We&#39;re just two whole people who are on a journey of healing. Stay Connected on SocialsThe Work Behind The Vows:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/</a>Words:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/</a>@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/" rel="nofollow"> https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/</a>@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokVisit https://theworkbehindthevows.com/5-day-intensive to join The Work Behind The Vows Intensive.Subscribe to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lifestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@healingisalyfestyle" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/@healingisalyfestyle</a>

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Have you ever tried to step in and help your overwhelmed spouse, only to realize you accidentally made things worse? Or maybe you&#39;ve asked, &#34;What can I do to help?&#34; and watched them get even more stressed out?In the final episode of their series on the &#34;invisible load&#34; of marriage, Julanda and Words tackle the ultimate question: How do we actually carry the weight together? They pull back the curtain on what real support looks like, why asking &#34;how can I help?&#34; often creates more mental load, and the hilarious missteps they&#39;ve made trying to rescue each other. From Words hijacking Julanda&#39;s meal prep to navigating completely different standards of excellence (and time blindness!), they break down how to alleviate your partner&#39;s burden without micromanaging.They discuss the vital difference between needing a listener versus a fixer, how to communicate your capacity before you hit a breaking point, and why supporting your spouse&#39;s dreams shouldn&#39;t mean they lose their identity in the process. If you want to move from carrying the weight alone to walking in true partnership, this episode is for you.Make sure to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell!ACCESS THE WORK BEHIND THE VOWS TODAY: https://theworkbehindthevows.com/Want to dive deeper into this series and share your progress with us? Join the Patreon family here: https://www.patreon.com/cw/WordsandJulandaTaylor🎧Subscribe for more faith-based marriage advice and real conversations.🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socialsThe Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokSUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor #invisibleload #MentalLoad #MarriageAdvice #MarriageCommunication #MarriageProblems #MarriageHealing #HealthyMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageReconciliation #ResentmentInMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #TheWorkBehindTheVows

The "Invisible Load" in Marriage: How to Actually Share the Weight

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Have you ever found yourself carrying a massive responsibility in your marriage and wondered... Wait, who decided this was my job?!In this episode of The Work Behind the Vows, Julanda and Words continue their series on the &#34;invisible load&#34; of marriage, tackling the spicy topic of gender roles, household responsibilities, and how they actually divide tasks in their own relationship. From Julanda managing the mental calendar to Words taking on unexpected DIY projects, they pull back the curtain on how to handle the chores and decisions that easily lead to resentment.They discuss the danger of making decisions without coming into an agreement first, why they believe that &#34;agreement gets the final say&#34; rather than one person making all the rules, and how true leadership in a household actually requires submission. Plus, they share their take on why marriage isn&#39;t 50/50, and how to hold space for your partner when they can only give 10%.If you&#39;ve ever felt overwhelmed by the unseen weight you carry, this episode is for you.Make sure to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell!ACCESS THE WORK BEHIND THE VOWS TODAY: https://theworkbehindthevows.com/Want to dive deeper into this series and share your progress with us? Join the Patreon family here: https://www.patreon.com/cw/WordsandJulandaTaylor🎧Subscribe for more faith-based marriage advice and real conversations.🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socialsThe Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokSUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor #InvisibleLoad #MentalLoad #MarriageAdvice #MarriageCommunication #MarriageProblems #MarriageHealing #HealthyMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageReconciliation #ResentmentInMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #TheWorkBehindTheVows

The "Invisible Load" in Marriage: Who Carries What?

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Have you ever looked at your spouse relaxing and thought, &#34;Must be nice,&#34; while you are mentally calculating the grocery list, the kids&#39; school schedule, and the upcoming bills?In this episode of The Work Behind the Vows, Words and Julanda dive deep into the &#34;invisible load&#34; carried in a marriage. We all easily recognize visible work cooking, cleaning, or paying the mortgage but what about the unseen mental, emotional, and protective weight that keeps a family functioning? When this hidden weight goes unnoticed by your partner, it can quickly lead to feeling undervalued, unappreciated, and resentful.In this episode, we unpack:-Visible vs. Invisible Loads: The difference between physical chores and the daily mental gymnastics required to keep a household running smoothly.-The Mental Calendar: The sheer exhaustion of tracking school events, lunches, hygiene products, and household systems.-The Emotional Weight: Navigating the emotional needs of children, teaching them hard life lessons, and knowing when to give your spouse grace.-The Protector &amp; Provider’s Burden: The silent stress of protecting the family, delaying gratification, and preparing for future financial security.-Communicating the Weight: How to give each other the space to openly discuss the loads you carry without defensiveness or comparison.Drop a comment below and let us know: What is an invisible load you carry in your relationship that often goes unnoticed?ACCESS THE WORK BEHIND THE VOWS TODAY: https://theworkbehindthevows.com/Want to dive deeper into this series and share your progress with us? Join the Patreon family here: https://www.patreon.com/cw/WordsandJulandaTaylor🎧Subscribe for more faith-based marriage advice and real conversations.🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socialsThe Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokSUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor#MarriageAdvice #MarriageCommunication #MarriageProblems #MarriageHealing #HealthyMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageReconciliation #ResentmentInMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #TheWorkBehindTheVows

