Boys need to learn trust early to know what it feels and looks like.

Trust building is important.

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If I had a son, I would make sure that I am providing the village of people that my son needs to be his greatest self. A lot of of your son's confidence and wisdom should come from home and the environment that he's in the most. So make sure the men that are in your life are good for the life. Your son will grow into. Press play and I'll tell you more.

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We have seen the headlines the recordings and the clinch jaws and interviews as lies are being told. We know that these all these Black people did not take themselves outside and hang them themselves by trees. One incident on camera is not the explanation for them all.

We know that our children, despite where we put them in the best schools or the best clothes will still be treated unfairly because their skin.

There is no way to escape the ignorance that will come towards your child because of their blackness.

Black parents do not get to raise their children in this bubble where racism does not exist.We do not get to raise our children with the mindset that they will be accepted in spaces that they are excellent in. And this episode things I might say may rub you the wrong way, but is it it is the reality of the situation and the faster you raise your child to understand.

This is the weight that you carry when you are black the safer your Black Kids will be in spaces where you are absent.

Another Black Body

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Life skills for boys are important.

Independent thinking is important.

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This is a very important episode. It is explicit. But if your child is ready to listen to this with you just press play.

The reality is these kids today have access to so much sexually that they shouldn't that we cannot just stay in and day out not have these discussions. And there is a lot of sexual responsibility that boys should be aware of that they're not and so yeah this episode is all about that !!!

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Empty praising your child is not going to build integrity, values, or standards. You're going to teach your child to perform for treats. And last time I checked, we are raising human beings, not animals. In this episode, I will discuss ways you can stop and rephrase how you want to praise your son in a better way.

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A boy who understands the value of a dollar becomes a man who understands where to put his money. I think if you can introduce money habits to boys early do so but make sure they have the basics down packed. In today's episode I explore the different age ranges of how you would teach your son about money and who to have your son around.

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Step Fam Day : celebrating families that are blended coming together.

As we should.... you don't have to be punished by unwanted singleness because past relationships didn't work. If you meet another adult who wants family togetherness like you... go for it.

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In order to raise a good man, you have to have the qualities of a good mother.

Just because you gave birth to a child or you adopted a child doesn't mean you foster the qualities to allow that boy to become a good man. There are qualities that a boy needs from other men and other people in his life. Do you have the village to facilitate that? Let's talk.

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Sorry, to all the people lost on 9/11

Today is a real one. Moms, please let ya son know that you are not a super hero and that should not be the expectation for any woman.

If you do not talk to your sons as they grow up with you and let them know what you do is a choice that you are making for them. This expectation of struggle becomes a norm in their minds when it comes to women. Women today are looking for a partners and men who were probably raised by their mothers only. And what a lot of women are met with our men who think struggling for a woman with children should be a norm. Let's change that.

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Rejection is a normal part of life. Protecting your son from it or acting like they are too good to ever experience it... is setting them up for failure.

You can experience rejection in:

1.Games

2.Challenges

3.People not liking them

4.Future Jobs not hiring them

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If you want boys to become outstanding men, you have to give them space to develop different characteristics that create that.

Boys don't grow up to become great men who are leaders with ethics and empathy for other people because of magic.

Rules, guidance and discipline with challenges have to be experienced and practiced. So that means the boy moms have to let go and create spaces for their boys to develop this.

I think today a lot of moms struggle with letting go of their boys hands in life. And when you hold onto too long boys, do not know how to meet challenges face-to-face with accountability. In today's episode I'm talking about not making excuses for your son.

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It's is imperative that your boys learn how to use their words, expressing themselves without getting too emotional.

We can't understand you when you yelling and crying.

What are you thinking or feeling?

Why are you angry?

Just because you're a boy doesn't mean you need to break things.

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Teach them young so better habits show as they grow.

Your sons can learn so much more from you.

Fill in the Gaps as his mom...

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In 2026, If you meet a boy who can really explain to you how they are feeling and what their thoughts are... Its a breath of fresh air.

They just grow into young men who can express themselves effectively. isn't that what we want? No more shrugs, no more I don't know's for answers. No more substance abuse for numbing, words and solutions to give.

If I was a boy Mom I would do everything I could to make sure my son had just that.

Let me explain.

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Let's be for real people.

The point is the kids can't read in elementary, middle school and high school.

A lot of 20 year olds, 30 yr olds and 40 year old lack comprehension in the common work place.

AI systems are replacing people who are terrible at counting and reading.

Do we really want to focus on "feelings" of what's being said vs " Purpose" ?!?

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Assertive boys have to know when... is not the time.

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As a mom of a boy, I would definitely kill the mindset that girls clean while boys relax and play games. Not in my house in this episode I talk about how cleaning, good hygiene and cooking are human skills. The boys you raise should know how to do all of it.

Welcome to another episode of Cozy Womb Podcast.

Thank you for listening and thank you for being here.

Don't forget to like and rate the show and share it with another parent.

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Raising boys without a man that your son can respect and see is a gamble. 10 out of 10 I would not recommend any woman to raise their son without a great male role model. Your son needs to see who he could possibly become, and if the men around your child are not great and do not do well in life, what does your son have to look forward to?

In today's episode I talk about mothers raising their sons without men and the pros and cons of it.

If this is something you're interested in listening to please continue to listen, and if this is something, you've also been questioning continue to listen.

Welcome to another episode of Cozy Womb podcast and this season. I'm focusing on the thought of if I had a son, what would I do differently.

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The kids now are behind in school. The support parents give got behind. Let me explain.

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