood Changed Everything
18:05 Let Them Crash or Save Them
22:26 Sharing Stories Without Glorifying
24:48 Timing and Wider Bumpers
26:55 Earn the Secret Sauce
27:49 Stay on the Bus
29:05 When Bad Choices Work
30:42 Normalized Foolery
36:58 Signs and Warnings
00:22 Choose Your Circle
44:13 Talk to Them Now
45:48 Planning Episode 200
51:48 Wrap and Goodbye

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
“Mistakes Fathers Make”
“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  

Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to:

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Dear Son, I've Already Made Those Mistakes | Ep 199 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Dear Son: See It Through — The Other Shoe &amp; The Rest of the Lesson On this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss “See It Through: The Other Shoe/The Rest of the Lesson,” focusing on the adult responsibility to teach complete, contextual life lessons. They reflect on parenting moments with their kids—like supporting a young goalie through getting scored on and repairing a negative start to family walks through accountability and apology. They explore how lessons like selflessness, hard work, and “providing” can become harmful when parents omit the other side: prioritizing health, sustaining success after achievement, planning beyond arrival, and developing character alongside expertise. The conversation also emphasizes guidance and structure in parenting, warning against letting underdeveloped children make major life decisions without qualified adult input, and encourages revisiting the “why” behind goals. They close with updates on reaching 200 episodes, plans to go live, an “Unhinged” episode in July, and merch availability at thedearsonspodcast.com. 00:00 Provider Mentality Trap00:57 Welcome to Dear Son01:33 Summer Updates and Kids Sports04:31 Anniversary and Episode Setup06:10 See It Through as a Parent09:25 The Other Shoe Explained10:54 Learn What You Disagree With15:50 Selflessness vs Self Care21:35 Post Achievement Stewardship25:21 Beyond Me Mentors and Character28:41 Big Picture Pace and Purpose32:30 Passion Versus Status33:25 First In The Family Pressure35:10 Parenting Needs Guardrails43:17 Teaching Context And Consequences47:43 Tools Over Answers49:21 Right Turns Lesson51:42 Chasing Episode 20055:17 Unhinged And Q3 Push58:04 Merch And Wrap Up #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

Dear Son: See It Through — The Other Shoe &amp; The Rest of the Lesson

On this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss “See It Through: The Other Shoe/The Rest of the Lesson,” focusing on the adult responsibility to teach complete, contextual life lessons. They reflect on parenting moments with their kids—like supporting a young goalie through getting scored on and repairing a negative start to family walks through accountability and apology. They explore how lessons like selflessness, hard work, and “providing” can become harmful when parents omit the other side: prioritizing health, sustaining success after achievement, planning beyond arrival, and developing character alongside expertise. The conversation also emphasizes guidance and structure in parenting, warning against letting underdeveloped children make major life decisions without qualified adult input, and encourages revisiting the “why” behind goals. They close with updates on reaching 200 episodes, plans to go live, an “Unhinged” episode in July, and merch availability at thedearsonspodcast.com.

00:00 Provider Mentality Trap
00:57 Welcome to Dear Son
01:33 Summer Updates and Kids Sports
04:31 Anniversary and Episode Setup
06:10 See It Through as a Parent
09:25 The Other Shoe Explained
10:54 Learn What You Disagree With
15:50 Selflessness vs Self Care
21:35 Post Achievement Stewardship
25:21 Beyond Me Mentors and Character
28:41 Big Picture Pace and Purpose
32:30 Passion Versus Status
33:25 First In The Family Pressure
35:10 Parenting Needs Guardrails
43:17 Teaching Context And Consequences
47:43 Tools Over Answers
49:21 Right Turns Lesson
51:42 Chasing Episode 200
55:17 Unhinged And Q3 Push
58:04 Merch And Wrap Up

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
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“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

