• "Humanity is in the dark ages” - Teal Swan Tears Apart Society’s Approach To Trauma, Love, And Life

    Teal Swan is a Youtuber and spiritual teacher.

    We chat about what childhood traumas lead to narcissism, what a soul retrieval is and how you can do and if claims of remote viewing, ESP and seeing auras are legitimate

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    00:00 Intro

    01:09 - Reaction to Theo Von and Tony Robbins Interview

    04:16 - How Narcissism Starts

    08:59 - Developing the Chronic Manipulation Skill

    11:33 - Dysfunctional Family

    13:23 - What is Emotional Incest

    16:39 - Is It Love or Just an Energy Exchange?

    19:42 - The Rigid Idea of a Healthy Relationship

    22:26 - This is What Abusive Relationships Do to You

    26:41 - Sexual Compatibility Impacts Relationship Compatibility

    30:15 - The Difference in Personality Preference

    34:45 - Healing Inside a New Relationship

    39:18 - What is Soul Retrieval?

    44:33 - Little Moments, Huge Impact

    50:10 - An Template for Success

    55:30 - Diversity and Wokeism

    59:57 - Dichotomy Versus Discrepancy

    01:03:38 - Human Beings are Overly Identified

    01:07:27 - How Can You Inspire Trust?

    01:10:17 - Technology is Our Slave

    01:11:23 - Is AI Developing Consciousness?

    01:13:08 - Ancestral Trauma

    01:17:08 - Being Aware of Your Own Gifts

    01:23:06 - Where to Find Teal?



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    1h 26m | Feb 16, 2024
  • How To Be A Man That Women Respect - Dr Robert Glover

    Men today have a strange problem. Many of them are just too nice for their own good.


    Doctor Robert Glover helps them fix that. Not so that they can become sociopaths or jerks. But so that they can become confident, assertive grown ups who don’t have to resort to manipulation or people pleasing to get their needs met.


    We discuss what childhood experiences create nice guy syndrome, why nice guys are on the rise in the last 50 years and how to shift into men that women are actually deeply attracted to and more importantly that respect themselves


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    00:00 Intro

    00:43 Nice Guy No More?

    04:30 The Nice Guy Persona

    09:15 How Childhood Uncomfortable Feelings Affect Adulthood

    15:19 How Your Relationship Shapes Your Partner

    17:47 Don’t Trade Your Purpose for Romance

    22:43 Positive Emotional Tension

    26:36 The Masculine and Feminine Polarity

    30:12 We All Have Masculine and Feminine Energy Within Us

    40:43 The Guilt of Returning the Favor Received

    45:44 Hidden and Repressed Pleasure of Sexuality

    55:22 How Do We Unwire Sexual Shame?

    01:01:02 The Share-Test Method

    01:05:52 You Control Your Own Sexuality

    01:10:15 Take the Shame Away

    01:18:50 Learn How to Defend Your Needs

    01:22:40 The Concept of Differentiation

    01:27:13 Staying Monogamous Without Sacrificing Sexual Freedom

    01:32:06 Tension Between Being You and Meeting Your Partner’s Needs

    01:34:39 Why Do Men Grow Up Pleasing Women?



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    1h 36m | Feb 9, 2024
  • PsychoTherapist on Why 99% Are Stuck In Past Failures (Dr. Richard Schwartz Interview)

    Dr. Richard Schwartz is world leading psychotherapist who in the 1980s develop a revolutionary branch of therapy called Internal Family Systems (IFS).


    We chat about how people have split personality or "parts", why past traumas are unconsciously keeping you stuck and how 16 IFS sessions can cure anxiety, stress and even PTSD.


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    00:00 Intro

    01:32 What is IFS?

