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On the night of November 17, 1978, four young employees arrived for what should have been an ordinary Friday shift at a Burger Chef restaurant in Speedway, Indiana.By morning, they had vanished.At first, police believed the missing workers had stolen money from the restaurant and fled. But hours later, the bodies of 20-year-old Daniel Davis, 17-year-old Jayne Friedt, 16-year-old Ruth Shelton, and 16-year-old Mark Flemmonds were discovered in a wooded area miles away.What followed was one of the most frustrating investigations in American true crime history. A crime scene was contaminated. Critical evidence was lost. Witness accounts conflicted. Suspects emerged and disappeared. Decades passed without arrests.More than 45 years later, the Burger Chef murders remain officially unsolved.In this episode, we examine the lives of the four victims, the events of that night, the investigation that followed, the mistakes that haunted the case, and the theories that continue to surround one of Indiana&#39;s most infamous unsolved murders.Because sometimes the greatest mystery isn&#39;t who committed the crime—it&#39;s whether the truth was missed when investigators had their best chance to find it. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

The Burger Chef Murders

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Ted Bundy had learned how to look normal.He was educated, politically ambitious, seemingly charming, and building the kind of life that made people believe they knew exactly who he was.They didn&#39;t.In Part Two of this six-part series, we follow Bundy into adulthood as he builds the public version of himself — relationships, university, politics and ambition — while something much darker is developing underneath.This is the period when Ted Bundy becomes “Ted.”And soon, women begin disappearing.Everybody remembers Ted. It&#39;s time we remembered his victims. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Ted Bundy Series - "Ted" part 2

Ted Bundy series - "Ted" part 2

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In January 2013, 17-year-old Kendrick Johnson was found dead inside a rolled-up gym mat at his high school in Valdosta, Georgia.What followed was years of controversy, lawsuits, competing theories, allegations of foul play, multiple investigations, and intense public debate.Was Kendrick&#39;s death a tragic accident as investigators concluded? Or were critical questions left unanswered?In this episode, we&#39;ll walk through the timeline, the autopsy findings, the physical evidence, the competing theories, and the investigations that followed. We&#39;ll separate documented facts from internet rumors and examine why this case continues to spark debate more than a decade later.As always, our focus is on evidence, verified information, and treating the victim at the center of this story with respect. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Kendrick Johnson: Accident, Murder, or Something In Between?

n January 2013, 17-year-old Kendrick Johnson was found dead inside a rolled-up gym mat at his high school in Valdosta, Georgia.What followed was years of controversy, lawsuits, competing theories, allegations of foul play, multiple investigations, and intense public debate.Was Kendrick&#39;s death a tragic accident as investigators concluded? Or were critical questions left unanswered?In this episode, we&#39;ll walk through the timeline, the autopsy findings, the physical evidence, the competing theories, and the investigations that followed. We&#39;ll separate documented facts from internet rumors and examine why this case continues to spark debate more than a decade later.As always, our focus is on evidence, verified information, and treating the victim at the center of this story with respect. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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Ever notice how, after a tragedy, the same comments always seem to appear?&#34;We all knew something was off about him.&#34;&#34;The signs were there.&#34;&#34;Nobody is surprised.&#34;So if the warning signs were obvious, why do dangerous men so often go unnoticed, excused, protected, or given endless second chances?In this episode of Let&#39;s Talk About Murder, we&#39;re looking at the psychology behind red flags, why communities often normalize threatening behaviour, why victims aren&#39;t always believed, and how dangerous people can hide in plain sight for years before anyone takes them seriously.We&#39;ll explore concepts like the halo effect, cognitive dissonance, social pressure, bystander behaviour, and the uncomfortable reality that sometimes people would rather explain away warning signs than confront them.Because the truth is, dangerous people rarely appear out of nowhere.More often, they spend years telling us exactly who they are.We just don&#39;t always listen. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Why we Ignore Dangerous Men, Until it's too Late.

Why We Ignore Dangerous Men Until It's Too Late

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Everybody knows the name Ted Bundy. But before he became one of America&#39;s most infamous serial killers, he was Theodore Robert Cowell.In Part One of this six-part series, we go back to the beginning — Bundy&#39;s childhood, his complicated family history, his early relationships, education and ambitions, and the years before his name became synonymous with murder.Over six episodes, we&#39;ll follow the crimes, investigation, escapes, trials and final confessions — but this isn&#39;t going to be six episodes celebrating the mythology of Ted Bundy.Everybody remembers Ted. It&#39;s time we remembered his victims. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Ted Bundy: Before He Became a Monster — Part 1

