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They Became The Parent I Needed... For Someone Else _Ep. 26

Season 4 | Episode 26
51m | Jun 9, 2026

You watched them show up for everyone else. Just not you.

Maybe they started a new family. Maybe they got remarried.

Maybe they became the parent you always needed...

for somebody else.

And that's a pain most people never talk about.

In this episode of My Dope Blend, Greg and Leslie confront one of the deepest wounds a child can carry:

"You were a great parent... just not to me."

From absent fathers and emotionally unavailable mothers to the complicated realities of divorce, remarriage, and blended families, this conversation explores what happens when a child is left trying to make sense of someone else's choices.

Because children don't measure love by what you intended.

They measure it by what they experienced.

We discuss:

✔ Why abandonment leaves scars long after childhood

✔ The hidden damage of starting over without your children

✔ Why some adult children never stop asking "Why wasn't I enough?"

✔ The Fresh Prince moment that still breaks people decades later

✔ How bonus parents help heal wounds they didn't create

✔ Why showing up consistently matters more than being perfect

✔ The truth about forgiveness, healing, and rebuilding trust


Because one day every child asks the same question:

"Where were you?"

And every parent eventually has to answer.

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My Dope Blend Podcast w/Leslie & Greg Kirkland
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