    04:17 How IFS Can Help with Anxiety

    06:20 Unlocking a Part of You

    08:09 The Other Side of Having Multiple Personalities

    11:03 The 8 C’s We All Have

    13:24 No Bad Parts, Just Extreme Experiences

    15:56 The Negative Effects of Childhood Abuse

    19:56 One of the Goals of IFS

    20:46 Men’s Mental Health

    24:23 Constraining Masculinity

    30:17 The Story of an Activist with a Traumatic Past

    33:57 Defining Your True Self

    35:45 Spirituality and Meditation

    39:48 Here’s How to Get to Know Your Inner Self Better

    54:02 Other Options to Help with IFS

    55:09 Taking in the Energy of the Abuser

    59:22 How to Get Yourself Out of Negative Thoughts

    01:00:53 Punishment Versus Discipline

    01:01:34 Where to Find Dick Schwartz



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    1h 2m | Dec 29, 2023
  • Creativity, Emotional Truths and Why I Started Eating Meat Again

    On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about the source of creativity, why he started eating meat again and his reaction to the Hasan Minaj apology.


    Thanks for listening!


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    1h 6m | Dec 1, 2023
  • Former Pentagon Insider: Don’t Believe The Studies.. Do THIS Instead

    Andrew Herr is an expert in human performance who developed biotech strategy for the US military including the Navy Seals.


    We chat about the terrible health advice from the US government including the "food pyramid", how Public Health lies have left the average American unsure how to improve their lives and how to use your personal health data to optimize your focus and mood...


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    00:00 Intro

    01:08 You Can’t Trust the Government

    03:48 Debunking Health Fads

    06:52 Customized Approach to Staying Healthy

    10:38 10 Things People Care Most About

    13:08 Anxiety's Impact on the Immune System

    14:22 How Food and Lifestyle are Poisoning Us

    21:00 The Dangers of Ultra Processed Food

    24:49 Why Do We Crave Sugar?

    26:27 How to Fix Your Immune System

    29:46 Burnout and Stress

    33:46 Drug Addiction

    35:00 Was COVID Lockdown Ineffective?

    38:08 Obesity Drugs Don’t Work

    43:28 Figure Out What Works For You

    51:19 Testosterone Boost

    52:57 Performance Enhancers

    1:00:26 Food Allergy Tests

    1:01:48 The Elimination Diet

    1:04:00 Ways to Get Better Sleep

    1:06:08 Service Fount Offers

    1:10:30 Where to Find Fount


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    1h 11m | Nov 24, 2023
  • Intuition, Productivity, and Leadership Rules From An 8-Figure Founder (Ft. Rian Doris)

    Rian Doris  @riandoris  is the co-founder of the Flow Research Collective where he teaches people to reliably enter the flow state for higher performance in life's most high pressure situations. He also owns several other businesses including sam ovens's Consulting.com which he purchased from him earlier this year.


    We chat about developing rock solid intuition, the most important leadership lessons for 8-figure businesses and Rian's incredible story of overcoming a traumatic brain injury as a teenager.


    Rian is so sharp and I really love this conversation so I hope you do too!


    Thanks for listening!


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    00:00 Intro

    00:57 Early Start in Business

    02:08 Becoming Steven Cotler’s Intern

    04:07 What is Intuition?

    07:03 How Sports Give Rise to Flow State

    09:35 Brand Growth

    11:40 Life After a Severe Head Injury

    17:01 How to Maximize Optionality and Opportunity

    20:11 Decreased Sense of Self Consciousness

    22:44 The Future of Humans and AI

    25:11 Limitless Material Abundance?

    27:21 Memes Versus Genes

    30:50 The Fundamental Unit of Any Business

    35:11 How to Recruit the Best Talents

    42:47 Intuition Made Practical

    47:00 The Ultimate Success Killer

    52:43 Two Productivity Networks of the Brain

    55:12 Single Focus Versus Strategic Neglect

    57:48 Top Two Sources of Happiness

    1:00:10 Investing in Your Happy Space

    1:03:53 Intersection Between Goals and Belonging

    1:05:39 Digital Nomad is Overrated

    1:07:57 Practicing the Flow Teaching

    1:10:53 The Truth About Strategic Neglect

    1:14:58 Learn More About Rian


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    1h 16m | Nov 17, 2023
  • Meet The Man Who Talked His Way Into A HollyWood Dream Job

    Adi Shankar  @bootleguniverse123  is a Hollywood producer who is the go to guy for adaptions of video game series.