Why You Feel Resentful (Even When You Do Everything)

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Welcome back to The Work Behind the Vows! In today&#39;s highly requested episode, Where&#39;s Taylor and Julanda get incredibly real about their own journey of rebuilding connection after betrayal. From navigating the pain of infidelity early in their relationship to the daily choices required to maintain a healthy covenant, they break down exactly what it takes to heal.We dive deep into the difference between simply patching things up and truly transforming your relationship through the &#34;Three R&#39;s of Rebuilding.&#34; Whether you are recovering from a massive betrayal, lies of omission, or emotional neglect, this episode will give you the roadmap to start fixing the foundation.In this episode, we cover:- Our personal story of infidelity, trauma, and choosing to stay- The 3 R&#39;s of Rebuilding Trust: Responsibility, Repair, and Reassurance- Why transparency should never be used as a weapon for control- The critical difference between Reconciliation and Restoration- How faith, God, and individual healing play the biggest role in a marriage&#39;s survivalWant the full backstory? Watch our complete 3-hour documentary here: https://youtu.be/h5JzIkJpa7IACCESS THE WORK BEHIND THE VOWS TODAY: https://theworkbehindthevows.com/Want to dive deeper into this series and share your progress with us? Join the Patreon family here: https://www.patreon.com/cw/WordsandJulandaTaylor🎧Subscribe for more faith-based marriage advice and real conversations.🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socialsThe Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokSUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor #MarriageAdvice #MarriageCommunication #MarriageProblems #MarriageHealing #HealthyMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageReconciliation #ResentmentInMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #TheWorkBehindTheVows

Can You Actually Fix Broken Trust? Reconciliation vs. Restoration

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Are you stuck in the &#34;roommate phase&#34;? If your conversations consist entirely of kids, schedules, and daily tasks, it is time to dig deeper! In the final episode of our Communication series on The Work Behind the Vows, Horace and Yolanda Taylor break down how to move past the monotony and get back to those butterfly feelings you had when you were dating.We are talking all about emotional intimacy, vulnerability, and the 3 distinct levels of conversation. Plus, Yolanda shares a very vulnerable, behind-the-scenes story about the emotional breakdown (and spiritual breakthrough) she experienced the day they closed on their first house.Homework for this week: Evaluate your conversations. Are you stewarding the &#34;surface level&#34; and &#34;sincere level&#34; so that you can earn the right to have &#34;heart level&#34; conversations? Let us know in the comments!In this episode, we cover:- How to create an environment for emotional intimacy.- The 3 Levels of Conversation: Surface, Sincere, and Heart.- Yolanda’s vulnerable house-buying story and our beautiful prayer party.- Is it your spouse&#39;s job to notice your unmet needs, or your job to communicate them?- Listener Q&amp;A: What to do when your spouse shuts down during deep conversations.- Horace&#39;s favorite byproduct of intimacy...Next Week: We are kicking off a brand-new series! Make sure you subscribe and share this episode with a couple who needs it so you don&#39;t miss out.Want to dive deeper into these exercises and share your progress with us? Join the Patreon family here: https://www.patreon.com/cw/WordsandJulandaTaylorSTART RESTORING YOUR MARRIAGE and increasing healthy communication today https://theworkbehindthevows.com/🎧Subscribe for more faith-based marriage advice and real conversations every week!🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socialsThe Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokSUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor💊 Fuel Your Family&#39;s Health with Shaklee: Check out the whole-food vitamins we use for our entire family: https://us.shaklee.com/en_US/wordstaylor/storefront#MarriageAdvice #EmotionalIntimacy #TheWorkBehindTheVows #ChristianMarriage #HealthyMarriage #RelationshipGoals #MarriageTips

Why You Feel Lonely in Your Marriage (And How to Fix It)

