97. How to Regulate Your Nervous System When Fear Takes Over
27m | Sep 1, 2026What if the moments that make you feel most uncomfortable are actually teaching your nervous system how to become more resilient?
In this episode of Holistically Healthy, host Sydona Tregoning shares a deeply personal experience from volunteering inside a men’s prison and explains how she used nervous system regulation, somatic practices, breathwork, and emotional awareness to move through intense fear without letting it control her.
Sydona entered the experience knowing that being surrounded by men could activate memories connected to past trauma. When her body responded with a racing heart, lightheadedness, and fear, she did not try to force those sensations away. Instead, she listened to what her body needed, found a point of safety, grounded herself in the present moment, and allowed her nervous system to recognize that the situation was different from the past.
The episode explores why emotional regulation does not mean staying calm all the time. Real nervous system healing involves building your ability to experience stress, fear, anger, and other strong emotions while still finding your way back to safety.
Sydona also explains how suppressed anger and stuck emotions can affect the body, why somatic therapy and body-based practices can help, and how healthy connection can support trauma healing. After the workshop, she intentionally used conversation, physical affection, breathwork, movement, and rest to help her body release the stress it had carried through the experience.
This episode will answer questions such as:
- How can you do something that feels scary without overwhelming your nervous system?
- What can you do in the moment when anxiety, fear, or stress starts taking over your body?
- How can you help your nervous system recover after a stressful experience, so you build more capacity for future challenges?
This episode offers a practical look at what nervous system regulation can actually look like in real life. You will hear how facing something difficult with the right support can create a new experience for your body instead of reinforcing an old fear.
What could change in your life if you stopped treating discomfort as a warning to retreat and started learning how to move through it safely?
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