    Including Netflix shows like CastleVania, Captain LaserHawk and the upcoming Devil May Cry show.


    We chat about how he created his dream job in 20's, how he convinced HollyWood gatekeepers to let me pursue his vision without their interference and the steps to invent your own job that is both creatively fulfilling and commercially successful.


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    00:00 Intro

    00:22 Creative Process for Captain Laserhawk

    04:47 George R. R. Martin’s Creative Mind

    07:03 When the Character Feels Soulless

    08:23 Conversation with George R. R. Martin

    12:59 Wrong Assumptions

    15:34 Dark Take on Richie Rich

    23:58 Fan Fiction Short Films

    27:30 Securing Resources and Funds

    35:29 Strategy to Get Recognized

    41:09 Deconstructing the Core Elements

    43:17 Do You Need Social Media?

    48:44 The Value You Put Out as a Creator

    52:36 The Creator Economy

    58:58 It Mainly Starts with Emulation

    1:04:36 Reservoir of Knowledge

    1:08:19 Resonating with the Audience

    1:13:49 Existing in the Extremes

    1:17:53 Follow Adi’s Work


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    1h 18m | Nov 3, 2023
  • Meet The Men Exposing The Sickness Of Modern Society (ft. The Minimalists)

    Josh and T.K. are two thirds of The Minimalists. They teach their followers how to get more from their lives by rejecting consumerism and pursuing what brings the most joy.


    We chat about the subtle ways that consumerism creeps into our lives, how to reconnect to the dreams that we lost in the pursuit of traditional success and how to generate permission-less abundance.


    Thanks for listening!


    TIMESTAMPS:

    00:00 Intro

    00:20 Minimalism's Purpose

    06:29 Deceptive Corporate Dynamics

    07:57 The Path To Genuine Happiness

    09:47 Validating The Desire For Validation

    15:03 Unlocking Creativity

    18:51 Defying Society’s Expectations

    23:48 Be The Friend Yourself Needs

    30:06 Living A Life That’s Not Yours

    34:47 Adding Value To People’s Lives

    39:24 The Art Of Deep Listening

    44:00 Natural Curiosity

    50:20 Metrics That Quantify Our Quality Of Life

    57:50 The Minimalist Life

    01:04:34 Leveraging Simplicity

    01:08:43 What Makes You Feel Alive?

    01:10:31 Foundation for Economic Education

    01:14:03 The Permissionless Mindset

    01:22:56 What We Admire Versus What We Advice

    01:25:29 Why Observations Are Better Than Advice

    01:29:52 The Real Business Is People

    01:33:26 How To Effectively Sell Your Product

    01:41:56 Finding Your Healthy Space


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    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰


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    1h 44m | Oct 27, 2023
  • Religion, Social Engineering, and The Corrupt US Healthcare System (ft. Justin Mares)

    Justin Mares is the founder of multiple health companies including Kettle and Fire, Perfect Keto, and TrueMed as well as a friend for many years.


    We chat about how his networking helped made him 8 figures, why he thinks the FDA has killed more Americans and any other governmental agency, and catch up on our beliefs about god, happiness, and life.


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    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

    00:00 Intro

    00:27 Am I An Atheist?

    04:43 The Story Of Jesus

    08:20 Is Parenthood For You?

    10:18 The Importance of Mentors in Success

    14:18 Community Effect on Mindset

    16:03 Consistent Outreach for Strong Bonds

    20:09 People Are Ready to Help

    22:09 Passion For Wellness

    27:17 Food Regulation

    28:24 How Food Can Be Deadly

    31:13 Capitalism Concept

    34:45 Conscience Check

    36:40 Why We Get Sick

    41:06 Outdated Treatment Model?