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Conflict is inevitable, but how you fight says everything about the health of your marriage. In this episode of The Work Behind the Vows, Horace and Yolanda Taylor are breaking down what happens when tensions rise and how to navigate disagreements without destroying your connection.If you are tired of the same old arguments (yes, we’re still talking about the socks!), it’s time to figure out your unique conflict styles. Are you a Pursuer or a Withdrawer? A Fact person or a Feelings person? We break it all down and give you the exact tools you need to fight fair, drop the ego, and actually resolve the issue.Homework for your next disagreement: Pause and ask yourself: &#34;Am I fighting to win, or fighting to understand?&#34; Let us know in the comments how this question changes the outcome of your conflict!In this episode, we cover:- Why couples who say &#34;we never argue&#34; might actually be in trouble.- Identifying your conflict style: Pursuer vs. Withdrawer, Fact vs. Feeling, and more.- The Danger of Pride: Why fighting to win is ruining your connection.- The 5 Tools for Conflict: The Pause Rule, Same Team Mentality, Safe Words, and more.- Why weaponizing your spouse&#39;s secrets will destroy your marriage.- Who’s More at Fault? The classic &#34;husband on the phone vs. wife reading in the other room&#34; debate!Next Week: We are discussing how to rebuild trust when it is broken. Make sure you subscribe so you don&#39;t miss it! Want to dive deeper into these exercises and share your progress with us? Join the Patreon family here: https://www.patreon.com/cw/WordsandJulandaTaylorSTART RESTORING YOUR MARRIAGE and increasing healthy communication today https://theworkbehindthevows.com/🎧Subscribe for more faith-based marriage advice and real conversations every week!🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socialsThe Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokSUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor💊 Fuel Your Family&#39;s Health with Shaklee: Check out the whole-food vitamins we use for our entire family: https://us.shaklee.com/en_US/wordstaylor/storefront#MarriageAdvice #HealthyCommunication #TheWorkBehindTheVows #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipGoals #MarriageTips

Why You and Your Spouse Keep Arguing (And How to Fix It)

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Stop arguing and start connecting! In this episode of The Work Behind the Vows, Horace and Julanda Taylor dive deep into what healthy communication actually looks like in a marriage. If you’re tired of feeling unheard or constantly triggering defensiveness in your spouse, this episode is for you.We are breaking down the words that build trust, the importance of addressing issues &#34;when there is peace,&#34; and the real difference between your intentions and your impact. Plus, we answer your listener questions about defensiveness, apologies, and how to stop having the exact same argument over and over!Homework for tonight: Take 10 minutes, put away all distractions, and simply ask your spouse: &#34;How are you really?&#34; No fixing, just listening. Let us know how it goes in the comments!In this episode, we cover:- What healthy communication actually looks like in action.- Tone, timing, and creating emotional safety for your spouse.- The danger of &#34;You always&#34; and &#34;You never&#34; statements.- Active listening vs. Reactive listening.- Intent vs. Impact: Which one matters more?- Listener Q&amp;A: Rebuilding emotional safety after hurt.Next Week: We are tackling unavoidable conflict. We&#39;ll break down how to have intense fellowships and how to fight fair. Make sure you subscribe so you don&#39;t miss it!SUPPORT THE MINISTRY: Want exclusive content and to connect with us on a deeper level? Join our Patreon family! https://www.patreon.com/cw/WordsandJulandaTaylorSTART RESTORING YOUR MARRIAGE and increasing healthy communication today https://theworkbehindthevows.com/🎧Subscribe for more faith-based marriage advice and real conversations every week!🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socialsThe Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokSUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor💊 Fuel Your Family&#39;s Health with Shaklee: Check out the whole-food vitamins we use for our entire family: https://us.shaklee.com/en_US/wordstaylor/storefront #MarriageAdvice #HealthyCommunication #TheWorkBehindTheVows #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipGoals #MarriageTips

How to Communicate in Marriage WITHOUT Fighting | Work Behind the Vows

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Studies show that if you improve something by just 1%, you can achieve massive results. Your marriage is no different! You don’t need a huge, sweeping overhaul to fix your relationship—sometimes, it’s a hundred million tiny little things that create a lasting impact.Welcome back to The Work Behind the Vows with Words and Julanda Taylor! In this episode, the finale of our &#34;Marriage Under the Microscope&#34; series, we’re breaking down the 5 tiny, everyday changes that transformed our connection. From the power of the 5-minute morning cuddle to why you need to STOP trying to &#34;win&#34; your arguments, we’re keeping it real about what actually works.Plus, stick around for the &#34;Small Change Challenge&#34; where things get a little heated... enter &#34;Calendar Man&#34; and &#34;Sister Mary Julanda&#34;! 😂If you want a marriage you absolutely honor and love being a part of, this episode is for you. Let’s get it!In This Episode: - The 1% Rule: Small Changes, Huge Results- The Tiny Habits We Almost Didn’t Make (Prayer &amp; Greetings)- Change #1: Assume the Best Before the Worst- Change #2: Stop Trying to Win, Start Trying to Understand- Change #3 &amp; #4: Intentional Greetings &amp; The Power of &#34;Thank You&#34;- Change #5: Reconcile &amp; Repair QUICKLY (Don&#39;t leave the door open!)- The Small Change Challenge (Things get real...)- Your 7-Day Homework Challenge!SUPPORT THE MINISTRY: Want exclusive content and to connect with us on a deeper level? Join our Patreon family! https://www.patreon.com/cw/WordsandJulandaTaylorSTART RESTORING YOUR MARRIAGE and increasing healthy communication today https://theworkbehindthevows.com/🎧Subscribe for more faith-based marriage advice and real conversations every week!🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socials The Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/ Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTok Julanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTok SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor💊 Fuel Your Family&#39;s Health with Shaklee: Check out the whole-food vitamins we use for our entire family: https://us.shaklee.com/en_US/wordstaylor/storefront #WorkBehindTheVows #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipHabits #ChristianMarriage #CommunicationInMarriage #MarriageUnderTheMicroscope #WordsTaylor #JelandaTaylor #CoupleGoals

