Ep8 - TV Show Harlem Making Women's Expectations Better or Worse?
Episode featuring:
Bruce
Eugene (Doony )
Darren ( Smooth )
The relationship between men and women can sometimes be a complicated one, with many different facets as to how the relationship works. Some people may think of it as a power struggle, while others may think of it as a dance with love. Men are thought to be leaders, but women have a different playing field in relationships. However, some may go as far as to as controlling men, while others believe that they can manipulate men based on sex or money. But is this just a believe or it’s a reality.
Join the conversation with your host, Bruce, Eugene, and Darren, as we explore different personalities, roles and mentalities that play in relationships and dating to provide you with the bigger picture of what is happening in the streets today and tools to navigate successfully.
Tune in!
During this episode, you will learn about;
[01:27] The women empowerment shows and what they promote
[05:06] The narrative in the black women shows
[08:03] The money mentality among women
[09:41] Why community express power as pain and misery
[13:48] How single mothers push women to the corporate world to be self-sufficient
[16:32] Why men don’t really care about women level of education
[20:21] Ladies independent drive and their desire to control men
[24:17] The consequences in life and when they come
[26:38] Learning from consequences in relationship to change our mentalities
[29:23] Judgment in relationship and why people prefer club versus interviews
[33:00] Why they say nobody is judging but everybody is judging
[37:32] When fashion and style becomes a distraction to others
[39:51] Adhering to societal norms that when it comes to style
[41:30] Lessons on how to make your dating and relationship successful
Notable quotes
In our community, our stories are just recycled. It’s entertainment and then misery.
Women leading men is not a natural order.
Most of the time, we don’t get consequences soon enough
We need consequences to get better
In dating, you can never skip the experiences through perfectionism