    43:19 The Unbeneficial Societal Trade

    46:53 Living Healthy Is Expensive

    51:09 Cold Plunge Demand

    53:14 Major Effect Of Environmental Toxins

    54:30 What Is Metabolic Psychiatry



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    55m | Oct 20, 2023
  • Tucker Max on Psychedelics for Personal Growth

    Tucker Max is a multiple time New York Times Best-Selling author. He's undergone a radical personal transformation from selfish playboy to dedicated father, business leader and now rancher as a result of therapy and psychedelics

    We chat about how someone can know what healing mode is best from them and the biggest lessons he's taken from his transformation


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    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

    00:00 Intro

    02:09 Psychedelics

    05:06 How To Deal With Negative Emotion

    08:04 Flawed People, Horrible Parents

    17:13 The Pain Of Rejection

    18:36 Mid Life Crisis

    22:42 Life Out of Balance

    24:40 Talk Therapy

    31:09 Psychedelic Therapy

    40:22 Finding Inner Peace

    45:33 Dysfunctional City Life

    48:17 Not Doing What You Preach

    52:00 The 2-Session Trap

    58:01 Trust Your Own Experience

    01:03:37 Healing From Parental Neglect

    01:09:45 Work On Yourself First

    01:12:48 Find Your Healthy Place

    01:20:48 A Mirror Of Your Own Life

    01:26:04 Relationship With God

    01:31:20 Oneness With The Universe

    01:35:00 Divine Connection

    01:39:41 Feelings I Didn’t Want To Feel

    01:44:10 Pay Attention To The Signs



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    1h 47m | Oct 13, 2023
  • Spirituality and Limitations of Self-Improvement (Ft. Matt Kahn)

    Matt Kahn is a speaker, author and spiritual teacher.

    We chat about the hidden limitations of self improvement, how to love and transform negative emotions, and the nuances of being led by your intuition rather than ego.

    Thanks for listening!


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    00:00 Intro

    00:13 Ego Versus Personal Growth

    04:38 The Ties Between Ego And Imagination

    09:37 How Do You Work On Yourself?

    11:40 Letting Go of Resistance

    17:43 The Positive Side Of Skepticism

    19:14 Leading With Self-Understanding

    23:15 Trust In The Unknown

    28:28 Mindful Decisions And Self Care

    30:27 The Freedom To Choose Our Diet

    35:44 Becoming A Healing Presence

    39:39 What Is Reputation?

    43:09 Holding Space For Others

    47:37 Supportive Boundaries: When Help Meets Consent

    53:21 Integrating Masculinity Into Femininity

    59:38 Environmental And Situational Awareness

    1:05:15 The Baggage Of Unprocessed Pain

    1:07:05 Our Expanding Consciousness

    1:12:04 Checkout Matt’s Work


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    1h 14m | Oct 6, 2023
  • Making Sense of The Russell Brand Accusations

    On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about the Russell Brand Allegations, Dave Portnoy vs. Washington Post and the Andrew Tate BBC and Vice interview


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    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

    00:00 Intro

    00:04 Russell Brand Accusations

    06:25 How Close Was Peace: The Ukraine-Russia War

    08:42 David Portnoy, Connor Murphy

    10:59 Russell Brand Victim Speaks Up

    12:49 Demonetized By YouTube

    14:01 Andrew Tate Commits Tax Fraud?

    15:46 Real World App: A Pyramid Scheme?

    19:10 Character Assassination

    21:26 David Portnoy vs. Washington Post

    25:09 Power Dynamic In The Workplace

    28:02 Victimhood Holds A Special Power

    33:01 Age of Maturity

    36:18 What Is Superego?

    39:08 Consent

    44:38 We All Want The Truth

    48:22 Moral Age of Consent

    50:43 Superego Culture


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    53m | Sep 22, 2023
  • Elon Musk and Shady Origins of Internet Marketing

    On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about Elon Musk's traumatic childhood, how to stop being a people pleaser and the shady origins of Internet Marketing 

    Thanks for listening!


