Dating is hard, dating when you&#39;re fat is even harder. In this weekly podcast, Alex Stewart and Nicci Nunez will take you through the chronicles of dating as a plus-sized woman.

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When we started Swipe Fat four years ago we couldn&#39;t have dreamed of what it would turn into. When we met we didn&#39;t have other plus size women in our life that we could talk to about dating so we wanted to create a space for conversation that other plus size women could relate to and hopefully feel like they were sitting on the couch with us as we chronicled our dating journey.Thank you for coming along on the crazy ride - we couldn&#39;t have done it this long without all of you!While this is the last episode we will continue doing community events so make sure you&#39;re following us at @sassyconfetti, @niccinunez and @swipefat. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE LAST ONE

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One of us met flittered in the wild and got cancelled on by another date and the other one had an awkward encounter Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE ABOUT AWKWARD ENCOUNTERS AND DATING DRAMA

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Nicci and Alex explore the complexities of modern dating, touching on themes such as communication challenges in dating apps, the impact of financial insecurities, and the dynamics of attraction. They discuss the importance of timing in relationships, the role of self-perception, and how past experiences shape current dating choices. The conversation also delves into the influence of family on dating decisions, the significance of self-care and skincare, and the effects of social media on self-image. Ultimately, they reflect on the aftermath of holiday gatherings and the quest for comfort food, highlighting the multifaceted nature of dating in today&#39;s world. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE ABOUT A LACK OF COMMUNICATION

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Nicci is finally back on the apps and she has some new icks which leads to discuss the challenges of navigating dating apps, the impact of societal issues on dating, and the complexities of attraction and body image. We also touch on the influence of social media, the weirdness of online interactions, and the importance of community engagement. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE ABOUT OUR ONLINE DATING ICKS

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If you need a break from doom scrolling - this episode is for you. This was recorded early last week before election results and is full of laughs. Enjoy. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE ABOUT COWBOY HICKEYS

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In this episode we discuss various aspects of dating, communication challenges, and the evolution of how people meet their partners over time and generational differences in dating behaviors. The conversation also touches on perceptions of flirting between genders and the importance of effort in relationships. We explore discuss different flirting styles, the challenges of recognizing romantic interest, and the importance of self-affirmation in maintaining emotional balance. The concept of a &#39;situationship funeral&#39; is introduced as a unique coping mechanism for dealing with unfulfilled romantic connections, emphasizing the need to process feelings and move on. We end on the importance of companionship and the realities of future partnership. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE ABOUT DATING BEHAVIORS

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In this episode we&#39;re joined my Matchmaker, Simone Grossman (@theinternetyenta) to learn all about matchmaking. She shares her journey into the world of matchmaking, discussing the evolution of dating in modern times, the impact of dating apps, and the importance of understanding client needs. The discussion delves into the challenges faced by plus-size individuals in dating, the significance of enthusiasm in relationships, and the process of working with a matchmaker. The conversation highlights the complexities of dating advice and the necessity of trusting one&#39;s intuition in romantic pursuits Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE WITH A MATCHMAKER

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In this episode we share life updates, including Nicci&#39;s broken fibula and Alex&#39;s exciting news about meeting someone new in real life. We discuss gaps and the implications for future relationships. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE ABOUT A BROKEN LEG & MEETING IRL

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You asked us questions and we answered. We discuss coping with heartbreak, the complexities of dating and matchmaking, and the impact of body image on self-esteem. We explore the dynamics of dating apps, friends with benefits situations, and the importance of confidence in meeting new people. The conversation also touches on societal pressures regarding body image, the journey of self-acceptance, and the challenges of navigating insecurities. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE WHERE YOU ASK US ANYTHING

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Alex went to a bar and talked to men in the wild and matched with a chef! Is Nicci a top? Girls on dating apps seem to think so. &#34;I&#39;m a plus size so of course&#34; trend. Body image issues. Do plus size women date less than straight-sized women? Olympics is bringing us back together. Notes from Nicci: I said omakase wrong TWICE and Ilona Mahar&#39;s last name wrong. I know. I&#39;m mad at myself enough for all of us. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE ABOUT EVERYTHING BUT THE KITCHEN SINK