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Parents Need to Finish the Lesson | Ep 198 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Coach Bell on Faith, Shame, and Winning Your Family Back | Dear Son Show In this episode of The Dear Son Show, D Johns welcomes Coach Bear for a candid conversation about fatherhood, faith, and the hidden cost of wearing a “mask” of stoicism that works at work but fails at home. Coach Bell shares how he went from calling himself a marriage recovery coach to a truth teller who helps people confront hard realities, including infidelity and betrayal. He describes running from God after growing up as a pastor’s kid, wrestling with pride and disobedience, and eventually quitting his job to follow what he felt God was calling him to do. They discuss the pressure of reconciliation, the difference between shame and conviction, why you can’t earn grace, and how healing still carries consequences—especially when children ask painful questions. Coach Bell also reflects on his wife’s character, his father’s impact, and why he continues publicly sharing his story as an act of obedience. 00:00 Stoic Mask at Home01:07 Welcome to Dear Son02:44 Grateful Yet Heavy06:00 No Highs No Lows08:05 Where Im From08:51 Dads Impact Legacy12:53 Coaching and Calling19:06 Running From God22:46 Work Success as Vice24:23 Winning Family Back26:05 Rebuilding Through Faith27:14 Do It For You29:19 Reentry Pressure After Betrayal30:52 Grace Over Shame33:31 Noticing Real Change35:18 Her Strength And Character38:32 Rock Bottom In Separation40:54 Fears For The Kids43:38 Parenting With Transparency45:42 Public Story And Backlash49:23 Why It Is Worth It53:32 Presenting A Loving God54:39 Where To Find Him55:16 Final Blessing And Sendoff #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Coach Bear: https://instagram.com/officialcoachbear Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

Coach Bell on Faith, Shame, and Winning Your Family Back | Dear Son Show

In this episode of The Dear Son Show, D Johns welcomes Coach Bear for a candid conversation about fatherhood, faith, and the hidden cost of wearing a “mask” of stoicism that works at work but fails at home. Coach Bell shares how he went from calling himself a marriage recovery coach to a truth teller who helps people confront hard realities, including infidelity and betrayal. He describes running from God after growing up as a pastor’s kid, wrestling with pride and disobedience, and eventually quitting his job to follow what he felt God was calling him to do. They discuss the pressure of reconciliation, the difference between shame and conviction, why you can’t earn grace, and how healing still carries consequences—especially when children ask painful questions. Coach Bell also reflects on his wife’s character, his father’s impact, and why he continues publicly sharing his story as an act of obedience.

00:00 Stoic Mask at Home
01:07 Welcome to Dear Son
02:44 Grateful Yet Heavy
06:00 No Highs No Lows
08:05 Where Im From
08:51 Dads Impact Legacy
12:53 Coaching and Calling
19:06 Running From God
22:46 Work Success as Vice
24:23 Winning Family Back
26:05 Rebuilding Through Faith
27:14 Do It For You
29:19 Reentry Pressure After Betrayal
30:52 Grace Over Shame
33:31 Noticing Real Change
35:18 Her Strength And Character
38:32 Rock Bottom In Separation
40:54 Fears For The Kids
43:38 Parenting With Transparency
45:42 Public Story And Backlash
49:23 Why It Is Worth It
53:32 Presenting A Loving God
54:39 Where To Find Him
55:16 Final Blessing And Sendoff

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
“Mistakes Fathers Make”
“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

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Why It's So Hard for Men to Win Their Family Back | Ep 197 | The Dear Son, Show

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Men’s Mental Health, Fatherhood &amp; Capacity: Dr. Jason Phillips on Therapy, Burnout, and Being Present On The Dear Son Show, D Johns talks with Dr. Jason Phillips, a licensed therapist and confidence coach, about men’s mental health, fatherhood, and learning to assess personal capacity. Phillips shares how corporate talks during Mental Health Month lead men to seek support, why therapists also need therapy, and how grief and major losses forced him to slow down and care for himself. They discuss the provider mindset, saying no to “raggedy yeses,” balancing career and family, and how parenting choices may not be understood until children reach their 20s. Phillips reflects on his own parents’ roles, emphasizes prioritizing family in real life and calendars, and encourages men to acknowledge struggles, take accountability, and take action while asking for help when needed. 00:00 Parenting For The Future01:03 Show Intro And Apology03:06 Meet Dr Jason Phillips04:04 Mens Mental Health Month06:32 Fatherhood And Self Care08:45 Grief On Holidays10:26 Why He Became A Therapist14:37 Capacity And Saying No22:55 Work Ethic Versus Family27:07 Discipline And Dad Style31:45 Therapists Need Therapy39:03 Success Scripts And Identity43:45 Raising Kids Without Pressure45:32 Encouragement And Where To Find Him46:58 Projects And Closing #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Jason: https://instagram.com/drjasonphillips Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Men’s Mental Health, Fatherhood &amp; Capacity: Dr. Jason Phillips on Therapy, Burnout, and Being Present

On The Dear Son Show, D Johns talks with Dr. Jason Phillips, a licensed therapist and confidence coach, about men’s mental health, fatherhood, and learning to assess personal capacity. Phillips shares how corporate talks during Mental Health Month lead men to seek support, why therapists also need therapy, and how grief and major losses forced him to slow down and care for himself. They discuss the provider mindset, saying no to “raggedy yeses,” balancing career and family, and how parenting choices may not be understood until children reach their 20s. Phillips reflects on his own parents’ roles, emphasizes prioritizing family in real life and calendars, and encourages men to acknowledge struggles, take accountability, and take action while asking for help when needed.