Is Your Marriage Falling Apart? Try The 1% Rule Today

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Most marriages don&#39;t blow up overnight over one huge issue. They usually fade out slowly because of tiny, everyday habits that go unchecked until it&#39;s too late.Welcome back to Episode 23 of the Work Behind the Vows podcast! We officially beat the odds and passed the average podcast lifespan, and we are incredibly grateful you are rocking with us on this journey. 🙏🏾 For Part 3 of our &#34;Marriage Under the Microscope&#34; series, we are putting the spotlight on the subtle, everyday behaviors that quietly chip away at your connection.We cover everything from scrolling on your phone while your spouse is talking to keeping score and the toxic impact of the word &#34;whatever.&#34; We even play a round of &#34;Habit or Harm&#34; to decode what these moves actually communicate to your partner. Plus, we drop the blueprint on how to replace those bad habits with practices that build a solid, grace-based marriage.Remember, the habits you build today dictate the health of your relationship tomorrow. Let&#39;s do a habits analysis together and put in the work.👇🏾 JOIN THE CONVERSATION: Which of these habits surprised you the most? Do you and your spouse have a &#34;habit or harm&#34; you are actively working on? Let us know in the comments!SUPPORT THE MINISTRY: Want exclusive content and to connect with us on a deeper level? Join our Patreon family! https://www.patreon.com/cw/WordsandJulandaTaylorSTART RESTORING YOUR MARRIAGE and increasing healthy communication today https://theworkbehindthevows.com/🎧Subscribe for more faith-based marriage advice and real conversations every week!🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socialsThe Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokSUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor💊 Fuel Your Family&#39;s Health with Shaklee: Check out the whole-food vitamins we use for our entire family: https://us.shaklee.com/en_US/wordstaylor/storefront#WorkBehindTheVows #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipHabits #ChristianMarriage #CommunicationInMarriage #MarriageUnderTheMicroscope #WordsTaylor #JelandaTaylor #CoupleGoals

The Invisible Habits That Are Destroying Your Marriage

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Does it feel like you and your spouse are just roommates? After 17 years of marriage and working with hundreds of couples, we discovered a hard truth: it’s not the massive arguments that lead to an over 50% divorce rate. It’s the &#34;little paper cuts&#34; , the small, everyday interactions that cause couples to slowly drift apart.Today on The Work Behind The Vows, Words and Julanda Taylor are putting marriage under the microscope! We’re flipping the script to talk about the small, ordinary things that communicate true love, the daily routines that hold a marriage together, and how our definition of love has completely changed over two decades. Plus, things get heated in our &#34;Who&#39;s More at Fault?&#34; segment over an anniversary misunderstanding!In This Episode:- The &#34;Paper Cut&#34; Theory of Divorce- Welcome to The Work Behind The Vows!- The Sweetest Small Things We Do For Each Other- Why Teaching Kids to Problem Solve Matters- The Daily Routines We Can&#39;t Live Without- Greeting Each Other &amp; Setting the Tone at Home- Has Our Definition of Love Changed? (17 Years Later)- &#34;Who&#39;s More at Fault?&#34; (The Anniversary Dilemma!)- The 7-Day Marriage Experiment (Try This Today!)Who do you think was right? Let us know in the comments! 👇🏾🎟️ Start restoring your marriage and increasing healthy communication today https://theworkbehindthevows.com/🎧Subscribe for more faith-based marriage advice and real conversations every week!🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socialsThe Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokSubscribe to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor💊 Fuel Your Family&#39;s Health with Shaklee: Check out the whole-food vitamins we use for our entire family: https://us.shaklee.com/en_US/wordstaylor/storefront#MarriageAdvice, #ChristianMarriage, #TheWorkBehindTheVows, #FaithBasedPodcast, #RelationshipAdvice, #HealthyMarriage, #MarriageGoals, #MarriageTips, #ChristianPodcast, #MarriageCounseling, #MarriageRestoration, #PodcastForCouples, #CouplesTherapy, #MarriageJourney, #Spouse, #CommunicationInMarriage, #RelationshipGoals, #BlackLove, #MarriageHelp

