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Dear Shandy

Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!


Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership.

Episodes

Navigating Enmeshment and Setting Boundaries with Alyssa Mancao
Show Details57min 20s
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Hometowns, Emotional Breakthroughs, & Punctual Professions Of Love
Show Details1hr 23min
Q&A! Changing Names, Revealing FWB History, Sharing Secrets, & "Timing" Truths
Show Details1hr 22min
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | No Tears? No Problem! A Bachelor Edit To The Rescue
Show Details1hr 18min
LOVE FEST! Sarah Herron & Dylan Brown's Real Life Meet Cute & IVF Journey
Show Details1hr 8min
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Minneapolis Is For Lovers But Especially Joe & Nayte
Show Details1hr 16min
My Boyfriend's Sister Is Increasingly Rude To Me—Should I Confront Her?
Show Details51min 57s
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | Feeling Unseen, Teddy Bros, and D-List Villainy
Show Details1hr 19min
Truths Bombs About Egg Freezing & Fertility with Whitney Bischoff Angel
Show Details1hr 17min
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Petulance, Poetry, and Justice
Show Details1hr 24min
Q&A! Number Ratings, Double Dipping, and Did He "Hit It and Quit It"?
Show Details1hr 23min
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Basketball Bonding, Bad Spelling, and Rumors Swirling
Show Details1hr 25min
LOVE FEST! 100 Foot Wave's Garrett and Nicole McNamara on "Knowing" and Never Settling
Show Details1hr 23min
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | If You Want To Make ABC Laugh, Tell Them About Your Plans
Show Details1hr 17min
Should I Hold Out For Long Distance To End, Or Let Go And Enjoy Singledom? Help!
Show Details1hr 2min
Breakup Bootcamp: Rewiring Your Heart with Amy Chan
Show Details1hr 12min
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale | Breakups, Offscreen Makeups, and Proposals—Oh My!
Show Details1hr 5min
Q&A! Everyday Annoyances, Early Stage Doubts, and Whether Or Not White Lies Equal Red Flags
Show Details1hr 20min
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 10 | Ivan-Gate, Conspiracy Theories, and Memory Lanes
Show Details1hr 23min
LOVE FEST! Jasmine Lorimer & Eric Johnson on Italian Accents and Love Languages
Show Details1hr 32min
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Couples Get Serious As A *Literal* Storm Brews
Show Details1hr 12min
My Boyfriend Just Can't Get It Right With Gifts—Help!
Show Details59min 36s
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 8 | Comeuppance, Universal Hypocrisy, and Palate Cleanser Dr. Joe
Show Details1hr 16min
It's Our 1-Year Anniversary! A Special Q&A For Our Listeners, The Shandies!
Show Details1hr 10min
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 7 | A VIP Party, Chris, & The Betrayals Continue
Show Details1hr 7min
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 6 | Brendan & Pieper, Paradise's Bonnie & Clyde
Show Details1hr 8min
Q&A! Fairytale Fantasies, Going Backwards, and How Many Friends With Exes Is Too Many?
Show Details1hr 11min
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 5 | Becca Kufrin, Jewelry, and A "Strongest Couple" No More
Show Details54min 23s
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Strawberry Kisses, Betrayal, and Paradise "Implodes"
Show Details1hr 6min
LOVE FEST! Chatty Broads' Jess and Evan Ambrose on Growing Together and Adapting To Parenthood
Show Details1hr 29min
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Lance Bass, Thomas, and The Police Department
Show Details46min 24s
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Cat 4 Demi, Pot Meet Kettle, and The Value Of A Rose
Show Details47min 1s
Our Meeting Story Feels Serendipitous—But Am I Forcing This? Help!
Show Details1hr 3min
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | David Spade, Kissing Galore, and "Grocery Store" Joe's Anti-Game
Show Details50min 10s
How To Attract The Relationship You Want with Tracy McMillan
Show Details1hr 18min
Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Terse Well Wishes, Aunt Lindsay, & A New Bachelor Nation Couple
Show Details1hr 31min
Q&A! Relationship Nostalgia, Decoding FWB Situations, and Coulda Woulda Shoulda
Show Details1hr 18min
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 9 | Greg, Greg, and More Greg (Plus Our Predictions!)
Show Details1hr 32min
LOVE FEST! Nick Viall & Natalie Joy on How They Met and Building Trust
Show Details1hr 34min
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 | Michael, Tear Analysis, and Men Tell All
Show Details1hr 8min
My Boyfriend's Close Girl Friend Doesn't Like Me! Help!
Show Details56min 30s
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Katie’s an Empath, Mike P & His Mom, a Heartfelt Farewell
Show Details1hr 10min
Relationship Astrology: Birth Chart Compatibility & Tarot Reading
