&#34;getting it on!&#34; is your go-to podcast for redefining sex, relationships, and identity. Hosted by Jules and Bri, two nonbinary voices from different generations—a Gen Z and a Millennial—this podcast dives deep into the complexities of the many ways we connect. Whether we’re chatting candidly between ourselves, bringing in guests for diverse perspectives, or taking you along on field trips to explore sex and relationships in real life, we’re here to challenge norms, share stories, and explore your questions along the way. Tune in and let&#39;s get it on—together.

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Are you down for the flirt? In this episode, Jules and Bri attempt to define flirting (it’s messy!) and answer a listener question about flirting within relationships. They share stories of platonic flirting, bad pickup lines, and learning how to be a better flirt. <a href="https://forms.gle/CGWh5VdH5KBw1MUUA" rel="nofollow">Link to question form</a>Insta: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gettingiton.pod/" rel="nofollow">@gettingiton.pod</a> Music Credit: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thekillcris/" rel="nofollow">@thekillcris</a> on Instagram

flirting: episode 9

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What&#39;s the difference between jealousy and envy? Is feeling jealous bad? How do we navigate jealousy in healthy ways? Bri and Jules answer these questions and more while talking through their own experiences with the complicated feeling of jealousy. <a href="https://forms.gle/CGWh5VdH5KBw1MUUA" rel="nofollow">Link to question form</a>Insta: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gettingiton.pod/" rel="nofollow">@gettingiton.pod</a> Music Credit: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thekillcris/" rel="nofollow">@thekillcris</a> on Instagram

jealousy: episode 8

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It’s about to get awkward! In this episode, Bri and Jules break down the shame that can come up during sex. From periods to body hair, they’re breaking the silence on the stuff we’re taught to feel embarrassed about. To wrap up, they have fun answering a listener question about farting during sex (yes, it’s normal!).<a href="https://forms.gle/CGWh5VdH5KBw1MUUA" rel="nofollow">Link to question form</a>Insta: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gettingiton.pod/" rel="nofollow">@gettingiton.pod</a> Music Credit: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thekillcris/" rel="nofollow">@thekillcris</a> on Instagram

awkward moments: episode 7

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In this episode of getting it on!, Bri and Jules take a trip down memory lane, and into the bedroom, as they talk all things sex toys. The conversation spans from their first experiences (awkward? magical? both?) to how their relationship with toys has evolved. They also answer a listener question about how to stop seeing sex toys as “the enemy” in partnered sex, and dive into a discussion about queer and gender-affirming toys that prioritize pleasure for every body. Whether you&#39;re toy-curious or a seasoned silicone connoisseur, this one’s for you.<a href="https://forms.gle/CGWh5VdH5KBw1MUUA" rel="nofollow">Link to question form</a>Insta: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gettingiton.pod/" rel="nofollow">@gettingiton.pod</a> Music Credit: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thekillcris/" rel="nofollow">@thekillcris</a> on Instagram

toys R us: episode 6

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Platonic, romantic, and sexual, oh my! Tune is as Bri and Jules attempt to define different types of attraction (spoiler alert! it’s challenging). They then dive into their own experiences, from childhood crushes to queer awakenings, and share unexpected traits they find attractive. <a href="https://forms.gle/CGWh5VdH5KBw1MUUA" rel="nofollow">Link to question form</a>Insta: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gettingiton.pod/" rel="nofollow">@gettingiton.pod</a> Music Credit: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thekillcris/" rel="nofollow">@thekillcris</a> on Instagram

all about attraction: episode 5

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Gender? I hardly know her! From childhood toys and haircuts to pronouns and political action, Jules and Bri take you on a journey through their genders. Tune in to unpack the ways gender is intertwined in our lives from birth and what it can look like to explore more nuance. They wrap up by answering a listener question about how cis people can make space for non-binary people. <a href="https://forms.gle/CGWh5VdH5KBw1MUUA" rel="nofollow">Link to question form</a>Insta: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gettingiton.pod/" rel="nofollow">@gettingiton.pod</a> Music Credit: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thekillcris/" rel="nofollow">@thekillcris</a> on Instagram

gender journeys: episode 4

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Tune in as Bri and Jules share updates on their love lives and look to the year ahead. From breakups to new relationships, a lot is happening! Jules discusses their relationship with polyamory versus monogamy, and asks Bri for advice on maintaining independence while in a relationship. Bri explains their perspective on romance, and asks for tips on meeting queer people. <a href="https://forms.gle/CGWh5VdH5KBw1MUUA" rel="nofollow">Link to question form</a>Insta: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gettingiton.pod/" rel="nofollow">@gettingiton.pod</a> Music Credit: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thekillcris/" rel="nofollow">@thekillcris</a> on Instagram

relationship goals: episode 3

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In this episode of getting it on!, Jules and Bri discuss their own journeys of sexual exploration, and share about everything from masturbation to virginity. They explore the nuances of those milestones and how their perspectives on sexuality have evolved over time. Plus, they dive into a listener&#39;s question on how to keep exploring sexual interests outside of partnered sex. Tune in for a thoughtful, vulnerable conversation about self-discovery, unlearning societal norms, and the endless possibilities of sexual exploration.<a href="https://forms.gle/CGWh5VdH5KBw1MUUA" rel="nofollow">Link to question form</a>Insta: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gettingiton.pod/" rel="nofollow">@gettingiton.pod</a> Music Credit: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thekillcris/" rel="nofollow">@thekillcris</a> on Instagram

sexploration: episode 2

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Welcome to the first-ever episode of getting it on! Meet your co-hosts, Jules and Bri, as they kick off this journey of redefining sex, relationships, and identity. In this debut episode, Jules and Bri introduce themselves, share the inspiration behind the podcast, and give a sneak peek into the wide-ranging topics they’ll explore in future episodes.From queerness and gender to the history of romance, relationships, and the complexities of consent, getting it on is all about diving into the messy, joyful, awkward, and beautiful aspects of being human. Jules reveals their plan to make out more this year, while Bri shares their intention to take a step back from sex and focus on internal growth instead. Along the way, expect bad jokes, big feelings, and candid conversations.Whether you&#39;re here for the laughs, the insights, or a bit of both, this episode sets the stage for a podcast that’s as relatable as it is thought-provoking. Let’s get it on—together!<a href="https://forms.gle/CGWh5VdH5KBw1MUUA" rel="nofollow">Link to question form</a>Insta: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gettingiton.pod/" rel="nofollow">@gettingiton.pod</a> Music Credit: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thekillcris/" rel="nofollow">@thekillcris</a> on Instagram

getting it on for the first time: episode 1

"getting it on!" is your go-to podcast for redefining sex, relationships, and identity. Hosted by Jules and Bri, two nonbinary voices from different generations—a Gen Z and a Millennial—this podcast dives deep into the complexities of the many ways we connect. Whether we’re chatting candidly between ourselves, bringing in guests for diverse perspectives, or taking you along on field trips to explore sex and relationships in real life, we’re here to challenge norms, share stories, and explore your questions along the way. Tune in and let's get it on—together.