When things come to an end, the shock of the finality and the changes it makes in you ..... stay busy!

We talk and talk about being prepared BUT when it happens it is sobering, paralyzing and gripping. At the actual point you lose someone the reality doesn't fully engage until the routine is set off course. The everyday routine becomes silly and unimportant somehow. The mundane is suddenly a gigantic obstacle to work around. If you are like most of us the events are crippling, but the struggle will continue sporadically as we strive to regain balance of our lives.

Stay busy don't let the weight of the situation encapsulate you and control your mind. STAY BUSY!