    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 

    00:00 Surviving Abuse: Understanding Dissociative Reactions

    04:28 Is Elden Ring A War And Empire Building Game?

    07:06 The Physics And Material Science Genius

    08:25 Elon Musk's Business Decluttering Strategies

    12:16 Geniuses With Troubled Childhood

    12:46 John Harris’ The Downing Street Memo

    14:43 Who’s The Worst President?

    18:05 Internet Marketing Lies You Need to Know

    25:33 Our People Pleasing Tendencies

    30:17 Embracing The Power Of Breathwork

    35:15 How To Nurture Healthy Self-Ownership

    41:23 Firm Sense Of Ownership

    47:02 The Burden Of Carrying Stress Around


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    48m | Sep 15, 2023
  • Chatting With A Professional Dungeon Master

    On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command interviews Professional Game Master Timm Woods.


    Timm is an educator and storyteller who specializes in game-based education. He uses Tabletop Role-Playing Games, like the popular Dungeons & Dragons, to educate students and adults in social skills and critical thinking.


    Find Timm Online:

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    00:00 Crazy Intro

    01:34 What is D&D? (Dungeons & Dragons)

    04:06 How Timm Makes $100+ Per Hour Playing D&D

    05:41 The Subtle Art of the Game Master

    08:46 How Timm Designed His Own Dream Job

    13:59 Timm’s Life Changing Psychedelic Experience

    15:43 Timm’s Biggest Fear While Pursuing His Dreams

    17:12 Does Making Money Ruin the Integrity of Art?

    21:06 Following Your Dreams When No One Believes in You

    26:26 What Will the Audience of D&D Look Like in the Future?

    29:22 The Difference Between Male and Female D&D Players

    32:28 Making D&D Accessible to a Wider Audience

    36:40 The Ultimate Flexibility of D&D

    42:13 Timm’s Dissertation on D&D: The Value of Play

    51:34 The Danger of Losing a Sense of Play in Life

    54:06 What Makes a Perfect D&D Game?

    55:41 The Secret World of LARPing

    1:01:03 What Makes Games More Fun Than Life

    1:05:50 Why D&D Is More Exciting Than Video Games

    1:07:55 How to Create a Compelling Story

    1:10:40 Timm’s Worst D&D Experience

    1:15:40 How to Book Timm

    1:16:24 The Best D&D Show in the Game



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    1h 17m | Sep 8, 2023
  • Stop People Pleasing, Set Boundaries, And Find Your True Self - Ft Holistic Psychologist

    Dr. Nicole LePera is a clinical psychologist and owner of the Holistic Psychologist.

    We chat about the three core human needs, the subtle ways people compensate for not having those needs met and the steps that anyone can take to feel more authentically confident and connected to their true self.

    Thanks for listening!


    TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 Intro

    00:17 3 Core Emotional Needs

    05:27 Becoming Self-Aware

    11:07 Generational Empathy

    14:14 The Struggle OF Well-Meaning Parents

    18:59 Breaking Free From Repetitive Patterns

    23:02 Listen To Your Body

    28:33 Noticing Stress And Its Needs

    32:51 Rooted in Familiarity

    34:53 Craving Authenticity

    38:57 What Alone Time Signifies

    45:32 Trigger Points: What Do You Respond To?

    48:19 In Self-Preservation Mode

    52:42 Trapped in Outdated Notions

    59:05 Respectful Expression Of Your Perspective

    1:02:40 Embracing Flexible Boundaries

    1:09:34 Childlike Tendency To Personalize

    1:15:20 Grounds for Seeking Personal Space

    1:20:59 Emotional Gaps In Adults

    1:28:13 The Dynamics Of Secure Relationships

    1:32:06 The First Step To Ultimate Healing

    1:36:02 Our Ties to Everything

    1:41:32 Learn More About SelfHealers Circle


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    1h 45m | Sep 1, 2023
  • Divorce Lawyer Exposes The LIES We Tell About Love & Marriage

    James Sexton is a divorce lawyer in high-conflict cases. He wrote the book How To Stay In Love based on his nearly 3 decades of inside access to the explosive end of relationships


    We chat about why people grow to hate the ones they love, why marriage is a broken technology, how to craft the perfect prenup to avoid financial ruin, and the most important rule for not having your relationship end in a divorce.