Show Details1hr 3min
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Hunter, "Operation WOWO", and Lose-Lose Situations
Show Details1hr 21min
Q&A! First Love Lasting, Friends or More, & Money Insecurity in Dating
Show Details1hr 33min
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Party Crasher Blake, Andrew S. 1-on-1, & Hunter
Show Details1hr 7min
LOVE FEST! Katie Morton & James Rowe On Making Long-Distance Work
Show Details1hr 7min
Bachelorette Recap: Episode 4 | Blake Moynes & Bachelor Thomas
Show Details1hr 24min
In Spite Of Multiple "Wrongs", Can He Still Be Mr. Right?
Show Details1hr 11min
Bachelorette Recap: Episode 3 | Right Reasons™ Drama, Nick Viall's Group Date, & Instagram Thomas
Show Details1hr 13min
Demystifying Your Pelvic Health & Secret Tips For More Pleasure ft. Dr. Uchenna Ossai
Show Details1hr 17min
Bachelorette Recap: Episode 2 | Mike's Poem, Aaron vs. Cody, & "Right Reasons" Karl
Show Details1hr 8min
Q&A! Texting Chemistry, He's Just Not That Into You, & The One That Got Away
Show Details1hr 17min
Bachelorette Recap: Episode 1 | First Impressions, Kayshia, & Our Predictions
Show Details1hr 3min
LOVE FEST! Ben Higgins & Jess Clarke Reveal Why Their Relationship Works & Ben's Secret Zookeeper Past
Show Details1hr 16min
My Long-Term Boyfriend Is Unsure About Marriage—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?
Show Details1hr 18min
Nikki Glaser Confesses Crush on Nick Viall, Sliding Into Matt James's DMs & Secrets of Celebrity Dating
Show Details1hr 11min
Q&A! Making the First Move & Rekindling Romance From the Friendzone
Show Details1hr 19min
LOVE FEST! Sydney Lotuaco Reveals How Nick Wehby Slid Into Her DMs & Won Her Heart
Show Details1hr 12min
Did I Miss My Proposal?!
Show Details59min 53s
Confessions of a Reality TV Dating Show Host ft. Mark L. Walberg (Temptation Island)
Show Details1hr 13min
Q&A! Relationship Disillusionment
Show Details1hr 14min
LOVE FEST! Desiree & Chris Siegfried On How Kids Have Impacted Their Relationship
Show Details1hr 13min
I'm Secretly In Love With My Best Friend And Roommate—Help!
Show Details55min 36s
Confessions of a Family and Marriage Therapist ft. LizListens
Show Details1hr 10min
Q&A! He's Everything I Want, But We Don't Share the Same Sense of Humor—Help!
Show Details1hr 5min
LOVE FEST! Kaitlyn Bristowe & Jason Tartick Discuss Starting in the Friendzone
Show Details1hr 20min
I Don't Yearn For My Partner When We're Apart—Is This A Bad Sign?!
Show Details1hr 4min
Confessions of a Sex Therapist ft. Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy
Show Details1hr 19min
Q&A! Staying Connected with Exes on Social Media & Second Chances
Show Details1hr 22min
LOVE FEST! Ashley Iaconetti & Jared Haibon Reveal How Their Love Story Is the Exception to the Rule
Show Details1hr 18min
My Boyfriend and I View COVID Differently—Is This A Deal Breaker?!
Show Details1hr 19min
Navigating Jealousy in Relationships & Exploring Non-Monogamy ft. Janet W. Hardy
Show Details1hr 7min
Q&A! Keeping the Chemistry Alive & Navigating Unhappy Marriages
Show Details1hr 13min
LOVE FEST! Derek Peth & Saffron Vadher Talk Love At First Sight
Show Details1hr 19min
Did My Date Fake Sickness to Abruptly Leave Our Date?!
Show Details1hr 2min
Our Proposal Story
Show Details1hr 4min
Q&A! Compromising for Relationships & Leaving Lost Causes
Show Details1hr 13min
LOVE FEST! Rachel Lindsay & Bryan Abasolo Address Marriage Rumors and Cat Plates
Show Details1hr 17min
We're at an Emotional Stalemate—Should We Break Up?
Show Details1hr 8min
The Do's and Don'ts of Managing Finances As A Couple
Show Details57min 25s
Q&A! Dating Leagues & Yellow Flags
Show Details1hr 6min
LOVE FEST! Lesley Anne Murphy & Alex Kavanagh Talk Moving, Pregnancy, and Their Drone Love Story
Show Details1hr
Should I Tell My Ex Lover's Girlfriend About Our Secret Affair?
Show Details59min 18s
Confessions of a Divorced Man in His 40's ft. Comedian Dov Davidoff
Show Details59min 44s
Q&A! My Boyfriend Is Following His Ex's OnlyFans—Is This Borderline Cheating?!
Show Details1hr 19min
LOVE FEST! Astrid Loch & Kevin Wendt Talk Meeting on Bachelor in Paradise & Dominos Love
Show Details1hr 8min
I've Never Been in a Meaningful Relationship—Help!
Show Details1hr 14min
Enneagram Types in Relationships ft. Certified Enneagram Coach Steph Barron Hall
Show Details1hr 6min
Q&A! Dating Younger Men, Navigating Breakups, & Zombie Apocalypse Sex
Show Details57min 34s
LOVE FEST! Vanessa Grimaldi & Joshua Wolfe Chat Poop & Poutine
Show Details59min 59s
My Date Doesn't Ask Questions — Is it Him Or Me?
Show Details58min 23s
Can You Remain Friends With an Ex? ft. Andy's Ex-Fiancée
Show Details1hr 16min
Q&A! Prenups, Defining the Relationship, & Playing It Cool
Show Details55min 38s
LOVE FEST! Caila Quinn & Nick Burrello Talk Relationship Hurdles & Hobbit Feet
Show Details1hr 3min
My Real-Life "The Bachelor" Dating Scenario
Show Details1hr 4min
Welcome to Dear Shandy & How We Met
Show Details1hr 1min