00:00 Parenting For The Future
01:03 Show Intro And Apology
03:06 Meet Dr Jason Phillips
04:04 Mens Mental Health Month
06:32 Fatherhood And Self Care
08:45 Grief On Holidays
10:26 Why He Became A Therapist
14:37 Capacity And Saying No
22:55 Work Ethic Versus Family
27:07 Discipline And Dad Style
31:45 Therapists Need Therapy
39:03 Success Scripts And Identity
43:45 Raising Kids Without Pressure
45:32 Encouragement And Where To Find Him
46:58 Projects And Closing

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
“Mistakes Fathers Make”
“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

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Why Men Are Exhausted From Work and Home | Ep 196 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Love + Kindness: The Two Ingredients That Saved My Marriage | Dear Son Show (Patrick Murphy) On this Father’s Day episode of The Dear Son Show, D Johns welcomes Patrick Murphy from Florida to discuss fatherhood, peace, and relationships. Patrick shares growing up in the Bay Area with nine siblings, learning entrepreneurship from his father, and being shaped by his parents’ divorce and contrasting parenting styles. He describes how his first 27-year marriage ended in divorce, leaving him bitter and searching for answers, which led him to study relationships and help teach a divorce and separation care ministry at One Community Church. In his second marriage, frequent divorce talks shifted after a spiritual warning and a series of “ice cream dates” focused on sharing childhood stories instead of issues, helping them heal. Patrick argues that relationships need both love and kindness, warns against weaponizing vulnerability, and says this approach brought peace at home and years without arguments. 00:00 Guarded Love Mindset00:26 Kindness Keeps Love Alive01:27 Welcome to Dear Son02:55 Building a Peace System04:36 Corporate vs Family Costs07:02 Life Escalator and Overwhelm09:52 Hiding Burdens in Marriage11:03 Roots in the Bay13:09 Nine Siblings and Dad Hustle15:02 Parenting Styles and Lessons18:35 Parents Divorce Impact21:52 Breaking the Divorce Cycle23:33 Divorce Ministry Insights26:05 Nail in Tire Relationship Radar28:27 Anti Divorce and Second Marriage30:38 Ice Cream Date Reset31:35 Healing The Inner Kids33:01 Love And Kindness Formula35:11 Why Counseling Can Backfire36:54 No Arguments By Design40:35 Kindness Beats Attitude44:48 Peace At Home Changes Men49:46 Hats And Lost Identity52:48 Helpmeet And Safe Space56:48 Stop Fixing Start Loving58:59 Daily Practices To Stay Close01:01:16 Customer Service Marriage Mindset01:02:21 Book Plug And Farewell #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk #marriagecounseling  Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Patrick: https://instagram.com/theconflictsoflife  Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com  Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors:  Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital   Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com   My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially:  https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast   https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast   The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma  2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.



Love + Kindness: The Two Ingredients That Saved My Marriage | Dear Son Show (Patrick Murphy)



On this Father’s Day episode of The Dear Son Show, D Johns welcomes Patrick Murphy from Florida to discuss fatherhood, peace, and relationships. Patrick shares growing up in the Bay Area with nine siblings, learning entrepreneurship from his father, and being shaped by his parents’ divorce and contrasting parenting styles. He describes how his first 27-year marriage ended in divorce, leaving him bitter and searching for answers, which led him to study relationships and help teach a divorce and separation care ministry at One Community Church. In his second marriage, frequent divorce talks shifted after a spiritual warning and a series of “ice cream dates” focused on sharing childhood stories instead of issues, helping them heal. Patrick argues that relationships need both love and kindness, warns against weaponizing vulnerability, and says this approach brought peace at home and years without arguments.



