Have you tried Gentle Parenting? Are you a fan of Attachment but just can’t put it all together? Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and limits? Welcome to the Peace and Parenting Podcast with Michelle Kenney, M. Ed. Michelle is a former teacher, counselor, certified parenting coach, mom of two teens, recovering yeller, and perfectionist who parents without using punishments altogether. And guess what? It works! On this show, you’ll learn the how behind having kids who are completely UNPUNISHED but who are also successful, kind, loving, and know how to follow directions.  Twice a week, Michelle shares her insights and expertise on connective parenting through her interviews with experts and Q&amp;A sessions with struggling parents. If you have exhausted all other options and don&#39;t know what to do next, this could be the parenting strategy you&#39;ve been searching for.

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How did abandoning punishments and consequences transform a father-daughter relationship on the brink? Today, I sit down with Erik, a single father who experienced a profound change in his relationship with his daughter. Erik shares how he moved from seeing her behavior as manipulative to understanding it as a cry for help. His journey started during a crisis when his daughter was battling significant anxiety, stress, depression, and self-harm. Traditional methods of rules and consequences weren’t working, so Erik took a leap of faith with a radical, connective approach that changed everything. In This Episode<ul><li>Shifting from rules to empathy</li><li>Recognizing cries for help in behavior</li><li>Building trust and deepening connection</li><li>The transformative power of words of affirmation</li><li>The importance of self-reflection in parenting</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Case Study: Can Empathy Really Transform a Defiant Teen?

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What happens when natural consequences fail to teach your child a lesson? Today, I tackle challenging situations where natural consequences simply don’t apply. I’ll help you navigate these tricky scenarios with empathy and creativity, offering alternative approaches that still foster growth and learning in your children. Understanding the underlying emotions and motivations behind your child&#39;s actions is as important as finding constructive ways to address them without relying on punishments. In This Episode<ul><li>When natural consequences don’t fit the situation</li><li>Understanding your child’s underlying motivations</li><li>Alternative strategies to natural consequences</li><li>Maintaining connection without relying on punishment</li><li>Practical examples of empathetic parenting</li><li>Building resilience and understanding in your child</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

What to Do When Natural Consequences Don’t Exist

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What happens when parenting dynamics take a sudden turn? Can connection truly transform challenging behaviors? Today, I sit with Taryn, one of our inspiring Peace and Parenting coaches, to recount her journey from traditional parenting to embracing connective parenting. After facing unexpected challenges with her second child, Taryn discovered the transformative power of hand-in-hand parenting. Her story beautifully illustrates how deeper connection and empathy not only reshape parent-child relationships but also rejuvenate the entire family dynamic. Taryn shares the complexities she faced when her seemingly &#39;easy-going&#39; firstborn started showing regressive behaviors and aggression towards her younger sibling. Her light bulb moment led her to embrace new parenting tools, which turned around her family&#39;s struggles and cultivated deep bonds. From enduring sibling rivalry to teenagers who feel completely safe in their authentic selves, Taryn&#39;s story encapsulates the highs and lows of parental connection. In This Episode<ul><li>Navigating challenges with a second child</li><li>Recognizing and fixing disconnection in parenting</li><li>Transforming through connective parenting tools</li><li>Balancing sibling rivalry with empathy and play</li><li>Sustaining parenting connection through different stages</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Case Study: From Solo to Sibling, Adjusting to Life with Two Kids

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What hidden stories from your past are impacting your parenting today? What if the secret to better parenting lies within us? Today, I explore the profound idea of self-regulation and the underlying narratives that influence how we engage with our children. I open up about a personal session I had recently with a client who is grappling with the complexities of raising a child with ADHD and ODD. Throughout this experience, we uncover how past grievances and unresolved pain can subtly hinder our parenting endeavors. Join me as we explore practical approaches to clearing these mental and emotional obstacles and find empowerment to evolve into a more attentive, compassionate, and connected parent. In this Episode<ul><li>Uncovering hidden stories affecting parenting behaviors</li><li>The importance of self-regulation in parenting</li><li>The impact of unresolved emotions on parent-child connection</li><li>Strategies for recognizing and addressing resentments</li><li>Practical tools for clearing mental blockages</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How Your Emotional Baggage Is Hurting Your Kids

