Your son will not be his greatest self without a good father figure thats consistent.

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This idea that boys need this or don't do that...

It's very limiting to who they can become.

We expect a lot more consideration and empathy when it comes to grown men. But if you sit down with those men and ask them about their upbringing and the things they were allowed to do and the things they were allowed to express you will see that it was very limited.

If you would like to raise a boy that turns into a man who is empathetic kind and willing to look out for other people... you have to allow him to tap into that while he is young.

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As parents, we do not get the last say on the influence that is on our children. When it comes to boys, we have to help guide them in the right direction of standards, values, and who good people truly are. Boys are going to choose what they want to do, when they want to do it and who to do things with.

But if you have enough, great people around your son while he's growing up, he will be more likely to make better choices on who he needs to be around. Social media, school and friends has more influence on who our children will become compared to parents.

Once parents understand that, you will be more mindful and get into deeper discussions with your son about who he is around and what his experiences are.

Today's episode I'm talking about the influence that is on your son.

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Teach your son's that its a good thing to take care of their home and body.

Everyone doesn't get to enjoy it. People do not need all access to your home either.

Be picky.

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Raising a son is one thing, but are you raising them to think. How do they handle solving problems alone? Are they competent? Do they show compassion to other people and do they know what they're capable of?

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Boys need to learn trust early to know what it feels and looks like.

Trust building is important.

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If I had a son, I would make sure that I am providing the village of people that my son needs to be his greatest self. A lot of of your son's confidence and wisdom should come from home and the environment that he's in the most. So make sure the men that are in your life are good for the life. Your son will grow into. Press play and I'll tell you more.

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We have seen the headlines the recordings and the clinch jaws and interviews as lies are being told. We know that these all these Black people did not take themselves outside and hang them themselves by trees. One incident on camera is not the explanation for them all.

We know that our children, despite where we put them in the best schools or the best clothes will still be treated unfairly because their skin.

There is no way to escape the ignorance that will come towards your child because of their blackness.

Black parents do not get to raise their children in this bubble where racism does not exist.We do not get to raise our children with the mindset that they will be accepted in spaces that they are excellent in. And this episode things I might say may rub you the wrong way, but is it it is the reality of the situation and the faster you raise your child to understand.

This is the weight that you carry when you are black the safer your Black Kids will be in spaces where you are absent.

Another Black Body

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Life skills for boys are important.

Independent thinking is important.

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This is a very important episode. It is explicit. But if your child is ready to listen to this with you just press play.

The reality is these kids today have access to so much sexually that they shouldn't that we cannot just stay in and day out not have these discussions. And there is a lot of sexual responsibility that boys should be aware of that they're not and so yeah this episode is all about that !!!

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Empty praising your child is not going to build integrity, values, or standards. You're going to teach your child to perform for treats. And last time I checked, we are raising human beings, not animals. In this episode, I will discuss ways you can stop and rephrase how you want to praise your son in a better way.

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A boy who understands the value of a dollar becomes a man who understands where to put his money. I think if you can introduce money habits to boys early do so but make sure they have the basics down packed. In today's episode I explore the different age ranges of how you would teach your son about money and who to have your son around.

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Step Fam Day : celebrating families that are blended coming together.

As we should.... you don't have to be punished by unwanted singleness because past relationships didn't work. If you meet another adult who wants family togetherness like you... go for it.

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In order to raise a good man, you have to have the qualities of a good mother.

Just because you gave birth to a child or you adopted a child doesn't mean you foster the qualities to allow that boy to become a good man. There are qualities that a boy needs from other men and other people in his life. Do you have the village to facilitate that? Let's talk.

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Sorry, to all the people lost on 9/11

Today is a real one. Moms, please let ya son know that you are not a super hero and that should not be the expectation for any woman.

If you do not talk to your sons as they grow up with you and let them know what you do is a choice that you are making for them. This expectation of struggle becomes a norm in their minds when it comes to women. Women today are looking for a partners and men who were probably raised by their mothers only. And what a lot of women are met with our men who think struggling for a woman with children should be a norm. Let's change that.

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Rejection is a normal part of life. Protecting your son from it or acting like they are too good to ever experience it... is setting them up for failure.

You can experience rejection in:

1.Games

2.Challenges

3.People not liking them

4.Future Jobs not hiring them

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If you want boys to become outstanding men, you have to give them space to develop different characteristics that create that.

Boys don't grow up to become great men who are leaders with ethics and empathy for other people because of magic.

Rules, guidance and discipline with challenges have to be experienced and practiced. So that means the boy moms have to let go and create spaces for their boys to develop this.

I think today a lot of moms struggle with letting go of their boys hands in life. And when you hold onto too long boys, do not know how to meet challenges face-to-face with accountability. In today's episode I'm talking about not making excuses for your son.

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It's is imperative that your boys learn how to use their words, expressing themselves without getting too emotional.

We can't understand you when you yelling and crying.

What are you thinking or feeling?

Why are you angry?

Just because you're a boy doesn't mean you need to break things.

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Teach them young so better habits show as they grow.

Your sons can learn so much more from you.

Fill in the Gaps as his mom...

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In 2026, If you meet a boy who can really explain to you how they are feeling and what their thoughts are... Its a breath of fresh air.

They just grow into young men who can express themselves effectively. isn't that what we want? No more shrugs, no more I don't know's for answers. No more substance abuse for numbing, words and solutions to give.

If I was a boy Mom I would do everything I could to make sure my son had just that.

Let me explain.

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