The "Paper Cut" Theory: What's Really Ruining Your Marriage

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Have you ever started an argument over something as simple as a dirty sock on the floor, and 30 minutes later you&#39;re fighting about something that happened three years ago? We are taught that communication is the ultimate key to a happy marriage, but what if you&#39;re communicating about the wrong things?In this episode of The Work Behind The Vows, Julanda and Words put their own marriage under the microscope to dissect three of their recent &#34;intense fellowships.&#34; We dive deep into the everyday, ordinary conversations to reveal the underlying triggers you might be missing. We discuss why you can&#39;t just treat the symptoms of an argument, how your physical environment impacts your mental peace, and why you need to stop bringing the venom from your workday into your living room.Home is for restoration. Outside is for battle. Let&#39;s do the work.🎟️ Start restoring your marriage and increasing healthy communication today theworkbehindthevows.com 💊 Fuel Your Family&#39;s Health with Shaklee: Check out the whole-food vitamins we use for our entire family: https://us.shaklee.com/en_US/wordstaylor/storefrontIn This Episode:- The myth that communication is the key to a happy marriage- Putting our &#34;intense fellowships&#34; under the microscope- The Sock Incident: Boundaries, disrespect, and the ego- How a messy environment impacts your spouse&#39;s mental peace and safety- Treating the root cause instead of just managing the symptoms- The &#34;Single Parent&#34; joke and why timing is everything- Taking off your armor: Why your home must remain a sanctuary for restoration\#MarriageAdvice, #ChristianMarriage, #TheWorkBehindTheVows, #FaithBasedPodcast, #RelationshipAdvice, #HealthyMarriage, #MarriageGoals, #MarriageTips, #ChristianPodcast, #MarriageCounseling, #MarriageRestoration, #PodcastForCouples, #CouplesTherapy, #MarriageJourney, #Spouse, #CommunicationInMarriage, #RelationshipGoals, #BlackLove, #MarriageHelp

Talking Won’t Save Your Marriage

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We often think marriage will fix our loneliness, heal our trauma, or resolve our insecurities. The reality? Marriage doesn&#39;t cure the battle with self; it amplifies it.In this episode of The Work Behind The Vows, Julanda and Words share letters to their younger selves, exposing the biggest myths about tying the knot. We discuss why you can&#39;t abandon your personal healing just because you got married, and how to put a &#34;reconciliation system&#34; in place so you actually know HOW to reconnect after an argument.God first. Healing second. Let&#39;s do the work.In This Episode:- The biggest lie about getting married- Letter to Word’s younger self - Letter to Julanda&#39;s younger self- What we thought marriage would automatically fix- Why your spouse can&#39;t be your only source of healing- How to create a system for reconciliation- The hilarious truth about setting boundaries (Water Bottle drama!)🎧Subscribe for more faith-based marriage advice and real conversations every week!🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socialsThe Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokSubscribe to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor💊 Fuel Your Family&#39;s Health with Shaklee: Check out the whole-food vitamins we use for our entire family:#MarriageAdvice, #ChristianMarriage, #TheWorkBehindTheVows, #FaithBasedPodcast, #RelationshipAdvice, #HealingJourney, #HealthyMarriage, #MarriageGoals, #MarriageTips, #ChristianPodcast, #MarriageCounseling, #MarriageRestoration, #PodcastForCouples, #CouplesTherapy, #marriagejourney , #Spouse, #PreMaritalAdvice, #RelationshipGoals, #BlackLove, #MarriageHelp

What do you wish someone told you before you walked down the aisle?

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Have you ever wondered if you married the right person? Not because you want out, but just because marriage got harder than you expected!Welcome back to another episode of The Work Behind the Vows! Today, Words and Julanda are breaking down 5 clear signs you married the right person. We’re talking about what it looks like when life gets messy, how a good spouse responds in turbulence, and why true love isn’t about perfection, it’s about character.In this episode, we cover:<ul><li>Why being 100% yourself (the good, the bad, and the goofy) is a major green flag.</li><li>How a strong marriage reacts when an outside force tries to bring drama.</li><li>The critical difference between a spouse challenging you to build you up versus trying to break you down.</li><li>Why we trust character over perfection.</li><li>The importance of genuine apologies and taking real accountability.</li><li>A fun &#34;Green Flag Awards&#34; segment where we reveal what we almost overlooked about each other!</li></ul> WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU! What is one sign you knew you married the right person? Drop it in the comments!🎧 Subscribe For New Episodes🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socialsThe Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokSubscribe to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor