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What if open communication and respect could revolutionize your relationship with your teenager? Today, we&#39;re thrilled to bring you a captivating conversation with the one and only Billy Vsco. Billy, who found his way into the world of parenting through his viral TikTok videos and football coaching, has garnered a substantial following. He&#39;s now a guiding light for parents, advocating for stronger relationships and better communication with their children. In this episode, we discuss essential topics like maintaining a strong parent-child relationship even beyond the age of 18, the importance of apologizing and taking responsibility, and the transformative power of open communication and respect. Billy shares insights from his journey, the challenges, and the joys of parenting. In this Episode<ul><li>The impact of apologizing to our children</li><li>Transitioning from a teen to an adult audience</li><li>The role of empathy in parenting multiple children</li><li>Challenges of dealing with criticism in parenting</li></ul> 🔗 Check out Billy on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@billyvsco" rel="nofollow">https://www.tiktok.com/@billyvsco</a>🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Case Study: How Dads Can Make a Difference in Parenting with Billy Vsco

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Ever wonder if letting your kids fail could actually be the best thing for them? Today, we&#39;re diving into the counterintuitive but transformative idea that failure is not only okay but necessary. Join me as I explore why allowing our children to stumble, make mistakes, and experience the natural consequences of their actions in a safe and supportive environment is a cornerstone of connected parenting. I’ll share practical ways to shift from overprotective habits to fostering independence and learn how to hold space for your children&#39;s emotions without rushing in to fix everything. This episode is a must-listen for parents ready to embrace a new approach that empowers their kids to grow into capable, confident individuals. In this Episode<ul><li>Why letting children fail helps them grow</li><li>Creating a safe space for failure</li><li>How to avoid overprotection and emotional shielding</li><li>Embracing failure for deeper learning</li><li>Understanding failures in interpersonal relationships</li><li>The balance between intervention and natural consequences</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

What You Need to Do When Your Kids Make a Mistake

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Why is understanding a child’s developmental stage crucial for effective parenting? Today, I am thrilled to welcome Dr. Joel Warsh, an integrative pediatrician passionate about children&#39;s health and well-being. Dr. Warsh shares his frustration with children&#39;s over-medication and his journey towards integrative medicine, blending the best of Western and alternative practices. We delve into his new book, &#34;Parenting at Your Child’s Pace,&#34; which focuses on de-stressing parents and promoting health from the earliest stages of childhood. Together, we’ll explore the societal pressures to create &#39;superhuman&#39; children and the resulting parental stress. Dr. Warsh emphasizes the importance of balance, connection, and trusting our instincts as parents. He shares insights on managing common parenting worries, from growth charts to developmental milestones, reminding us that each child is unique and that most concerns are normal. In this Episode<ul><li>An integrative pediatrician&#39;s approach to balanced parenting</li><li>Stress and its impact on parenting</li><li>The importance of developmental milestone understanding</li><li>Navigating societal pressures on perfect parenting</li><li>Balancing discipline: boundaries vs. permissiveness</li><li>Rethinking medication as a last resort</li></ul> 🔗 Follow Dr. Joel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjoelgator/🔗 Get his book Parenting at Your Child&#39;s Pace: https://parentingatyourchildspace.com/🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Encouraging Healthy Child Development with Dr. Joel Warsh

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Is compliance really the goal in parenting neurodivergent kids? Have you ever wondered if there&#39;s a better way to connect with your neurodivergent child beyond the conventional methods of rewards and punishments? Today, I reflect on the profound impact of connection in parenting, especially for children with ADHD, autism, and other neurodivergent conditions. Many believe these kids need strict compliance through rewards and punishments due to their executive functioning challenges. But I challenge that notion. What if the secret to truly supporting our children lies in the strength of our connection with them? I&#39;ve worked with wonderful families with neurodivergent kids, and I believe that traditional methods might not be the best approach and that connection can foster genuine growth and understanding. In this Episode<ul><li>Connection over compliance for neurodivergent kids</li><li>Traditional methods vs. connection-based parenting</li><li>The challenges with rewards and punishment systems</li><li>Success stories of connection-focused parenting</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Is Connection the Missing Link in Parenting Neurodivergent Kids?

