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Don’t Prey On Broken Women | The Dear Son, Show | Ep 84 #fatherhood #parenting #brokenwomen #brokenmen #dating

48m | Sep 27, 2023

Dear son, don’t prey on broken women. In this age of opportunity and seemingly unlimited access to everything, don’t allow women to become a commodity in your mind. Every opportunity to gain, isn’t a good or fair opportunity, especially when it comes to women. The simple truth is that how you treat them is always a reflection of you. The woman you choose reflects your decision making, tolerances, and morals. Remember that.

Now, I’ll dismount my high horse to communicate more transparently and practically. This conversation stems from experiences (personal and observed), and it caused me to address some of my past behaviors. Some of the perspective sounded hypocritical in real-time; however, I’d rather have these conversations with my son to give him a roadmap rather than celebrate him arriving at the same destinations I should’ve avoided.

We took advantage of this safe space to evaluate how we want our sons to view women, and how we want our daughters to view themselves. There’s so much bad advice about who is the “prize,” and all the while prizes are rewards for playing games. We can play around with the semantics and delineate between earthly and heavenly applications, I get it. I don’t want my daughters believing that they are an objective accomplishment based on a man’s performance. Okay…so I’ve mounted the high horse again. Check the episode and sound off as you’re so inspired.

This conversation, as do most, provides a transparent view of life through the lens of fatherhood; however, it does not exclude women. There may be parallel experiences that resonate with you, or you may just want a peak into the minds of men. We wouldn’t be here without you. You're welcome.... you’re all welcome. We invite you to take this ride with us to experience life as we know it.

We learned quite about ourselves during this dialogue, and that’s typical. Hopefully, a point or two will prompt you to have similar meaningful discussions in your home. We highly recommend that you consume the entire episode for the best results. Also, meet us in the comments or tag us with your opinion on social media via the links below. As always, we welcome your perspective. It takes a village.

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