5 Clear Signs You Married the Right Person (Even When It's Hard)

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Have you ever looked at a couple and thought, &#34;If anybody is going to make it, it’s them&#34; only to find out they are getting a divorce?Welcome back to another episode of The Work Behind the Vows with Words and Julanda Taylor! Today, we are having a heavy but necessary conversation about the celebrity couples we thought would make it, and the splits that shocked us to our core. We’re talking about the danger of making assumptions based on highlight reels and the myths we believe guarantee a successful marriage.We also get incredibly vulnerable about our own marriage, discussing the seasons where we looked happier than we actually were, how we navigated church hurt, and the extreme parenting lessons we&#39;ve had to navigate behind closed doors.In this episode, we cover:- The Willie Moore Jr. split and the myth that Christian marriages are on &#34;autopilot.&#34;- Why Words felt completely duped by Will and Jada’s separation.- Julanda’s heartbreak over Swizz Beatz and Mashonda (and why she stopped listening to Alicia Keys!).- The intense parenting lesson Words taught his daughter about betrayal.- The only true thing that guarantees a successful, lasting marriage.WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU! What are some qualities that healthy marriages are actually built on? Let us know in the comments!🎧 Subscribe For New Episodes🔔 Turn On Notifications so you don&#39;t miss the next conversation📲 Follow Words &amp; Julanda on socialsThe Work Behind The Vows:https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/Words:https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokSubscribe to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!https://www.youtube.com/@Wordstaylor#marriage #vows #relationships #willandjada #swizzbeats #christianmarriage #parentingadvice #church #relationshipgoals #podcast

The "Perfect" Marriage Doesn't Exist (And We Have Proof)

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We&#39;ve all seen the picture-perfect celebrity couples online and thought, &#34;I want what they have.&#34; But do we really know what it takes to build a marriage that lasts?In this episode of The Work Behind the Vows, Words and Julanda Taylor settle into their new studio for a fun, honest conversation about what &#34;couple goals&#34; should actually mean. Together, they unpack the difference between admiration and comparison, discuss why longevity alone doesn&#39;t define a healthy marriage, and explain why being labeled &#34;couple goals&#34; can sometimes become a burden instead of a blessing.Then the competition begins.Words and Julanda put together their own Celebrity Couples Draft, debating some of the most recognizable marriages in culture to determine their official Top 5. Will Barack and Michelle Obama take the top spot? Do Devale and Khadeen Ellis make the list? Which couple would they actually want to double date?This episode is filled with laughs, thoughtful conversation, and practical reminders that every healthy marriage has work happening behind the scenes.In This Episode<ul><li>What &#34;relationship goals&#34; should really look like</li><li>Why longevity matters, but isn&#39;t the only measure of a healthy marriage</li><li>The hidden pressure of being labeled &#34;couple goals&#34;</li><li>Our Celebrity Couples Draft and official Top 5 rankings</li><li>Which celebrity couple we&#39;d love to go on a double date with</li><li>Why comparison can quietly damage your own relationship</li></ul> Join the ConversationWho&#39;s in your Celebrity Couple Top 5?And if you could go on a double date with any celebrity couple, who would you choose?Leave a comment and let us know!Connect With UsSubscribe for new episodes every week as we explore the real conversations, challenges, and victories that happen behind the vows.Follow us for more marriage conversations, encouragement, and behind-the-scenes content.

The Truth About "Couple Goals" | Celebrity Couples Draft

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Marriage isn&#39;t strengthened by occasional grand gestures.It&#39;s strengthened by consistent daily choices.In this episode we discuss the practical rhythms, rituals, and routines that help couples stay connected through every season of marriage.From daily check-ins and weekly marriage meetings to prayer, conflict resolution, and intentional family time, they share real examples from their own 16-year marriage and explain why consistency often matters more than chemistry.The conversation also explores the difference between desire and discipline, why faith without action won&#39;t transform a relationship, and how small moments of intentional connection can prevent larger issues from growing over time.Plus, in this week&#39;s &#34;Who&#39;s At Fault?&#34; segment, Words and Julanda debate whether repeated date-night cancellations are a sign of poor prioritization or a cry for support from an overwhelmed spouse.<h3>Key Topics Discussed:</h3><ul><li>Daily rituals that build emotional connection </li><li>Weekly marriage meetings and check-ins</li><li>Family prayer and faith-centered routines</li><li>Conflict resolution and reconciliation after disagreements</li><li>Desire versus discipline in marriage</li><li>Why consistency beats chemistry</li><li>Creating healthy rhythms for long-term connection</li><li>Date nights, overwhelm, and emotional communication</li></ul> Join The Conversation💬 What’s one conversation couples tend to avoid that actually needs to happen more often?📲 Share this episode with someone who’s learning how to build stronger connection and healthier rhythms in their marriage.Stay Connected on SocialsThe Work Behind The Vows: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/</a>Words: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/</a> @WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/</a> @MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lyfestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@healingisalyfestyle" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/@healingisalyfestyle</a>#TheWorkBehindTheVows #HealingIsALyfestyle #KingdomMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #RelationshipGoals #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageMatters

Do You Want a Healthy Marriage... Or Just an Easy One?