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In 2001, a man placed an advertisement online looking for a willing participant in one of the most disturbing fantasies imaginable.Shockingly, someone answered.This week we&#39;re examining the bizarre and deeply unsettling case of Armin Meiwes, a German man whose actions would become known around the world and spark debates about consent, murder, criminal responsibility, and the limits of the law.How did two strangers find each other online? Why did investigators struggle with the legal questions surrounding the case? And how did this extraordinary crime lead to changes in German legal thinking? Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

When Consent Wasn't Enough: The Case of Armin Meiwes

This week we&#39;re discussing the heartbreaking case of Kelly Anne Bates, a bright and caring teenager whose life became entangled with one of the most dangerous men imaginable.When Kelly began a relationship with a man more than twice her age, many people around her were concerned. Over time, those concerns grew as signs of control, isolation, and abuse became increasingly difficult to ignore. Tragically, the violence escalated behind closed doors until it culminated in one of the most disturbing domestic homicide cases in modern British criminal history.This case is often remembered for the horrific injuries Kelly suffered, but as always, our focus is on Kelly herself—who she was, the people who loved her, and the warning signs that can help us better understand coercive control and escalating abuse. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Kelly Ann Bates

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When FBI profiler Robert Ressler sat down with John Wayne Gacy, he wasn&#39;t looking for a confession—he wanted to understand how one of America&#39;s most notorious serial killers thought.In this episode, we break down their remarkable prison interview, examining Gacy&#39;s attempts to justify his crimes, shift blame, manipulate the conversation, and control his public image. Along the way, we&#39;ll explore the behavioral cues, psychological insights, and investigative techniques that made Robert Ressler one of the pioneers of modern criminal profiling. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Ressler vs. Gacy

Inside the Mind of John Wayne Gacy | The Robert Ressler Interview

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Mindy Morgenstern, a bright, kind, and ambitious college student whose life was brutally cut short in 2006.When Mindy failed to show up for work, her family knew something was wrong. What followed was a devastating investigation that uncovered a shocking act of violence committed by someone who lived just steps away from her. Through forensic evidence, witness statements, and relentless police work, investigators were able to piece together the truth and bring Mindy&#39;s killer to justice. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Mindy Morgenstern

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When most people hear the word &#34;autopsy,&#34; they immediately think of crime shows, murder investigations, and cold stainless-steel tables.But what actually happens during an autopsy?In this episode of Let&#39;s Talk About Murder, we&#39;re taking a respectful and educational look inside one of the most important tools in death investigations. We&#39;ll explore why autopsies are performed, what medical examiners and forensic pathologists are looking for, how cause and manner of death are determined, and what the body can reveal long after a person&#39;s final moments.We&#39;ll also separate Hollywood fiction from reality, discuss common misconceptions, and explain how autopsy findings can help solve crimes, uncover medical conditions, clear innocent suspects, and provide answers to grieving families.Because despite what television often suggests, an autopsy isn&#39;t about the dead.It&#39;s about finding the truth. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

What Actually Happens During an Autopsy?

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Most people know the names Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka.Far fewer know the story of Tammy Homolka.Before she became a victim, Tammy was a bright, athletic teenager with her whole life ahead of her. She adored her older sister Karla, trusted her completely, and had no reason to believe that trust would ultimately cost her everything.In this episode, we&#39;re focusing on Tammy&#39;s story—not as a footnote to the crimes of Paul Bernardo, but as a young woman whose life mattered. We&#39;ll examine Tammy&#39;s relationship with Karla, the events leading up to her death, the devastating betrayal at the heart of this case, and the lasting impact her loss had on those who loved her.This episode contains discussion of violence, sexual assault, and homicide.If you enjoy victim-centered true crime that focuses on the people behind the headlines, please consider subscribing, liking, and sharing the episode. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Tammy Holmolka

Most people know the names Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka.Far fewer know the story of Tammy Homolka.Before she became a victim, Tammy was a bright, athletic teenager with her whole life ahead of her. She adored her older sister Karla, trusted her completely, and had no reason to believe that trust would ultimately cost her everything.In this episode, we&#39;re focusing on Tammy&#39;s story—not as a footnote to the crimes of Paul Bernardo, but as a young woman whose life mattered. We&#39;ll examine Tammy&#39;s relationship with Karla, the events leading up to her death, the devastating betrayal at the heart of this case, and the lasting impact her loss had on those who loved her.This episode contains discussion of violence, sexual assault, and homicide. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content'>https://redcircle.com/a-million-other-choices/exclusive-content</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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When my niece was murdered in 2018, my interest in true crime turned to an obsession. I respect the victims and their families because I’ve been there. Every victims story deserves to be told. No chatting about my personal life or witty banter….I just get right to the case and tell the victim’s story.

My personal story can be found in Season 1, episodes 17&18.

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