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In this episode we&#39;re joined by Amanda McCracken (@amandajmccracken) to explore the topics of longing and limerence. We delve into the connection between limerence and anxious attachment, the influence of purity culture and romanticized ideals on limerence, the role of self-love in overcoming limerence and the importance of closure in moving on from past relationships. We delve into the longing for unavailable partners, the influence of romantic comedies, and the role of social media in fueling limerence. Amanda also shares her personal experiences with limerence and strategies for overcoming it. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE ABOUT LIMERENCE

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We&#39;re backkkkkkkkk! Alex shares her dating update and reflects on her recent experience with a tour manager she was seeing. Despite promises of a future together, the communication quickly dwindled while he was away on tour. Alex confronted him about it, but his efforts to improve were short-lived. She felt disappointed and hurt by his lack of effort and unfollowed her on Instagram. Alex expresses frustration with people who say the right things but don&#39;t follow through. She is taking a break from dating apps for now. Nicci gives an update on her dating life and her recent visit to see Boots. She reflects on the future prospects of their relationship and the challenges they face, such as living in different cities and having different priorities. Nicci ultimately decides to end things with Boots and have a conversation with him about it. She expresses her gratitude for the experience and the lessons she learned. Nicci also discusses her feelings of loneliness and the desire to find a meaningful relationship. She acknowledges the importance of being in the right mindset and not settling for less than what she wants and deserves. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

The One Where We're Back From Summer Vacation

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It&#39;s not like the radio bit - we both went on second dates and it went well??? One of us spiraled and the other is realizing that she had some pretty sh*ty expectations from past relationships and is now expecting a new bare minimum moving forward. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE WITH A SECOND DATE UPDATE

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Nicci is breaking her 2 year dating break &amp; Alex said ta ta Captain and started talking to a new guy. How did they go? What happened? Will there be a second date? Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE WHERE WE BOTH GO ONE FIRST DATES

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This week we&#39;re joined by Erin Renzas to talk about the radical mind shift she had after a breakdown that led her to completely change her life. We discuss a lot about sense of self and the lie society pushes that losing weight will make everything better. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE WITH ERIN RENZAS

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It&#39;s like a carousel that never stops...we&#39;re back on the apps and Alex is going on dates! It&#39;s been awhile since it&#39;s been the two of us so we catch up and dive into passive relationships, the hill theory and all of the other advice we&#39;ve seen on tiktok. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE WHERE WE'RE BACK ON THE APPS...AGAIN

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Last time we had intersectional-feminist dating coach, Lilly Womble (@datebrazen) on Nicci had a full on panic attack about deleting her dating apps. Now she&#39;s back and releasing her first book!! You can pre-order &#34;Thank You, More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love&#34; now! We learn more about her step-by-step guide to owning what you want and attracting it with joy and ease! Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE WITH DATE BRAZEN (AGAIN!)

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This week we&#39;re joined by Hannah (@mimosasandlipstick_) to learn all about her most recent breakup with Mr. Man&#39;s. We&#39;ve gotten some juicy little tidbits online and now we&#39;re finally getting the whole story. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE WITH MIMOSAS AND LIPSTICK

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Alex is back from Thailand so we catch up with her about her trip and her latest dating meetups and we&#39;re joined by Kayla Stansberry (@fatpositivetherapist) who is a licensed therapist that specializes in fat trauma Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE WITH THE FAT THERAPIST

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This week we&#39;re joined by Datura Jonez (@daturajonez) to discuss her dating break and dating as a black, autistic woman. We also talk about passport bros and how Nicci was too busy &#34;gardening&#34; to go on a date. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

THE ONE WITH DATURA JONEZ

Dating is hard, dating when you're fat is even harder. In this weekly podcast, Alex Stewart and Nicci Nunez will take you through the chronicles of dating as a plus-sized woman.