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A lot of couples pray for a better marriage but won&#39;t do the work to become better people.In this episode of The Work Behind The Vows, Words &amp; Julanda explore the spiritual work required to build a healthy, God-centered marriage.From conviction and repentance to prayer and obedience, they discuss what happens when God begins addressing your heart instead of your spouse&#39;s behavior.Together they unpack:<ul><li>Why spiritual maturity matters in marriage</li><li>When God confronts you instead of your spouse</li><li>The role of conviction in personal growth</li><li>Praying for change vs. praying for control</li><li>How to stop over-spiritualizing problems</li><li>What it looks like to invite God into everyday marriage challenges</li><li>Why obedience is often more important than outcomes</li></ul> This conversation is a reminder that healthy marriages are not built by perfect people. They are built by people willing to surrender, grow, and allow God to do His work in them first.<h3>In This Episode:</h3>✓ Spiritual maturity in marriage✓ Conviction and personal responsibility✓ Prayer, repentance, and obedience✓ Letting God lead your marriage✓ Bringing faith into everyday conflict✓ The difference between control and surrender Join The Conversation💬 What’s one area where God is currently confronting you and calling you to grow?📲 Share this episode with someone who is committed to doing the work behind the vows.Stay Connected on SocialsThe Work Behind The Vows:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/</a>Words:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/</a>@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/</a>@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokVisit <a href="https://theworkbehindthevows.com/" rel="nofollow">https://theworkbehindthevows.com/</a> to Claim Your Marriage Golden Ticket and start the journey back to each other.Subscribe to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lifestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@healingisalyfestyle" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/@healingisalyfestyle</a>#TheWorkBehindTheVows #HealingIsALyfestyle #KingdomMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #RelationshipGoals #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageMatters

The Spiritual Work Behind Marriage | Letting God Lead Instead of Ego

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Most marriage problems don&#39;t start with communication.They start with emotions that haven&#39;t been processed.In this episode of The Work Behind The Vows, Words and Julanda Taylor discuss the role emotional regulation plays in healthy relationships and why learning to manage your emotions may be one of the most important forms of relationship work you&#39;ll ever do.Together they unpack:<ul><li>The difference between venting and communicating</li><li>Why emotional dumping is not intimacy</li><li>How childhood experiences shape adult relationship behaviors</li><li>Emotional maturity vs emotional immaturity in marriage</li><li>Why pausing before responding can change everything</li><li>How to regulate anger without suppressing emotions</li><li>Biblical principles for handling strong emotions</li><li>The hidden danger of reacting from hurt instead of healing</li><li>How emotional triggers create conflict and disconnection</li><li>A &#34;Who&#39;s At Fault?&#34; scenario involving trust, transparency, and phone passwords</li></ul> This conversation is honest, practical, funny, and deeply relevant for couples who want to strengthen communication, deepen connection, and create healthier patterns in their marriage.Because the work behind the vows starts long before the conversation. It starts in the heart.<h3>Key Takeaway</h3>Emotions are not the problem. The problem is allowing emotions to govern your actions.Learning how to pause, process, pray, and communicate with wisdom can transform your marriage and create space for deeper intimacy and connection.<h3>Join The Conversation</h3>💬 What’s one conversation couples tend to avoid that actually needs to happen more often?📲 Share this episode with someone who’s learning how to communicate more honestly in their relationship.Stay Connected on SocialsThe Work Behind The Vows:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/</a>Words:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/</a>@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/</a>@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokVisit<a href="https://theworkbehindthevows.com/" rel="nofollow"> https://theworkbehindthevows.com/</a> to Claim Your Marriage Golden Ticket and start the journey back to each other.Subscribe to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lifestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@healingisalyfestyle" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/@healingisalyfestyle</a>#TheWorkBehindTheVows #HealingIsALyfestyle #KingdomMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #RelationshipGoals #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageMatters

Can’t control your emotions? It may be costing your marriage more than you realize