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Today I sit down with Shelly Robinson, the inspiring founder of Raising Yourself. Shelly shares her transformative experience with reparenting herself and offers powerful insights into inner child work, conscious parenting, and breaking the cycle of punitive approaches. We delve into the concept of “mom rage” and explore the underlying fears and insecurities that often ignite our outbursts. Shelly’s candid storytelling, including a poignant moment with her young son, will strike a chord with many parents who grapple with similar challenges. This episode isn&#39;t just about enhancing your child’s behavior, but also about our own healing and creating a nurturing environment where both parent and child can flourish. In this Episode<ul><li>The importance of connection over punishment</li><li>Using play as a parenting tool</li><li>Addressing “mom rage” with empathy and understanding</li><li>How to handle parental dysregulation effectively</li><li>How to collaborate with children to solve conflicts</li><li>Self-compassion in overcoming parenting challenges</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Case Study: Turning Mom Rage into Connection Magic

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Have you ever been stung by your child&#39;s words? Have you felt the sting of &#34;I hate you&#34; or &#34;shut up&#34; from those you love most? It&#39;s a moment that cuts deep, triggering a whirlwind of emotions and questions about our parenting. But what if I told you it&#39;s not about us? Today, I explore the reasons behind hurtful moments, how children react, and how we can respond with grace and empathy. I’ll share some practical tips on supporting our children&#39;s emotions without disregarding our own and why punishment is not the solution. It&#39;s all about understanding, connection, and allowing our children to express their feelings without judgment. Ultimately, it&#39;s not just about how they communicate with us but how we choose to respond that truly makes a difference. In this Episode<ul><li>Understanding children&#39;s emotional outbursts</li><li>How to shift focus from personal to empathetic responses</li><li>The importance of holding space for children&#39;s feelings</li><li>Exploring the impact of punishment on communication</li><li>Recognizing the role of your environment in behavior</li><li>Embracing grace and compassion in parenting</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

What To Do When Our Child Says “I Hate You”

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Today, I’m joined by guest Mariah, one of our vibrant Peace of Parenting community members. Mariah shares her journey of discovering a new approach to parenting that prioritizes understanding over obedience. From navigating challenges with her strong-willed son to embracing playful corrections, Mariah offers insights that resonate with every parent striving for deeper connections with their children. We delve into the layers of traditional disciplinary methods, shedding light on the pitfalls of shame and the power of empathy. This episode is packed with practical insights and actionable strategies that you can immediately apply to nurture stronger bonds with your children. In this Episode:<ul><li>How playfulness fosters deeper parent-child connections</li><li>Shifting from correction to empathy-based discipline</li><li>Challenges with strong-willed children and playful solutions</li><li>The importance of avoiding shame in parenting</li><li>Prioritizing understanding over blind obedience</li><li>Cultivating trust, respect, and resilience in children</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Case Study: How Being Playful Helped with My Strong-Willed Son

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Many people often compare connective parenting to gentle parenting, but in reality, they are very different. Today, I want to clarify the misconceptions surrounding gentle parenting and explain how connective parenting encourages children to learn and grow on their own terms. Through empathy, understanding, and a lot of support, connective parenting empowers both parents and kids to navigate life&#39;s challenges with resilience and grace. It allows children to fail, stumble, and learn from their experiences. In this Episode:<ul><li>Connective parenting vs. gentle parenting</li><li>Embracing failure as a pathway to growth</li><li>A grounded approach fosters resilience in children</li><li>Empathy and support are foundational parenting tools</li><li>Navigating boundaries with empathy and understanding</li><li>Allowing children autonomy while providing guidance</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