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    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

    00:00 - Intro

    00:24 Divorce And Death

    06:28 The Inevitability of Mortality

    08:12 The Significance of Your Choice

    10:22 The Role of Marriage

    17:00 What's Worth Holding On To?

    22:54 The Anti-Cheating Factor

    28:20 How Sex Drives Successful Relationships

    30:40 The Perfect Prenup: Yours, Mine, Ours

    39:16 Men and Marriage

    48:38 Winning an Unjust Court Case

    58:20 Wealth's Influence on Justice

    1:00:04 Child Support: Legal Obligations Explained

    1:04:01 Making the Uncomfortable Your Ally

    1:07:52 Relationship Advice: Disappoint Your Partner

    1:11:43 The Threat of Inner Insecurities

    1:13:48 Core Needs

    1:18:00 Where James Learned Charisma

    1:25:01 How Conflict is Good For Couples

    1:27:21 Arguments

    1:34:37 Learn More About James Sexton



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    1h 39m | Aug 25, 2023
  • Jordan Peterson’s Mental Model For Betrayal and The Blind Side Lawsuit

    On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks Jordan Peterson’s Mental Model of Betrayal and the “Blind Side” Lawsuit


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    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

    00:00 What Are Mental Models?

    04:41 Processing Hurt From Others

    09:59 Tears: Manipulation Tool Or Genuine Emotion?

    12:12 Regrets Of An Elderly Man

    17:04 Finding Peace in Non-Achievement

    20:01 When Doing Nothing Speaks Volumes

    21:41 Transcending Fear of Death

    24:47 Michael Oher Speaks Up About Adoption Lie

    29:36 Exploiting Opportunities for Personal Gain

    31:27 Developing Better Instincts in Tough Choices

    33:46 Logan and Jake Paul’s Clash of Perspectives

    37:39 Kevin Spacey Got Hard Canceled

    38:33 Innocent Fearlessness in Kids



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    46m | Aug 18, 2023
  • Psychologist Explains Women's Dating Strategies & Why Young Men FAIL (ft. PyscHacks)

    Doctor Orion Taraban is a clinical psychologist and owner of the PsycHacks Youtube channel. @psychacks    


    In this episode we discuss the psychology of dating, the behavioral economics of dating and how those two things make men and women have very different incentives and approaches


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    TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 INTRO

    00:14 Why Women Go to Therapy 3 Times More Than Men

    03:27 Is Therapy Better Fit for Women?

    05:58 Men Find External Solutions to Internal Problems

    10:55 Why Modern Men Are Struggling in Dating

    13:30 Learning to Deal With Rejection

    15:50 The Romantic Ideal: Men Have Been Lied To

    20:53 Society’s Definition of Love Is Toxic

    23:22 Jesus: How Much Sacrifice Does Love Require?

    27:59 Loving Without Expecting Anything in Return

    30:23 "Love People Like Cats"

    32:29 Wounded People Recreate Their Traumatic Relationships

    35:05 The Crossroads: Where Decisions Really Matter

    37:14 How to Avoid Being Blinded by Emotions

    39:27 Stopping Negative Thought Cycles

    44:23 The Core of Mental Disorders: “Self-Focused Attention”

    45:34 The Surprising Power of Stepping Away From Alcohol

    47:22 The Black Pill: Young Men Giving Up on Life

    51:46 The Antidote to Hopelessness

    53:10 Being a Young Man Is Tough

    54:49 Should You “Grind Out” Your 20s?

    57:11 What It Means to Be a Man in 2023

    1:01:19 The Changing Definitions of Masculinity and Femininity

    1:05:05 Masculinity: “To Have a Spine and to Have a Pair”

    1:07:40 Covid and Conformity

    1:09:56 Having a Healthy Level of Self-Doubt

    1:11:21 When Should You Stand Up Against the Crowd?