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Everyone wants a strong marriage.Few people are willing to do the work required to build one.In this episode Words and Julanda dive into one of the biggest misconceptions in marriage: the belief that healthy relationships are built on a perfect 50/50 split.The reality?Marriage isn&#39;t about keeping score.It&#39;s about two whole people continually showing up, growing, communicating, healing, and serving one another through every season.You&#39;ll hear practical conversations about communication, personal responsibility, partnership, spiritual growth, emotional maturity, and why trying to change your spouse often creates more resistance than transformation.If you&#39;ve ever felt frustrated, unseen, overwhelmed, or stuck in your marriage, this episode will challenge you to stop focusing on what your spouse needs to fix and start asking what God is calling you to work on.Because the strongest marriages aren&#39;t built by perfect people.They&#39;re built by people willing to do the work.<h2>In This Episode</h2>✔ Why marriage is not 50/50✔ The difference between wishes and work✔ Why correction without conversation creates resistance✔ How resentment quietly grows in relationships✔ Why your spouse&#39;s contribution may be more valuable than you realize✔ The importance of personal growth in marriage✔ How God develops individuals while strengthening a marriage✔ Practical examples of partnership in everyday life✔ A powerful &#34;Who&#39;s At Fault?&#34; relationship scenario<h3>Join The Conversation</h3>💬 What’s one conversation couples tend to avoid that actually needs to happen more often?📲 Share this episode with someone who’s learning how to communicate more honestly in their relationship.Stay Connected on SocialsThe Work Behind The Vows:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/</a>Words:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/</a>@WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/</a>@MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokVisit<a href="https://theworkbehindthevows.com/" rel="nofollow"> https://theworkbehindthevows.com/</a> to Claim Your Marriage Golden Ticket and start the journey back to each other.Subscribe to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lifestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@healingisalyfestyle" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/@healingisalyfestyle</a>#TheWorkBehindTheVows #HealingIsALyfestyle #KingdomMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #RelationshipGoals #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageMatters

What “The Work” in Marriage Really Is | The Assignment Behind Healthy Love

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Episode 11 of The Work Behind The Vows is one of the deepest conversations yet.Not every marriage problem starts with cheating, betrayal, or some huge explosive moment.Oftentimes, the real damage starts with the conversations couples never have.In this episode, Words and Julanda unpack what happens when spouses stop being emotionally honest in their marriage. They talk about the pressure to “keep the peace,” the fear of conflict, and how silence can quietly turn into resentment over time.Whether people realize it or not,Most couples aren’t just arguing with each other. They’re also wrestling with old patterns, old fears, old survival mechanisms, and emotional conditioning they learned years before the relationship even existed.That’s why this episode centers around five major ways the past can show up inside your marriage.<ol><li>Attachment Styles: The way you learned to give, receive, protect, or withhold love based on your earliest relationships.</li><li>Communication Defaults: The habits and emotional responses you fall back on when it’s time to express needs, frustrations, disappointment, or vulnerability.</li><li>Conflict Scripts: The way you instinctively respond to conflict or high-stress interactions, especially when tension, rejection, or emotional discomfort enters the room.</li><li>Emotional Triggers: The unresolved wounds, fears, insecurities, and sensitivities that can make present-day moments feel heavier than they actually are.</li><li>Learned Behaviors: Patterns modeled and normalized during childhood that quietly follow you into adulthood and eventually into your marriage.</li></ol> Words and Julanda reflect on how childhood experiences, emotional shutdown, and fear of vulnerability can shape the way people communicate in marriage. They also discuss how easy it is to normalize surface-level connections while deeper issues remain untouched underneath.The conversation also touches on accountability, emotional maturity, and why healthy communication requires both people to stop treating vulnerability like weakness.Marriage will eventually expose the things you’ve been avoiding, whether you talk about them or not. That’s why, instead of mending disconnection, silence usually feeds it.Sometimes the most loving thing you can do is finally say the thing you’ve been holding in.That’s the work behind the vows.<h3>Join The Conversation</h3>💬 What’s one conversation couples tend to avoid that actually needs to happen more often?📲 Share this episode with someone who’s learning how to communicate more honestly in their relationship.Stay Connected on SocialsThe Work Behind The Vows:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/theworkbehindthevowspodcast/</a>Words:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/wordstaylor/</a> @WordsTaylor on Instagram and TikTokJulanda:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/" rel="nofollow">https://www.instagram.com/msjulandataylor/</a> @MsJulandaTaylor on Instagram and TikTokVisit<a href="https://theworkbehindthevows.com/" rel="nofollow"> https://theworkbehindthevows.com/</a> to Claim Your Marriage Golden Ticket and start the journey back to each other.Subscribe to our YouTube channel, Healing is a Lifestyle, for the latest episodes and visuals!<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@healingisalyfestyle" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/@healingisalyfestyle</a>

How Your Past Shapes Your Marriage Today | Identifying Patterns & Breaking Cycles

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