This Is Connective Parenting Not Gentle Parenting

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How can parents cultivate a healthy balance between responsiveness and setting boundaries? Today, I’m joined by Eli Harwood from Attachment Nerd. Eli&#39;s expertise in attachment theory sheds light on the complexities of parenting in today&#39;s world. Eli and I delve into the essence of secure attachment, exploring its profound impact on children and parents alike. Today, we’ll explore the various attachment styles, from avoidant to resistant and even disorganized, and dissect how our childhood experiences influence our parenting styles. Eli will share her four strategies for transforming your parenting journey: show up, listen up, light up, and make up. In this Episode:<ul><li>Attachment parenting styles and their impact</li><li>What is secure attachment: trust, regulation, and support</li><li>Parenting challenges: emotions, boundaries, and repair</li><li>Recognizing and addressing inherited attachment patterns</li><li>Strategies: Show up, listen, light up, make up</li><li>Aim for 30% synchronicity in interactions</li><li>Importance of ongoing research and learning</li></ul> 🔗 Find out more about Eli and Attachment Nerd here: <a href="https://attachmentnerd.com/" rel="nofollow">https://attachmentnerd.com/</a> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Case Study: The Science Behind Attachment Parenting with Eli Harwood

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Have you ever felt like you were losing the bond with your child? Or struggle to navigate their strong will without resorting to traditional methods of discipline. Today, I want to share my personal experiences with my daughter Esme, whose unwavering spirit challenged me to rethink my approach to parenting. Parenting my daughter has been a challenging journey. Her strong will and refusal to conform led to moments of frustration and doubt. However, I have witnessed a remarkable transformation in my relationship with Esme by adopting connection-based parenting. By shifting my focus to nurturing our bond, I have created an environment of understanding and empathy in which she has thrived. In this Episode:<ul><li>The challenges of parenting a strong-willed child</li><li>Transitioning from traditional to connection-based parenting</li><li>The impact of connection on parent-child relationships</li><li>How to navigate defiance and maintain empathy</li><li>The importance of nurturing individuality and autonomy</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

How I Nearly Lost My Relationship with My Oldest - Don’t Make the Same Mistake

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Are you worried about the kind of friends your child spends their time with? Do you fear that these bad influences might lead them astray? Join me as I sit down with Anna, a fellow parent who shares her concerns about her children&#39;s friendships during their tween years. We discuss practical strategies for empowering our children to trust their instincts, navigate peer pressure, and set healthy boundaries. Let&#39;s explore how we can help our children stand up for themselves and make better choices in their friendships. In this Episode:<ul><li>Parenting from fear vs. connection</li><li>Embracing empathy in guiding children&#39;s choices</li><li>Fostering open communication and understanding</li><li>Navigating peer pressure with resilience</li><li>Cultivating deeper family connections through support</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Case Study: Navigating Your Tweens Social Dilemmas

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Ever felt caught in the crossfire of sibling battles, unsure how to step in without taking sides? As parents, we yearn for peaceful homes where our children thrive together. But when it comes to resolving conflicts between siblings, finding the balance between intervention and neutrality can feel like navigating a minefield. Today, I delve into the transformative power of neutral intervention in sibling conflicts. I’ll explore practical strategies for defusing tension and fostering understanding between siblings without inadvertently fueling the fire. In this Episode:<ul><li>How neutral intervention fosters understanding and harmony</li><li>Empathy empowers children in conflict resolution</li><li>Reframe your approach to conflict resolution</li><li>Create a harmonious sibling dynamic rooted in empathy</li><li>How to guide children to express themselves authentically</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

What Our Kids Need to End Sibling Rivalry

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How do you navigate traditional parenting methods when they don&#39;t align with your child&#39;s temperament? Today, I sit with some of my longtime clients, Danielle and Neal, who discuss their parenting journey with their highly sensitive and strong-willed son, Jack. They tried traditional discipline methods such as timeouts and taking toys away, but these did not work for Jack. As a result, Danielle and Neal sought alternative approaches and eventually discovered Peace and Parenting. Danielle and Neal share the significant role that working on their childhood issues played in their journey. They also discuss which techniques worked for them, the impact of setting limits without punishments, and the importance of understanding your child and parenting style. In this Episode:<ul><li>Challenges and Traditional Parenting Fails</li><li>Discovering a New Approach to Parenting</li><li>The Impact of Coaching on Parenting and Personal Growth</li><li>The Evolution of Parenting: From Struggles to Success</li><li>Reflections on Parenting Techniques and Setting Limits</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Case Study: Parenting a Strong-Willed Child

