Who Would You Be If You Never Left Home? | EP 5
Some friendships skip the small talk entirely.
Samone and Brandee met at work and something just clicked. Here, the two trade stories about the towns that shaped them, the mothers who told them to get out and spread their wings, and the question that follows anyone who leaves: who would I have become if I'd stayed?
Along the way they get into the flow state of creative work and the burnout that comes after it, the shadow side of wellness culture, and Samone's years in disaster response, from Mississippi to a volcanic eruption in Hawaii. They also work out what it actually means to be a "girl's girl." Brandee opens up about being afraid of being perceived while still longing to be seen, the "out of sight, out of mind" habit they both inherited, and rediscovering her father through old family home videos. After a long stretch of bracing for the next blow, she talks about finally letting herself feel hope.
Chapters
00:00 Welcome to the Garden
03:08 What Made Us Click
04:47 Getting Paid for What You Love
05:56 Creativity, Flow & Burnout
08:43 The Shadow Side of Wellness Culture
10:08 Quieting the Mind, Not Erasing It
11:41 Take a Breath
12:15 Growing Up in Small-Town Utah
13:59 "You Have to Get Out of This Town"
15:36 Who Would I Have Been If I Stayed?
16:14 From Mississippi to a Volcano
20:05 The Ten-Year Time Capsule
23:14 Sisterhood & Being a Girl's Girl
25:22 Sisters Who Show Up
30:11 Raised by Strong Women
32:07 Fear of Being Perceived vs. Being Seen
34:34 The Different Levels of Friendship
36:44 Letting Yourself Hope Again
39:19 What Peace Feels Like
41:46 Faith, Shame & Believing for Yourself
45:37 Lost Memories & Healing Through Home Videos
48:17 Out of Sight, Out of Mind
50:45 Why Some People Never Leave Their Hometown
52:41 Who We Were Before We Left
54:17 Garden Notes
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