    1:13:54 Is “Masculinity/Femininity” a Productive Framework?

    1:17:30 Why Women Are Frustrated With Modern Dating

    1:20:26 “Women Are Still Waiting for the Offer”

    1:22:12 Why 99% of Women Will Be Disappointed

    1:26:23 Can Evolutionary Psychology Explain Dating?

    1:28:15 Forming Relationships: Can Compatibility Beat Status?

    1:30:24 Beauty Doesn’t Make a Happy Relationship

    1:32:04 “Find Your Ugly Duckling”

    1:33:26 The Dark Horse Strategy

    1:35:41 Debate: Do Looks/Finances Really Matter That Much?

    1:39:16 Personality Disorders = Childhood Coping Mechanisms

    1:41:39 Uncovering Internal Wounds Without Becoming a Victim

    1:47:33 Can You Take on Too Much Responsibility?

    1:48:59 You’re Not Always the Problem

    1:51:16 The Pros and Cons of Spirituality

    1:54:22 The Point of Religion: “A Felt Connection With the Divine”

    1:57:37 People Never Love Each Other Exactly the Same Amount

    2:00:05 Check Out PsycHacks on YouTube and oriontarabanpsyd.com



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    2h 1m | Aug 11, 2023
  • Status Games, Class Warfare & The Psychology of The Rich (ft. Rob Henderson)

    On today's episode Charlie from Charisma on Command interviews Dr. Rob Henderson.


    Rob made it out of the chaos of poverty and foster care system to eventually receive his PHD from Yale


    We talk about the psychology of poverty, status games of the elites and class warfare.


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    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

    0:00 INTRO

    0:12 Every Name Has a Story to Tell

    02:48 Becoming Successful Against All Odds

    07:39 Poverty Comes in Many Forms

    11:06 Why Young People Like Jordan Peterson

    15:00 Finding Meaning in Serving Others

    17:59 The Nuclear Family vs Community Parenting

    21:03 The West Has Lost Community

    25:30 Individualism and the Pursuit of “Happiness”

    28:41 The 1% Rule: People Who Post Online Are Weird

    36:06 Being “High Class” Is More Than Being Wealthy

    39:33 Why Should You Care About Your Social Class?

    41:48 “Status Is at Least as Important as Money”

    44:37 Should You Pursue Status?

    49:20 How the Classes Think About Wealth Differently

    55:05 Luxury Beliefs: The New Way to Show Status

    59:56 The Real Consequences of “Defund the Police”

    1:05:47 The Hypocrisy of the Covid Lockdowns

    1:09:08 The Dark Side of Promoting Promiscuity

    1:15:34 The Elites Are Setting a Bad Example for Society

    1:21:04 The Truth About “Class Warfare”

    1:25:40 What Can We Do to Bring People Together?

    1:27:57 Is It Worth It to Work in Politics?

    1:30:26 Check Out Rob on Substack



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    1h 32m | Aug 4, 2023
  • 5 Personality Patterns and Anima Projection

    On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about the 5 Personality Patterns, Anima Projection and Oprah's Book "What Happened to You?"


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    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

    0:00 The 5 Personality Patterns

    1:06 #1: Leaving

    2:05 #2: Merging

    5:34 #3: Enduring

    10:40 #4: Aggressive

    13:06 Your Personality Pattern Isn’t Always the Same

    14:32 The Downside of Each Personality Pattern

    18:00 #5: Rigid

    21:12 How the Personality Patterns Interact

    25:42 Touching Your Core: Knowing What You Really Want

    30:07 You’re Not Just One Pattern

    30:50 The Subtle Art of Finding the Dose You Need

    35:57 The Dark Side of the Subconscious Mind

    38:59 “What Happened to You?”

    41:56 Anima/Animus Projection: “Much of What We Call Love”

    46:08 The Problem With Saying “You Complete Me”



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    51m | Jul 28, 2023
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