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Are you spending your time parenting, or is parenting spending your time? Today on Peace and Parenting, I delve into Pam Leo&#39;s profound wisdom, exploring the intricate balance between meeting our children&#39;s emotional needs and managing their behaviors. Drawing from my own personal experiences, I share the transformative power of filling our children&#39;s cups with love. From navigating sibling rivalry to taming the spirited soul, we explore how investing in connection yields dividends of resilience and harmony in the years to come.In this Episode:<ul><li>Pam Leo&#39;s wisdom on parenting priorities</li><li>Connective parenting vs. traditional methods</li><li>Investing time in connection reaps long-term benefits</li><li>Navigating challenges with empathy and play</li><li>Tools and resources for embracing connective parenting</li></ul> 🔗 Join my <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/connected-parent" rel="nofollow">Connected Parent Mastermind</a> designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration.🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

The Time-Tested Strategy for a More Peaceful Home

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Are you ever mortified in public when your child’s voice rockets through the mall? Today, we unpack the nuances of communication, tantrums, and the genuine distress many parents face. It&#39;s a scene familiar to many—a peaceful outing shattered by a sudden outburst from a toddler. Cherry, a mom from my Instagram followers, joins me in sharing her dilemma of dealing with her son&#39;s screams in public. This opens a world of parenting concerns centered around societal norms and effective communication. Together, we explore the delicate art of understanding your child&#39;s unique signals. I guide her through the thorny paths of public judgment, childhood expression, and the profound power of connection over correction. In this Episode:<ul><li>Responding to a toddler&#39;s screams with play</li><li>The stigma around public outbursts in children</li><li>Reflecting on parental reactions to yelling</li><li>Using affection to address behavioral issues</li><li>How to use playful interaction as a parenting tool</li></ul> 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Case Study: My Toddler Won’t Stop Screaming in Public

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When we punish and discipline our children, are we truly teaching them respect, or are we inadvertently instilling fear? We have been conditioned to believe that respect is synonymous with obedience. But is that really what respect is all about? Today, I want to challenge this conventional thinking and urge you to reconsider your parenting approach.  From my own experience as a parent, I have realized that respect cannot be forced upon our children. It is something that is earned through genuine connection, kindness, and empathy. While punishments and rewards may seem effective in the short term, they do not necessarily foster respect. Join me as we explore the complexities of respect in parenting and discover how nurturing genuine connections can lead to organic respect from our children. In this Episode:• Rethinking respect beyond obedience and fear• Earning respect through genuine connection and empathy• How punishments and rewards hinder organic respect• How mutual respect fosters healthier parent-child relationships• Nurturing respect: The keys to peaceful parenting 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a <a href="https://peaceandparentingla.com/discovery-call-with-peace-and-parenting" rel="nofollow">Discovery Call</a> with one of our team now 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book <a href="https://www.unpunishedbook.com/start" rel="nofollow">UNPUNISHED</a>! Follow Peace and Parenting:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/peaceandparenting/" rel="nofollow">Instagram: @peaceandparenting</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/peaceandparentingla/" rel="nofollow">Facebook: @peaceandparentingla</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/peaceandparenting" rel="nofollow">Peace and Parenting Facebook Group</a> Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Check out Done and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.donefirst.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

Obedience vs. Genuine Respect: You Can’t Have Both

Parenting Without Punishments

Have you tried Gentle Parenting? Are you a fan of Attachment but just can’t put it all together? Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and limits?

Welcome to the Peace and Parenting Podcast with Michelle Kenney, M. Ed. Michelle is a former teacher, counselor, certified parenting coach, mom of two teens, recovering yeller, and perfectionist who parents without using punishments altogether. And guess what? It works! On this show, you’ll learn the how behind having kids who are completely UNPUNISHED but who are also successful, kind, loving, and know how to follow directions. 

Twice a week, Michelle shares her insights and expertise on connective parenting through her interviews with experts and Q&A sessions with struggling parents. If you have exhausted all other options and don't know what to do next, this could be the parenting strategy you've been searching for.