00:00 Guarded Love Mindset

00:26 Kindness Keeps Love Alive

01:27 Welcome to Dear Son

02:55 Building a Peace System

04:36 Corporate vs Family Costs

07:02 Life Escalator and Overwhelm

09:52 Hiding Burdens in Marriage

11:03 Roots in the Bay

13:09 Nine Siblings and Dad Hustle

15:02 Parenting Styles and Lessons

18:35 Parents Divorce Impact

21:52 Breaking the Divorce Cycle

23:33 Divorce Ministry Insights

26:05 Nail in Tire Relationship Radar

28:27 Anti Divorce and Second Marriage

30:38 Ice Cream Date Reset

31:35 Healing The Inner Kids

33:01 Love And Kindness Formula

35:11 Why Counseling Can Backfire

36:54 No Arguments By Design

40:35 Kindness Beats Attitude

44:48 Peace At Home Changes Men

49:46 Hats And Lost Identity

52:48 Helpmeet And Safe Space

56:48 Stop Fixing Start Loving

58:59 Daily Practices To Stay Close

01:01:16 Customer Service Marriage Mindset

01:02:21 Book Plug And Farewell



#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk #marriagecounseling 



Channel Focus Areas:

“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”

“How to Be a Better Father”

“Father Son Relationship Advice”

“Mistakes Fathers Make”

“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”



Follow Patrick: https://instagram.com/theconflictsoflife 



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The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community



1. Reveal trauma 



2. Heal from trauma



3. Help through telling stories of it all







“Better Man. Better Father.”



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Love + Kindness: The Two Ingredients That Saved My Marriage | Ep 195 | The Dear Son, Show

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Read the Room: Awareness, Tact, and Raising Kids Into Adulthood Hosts D Johns and Jey Blac of the Dear Son Show discuss “reading the room” as a key life skill for kids and adults—balancing individuality with tact, context, and awareness of consequences. They talk about observing who children become around friends, resisting “go along to get along” behavior, and understanding how intent doesn’t erase harm when words land offensively. The conversation also covers parenting older teens and young adults: checking in often, being approachable, not dismissing “kid-like” gaps at 19–20, and helping kids pivot through phases without forcing a parent’s timeline. In dating, they stress consent: a yes can turn to no, and “no” (including hesitation) means stop. Follow the channel and leave a review to support more conversations like this. 00:00 No Means No00:55 Welcome to Dear Son01:28 Merch and Community Fuel03:35 Read the Room Theme04:35 Be Yourself With Limits06:04 Parenting Individuality07:11 Bishop the Brain Example10:29 Corporate Code Switching13:34 Peer Pressure and Yes Men16:06 Context Tact and Access22:14 Friends Choices and Consequences26:36 Observe the Friend Group27:40 Know Your Childs Role28:42 Confidence Versus Ego29:38 Spotting Behavior Extremes30:35 Check In With Your Kids32:52 Approachable Parent Energy34:53 Dating And Consent38:24 Why Are You Dating40:14 Theyre Not Kids44:38 Adult Child Still Yours47:08 Scariest Parenting Fears51:19 Closing Gratitude And Episode 20054:07 DFW Pull Up Invite56:40 Final Sign Off ﻿#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Read the Room: Awareness, Tact, and Raising Kids Into Adulthood



Hosts D Johns and Jey Blac of the Dear Son Show discuss “reading the room” as a key life skill for kids and adults—balancing individuality with tact, context, and awareness of consequences. They talk about observing who children become around friends, resisting “go along to get along” behavior, and understanding how intent doesn’t erase harm when words land offensively. The conversation also covers parenting older teens and young adults: checking in often, being approachable, not dismissing “kid-like” gaps at 19–20, and helping kids pivot through phases without forcing a parent’s timeline. In dating, they stress consent: a yes can turn to no, and “no” (including hesitation) means stop. Follow the channel and leave a review to support more conversations like this.



00:00 No Means No

00:55 Welcome to Dear Son

01:28 Merch and Community Fuel

03:35 Read the Room Theme

04:35 Be Yourself With Limits

06:04 Parenting Individuality

07:11 Bishop the Brain Example

10:29 Corporate Code Switching

13:34 Peer Pressure and Yes Men

16:06 Context Tact and Access

22:14 Friends Choices and Consequences

26:36 Observe the Friend Group

27:40 Know Your Childs Role

28:42 Confidence Versus Ego

29:38 Spotting Behavior Extremes

30:35 Check In With Your Kids

32:52 Approachable Parent Energy

34:53 Dating And Consent

38:24 Why Are You Dating

40:14 Theyre Not Kids

44:38 Adult Child Still Yours

47:08 Scariest Parenting Fears

51:19 Closing Gratitude And Episode 200

54:07 DFW Pull Up Invite

56:40 Final Sign Off



#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 



Channel Focus Areas:

“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”

“How to Be a Better Father”

“Father Son Relationship Advice”

“Mistakes Fathers Make”

“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”



Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  



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Read the Room: Awareness, Tact, and Raising Kids Into Adulthood | Ep 194 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. King Cass Ajani on Fatherhood, Emotional Wellness &amp; Healing: Dear Son Show (Zimbabwe to UK Journey) In this episode of The Dear Son Show, D Johns sits down with King Cass Ajani (Dumisani David Moyo), born in Zimbabwe and raised in the UK, to discuss identity, fatherhood, and emotional wellbeing for boys and men. Ajani shares memories of a joyful childhood in Harare, the abrupt move to South London at age 10, and his family’s fragmentation as his father became less present and left when Ajani was 14. He reflects on a father who was accomplished and confidence-building yet emotionally unavailable, and how grief after his father’s death led to a dark season before community, honesty, and therapy helped him rebuild. Ajani explains how his work mentoring men centers on curiosity, gentleness, and asking “Are you okay?”, and he shares his Brunch Brothers books and where to find his work online. 00:00 Emotions With Dad01:07 Welcome To Dear Son01:40 Meet Ajani From Zimbabwe03:07 Growing Up In Harare04:14 Family Shifts In UK05:05 UK Culture And Food06:36 Zimbabwe Comfort Food08:28 Abrupt Move And Identity10:32 Remembering His Father13:07 Grace And Generations17:54 Becoming A Father Figure22:23 Calling And Credentials23:31 When Doors Close24:24 Divine Appointment Data25:25 Surrendering the Dream27:04 Curiosity With Young Men32:14 Finding Okay After Loss36:20 Gentle Parenting Lessons38:09 Learning Love Elsewhere43:12 Proud Not Pressured47:55 Books Movement Next Steps50:26 Closing Thanks Subscribe #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk #Zimbabwe #hararezimbabwe Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow Ajani: https://instagram.com/ajanikingdom Ajani&#39;s books:An Invitation To The Tablehttps://a.co/d/0bdMTdBz Four Fireshttps://a.co/d/0hfyHZvI Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

King Cass Ajani on Fatherhood, Emotional Wellness &amp; Healing: Dear Son Show (Zimbabwe to UK Journey)

In this episode of The Dear Son Show, D Johns sits down with King Cass Ajani (Dumisani David Moyo), born in Zimbabwe and raised in the UK, to discuss identity, fatherhood, and emotional wellbeing for boys and men. Ajani shares memories of a joyful childhood in Harare, the abrupt move to South London at age 10, and his family’s fragmentation as his father became less present and left when Ajani was 14. He reflects on a father who was accomplished and confidence-building yet emotionally unavailable, and how grief after his father’s death led to a dark season before community, honesty, and therapy helped him rebuild. Ajani explains how his work mentoring men centers on curiosity, gentleness, and asking “Are you okay?”, and he shares his Brunch Brothers books and where to find his work online.

00:00 Emotions With Dad
01:07 Welcome To Dear Son
01:40 Meet Ajani From Zimbabwe
03:07 Growing Up In Harare
04:14 Family Shifts In UK
05:05 UK Culture And Food
06:36 Zimbabwe Comfort Food
08:28 Abrupt Move And Identity
10:32 Remembering His Father
13:07 Grace And Generations
17:54 Becoming A Father Figure
22:23 Calling And Credentials
23:31 When Doors Close
24:24 Divine Appointment Data
25:25 Surrendering the Dream
27:04 Curiosity With Young Men
32:14 Finding Okay After Loss
36:20 Gentle Parenting Lessons
38:09 Learning Love Elsewhere
43:12 Proud Not Pressured
47:55 Books Movement Next Steps
50:26 Closing Thanks Subscribe

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk #Zimbabwe #hararezimbabwe 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
“Mistakes Fathers Make”
“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

Follow Ajani: https://instagram.com/ajanikingdom

Ajani&#39;s books:
An Invitation To The Table
https://a.co/d/0bdMTdBz

Four Fires
https://a.co/d/0hfyHZvI

Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to:

1.  subscribe to the channel, 
2. turn on the notifications,
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4. leave a comment, and
5. share this content with someone who needs it.


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Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital  

Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com  

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3. Help through telling stories of it all



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My Emotional Wellness & Healing Journey | Zimbabwe to the UK | Ep 193 | The Dear Son, Show

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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood. Dear Son: Not All Doors Are Created Equal | Closed Doors, Consistency &amp; Mental Health On the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss how closed doors can protect you and redirect you toward better opportunities, emphasizing that rewards are most sustainable when habits and discipline are established first. They share examples of a comedian whose oil-field dreams were denied but led to success in entertainment, and D Johns’ own career path where not getting one shipyard job opened a higher-paying role that shaped his leadership trajectory through learning each phase of the work. They compare life to a warehouse where each season offers tools and lessons, caution against forcing doors, celebrating too early via social media, and chasing outcomes without understanding the “why.” The conversation also addresses men’s mental health, resilience after setbacks, problem-solving, patience, and staying consistent while remaining open to unexpected opportunities. 00:00 Timing and Readiness01:40 Show Intro and Catch Up02:05 Weather Talk and Housekeeping02:55 Sponsor Spotlight LKJ04:39 Not All Doors Equal05:40 Closed Door Opens Lane08:47 Career Detour Pays Off13:25 Warehouse of Life Lessons17:22 Know the Why at Work22:02 Teaching Self Serve Skills25:35 Rainy Day Parenting Pivot26:06 Rainy Day Driving Lessons27:57 Closed Doors New Opportunities28:52 Redefining Being Broke30:14 Mens Mental Health Check33:32 Consistency Opens Doors37:49 Timing Rewards Sustainability41:19 Social Media Early Praise45:06 Support Through Reposts49:13 Closing Story Life Plan #fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Channel Focus Areas:“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”“How to Be a Better Father”“Father Son Relationship Advice”“Mistakes Fathers Make”“Lessons Every Man Should Learn” Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to: 1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it. The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1 My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy Let’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community 1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma 3. Help through telling stories of it all “Better Man. Better Father.” The Dear Son, Network ® Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.

Dear Son: Not All Doors Are Created Equal | Closed Doors, Consistency &amp; Mental Health

On the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss how closed doors can protect you and redirect you toward better opportunities, emphasizing that rewards are most sustainable when habits and discipline are established first. They share examples of a comedian whose oil-field dreams were denied but led to success in entertainment, and D Johns’ own career path where not getting one shipyard job opened a higher-paying role that shaped his leadership trajectory through learning each phase of the work. They compare life to a warehouse where each season offers tools and lessons, caution against forcing doors, celebrating too early via social media, and chasing outcomes without understanding the “why.” The conversation also addresses men’s mental health, resilience after setbacks, problem-solving, patience, and staying consistent while remaining open to unexpected opportunities.

00:00 Timing and Readiness
01:40 Show Intro and Catch Up
02:05 Weather Talk and Housekeeping
02:55 Sponsor Spotlight LKJ
04:39 Not All Doors Equal
05:40 Closed Door Opens Lane
08:47 Career Detour Pays Off
13:25 Warehouse of Life Lessons
17:22 Know the Why at Work
22:02 Teaching Self Serve Skills
25:35 Rainy Day Parenting Pivot
26:06 Rainy Day Driving Lessons
27:57 Closed Doors New Opportunities
28:52 Redefining Being Broke
30:14 Mens Mental Health Check
33:32 Consistency Opens Doors
37:49 Timing Rewards Sustainability
41:19 Social Media Early Praise
45:06 Support Through Reposts
49:13 Closing Story Life Plan

#fathersonrelationship  #adviceformen  #modernfatherhood  #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen  #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk 

Channel Focus Areas:
“What Fathers Should Teach Their Sons”
“How to Be a Better Father”
“Father Son Relationship Advice”
“Mistakes Fathers Make”
“Lessons Every Man Should Learn”

Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac  

Also, if you&#39;ve made it this far, don&#39;t forget to:

1.  subscribe to the channel, 
2. turn on the notifications,
3. like this video, 
4. leave a comment, and
5. share this content with someone who needs it.


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Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: 

Shop DSN Merch: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital  

Love Kisha J Studios: https://houseoflkj.com  

My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1

My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copy

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The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community

1. Reveal trauma 

2. Heal from trauma

3. Help through telling stories of it all



“Better Man. Better Father.”

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Closed Doors Open New Paths | Ep 192 | The Dear Son, Show

Exclusive conversations not offered anywhere else. Take a deeper look into my journey to becoming a better man and father.

This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.